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My Daughter Learned About Death From A Disney Song! (1 Viewer)

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Not a huge deal since she has to learn about people dying eventually (she already knows about animals) but I couldn't believe this song is on a Disney CD.

At the end, she's says "That's sad". I tried to play it off "because the clock broke?" but she said "no, because the old man died". Then this morning she's asking if my parents are dead because of this song. Thanks, Disney!

(Sung) My Grandfathers Clock, was too large for the shelf, so it stood ninety
Years on the floor. It was taller by half, than the old man himself,
Tho' it weighed not a penny-weight more.

It was bought on the morn Of the day
That he was born. And was always his treasure and pride,
But it stopped, Short. Never to go again, when the old man, died.
And my Grandfather said, that, of those he could hire, not a
Servant so faithful, he found. For it wasted no time, and it had but one desire
At the close of each week, to be wound. And it kept in it's place.
Not a frown upon it's face. And it's hands never hung by it side,
But it stopped, Short, never to go again. When the old man died.

Ninty years without slumbering. (Tic-Tock, Tic-Tock.)
His life seconds numbering. (Tic-Tock, Tic-Tock.)
It stopped. Short, never to go again, when the old man, died.

Well, it rang an alarm, in the still of the night, An alarm, that
For years had been dumb. And we knew that his Spirit, was pluming for
Flight, That his hour for departure had come. Still the clock
Kept the time, with a soft and muffled chime. As we silently stood
By his side.
But it stopped short, never to go again. When the old man, died.

Ninty years without slumbering. (Tic-Tock, Tic-Tock.)
His life seconds numbering. (Tic-Tock, Tic-Tock.)
It stopped. Short, never to go again, when the old man, died.
 
Parents always die in Disney movies. :(
Usually the parents are already dead before the events in the movie happen.
Not recently. Nemo, Up and Frozen a few examples off the top of my head.
What parent died in "Up"?
His wife died of cancer. While she was not a parent, that was part of the sadness part of it for me. She was not able to have kids, so he was left with nobody.

 
Parents always die in Disney movies. :(
Usually the parents are already dead before the events in the movie happen.
Not recently. Nemo, Up and Frozen a few examples off the top of my head.
What parent died in "Up"?
His wife died of cancer. While she was not a parent, that was part of the sadness part of it for me. She was not able to have kids, so he was left with nobody.
Indeed.

 
She's 7 years old and doesn't know about death yet? Kudos for keeping your kid sheltered from the harsh realities of life but I don't think that's remotely typical.

 
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She's 7 years old and doesn't know about death yet? Kudos for keeping your kid sheltered from the harsh realities of life but I don't think that's remotely typical.
She has a genetic microdeletion that gives her high functioning autism symptoms.

 
You do realize how violent many fairy tales are right? I mean think about Hansel and Gretel for a minute or two.

I went to my first funeral at 4. My parents say they weren't sure about me going with them but in the end their hand was forced as there was no one to babysit. I vaguely recall it. Apparently I created a stir amongst some of those attending when I insisted on touching my great grandmother in the coffin at the viewing. My grandmother picked me up so I could. My mother wasn't happy about that. But her mom, my grandmother, overruled her. I poked great grandma in the face once or twice and mentioned she felt cold. My curiosity was satiated and i went outside to run around with the other kids.

This was also the funeral where when my grandmother went to leave on the train I squirmed out of my Moms arms and went running down the tracks after her. I apparently caused a little anxiety as the train was slow to get going and I was getting a bit close for comfort. My mom caught up to me and scooped me up with me still trying to get to my grandmother. She was always my favorite. I still miss her.

Learning about death is a part of the maturation process. Curiosity about it is normal as well. Your daughter was going to learn eventually this seems better than many of the alternatives.

 
She's 7 years old and doesn't know about death yet? Kudos for keeping your kid sheltered from the harsh realities of life but I don't think that's remotely typical.
She has a genetic microdeletion that gives her high functioning autism symptoms.
Ah, well that makes more sense. This topic was going to arise sometime and like others have pointed out, Disney has never been shy about the reality of death. At least now you know. I'd probably screen her media still if she's got an emotional age younger than 7 and you know she might be sensitive to certain topics. Although it sounds like it was actually a good experience maybe? Sounds like she reacted in a healthy way and is wiser mute than before she heard the song?

That said, I can totally relate - as a parent you want to be able to have some control over how and when these more difficult concepts are introduced, and not blind sided next to "Be Our Guest" and Jiminy Cricket.

 
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