***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (3 Viewers)

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Now I see why you haven't been posting pics...

 

[Kraft...]

Soooooo Small

 

[Mrs. BSR]

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Now I see why you haven't been posting pics...

I can't see it.

 

[Bankerguy]

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Now I see why you haven't been posting pics...

I seriously can't figure it out.I post fine on UnderGround....this just came out really small.

 

[Bankerguy]

Disco Stu is good people

Welcome to the Underground.

I thought you were the one who thought I was gonna do something crazy with the photos?

I said I didn't control the underground.EZ guy.

 

[Incogneto]

Woz, Have you heard back from this chick since you sent the email?

 

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Now I see why you haven't been posting pics...

I can't see it.

Sorry, I wasn't commenting on the quality of the girl (though boy do my comments read like that), just that BG is no good at linking images...You gotta copy and paste the url, not click the link...also get out your magnifying glass cause it's tiny...

 

[Mrs. BSR]

Woz, Have you heard back from this chick since you sent the email?

Dear Woz,I'm sorry to hear about the ex but I am anxiously awaiting your call. I am willing to wait as your e-mail suggested. Thanks for letting me know there's hope.Love always,Psycho Chick

 

[Kendall]

I just thought the whole "this guy has ex issues" thing (suggesting it's solely my fault) is a lot easier to take than the "this guy doesn't think I'd work with him" angle (suggesting it may be something wrong with her). And I did take advice - the using the ex's suicide thing was suggested by another poster here.

Yeah except you still left it open for her. You could have said you were sorry for misleading her and appreciated the time you both had but that your head isn't screwed on straight and that you have issues with the ex that will never go away, blah, blah, blah.

Not to beat this to death, but you needed to shut this girl out. You closed the door, but opened a couple windows.

 

[Pip's Invitation]

I just thought the whole "this guy has ex issues" thing (suggesting it's solely my fault) is a lot easier to take than the "this guy doesn't think I'd work with him" angle (suggesting it may be something wrong with her). And I did take advice - the using the ex's suicide thing was suggested by another poster here.

Yeah except you still left it open for her. You could have said you were sorry for misleading her and appreciated the time you both had but that your head isn't screwed on straight and that you have issues with the ex that will never go away, blah, blah, blah.

Not to beat this to death, but you needed to shut this girl out. You closed the door, but opened a couple windows.

You also need to shut your ex out. That means no returning or acknowledging phone calls, emails, or texts, no matter how dramatic they are. She doesn't exist anymore. That goes for members of her family as well.

 

[Woz]

Woz, Have you heard back from this chick since you sent the email?

not yet, which shocks the hell out of me

 

[ditka...mike ditka]

Woz, Have you heard back from this chick since you sent the email?

not yet, which shocks the hell out of me

you better pack up all your belongings you have at work...

 

[zander_s]

Any dealings with her sister?? Cold shoulder from her should tell a tale if there is one to be told!

Woz, Have you heard back from this chick since you sent the email?

not yet, which shocks the hell out of me

 

[Disco Stu]

I just thought the whole "this guy has ex issues" thing (suggesting it's solely my fault) is a lot easier to take than the "this guy doesn't think I'd work with him" angle (suggesting it may be something wrong with her).

And I did take advice - the using the ex's suicide thing was suggested by another poster here.

Yeah except you still left it open for her. You could have said you were sorry for misleading her and appreciated the time you both had but that your head isn't screwed on straight and that you have issues with the ex that will never go away, blah, blah, blah.

This would have been good, and as a bonus it's also 100% true.

 

[krista4]

Found this on the second page.

 

[Woz]

Update:

Heard back from her, not going to post it all but here are the highlights.

1. While appreciating my honesty, calls me out for letting ex effect my dating life. Says it sucks because she likes me a lot and now I'm going to lose her and "our opportunity."

- this is good IMO, she's able to save face and isn't calling me an #######.

2. Claims she knew I wouldn't call her after Saturday night. Suggests I just wanted sex and I let that on. Blames me for being a "typical guy."

- don't know how that's possible when she pushed all the action and I stopped it before sex. She's probably just saving her own face here - as the "I'm not a slut" type comments would suggest she has some insecurities about her promiscuity.

3. Sends me a song with these lyrics highlighted:

oh, you don't do what I want you to

but I haven't been

through all you've been through

And we could use that

as an excuse

If that's what you choose

If that's what you choose

Well it was kinda hard

to pull away

He said "Buck up baby,

its okay. The sunlight

on the floor will always fall."

- yeah I don't like country.

In all, I don't think it went over too bad and her ego isn't bruised. So, hooray for iDating and onto my next experience, which, according to a recent e-mail, should be coming up soon.

 

[Peyton Marino]

Update: Heard back from her, not going to post it all but here are the highlights. 1. While appreciating my honesty, calls me out for letting ex effect my dating life. Says it sucks because she likes me a lot and now I'm going to lose her and "our opportunity." - this is good IMO, she's able to save face and isn't calling me an #######. 2. Claims she knew I wouldn't call her after Saturday night. Suggests I just wanted sex and I let that on. Blames me for being a "typical guy."- don't know how that's possible when she pushed all the action and I stopped it before sex. She's probably just saving her own face here - as the "I'm not a slut" type comments would suggest she has some insecurities about her promiscuity. 3. Sends me a song with these lyrics highlightedh, you don't do what I want you tobut I haven't beenthrough all you've been throughAnd we could use thatas an excuseIf that's what you chooseIf that's what you chooseWell it was kinda hard to pull awayHe said "Buck up baby,its okay. The sunlighton the floor will always fall."- yeah I don't like country. In all, I don't think it went over too bad and her ego isn't bruised. So, hooray for iDating and onto my next experience, which, according to a recent e-mail, should be coming up soon.

well that's the end of that...

 

[Otis]

Update: Heard back from her, not going to post it all but here are the highlights. 1. While appreciating my honesty, calls me out for letting ex effect my dating life. Says it sucks because she likes me a lot and now I'm going to lose her and "our opportunity." - this is good IMO, she's able to save face and isn't calling me an #######. 2. Claims she knew I wouldn't call her after Saturday night. Suggests I just wanted sex and I let that on. Blames me for being a "typical guy."- don't know how that's possible when she pushed all the action and I stopped it before sex. She's probably just saving her own face here - as the "I'm not a slut" type comments would suggest she has some insecurities about her promiscuity. 3. Sends me a song with these lyrics highlightedh, you don't do what I want you tobut I haven't beenthrough all you've been throughAnd we could use thatas an excuseIf that's what you chooseIf that's what you chooseWell it was kinda hard to pull awayHe said "Buck up baby,its okay. The sunlighton the floor will always fall."- yeah I don't like country. In all, I don't think it went over too bad and her ego isn't bruised. So, hooray for iDating and onto my next experience, which, according to a recent e-mail, should be coming up soon.

well that's the end of that...

 

[Woz]

Update: Heard back from her, not going to post it all but here are the highlights. 1. While appreciating my honesty, calls me out for letting ex effect my dating life. Says it sucks because she likes me a lot and now I'm going to lose her and "our opportunity." - this is good IMO, she's able to save face and isn't calling me an #######. 2. Claims she knew I wouldn't call her after Saturday night. Suggests I just wanted sex and I let that on. Blames me for being a "typical guy."- don't know how that's possible when she pushed all the action and I stopped it before sex. She's probably just saving her own face here - as the "I'm not a slut" type comments would suggest she has some insecurities about her promiscuity. 3. Sends me a song with these lyrics highlightedh, you don't do what I want you tobut I haven't beenthrough all you've been throughAnd we could use thatas an excuseIf that's what you chooseIf that's what you chooseWell it was kinda hard to pull awayHe said "Buck up baby,its okay. The sunlighton the floor will always fall."- yeah I don't like country. In all, I don't think it went over too bad and her ego isn't bruised. So, hooray for iDating and onto my next experience, which, according to a recent e-mail, should be coming up soon.

well that's the end of that...

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[Woz]

YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME. NOT TEN SECONDS AFTER I MAKE THE ABOVE POST SHE TEXTS ME TELLING ME TO RETHINK THINGS.

 

[mr. furley]

you deserve your own website and possibly a tv deal

 

[KGB]

I had an ex try the "im gonna kill myself" angle. I told her Id call her back in a minute. called 911.

She never pulled that again.

 

[Peyton Marino]

here's your chance dude. make things right.

or make them worse. whatevah.

 

[mr. furley]

I had an ex try the "im gonna kill myself" angle. I told her Id call her back in a minute. called 911.She never pulled that again.

ditto.she called me at work sobbing and moaning about life.. i told her i had to go after a few minutes... she said "goodbye, i love you, i'm going to kill myself".i said "ooooooooookay.. buh bye then "got a call a few hours later from her mom telling me she was admitted to the emergency room after downing a bottle of sleeping pills. she wound up in the psych ward for a bit.

 

[SeveredHorseHeads]

YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME. NOT TEN SECONDS AFTER I MAKE THE ABOVE POST SHE TEXTS ME TELLING ME TO RETHINK THINGS.

 

[SeveredHorseHeads]

you deserve your own website and possibly a tv deal

Maybe if he sends her another e-mail that sternly talks about all the things he likes about her and that he wants to get together with her in the future, that will make everything better?

 

[mr. furley]

you deserve your own website and possibly a tv deal

Maybe if he sends her another e-mail that sternly talks about all the things he likes about her and that he wants to get together with her in the future, that will make everything better?

that's the pro-play obviously

 

[Disco Stu]

1. The date I mentioned earlier has been moved to Friday night. Gonna go to a martini lounge after my ball game. I pushed to just meet her there, but she insisted I pick her up. Couple this with the fact she's e-mailed me randomly twice to moreso tell me how her days have went and texted me twice last night after I called her have me a bit worried. The content of what she's saying if fine, but I almost get the feeling that she thinks we're "dating" already. And yeah as I was typing the thread of this I got a text from her asking if I'm still at work.

:soulmates:

Is it standard practice to go right to the phone? Seems like a bad play. Can't you set up a date via messaging through the website? Then maybe graduate to giving out numbers if that goes well?

75% of the women no these sites gain some comfort level from talking on the phone first. Doesn't make a lot of sense since if you're a psycho, you can probably make it through a phone conversation without divulging that.

Interesting. I planned to avoid the phone. Figured it'd be best to set a meeting without giving up a phone number (that I may wish I could take back).

Thank you Woz for cementing this decision for me.

 

[Woz]

1. The date I mentioned earlier has been moved to Friday night. Gonna go to a martini lounge after my ball game. I pushed to just meet her there, but she insisted I pick her up. Couple this with the fact she's e-mailed me randomly twice to moreso tell me how her days have went and texted me twice last night after I called her have me a bit worried. The content of what she's saying if fine, but I almost get the feeling that she thinks we're "dating" already. And yeah as I was typing the thread of this I got a text from her asking if I'm still at work.

:soulmates:

Is it standard practice to go right to the phone? Seems like a bad play. Can't you set up a date via messaging through the website? Then maybe graduate to giving out numbers if that goes well?

75% of the women no these sites gain some comfort level from talking on the phone first. Doesn't make a lot of sense since if you're a psycho, you can probably make it through a phone conversation without divulging that.

Interesting. I planned to avoid the phone. Figured it'd be best to set a meeting without giving up a phone number (that I may wish I could take back).

Thank you Woz for cementing this decision for me.

I'd avoid mentioning the street you live on too, where you work, and another e-mail address as well. YWIA

 

[mr. furley]

I had an ex try the "im gonna kill myself" angle. I told her Id call her back in a minute. called 911.She never pulled that again.

ditto.she called me at work sobbing and moaning about life.. i told her i had to go after a few minutes... she said "goodbye, i love you, i'm going to kill myself".i said "ooooooooookay.. buh bye then "got a call a few hours later from her mom telling me she was admitted to the emergency room after downing a bottle of sleeping pills. she wound up in the psych ward for a bit.

See now shtick or not this is NOT what I wanted to have happen. Given her purported medical history, there was a chance.

wish it were shtick, gb. really do.

 

[krista4]

you deserve your own website and possibly a tv deal

This Misadventures of Wozzy Bear would surely be worthy of a Season Pass.

 

[Otis]

YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME. NOT TEN SECONDS AFTER I MAKE THE ABOVE POST SHE TEXTS ME TELLING ME TO RETHINK THINGS.

Well it took a crystal ####### ball to see this coming.

 

[krista4]

YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME. NOT TEN SECONDS AFTER I MAKE THE ABOVE POST SHE TEXTS ME TELLING ME TO RETHINK THINGS.

Well it took a crystal ####### ball to see this coming.

This is making my night.

 

[Disco Stu]

1. The date I mentioned earlier has been moved to Friday night. Gonna go to a martini lounge after my ball game. I pushed to just meet her there, but she insisted I pick her up. Couple this with the fact she's e-mailed me randomly twice to moreso tell me how her days have went and texted me twice last night after I called her have me a bit worried. The content of what she's saying if fine, but I almost get the feeling that she thinks we're "dating" already. And yeah as I was typing the thread of this I got a text from her asking if I'm still at work.

:soulmates:

Is it standard practice to go right to the phone? Seems like a bad play. Can't you set up a date via messaging through the website? Then maybe graduate to giving out numbers if that goes well?

75% of the women no these sites gain some comfort level from talking on the phone first. Doesn't make a lot of sense since if you're a psycho, you can probably make it through a phone conversation without divulging that.

Interesting. I planned to avoid the phone. Figured it'd be best to set a meeting without giving up a phone number (that I may wish I could take back).

Thank you Woz for cementing this decision for me.

I'd avoid mentioning the street you live on too, where you work, and another e-mail address as well. YWIA

Obviously. Communicating almost exclusively through the site is working fine for me so far. At most they can have the yahoo messenger ID and email address that I set up specifically for iDating.

 

[Bankerguy]

Ok...my update:

First off Woz.....wow dude......sorry.

I had my date with "no nonsense". We ended up going out for a very nice dinner at one of the best restuarants in my city. Started off rocky, wasn't sure she was ino me. She said, you aren't what I expected then struggled to explain. Was worried for a second. As the night went on, the conversation was better and we got to the touchy feeling thing, which is always a good sign. The night ended with a kiss. For a long term prospect......

Nice girl, similar outlooks and up-bringing, a solid 8 out of 10, cute but not a head turner. Which is good. I honestly liked her as far as first dates go. Bankerguy is pushing for a second date.

 

[Woz]

Ok...my update:First off Woz.....wow dude......sorry. I had my date with "no nonsense". We ended up going out for a very nice dinner at one of the best restuarants in my city. Started off rocky, wasn't sure she was ino me. She said, you aren't what I expected then struggled to explain. Was worried for a second. As the night went on, the conversation was better and we got to the touchy feeling thing, which is always a good sign. The night ended with a kiss. For a long term prospect...... Nice girl, similar outlooks and up-bringing, a solid 8 out of 10, cute but not a head turner. Which is good. I honestly liked her as far as first dates go. Bankerguy is pushing for a second date.

Awesome man!! Dates like these are so great on so many levels. It's what makes going out with the psychos worth it and not enough to discourage. Hope it works out man.

 

[Woz]

YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME. NOT TEN SECONDS AFTER I MAKE THE ABOVE POST SHE TEXTS ME TELLING ME TO RETHINK THINGS.

Well it took a crystal ####### ball to see this coming.

Yeah, well, I'm ####### ######ed and assume people get the point.

 

[Bankerguy]

was there any doubt how this thread would play out?

woz humiliates himself by acting more like a chick than the chicks here

Otis goes into shotgun mode, figures if he contacts 80 iWimmins that a few will work out.

50% of the remainder asks questions and doesn't post anything amusing or useful.

50% of the remainder pile on woz like a samoan 10 man sumo wrestling competition

Thanks for bumping it to 51%.

 

[Eli2Shockey]

YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME. NOT TEN SECONDS AFTER I MAKE THE ABOVE POST SHE TEXTS ME TELLING ME TO RETHINK THINGS.

 

[Bankerguy]

Reposted the pic (of No NonSense) on the Underground of a more normal size...LOL.

 

[Team Tosh]

Congrats on the successful date bankerguy.

Now I have a question I don't really know the answer to. What if someone emails you and you aren't physically attracted to their photos, but they have an interesting profile. Do people expect to just make friends sometimes, or should there be a small possibility of starting something if you respond to their email.

 

[Drifter]

Ok...my update:First off Woz.....wow dude......sorry. I had my date with "no nonsense". We ended up going out for a very nice dinner at one of the best restuarants in my city. Started off rocky, wasn't sure she was ino me. She said, you aren't what I expected then struggled to explain. Was worried for a second. As the night went on, the conversation was better and we got to the touchy feeling thing, which is always a good sign. The night ended with a kiss. For a long term prospect...... Nice girl, similar outlooks and up-bringing, a solid 8 out of 10, cute but not a head turner. Which is good. I honestly liked her as far as first dates go. Bankerguy is pushing for a second date.

Your scale is messed up - 8 = head turner

 

[Bankerguy]

Congrats on the successful date bankerguy. Now I have a question I don't really know the answer to. What if someone emails you and you aren't physically attracted to their photos, but they have an interesting profile. Do people expect to just make friends sometimes, or should there be a small possibility of starting something if you respond to their email.

You are best to not respong imo.If you do respond be 100% sure to be honest that you aren't interested in anything other than being friends.I was nice and responded to someone I normally wouldn't. I ended up spending a week trying to get rid of her and her emails. Be careful.

 

[Bankerguy]

Ok...my update:First off Woz.....wow dude......sorry. I had my date with "no nonsense". We ended up going out for a very nice dinner at one of the best restuarants in my city. Started off rocky, wasn't sure she was ino me. She said, you aren't what I expected then struggled to explain. Was worried for a second. As the night went on, the conversation was better and we got to the touchy feeling thing, which is always a good sign. The night ended with a kiss. For a long term prospect...... Nice girl, similar outlooks and up-bringing, a solid 8 out of 10, cute but not a head turner. Which is good. I honestly liked her as far as first dates go. Bankerguy is pushing for a second date.

Your scale is messed up - 8 = head turner

Well i'd be interested to hear others rating of her? Based on the pic I posted.

 

[Team Tosh]

Ok...my update:First off Woz.....wow dude......sorry. I had my date with "no nonsense". We ended up going out for a very nice dinner at one of the best restuarants in my city. Started off rocky, wasn't sure she was ino me. She said, you aren't what I expected then struggled to explain. Was worried for a second. As the night went on, the conversation was better and we got to the touchy feeling thing, which is always a good sign. The night ended with a kiss. For a long term prospect...... Nice girl, similar outlooks and up-bringing, a solid 8 out of 10, cute but not a head turner. Which is good. I honestly liked her as far as first dates go. Bankerguy is pushing for a second date.

Your scale is messed up - 8 = head turner

I'd have to agree.

 

[Team Tosh]

Ok...my update:First off Woz.....wow dude......sorry. I had my date with "no nonsense". We ended up going out for a very nice dinner at one of the best restuarants in my city. Started off rocky, wasn't sure she was ino me. She said, you aren't what I expected then struggled to explain. Was worried for a second. As the night went on, the conversation was better and we got to the touchy feeling thing, which is always a good sign. The night ended with a kiss. For a long term prospect...... Nice girl, similar outlooks and up-bringing, a solid 8 out of 10, cute but not a head turner. Which is good. I honestly liked her as far as first dates go. Bankerguy is pushing for a second date.

Your scale is messed up - 8 = head turner

Well i'd be interested to hear others rating of her? Based on the pic I posted.

Solid 8 is fair based on her pic. I just think solid 8 is still hot.

 

[Team Tosh]

Ok...my update:First off Woz.....wow dude......sorry. I had my date with "no nonsense". We ended up going out for a very nice dinner at one of the best restuarants in my city. Started off rocky, wasn't sure she was ino me. She said, you aren't what I expected then struggled to explain. Was worried for a second. As the night went on, the conversation was better and we got to the touchy feeling thing, which is always a good sign. The night ended with a kiss. For a long term prospect...... Nice girl, similar outlooks and up-bringing, a solid 8 out of 10, cute but not a head turner. Which is good. I honestly liked her as far as first dates go. Bankerguy is pushing for a second date.

Your scale is messed up - 8 = head turner

Well i'd be interested to hear others rating of her? Based on the pic I posted.

That's probably sound advice. I certainly don't want to end up like situation woz.

 

[Notorious T.R.E.]

you deserve your own website and possibly a tv deal

This Misadventures of Wozzy Bear would surely be worthy of a Season Pass.

Feeling proud that this one looks like it will stick.

 

[Homer J Simpson]

All right, I'm trying to fill out the Match.com profile thing and I can't help sounding like a completely boring dooshbag tool jackhole %^&*@!.

Honestly, talking about myself makes my teeth hurt.

 

[Disco Stu]

All right, I'm trying to fill out the Match.com profile thing and I can't help sounding like a completely boring dooshbag tool jackhole %^&*@!.Honestly, talking about myself makes my teeth hurt.

So at least you're being honest, huh?