Fantastic trip!  Thanks again for some of the advice....of course didn't follow our agenda exactly, but here's how it went:
Thurs - checked in at Algonquin (which was nice) at mid-day, hit 
Virgils for lunch, then to shopping.  Straight to Macy's from there....I stayed for an hour (looking for something)...then left wife there to go explore.  Walked around the Library, Bryant Park, Empire State Bldg...then headed up to Radio City to see what I could of the draft festivities.  Stood across the street for about 15 minutes and saw Gabbert, Green, and some other coming in.  Then to the liquor store to stock up the room....wife got home around 8.  We were originally planning on the Village for dinner, but ended up at 
Blue Fin with a 10:00 reservation.  Sat next to Hines Ward.....told Gabbert 'Go Dolphins' (i'd had a few)....then we walked around TS before heading home.
Fri - got up mid-morning and went to China Town.  Walked around, then around Little Italy...then settled in for lunch at 
Vincents.  Fantastic.  Medium Zitti and a few screwdrivers.  Then wife went to Soho to shop and I walked around Battery, FiDi, Ground Zero.  Back to hotel late afternoon.  We had a drink in the Algonquin lobby...then headed out for dinner at 
Del Friscos.  Had the perfect meal.  After some ridiculous dessert...and a stroll around Rock Center.....were looking for a live band and sent to Iridium.  Looked like a great spot, but the band was done....so from there on to BB Kings.  Stayed there until late.
Sat - Since it rained on Thurs, we went to Top of the Rock in the morning and lunch.  Took a while...but worth it.  From there we checked out of Algonquin and headed up to my cousin's duplex/apt on 88th St UWS.  Relaxed for 30 minutes...then to the subways and Yankee Stadium.  I don't think I even need to go into this experience, since we sat in the Legends Suite:
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Stayed until Mo closed her down....then back to UWS.  Went up to a cool place called 
Calle Ocho on around 82nd for dinner....nice atmosphere and food was good for us since we ate so much at the Stadium.  Then on to 
Cafe Lalo for dessert and oogling of waitresses in tights.
Sun - instead of going down to Brooklyn, since we where short on time...my cousin took us for a walking tour of Central Park.  Cherry Blossoms in full bloom...we walked all the way around end....unded up eating lunch at the 
Conservatory Garden...which was cool.  From there walked thru some of the undeveloped areas....walked around the UWS some more around Columbus...bought a mothers day gift at a boutique....hit a sidewalk sale on the back of the MOMH....then to airport.
Great trip!  My wife missed two stores (HM and Century 21)....so we're heading back soon.