I'm not sure where I want to go with this train of thought (after reading Matt's LONG posting).  But I feel the need to say that racism in America is not "black and white."  It's black, BROWN, and white.  Some people say you cannot be a racist unless you have white skin or are in the economic/ruling majority in a society.  Tell that to Mexicans coming across our borders (LEGALLY, being lumped in with millions of illegals after their only crime is sharing a similar shade of "brown" skin, a similar color of hair, a similar primary language spoken, or a similar first/last name).  Tell that to millions of Muslims who, after 9/11, immediately all became suspected "secret" members of al Qaeda to millions of people with white, black, and/or brown skin.
Racism is still very prevalent in our society...no doubt! Matt's 100% correct on that point. What frustrates me, however, is how the victims of racism on one hand too-often get a free pass from also being the victimizer (being racist/prejudice toward others in our society). If my Dad was a terrible father to me, that doesn't give me license to be a terrible father to my own kids. YES, it sucks how I was treated, and YES, it's harder for me to get on the straight and narrow without having a positive role model growing up. But I own my own actions. So if I turn around and treat my own kids like crap, that's on me...not my Dad. Just like if people have faced discrimination their whole life. That doesn't give folks license or an excuse to take things out on people named "Garcia" or "Rodriguez," or treat everyone with suspicion solely because they happen to wear a Burqa or worship in a mosque.
				
			Racism is still very prevalent in our society...no doubt! Matt's 100% correct on that point. What frustrates me, however, is how the victims of racism on one hand too-often get a free pass from also being the victimizer (being racist/prejudice toward others in our society). If my Dad was a terrible father to me, that doesn't give me license to be a terrible father to my own kids. YES, it sucks how I was treated, and YES, it's harder for me to get on the straight and narrow without having a positive role model growing up. But I own my own actions. So if I turn around and treat my own kids like crap, that's on me...not my Dad. Just like if people have faced discrimination their whole life. That doesn't give folks license or an excuse to take things out on people named "Garcia" or "Rodriguez," or treat everyone with suspicion solely because they happen to wear a Burqa or worship in a mosque.
			
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   It was all strictly business.  But people saw us together, men and women, and you'd think I had committed murder with the way some people looked at me.  Of course, it didn't help that she was wearing short skirts and was practically falling out of her top (while at least a few other women were walking by in Burqas).  But I wanted to yell "I didn't do it, don't blame me...she was dressed that way when I got here and met her for the first time!!!"   
 
   that you are telling people that they basically can't read.  C'mon man.  That's as insulting as people saying Waldman can't write.