The holidays are right around the corner and I am dreading it. With the exception of one sister who doesn't live here, my entire family is anti-vax. We are talking 20-25 people counting nieces, nephews, etc that all live here. My mom is 86 and got her vaccine. Several members of the family are putting pressure on her to come out to their houses for birthdays and different holidays. I have already made it clear that my family will not be attending anything--we all got the vaccine. I have avoided offering to my mom that she could have Thanksgiving with my family because i don't want her to feel like she has to choose between her kids. The same with Christmas and probably Easter.
The problem I see coming is this is our 17 year old daughter's Senior year and we are already looking for venues to hold the graduation party. I am going to look like a complete hypocrite for sending invites to a party, when in fact I am not willing to attend their celebrations.
I have started trying to bribe my daughter about maybe we could forego the party and take the 2K as a down payment on a trip somewhere fun, but my wife is not having it because she believes in tradition and we gave our other daughter a nice party, so we have to do the same here. We have started looking at outdoor venues, but June in Colorado is really unpredictable. On the day of our oldest daughter's grad party, we had a tornado watch and massive hail. .
I told my mom that the family is not going to take it seriously until one of them gets it and is really, really sick or dies. Maybe the light would go on then. However, to show you the mindset I am dealing with, my one sister has already announced she is going to walk away from her $100,000 a year job if they institute a vaccine policy at her workplace.