Marital Advice - Friendly camping trip too friendly? (1 Viewer)

[Homewrecker Steve-O]

Just checking back on this; for some reason MIYH and the missus won't return my calls.

Glad to hear the baby is healthy and looks like his older brothers. Boy am I glad.

I strongly disagree with taking that home DNA test as there is a history of false readings, side effects and you've already forgiven her so no need to doubt what you've already put to bed.

 

[AnonymousBob]

Wow, I can't believe this thread is still going on and the OP is still posting. This may be the greatest thread ever.

 

[yoshi-187]

There is no way they had sex in a campground bathroom. You people are nuts asking for him to get a paternity test.

Other things may have happened, but not this.

I once got busy in a Burger King bathroom.

:X

 

[Das Boot]

Wow, I can't believe this thread is still going on and the OP is still posting. This may be the greatest thread ever.

Fixed.

 

[yoshi-187]

Finally I was able to read the infamous 'camping with Steve' thread. I'm glad I waited until the end to vote.

My feelings:

 

[Spartans346]

What I miss?

JK

 

[Todd Andrews]

dumpnoggin

 

[tdoss]

So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?

No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.

Too late now. You are already on the hook for child support.

Really? I hope you are fishing here as there is no way in heck support would ever stick if he found out he was not the dad and sought the big D!

There's a timeframe involved there--maybe state-by-state

Yep...and many courts will find in favor of the child...support has been given by MIYH...if he stops, then child won't have that support...so, the court would rule to keep MIYH paying the support.We're men...courts don't recognize our rights when it comes to kids. We can't opt to say "abort" if she wants it and we can't opt to have the baby if she chooses otherwise...

 

[Greco]

What the hell?

Do we keep records for longest time between posts in same thread?

 

[flapgreen]

So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?

No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.

Too late now. You are already on the hook for child support.

Really? I hope you are fishing here as there is no way in heck support would ever stick if he found out he was not the dad and sought the big D!

There's a timeframe involved there--maybe state-by-state

What state?

 

[flapgreen]

So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?

No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.

Too late now. You are already on the hook for child support.

Really? I hope you are fishing here as there is no way in heck support would ever stick if he found out he was not the dad and sought the big D!

There's a timeframe involved there--maybe state-by-state

What state?

 

[Das Boot]

So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?

No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.

Too late now. You are already on the hook for child support.

Really? I hope you are fishing here as there is no way in heck support would ever stick if he found out he was not the dad and sought the big D!

There's a timeframe involved there--maybe state-by-state

What state?

 

[Corporation]

So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?

No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.

Too late now. You are already on the hook for child support.

Really? I hope you are fishing here as there is no way in heck support would ever stick if he found out he was not the dad and sought the big D!

There's a timeframe involved there--maybe state-by-state

What state?

 

[top dog]

So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?

No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.

Too late now. You are already on the hook for child support.

Really? I hope you are fishing here as there is no way in heck support would ever stick if he found out he was not the dad and sought the big D!

There's a timeframe involved there--maybe state-by-state

what state?

 

[PsychoMan]

So at the 6-month mark, does the kid look like Steve yet?

No, but thanks for asking.In reality, I am seriously considering the home DNA test recommended in this thread. Just haven't pulled the trigger on it yet. A little peace of mind never hurt.

Too late now. You are already on the hook for child support.

Really? I hope you are fishing here as there is no way in heck support would ever stick if he found out he was not the dad and sought the big D!

There's a timeframe involved there--maybe state-by-state

What state?

 

[Hipple Long Ware & Peete]

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ucda/20080317/lf_u..._L34wicqZPNbbUC

HUSBAND REMAINS IN THE DARK ABOUT WIFE'S NIGHTTIME VISITOR By Abigail Van Buren

Mon Mar 17, 7:58 PM ET

DEAR ABBY: I am 27, and my wife, "Marybeth," is 26. We recently went to my folks' house for supper. That evening a heavy snowstorm was starting and, because the trip home is 30 miles, we decided to stay overnight.

My old bedroom is upstairs, as are the rooms of my brothers, ages 25, 24 and 22. The guest room is downstairs. Because the room is quite small, and Marybeth said she felt a cold coming on, we decided I'd sleep in my old room.

The next day, while we were driving home, Marybeth told me she was glad I had come to her room after all and made love to her.

Abby, it wasn't me! She had mistaken one of my brothers for me in the darkness. We are all about the same size and build.

I have talked to each of my brothers (they all know about this), but they won't say who it was for fear of causing a rift between the guilty party and me. I told them that unless I find out who it was, there will be a permanent rift between all of us. (Marybeth still doesn't know it wasn't me.)

How do I handle this? -- ENRAGED IN ROCHESTER, N.Y.

DEAR ENRAGED: While you and your brothers may have a strong family resemblance, I find it hard to believe that you all smell, taste and make love like clones. So please do not accept as gospel that your wife didn't have an inkling that it wasn't you. As to who actually crept into her bed in your absence, if your brothers won't reveal who the guilty party is, then they're all equally guilty, and I wouldn't blame you for severing ties with them.

It's time to have a serious chat with your wife and get chapter and verse on what happened that night. Then she should be tested for STDs and treated if necessary.

It is possible for a couple to get past something like this, if you're both willing to work at it. The shortest route would be with the help of a licensed family therapist.

When I read this it made me thing about this thread. You are not alone. At least it wasn't your brother.

Baby was born on Monday. Boy. Looks like a cross between his older brothers. Everyone is doing well.

So far, so good.

 

[Rayderr]

Has anyone asked what state yet?

 

[The Z Machine]

MITYH, could you check your phone records, please? TIA.

 

[Abraham]

Has anyone asked what state yet?

Don't think so. Why don't you go ahead and ask.

 

[Ditkaless Wonders]

I want to vote but the poll has not been edited to add reasonable options. Now that a child is involved I can only wish the best for the child.

The past is what it is. I hope the future holds the Parents putting away childish things and living for the life they have helped bring forth.

 

[tdoss]

MIYH...give us an update.

How's the relationship with everyone involved?

Do you guys have any contact with Steve, the wife or the friend?

 

[PsychoMan]

heard a little kid the other day say that their dog was cooler than curious george ... made me think of this thread. hope things are going well, MITYH.

 

[wadegarrett]

Now in to its 88th page, can someone provide an updated Cliff's Notes?

 

[General Malaise]

Now in to its 88th page, can someone provide an updated Cliff's Notes?

71 pages for me.

 

[adonis]

Now in to its 88th page, can someone provide an updated Cliff's Notes?

Cliff's notes: Steve happens.

 

[Big Dumb Ape]

Now in to its 88th page, can someone provide an updated Cliff's Notes?

Cliff's notes: Steve happens.

Oops, Steve

 

[Rayderr]

Kudos to everyone for not getting this thread locked or deleted.

 

[Mrs. BSR]

I never did vote.

 

[Pip's Invitation]

I don't remember how I voted.

 

[derek245583]

THEM

US

 

[iamsmilin]

I don't remember how I voted.

Me either. Question: Is this the longest thread running in the history of FBG? Someone get out their notebook.

 

[General Malaise]

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:waves:

 

[wadegarrett]

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:waves:

 

[Rayderr]

I don't remember how I voted.

Me either. Question: Is this the longest thread running in the history of FBG? Someone get out their notebook.

You haven't seen the beer thread I'm guessing?

 

[Man in the yellow hat]

MIYH...give us an update.How's the relationship with everyone involved?Do you guys have any contact with Steve, the wife or the friend?

Just remember, you asked for it....Everyone seems to have moved on from it. Steve and his family were actually in the area a few weeks back. Our kids played together at a public area that that day and everyone was very cool. I'd like to stress that my wife and Steve's wife became very close about two years ago. I don't want to get into too much detail, but a close family member of Steve's wife had cancer and my wife was very supportive of her. As such, they do connect occassionally. My wife and Steve never spent any time with each other without me there. I was cordial, but he's very aware of my feelings on the whole situation and does tread lightly. This does not come up in conversation in my house anymore. My wife knows where I stand on it, and we've moved on for the most part. The idea of getting a DNA test is still hanging out there, just for piece of mind.

 

[(HULK)]

Wait, was infidelity ever admitted too? The way you wrote that, it seems like it was, but I don't recall that happening.

 

[Twilight]

I don't remember how I voted.

Me either. Question: Is this the longest thread running in the history of FBG? Someone get out their notebook.

Not even the longest on the front page (when I post this). The Obama main thread is 4 times this size. But it is probably the longest "cheating" type thread.

 

[Verbal Kint]

Thanks for the update. That should be good for another 15 pages at least. Still can't believe you haven't done a DNA test. To each his own

 

[Man in the yellow hat]

Wait, was infidelity ever admitted too? The way you wrote that, it seems like it was, but I don't recall that happening.

No.He states that she was in the stall with him, but she never touched him and he never touched her. She stands by not remembering any of it. She has no memory of being in the stall.However, all parties involved know how pissed I was about it and are taking steps to rectify it.

 

[General Malaise]

Wait, was infidelity ever admitted too? The way you wrote that, it seems like it was, but I don't recall that happening.

No.He states that she was in the stall with him, but she never touched him and he never touched her. She stands by not remembering any of it. She has no memory of being in the stall.

I pray to god every night that if I'm ever in the stall with another man that I have no memory of it either. I usually throw that in there before asking him to hlep to poor.

 

[flapgreen]

I don't remember how I voted.

me neither

 

[Notorious T.R.E.]

Now imagine Steve is black.

 

[Big Dumb Ape]

I don't know if this has been done before or not, but:

oops, Steve

 

[General Malaise]

Now imagine Steve is black.

But she went back.

 

[General Malaise]

I don't know if this has been done before or not, but:

oops, Steve

Are you drunk?

 

[Big Dumb Ape]

I don't know if this has been done before or not, but:

oops, Steve

Are you drunk?

No. Just very unoriginal. And pretty stupid.

 

[bmetz]

Wait, was infidelity ever admitted too? The way you wrote that, it seems like it was, but I don't recall that happening.

No.He states that she was in the stall with him, but she never touched him and he never touched her.

She stands by not remembering any of it. She has no memory of being in the stall.

However, all parties involved know how pissed I was about it and are taking steps to rectify it.

I know this has probably been stated 50 times in this thread already, but there's simply no way this is true. Events like what took place in that bathroom stall shine through a drunken haze, every time.

 

[Notorious T.R.E.]

Now imagine Steve is black.

But she went back.

Just think how easy it would be for MITYH to know whether it's his kid or not though...

 

[General Malaise]

Now imagine Steve is black.

But she went back.

Just think how easy it would be for MITYH to know whether it's his kid or not though...

That's what I like about you most, Tre....always thinking of the positives.

 

[Buck Bradcanon]

I don't know if this has been done before or not, butops, Steve

Can someone help me with an explanation of the "oops" shtick. I'd like to understand it, use it even.. but must have missed out on its derivation. Ill take a PM if necessary.