I don't know how i would react after some of these experiences, but I still think statistically chances must be pretty small of successfully using a gun to defend yourself in a situation like that. I'd guess that the element of surprise and rate of waiting until people are sleeping are pretty high. I get the impulse to feel the need for one though.
I'm going to be fair about this, you are absolutely right that the statistical odds of a using a firearm for self defense is actually an extremely rare event. This also does not account for the possible criminal and legal and financial ramifications afterwards. However you completely missed the bigger point to all of this .
Gun ownership is linked hand in hand with home ownership and land ownership. It's also linked to business ownership ( you'll find gun laws in most states will vary quite a bit once you are dealing with an owner of a business and their options with firearms)
Homeowners pay property taxes. Property taxes generate lots of revenue. You mess with gun ownership, you create another incentive not to be a homeowner ( trust me, there are MANY of them) If everyone is living van life and cruising around in Sprinter vans, then there is no one paying property taxes and our economy falls apart. Our economy tanks and people starve and die and all politicians are now powerless. You can't rule over the starving and dying for very long.
Part of the American Dream is you fight hard and you work hard and you buy a home. Something of your own. And you can do what you want inside of it. Lots of people who are animal lovers will own a home just for that reason - to maintain their pets. A house is probably a more stable environment to raise kids in an ideal sense. A person paying a mortgage has to fall in line to the power brokers of society. They have kids to feed and need to keep food on the table, they aren't buckling too hard against the establishment.
Part of gun ownership is about the illusion you are king of your own castle and you have a right to defend it. But you aren't king of your own castle. I have paid off every property long ago. San Francisco. Bay Area. River Oaks. Beacon Hill. Terrell Hills. Medina. Wailea. There's more and it's a long list. But other than some unincorporated land I bought in Alaska, I'm still just a renter. Property taxes makes me a renter. Look at the penalty charts of various areas if you don't pay your property taxes. The design is to become so punitive and at an exponential rate so the state can just take the property from you. Everything the government does is about money. Abortion is legal. If it's not, who is going to pay for all those unwanted children? Paternity fraud is essentially legal, otherwise, who is going to pay for the wayward children of someone being cuckolded? The state? Divorce law is punitive to majority bread winner. Do you want more people on government assistance after a brutal divorce? Children who have no means to survive or any support are cared for by the state - BECAUSE THEY ARE FUTURE TAXPAYERS.
If you start wiping out gun rights, you start the ball rolling on messing with the concept of homeownership and thus the property tax base. You also lose the jobs the firearms industry creates. You also lose the innovation that the civilian firearms market brings to the military weapons market. The marriage and childbirth rates in America have been falling like a rock for a long time. Look at this equation
Outrageous and exponentially more expensive medical care + An aging population that's living longer than every before + Fewer new taxpayers coming into the marketplace as there are no more incentives to get married, buy a house and have kids = A blown up economy where we all starve and die.
Politicians don't care if we all starve or die. It's been covered many times, people who are drawn to that profession are usually narcissists, psychopaths, BPD and sociopaths. They do care if they lose power. You have no power if your rank and file population can't eat and are dying in the streets. It's easy to say just take away people's guns, it's hard to actually look at the economic impact of that industry and how it ripples into the overall economy. Like I said, many of you are fit into that overeducated limp wristed white liberal/white collar corporate drone with above average earning power being tone deaf and entitled and smug towards lots of everyday Americans. It's easy when it's not a question of food on the plate for your kids, whether you have a job or not, whether you have a home or not. Easy to be elitist and thoughtless and milk the woke playbook. Do some of you even realize how patently cruel you sound to those out there half a pay cycle away from being homeless?
You are banging your head against the wall on a minutiae MSM talking point because no one wants you to talk about the overlying issue that Americans can actually no longer own property in America. Property taxes makes you a glorified renter.
Repeating MSM talking points for outrage is volunteering to become cattle for the establishment. This is much bigger than just guns.
When it's more profitable to see guns disappear than to have them, you'll finally see them go away. Everything else just political theater. And how easily you bought a ticket and sat in the zealot tier.