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Marital Advice - Friendly camping trip too friendly? (2 Viewers)

What do I do next?

  • Nothing, let it go.

    Votes: 9 17.6%

  • Go to counseling.

    Votes: 13 25.5%

  • Have my wife call this guy to figure out the events.

    Votes: 26 51.0%

  • [No response text]

    Votes: 15 29.4%
  • Total voters
    51
Do we at least know the blood types of those involved?

MITYH, Steve, Wife?

If so, maybe the baby's blood type will be an easier indicator that MITYH has been cuckholded.

 
Man in the yellow hat said:
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Fast forward to last weekend's camping trip. Steve was there, along with many other friends and their significant others. This grouip always gets goofy when we get together, and joke about swapping wives and stuff. I never take any of it too seriously, and flirting is all in good fun. Friday night we all had our kids with us, but on Saturday, we all handed them off to grandparents, who all happened to live near the camping area. Our kid exchange didn't go all that smooth, as one of our boys was feeling a little sick Saturday morning. So, my wife and I were both stressed out. When we got back to the campground, my wife had her first drink. This was around 3. We ended up playing beach volleyball for a while, and then things start getting fuzzy for me.
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Wait...what are the chances that out of 4-5 couples...ALL of the grandparents happened to live near the campsite?! :lol:

 
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The Third said:
Man in the yellow hat said:
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Fast forward to last weekend's camping trip. Steve was there, along with many other friends and their significant others. This grouip always gets goofy when we get together, and joke about swapping wives and stuff. I never take any of it too seriously, and flirting is all in good fun. Friday night we all had our kids with us, but on Saturday, we all handed them off to grandparents, who all happened to live near the camping area. Our kid exchange didn't go all that smooth, as one of our boys was feeling a little sick Saturday morning. So, my wife and I were both stressed out. When we got back to the campground, my wife had her first drink. This was around 3. We ended up playing beach volleyball for a while, and then things start getting fuzzy for me.
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Wait...what are the chances that out of 4-5 couples...ALL of the grandparents happened to live near the campsite?! :lol:
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Yes. That what the whole point of picking that campsite. We all grew up in relatively the same area. Sheesh. You people will try to find anything won't you?
 
Man in the yellow hat said:
The Third said:
Man in the yellow hat said:
......

Fast forward to last weekend's camping trip. Steve was there, along with many other friends and their significant others. This grouip always gets goofy when we get together, and joke about swapping wives and stuff. I never take any of it too seriously, and flirting is all in good fun. Friday night we all had our kids with us, but on Saturday, we all handed them off to grandparents, who all happened to live near the camping area. Our kid exchange didn't go all that smooth, as one of our boys was feeling a little sick Saturday morning. So, my wife and I were both stressed out. When we got back to the campground, my wife had her first drink. This was around 3. We ended up playing beach volleyball for a while, and then things start getting fuzzy for me.
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Wait...what are the chances that out of 4-5 couples...ALL of the grandparents happened to live near the campsite?! :confused:
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Yes. That what the whole point of picking that campsite. We all grew up in relatively the same area. Sheesh. You people will try to find anything won't you?
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:loco:
 
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~STICK

 
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ucda/20080317/lf_u..._L34wicqZPNbbUC

HUSBAND REMAINS IN THE DARK ABOUT WIFE'S NIGHTTIME VISITOR By Abigail Van Buren

Mon Mar 17, 7:58 PM ET

DEAR ABBY: I am 27, and my wife, "Marybeth," is 26. We recently went to my folks' house for supper. That evening a heavy snowstorm was starting and, because the trip home is 30 miles, we decided to stay overnight.

My old bedroom is upstairs, as are the rooms of my brothers, ages 25, 24 and 22. The guest room is downstairs. Because the room is quite small, and Marybeth said she felt a cold coming on, we decided I'd sleep in my old room.

The next day, while we were driving home, Marybeth told me she was glad I had come to her room after all and made love to her.

Abby, it wasn't me! She had mistaken one of my brothers for me in the darkness. We are all about the same size and build.

I have talked to each of my brothers (they all know about this), but they won't say who it was for fear of causing a rift between the guilty party and me. I told them that unless I find out who it was, there will be a permanent rift between all of us. (Marybeth still doesn't know it wasn't me.)

How do I handle this? -- ENRAGED IN ROCHESTER, N.Y.

DEAR ENRAGED: While you and your brothers may have a strong family resemblance, I find it hard to believe that you all smell, taste and make love like clones. So please do not accept as gospel that your wife didn't have an inkling that it wasn't you. As to who actually crept into her bed in your absence, if your brothers won't reveal who the guilty party is, then they're all equally guilty, and I wouldn't blame you for severing ties with them.

It's time to have a serious chat with your wife and get chapter and verse on what happened that night. Then she should be tested for STDs and treated if necessary.

It is possible for a couple to get past something like this, if you're both willing to work at it. The shortest route would be with the help of a licensed family therapist.
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When I read this it made me thing about this thread. You are not alone. At least it wasn't your brother.
 
MITHY - Just saw this on msn, and figured it would be an inexpensive way for you to know for sure if the child is yours. It's a do-it-yourself paternity test, and it's only like $150 based on what the article said.

If I were you, I'd have to know. Good luck.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/23814032

edited: to change overall cost, still very reasonable.

 
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trogg78 said:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ucda/20080317/lf_u..._L34wicqZPNbbUC

HUSBAND REMAINS IN THE DARK ABOUT WIFE'S NIGHTTIME VISITOR By Abigail Van Buren

Mon Mar 17, 7:58 PM ET

DEAR ABBY: I am 27, and my wife, "Marybeth," is 26. We recently went to my folks' house for supper. That evening a heavy snowstorm was starting and, because the trip home is 30 miles, we decided to stay overnight.

My old bedroom is upstairs, as are the rooms of my brothers, ages 25, 24 and 22. The guest room is downstairs. Because the room is quite small, and Marybeth said she felt a cold coming on, we decided I'd sleep in my old room.

The next day, while we were driving home, Marybeth told me she was glad I had come to her room after all and made love to her.

Abby, it wasn't me! She had mistaken one of my brothers for me in the darkness. We are all about the same size and build.

I have talked to each of my brothers (they all know about this), but they won't say who it was for fear of causing a rift between the guilty party and me. I told them that unless I find out who it was, there will be a permanent rift between all of us. (Marybeth still doesn't know it wasn't me.)

How do I handle this? -- ENRAGED IN ROCHESTER, N.Y.

DEAR ENRAGED: While you and your brothers may have a strong family resemblance, I find it hard to believe that you all smell, taste and make love like clones. So please do not accept as gospel that your wife didn't have an inkling that it wasn't you. As to who actually crept into her bed in your absence, if your brothers won't reveal who the guilty party is, then they're all equally guilty, and I wouldn't blame you for severing ties with them.

It's time to have a serious chat with your wife and get chapter and verse on what happened that night. Then she should be tested for STDs and treated if necessary.

It is possible for a couple to get past something like this, if you're both willing to work at it. The shortest route would be with the help of a licensed family therapist.
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When I read this it made me thing about this thread. You are not alone. At least it wasn't your brother.
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This was a seriously under-appreciated post. It really deserved its own thread.
 
Man in the yellow hat said:
The Third said:
So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?
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No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.
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Talk about an 800 lb. gorilla in the room. Whatever it takes to get final resolution. I couldn't sleep at night otherwise. GB you MITYH.
 
Winston Wolfe said:
Man in the yellow hat said:
The Third said:
So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?
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No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.
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Too late now. You are already on the hook for child support.
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this is more ridiculous than reckless lending
 
Man in the yellow hat said:
The Third said:
So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?
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No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.
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--and the holdup is.... :confused:
 
Man in the yellow hat said:
OK. My update.

I've come to grips with this all and moved on. I believe my wife, and have no reason to doubt her.

That being said. She is pregnant and due in March. There is a small part of me that does wonder at times. However, I'm pretty confident that the worst case scenario will not play out here. To me, there are bigger fish to fry right now.

We have a 3D ultrasound scheduled today. Turns out there are supposed to be three vessels in the umbilical cord that show up on ultrasounds. They only saw two on the first pictures. Didn't sound too serious, but they're being cautious. On top of that, the doc who read the first ultrasound didn't like the picture of the babies face. He was concerned that not enough top lip was showing. Cleft lip is what he's worried about.



At this point, my main concern is finding out that everything is OK with the kid.
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ok--I'm impressed. I'm in disbelief--but impressed.
 
Winston Wolfe said:
Man in the yellow hat said:
The Third said:
So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?
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No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.
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Too late now. You are already on the hook for child support.
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Really? I hope you are fishing here as there is no way in heck support would ever stick if he found out he was not the dad and sought the big D!
 
Angry Beavers said:
Winston Wolfe said:
Man in the yellow hat said:
The Third said:
So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?
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No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.
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Too late now. You are already on the hook for child support.
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Really? I hope you are fishing here as there is no way in heck support would ever stick if he found out he was not the dad and sought the big D!
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There's a timeframe involved there--maybe state-by-state
 
Angry Beavers said:
Winston Wolfe said:
Man in the yellow hat said:
The Third said:
So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?
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No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.
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Too late now. You are already on the hook for child support.
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Really? I hope you are fishing here as there is no way in heck support would ever stick if he found out he was not the dad and sought the big D!
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Somebody want to tell him?
 
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