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My wife left me and 5 kids for another man (1 Viewer)

I'm not kidding. I wouldn't wish this hell on anyone. I'm suffering in silence, but still try to put a smile on my face for everyone. It's the first thing I think about when I wake up, and the last before I fall asleep. Everything reminds me of her.
I don't want to come down too hard on you but you need to get over her and be there for your kids. You're giving too much power to the ##### who decided to dump you and your kids. Man up and move on.
Chet's right. It sucks, it hurts like hell, and you probably feel like that pain will never go away. However, it's time to put the Kleenex away and man up for the next stage of your life - the life without her but with the kids. Get thyself a lawyer and protect your rights.

 
Tom Servo said:
chet said:
I'm not kidding. I wouldn't wish this hell on anyone. I'm suffering in silence, but still try to put a smile on my face for everyone. It's the first thing I think about when I wake up, and the last before I fall asleep. Everything reminds me of her.
I don't want to come down too hard on you but you need to get over her and be there for your kids. You're giving too much power to the ##### who decided to dump you and your kids. Man up and move on.
Chet's right. It sucks, it hurts like hell, and you probably feel like that pain will never go away. However, it's time to put the Kleenex away and man up for the next stage of your life - the life without her but with the kids. Get thyself a lawyer and protect your rights.
at least u aren't dead. wimp

 
Tom Servo said:
chet said:
I'm not kidding. I wouldn't wish this hell on anyone. I'm suffering in silence, but still try to put a smile on my face for everyone. It's the first thing I think about when I wake up, and the last before I fall asleep. Everything reminds me of her.
I don't want to come down too hard on you but you need to get over her and be there for your kids. You're giving too much power to the ##### who decided to dump you and your kids. Man up and move on.
Chet's right. It sucks, it hurts like hell, and you probably feel like that pain will never go away. However, it's time to put the Kleenex away and man up for the next stage of your life - the life without her but with the kids. Get thyself a lawyer and protect your rights.
at least u aren't dead. wimp
try spending nights thinking if u really are going to die and get back to me. its a girl

 
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What makes this so hard to believe is that you've posted about missing your wife and thinking about her all the time, but nothing about how ####### hard it is to take care of 5 kids. Nothing about being up until all hours doing housework, making lunches. Nothing about what a PITA work is, or how people think you're taking too much time off for kids stuff. Nothing about the ordeal that is Back to School time.

I could understand a woman complaining about her emotions, but you're a guy. A guy describes the practical difficulties and ask for advice

 
What makes this so hard to believe is that you've posted about missing your wife and thinking about her all the time, but nothing about how ####### hard it is to take care of 5 kids. Nothing about being up until all hours doing housework, making lunches. Nothing about what a PITA work is, or how people think you're taking too much time off for kids stuff. Nothing about the ordeal that is Back to School time.

I could understand a woman complaining about her emotions, but you're a guy. A guy describes the practical difficulties and ask for advice
Yeah the wife being gone and getting to slay some fresh poon would be the best part. It's obviously horse####.
 
What makes this so hard to believe is that you've posted about missing your wife and thinking about her all the time, but nothing about how ####### hard it is to take care of 5 kids. Nothing about being up until all hours doing housework, making lunches. Nothing about what a PITA work is, or how people think you're taking too much time off for kids stuff. Nothing about the ordeal that is Back to School time.

I could understand a woman complaining about her emotions, but you're a guy. A guy describes the practical difficulties and ask for advice
Considering the guy posted about touching himself in one of those kids beds I'm not sure I want him to post anything about his kids ever again - that's assuming the kids aren't fictional too.

 
What makes this so hard to believe is that you've posted about missing your wife and thinking about her all the time, but nothing about how ####### hard it is to take care of 5 kids. Nothing about being up until all hours doing housework, making lunches. Nothing about what a PITA work is, or how people think you're taking too much time off for kids stuff. Nothing about the ordeal that is Back to School time.

I could understand a woman complaining about her emotions, but you're a guy. A guy describes the practical difficulties and ask for advice
Considering the guy posted about touching himself in one of those kids beds I'm not sure I want him to post anything about his kids ever again - that's assuming the kids aren't fictional too.
Is there a link for this? It seems kind of unbelievable.

 
What makes this so hard to believe is that you've posted about missing your wife and thinking about her all the time, but nothing about how ####### hard it is to take care of 5 kids. Nothing about being up until all hours doing housework, making lunches. Nothing about what a PITA work is, or how people think you're taking too much time off for kids stuff. Nothing about the ordeal that is Back to School time.

I could understand a woman complaining about her emotions, but you're a guy. A guy describes the practical difficulties and ask for advice
Considering the guy posted about touching himself in one of those kids beds I'm not sure I want him to post anything about his kids ever again - that's assuming the kids aren't fictional too.
Is there a link for this? It seems kind of unbelievable.
The thread was deleted but he definitely posted it. Later said he was just kidding.
 
What makes this so hard to believe is that you've posted about missing your wife and thinking about her all the time, but nothing about how ####### hard it is to take care of 5 kids. Nothing about being up until all hours doing housework, making lunches. Nothing about what a PITA work is, or how people think you're taking too much time off for kids stuff. Nothing about the ordeal that is Back to School time.

I could understand a woman complaining about her emotions, but you're a guy. A guy describes the practical difficulties and ask for advice
:goodposting:

Either the guy is a complete fraud or the ####tiest father ever. Hopefully, the former.

 
What makes this so hard to believe is that you've posted about missing your wife and thinking about her all the time, but nothing about how ####### hard it is to take care of 5 kids. Nothing about being up until all hours doing housework, making lunches. Nothing about what a PITA work is, or how people think you're taking too much time off for kids stuff. Nothing about the ordeal that is Back to School time.

I could understand a woman complaining about her emotions, but you're a guy. A guy describes the practical difficulties and ask for advice
Considering the guy posted about touching himself in one of those kids beds I'm not sure I want him to post anything about his kids ever again - that's assuming the kids aren't fictional too.
Is there a link for this? It seems kind of unbelievable.
The alias is the shock jock of trolls - somebody else posted some of his work previously. That thread crossed a line though - TBH, im shocked he wasn't perma-banned.

 
cstu said:
mr roboto said:
What kind of evil ##### can totally forget about her 5 kids and not make an attempt to see them for 2 months?
Replace 5 kids with 3 and 2 months with 3 years and you have my Ex-SIL.
Did the kids ever forgive her? How did they turn out?
Oldest daughter (20) forgave her but lost all respect. She's a nursing student with a 4.0 at a top rated school. Middle kid, 16 year old daughter, worships her mother (unfortunately) and hates her step mom (my brother married a great woman who has 2 kids of her own). Youngest boy (14) worships his dad and doesn't really like his mother. So a mixed bag. My ex-SIL cheated on my brother then married one of the guys and had 2 kids. She gave up custody to my brother then fought for every other weekend. So the kids have a step mom and step dad. Step mom (my brothers new wife) tries her best and is a wonderful woman. I don't know the step dad at all really.

My ex-SIL definately has some kind of mental disorder. She was screwed up from an early age. Her parents have like 15 kids and are super conservative/paranoid. The whole situation sucks. I'm hopeful that when they get out of the house into college that they will be able to reflect on their childhood and realize my brother was the real parent. The 20 year old has. The 16 year old is completely brainwashed by her mother.

 
cstu said:
mr roboto said:
What kind of evil ##### can totally forget about her 5 kids and not make an attempt to see them for 2 months?
Replace 5 kids with 3 and 2 months with 3 years and you have my Ex-SIL.
Did the kids ever forgive her? How did they turn out?
Oldest daughter (20) forgave her but lost all respect. She's a nursing student with a 4.0 at a top rated school. Middle kid, 16 year old daughter, worships her mother (unfortunately) and hates her step mom (my brother married a great woman who has 2 kids of her own). Youngest boy (14) worships his dad and doesn't really like his mother. So a mixed bag. My ex-SIL cheated on my brother then married one of the guys and had 2 kids. She gave up custody to my brother then fought for every other weekend. So the kids have a step mom and step dad. Step mom (my brothers new wife) tries her best and is a wonderful woman. I don't know the step dad at all really.

My ex-SIL definately has some kind of mental disorder. She was screwed up from an early age. Her parents have like 15 kids and are super conservative/paranoid. The whole situation sucks. I'm hopeful that when they get out of the house into college that they will be able to reflect on their childhood and realize my brother was the real parent. The 20 year old has. The 16 year old is completely brainwashed by her mother.
Having seen this playout before eventually the 16 year old will see through the lies.

 
I'm not kidding. I wouldn't wish this hell on anyone. I'm suffering in silence, but still try to put a smile on my face for everyone. It's the first thing I think about when I wake up, and the last before I fall asleep. Everything reminds me of her.
I don't want to come down too hard on you but you need to get over her and be there for your kids. You're giving too much power to the ##### who decided to dump you and your kids. Man up and move on.
Chet's right. It sucks, it hurts like hell, and you probably feel like that pain will never go away. However, it's time to put the Kleenex away and man up for the next stage of your life - the life without her but with the kids. Get thyself a lawyer and protect your rights.
at least u aren't dead. wimp
try spending nights thinking if u really are going to die and get back to me. its a girl
For someone who claims to be near death, you sure are a selfish #####.

 
mr roboto said:
What kind of evil ##### can totally forget about her 5 kids and not make an attempt to see them for 2 months?
Replace 5 kids with 3 and 2 months with 3 years and you have my Ex-SIL.
My nephews wife took off on my nephew leaving him with four kids (only one he fathered). She's bi-polar. Was gone for about a year and came back (medicated).

 
cstu said:
mr roboto said:
What kind of evil ##### can totally forget about her 5 kids and not make an attempt to see them for 2 months?
Replace 5 kids with 3 and 2 months with 3 years and you have my Ex-SIL.
Did the kids ever forgive her? How did they turn out?
Oldest daughter (20) forgave her but lost all respect. She's a nursing student with a 4.0 at a top rated school. Middle kid, 16 year old daughter, worships her mother (unfortunately) and hates her step mom (my brother married a great woman who has 2 kids of her own). Youngest boy (14) worships his dad and doesn't really like his mother. So a mixed bag. My ex-SIL cheated on my brother then married one of the guys and had 2 kids. She gave up custody to my brother then fought for every other weekend. So the kids have a step mom and step dad. Step mom (my brothers new wife) tries her best and is a wonderful woman. I don't know the step dad at all really.

My ex-SIL definately has some kind of mental disorder. She was screwed up from an early age. Her parents have like 15 kids and are super conservative/paranoid. The whole situation sucks. I'm hopeful that when they get out of the house into college that they will be able to reflect on their childhood and realize my brother was the real parent. The 20 year old has. The 16 year old is completely brainwashed by her mother.
Having seen this playout before eventually the 16 year old will see through the lies.
Really hope so. She's making decisions now that could really impact her freedom later if she isn't careful.
 
mr roboto said:
NCCommish said:
cstu said:
mr roboto said:
What kind of evil ##### can totally forget about her 5 kids and not make an attempt to see them for 2 months?
Replace 5 kids with 3 and 2 months with 3 years and you have my Ex-SIL.
Did the kids ever forgive her? How did they turn out?
Oldest daughter (20) forgave her but lost all respect. She's a nursing student with a 4.0 at a top rated school. Middle kid, 16 year old daughter, worships her mother (unfortunately) and hates her step mom (my brother married a great woman who has 2 kids of her own). Youngest boy (14) worships his dad and doesn't really like his mother. So a mixed bag. My ex-SIL cheated on my brother then married one of the guys and had 2 kids. She gave up custody to my brother then fought for every other weekend. So the kids have a step mom and step dad. Step mom (my brothers new wife) tries her best and is a wonderful woman. I don't know the step dad at all really.

My ex-SIL definately has some kind of mental disorder. She was screwed up from an early age. Her parents have like 15 kids and are super conservative/paranoid. The whole situation sucks. I'm hopeful that when they get out of the house into college that they will be able to reflect on their childhood and realize my brother was the real parent. The 20 year old has. The 16 year old is completely brainwashed by her mother.
Having seen this playout before eventually the 16 year old will see through the lies.
Really hope so. She's making decisions now that could really impact her freedom later if she isn't careful.
My friend has 2 sons. One was a little older when it went down and he basically blamed both parents which was fair. The youngest bought Moms BS totally. Until he got to be about 18 and suddenly he realized she had been lying to him for years. Totally changed his tune.

 
I knew something was going on, but never thought that she would walk on her kids. Been a rough few months, but I'm recovering slowly. 20 years together. Bitter pill.
Man, PB, really sorry to hear this. I don't have any advice as I can't even fathom going through that.

I hope and pray things improve soon. Your kids need their mother and a father who is whole. I don't know how you could save the marriage, but she needs to get back into her children's lives.

 
So my wife ot a new phone, and gave her old one to my eight year old this past weekend. Today he comes to me and asks what all of the pictures are on the phone. She didn't delete her photos. Pictures of her and her boyfriend topless is bed together, pics of him sucking on her toes etc. I went ballistic on my wife, and she simply texted. "Get over it." I do not know who she is, or what she's become. Total trash.

 
So my wife ot a new phone, and gave her old one to my eight year old this past weekend. Today he comes to me and asks what all of the pictures are on the phone. She didn't delete her photos. Pictures of her and her boyfriend topless is bed together, pics of him sucking on her toes etc. I went ballistic on my wife, and she simply texted. "Get over it." I do not know who she is, or what she's become. Total trash.
Don't delete the photos and take the phone from your son. Use it in court to show she is an unfit mother to help in any custody battle.

 
i am listening to the soundtrack from hoosiers give it a shot when you are feeling low it will pump you up and after you dribble between some chairs for a while you will be back in ship shape take that to the bank brohan

 
So my wife ot a new phone, and gave her old one to my eight year old this past weekend. Today he comes to me and asks what all of the pictures are on the phone. She didn't delete her photos. Pictures of her and her boyfriend topless is bed together, pics of him sucking on her toes etc. I went ballistic on my wife, and she simply texted. "Get over it." I do not know who she is, or what she's become. Total trash.
:shock:

 
So my wife ot a new phone, and gave her old one to my eight year old this past weekend. Today he comes to me and asks what all of the pictures are on the phone. She didn't delete her photos. Pictures of her and her boyfriend topless is bed together, pics of him sucking on her toes etc. I went ballistic on my wife, and she simply texted. "Get over it." I do not know who she is, or what she's become. Total trash.
:shock:
Gonna need to see those pics before I pass judgement.

 
I'm not kidding. I wouldn't wish this hell on anyone. I'm suffering in silence, but still try to put a smile on my face for everyone. It's the first thing I think about when I wake up, and the last before I fall asleep. Everything reminds me of her.
I don't want to come down too hard on you but you need to get over her and be there for your kids. You're giving too much power to the ##### who decided to dump you and your kids. Man up and move on.
:goodposting: This...

 
So my wife ot a new phone, and gave her old one to my eight year old this past weekend. Today he comes to me and asks what all of the pictures are on the phone. She didn't delete her photos. Pictures of her and her boyfriend topless is bed together, pics of him sucking on her toes etc. I went ballistic on my wife, and she simply texted. "Get over it." I do not know who she is, or what she's become. Total trash.
:shock:
Gonna need to see those pics before I pass judgement.
:thumbup:

If this had happened to me, I'd have those photos EVERYWHERE on the internet by now..

 
So my wife ot a new phone, and gave her old one to my eight year old this past weekend. Today he comes to me and asks what all of the pictures are on the phone. She didn't delete her photos. Pictures of her and her boyfriend topless is bed together, pics of him sucking on her toes etc. I went ballistic on my wife, and she simply texted. "Get over it." I do not know who she is, or what she's become. Total trash.
Is she dating Rex Ryan?

 
So my wife ot a new phone, and gave her old one to my eight year old this past weekend. Today he comes to me and asks what all of the pictures are on the phone. She didn't delete her photos. Pictures of her and her boyfriend topless is bed together, pics of him sucking on her toes etc. I went ballistic on my wife, and she simply texted. "Get over it." I do not know who she is, or what she's become. Total trash.
Is she dating Rex Ryan?
Or JB:

And then you feel sumpin' down by your feet.

It's me, it's JB, I'm suckin' upon your toes.

We don't mind sucking on toes!

Good luck finding a boyfriend who sucks toe, ow!
 

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