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[strykerpks]

Was supposed to meet cute_emilie and another girl this weekend. But, they've completely fallen off the planet the last couple days even thought the stalker options on the websites show me they've been online and I left voicemails with each. Is it possible to have a "slump" at something you've never tried before, or is the reasonable conclusion that I just suck at this. #### it, I'm spending the weekend in a drunken stupor and making phone calls I'll regret at a later date.

Atta boy...that sounds better.Go get your weiner wet. Even if they are not "10's".

We'll see. Meant more of the make a fool of myself by either calling exes all emotional or Otis-texting the hell out of the chicks who stood me up and being a #### about it. I honestly have a hard time "dipping," if you know what I a mean. Reaching a point though where anything is possible.

Why is it you have a hard time just having sex and having a good time with a chick you don't "love," but you have no problem doing things that will emotionally hurt yourself?Just seems weird to me...A bit masochistic IMO...Seems even if it wasn't your favorite thing in the world, meeting some chick in a bar for secks would be better than getting all emotional and doing something you will regret...Just my :twocents:

You dont have to turn yourself into a man-whore if thats not what you're into. Like Furley stated, you're looking for a wife without playing the field. Go out, talk to girls, get shot down, talk to more girls, get shot down some more, talk to more girls, dance, flirt, exchange numbers, play tonsil hockey. All harmless and fun without comprimising yourself. At least it'll keep your mind off the ex and these ichicks who are standing you up. I have a wedding tomorrow that the ex and I were going to go to. Am I gonna sulk and call her and tell her how much I want her to be there? While it may be true, thats not what I'm going to do. I'm going to hope my buddy has me escorting his wifes hottest single friend down the aisle. And if not, theres always the reception.

 

[Bankerguy]

Was supposed to meet cute_emilie and another girl this weekend. But, they've completely fallen off the planet the last couple days even thought the stalker options on the websites show me they've been online and I left voicemails with each. Is it possible to have a "slump" at something you've never tried before, or is the reasonable conclusion that I just suck at this. #### it, I'm spending the weekend in a drunken stupor and making phone calls I'll regret at a later date.

Atta boy...that sounds better.Go get your weiner wet. Even if they are not "10's".

We'll see. Meant more of the make a fool of myself by either calling exes all emotional or Otis-texting the hell out of the chicks who stood me up and being a #### about it. I honestly have a hard time "dipping," if you know what I a mean. Reaching a point though where anything is possible.

Apparently I mis-read. No ex's.Go to a bar......pick out a hottie.Talk to her. The end.

 

[strykerpks]

The plan for tonight is simple because I have my son home with me. She will come by after my son does down to sleep. We are watching a movie and a having couple of glasses of wine. OH, and we joked about watching pron.....we'll see where that goes. I believe she is sensing that my interest levels have been waning. Tonight could be interesting, I am hoping for her A game for sure.

Updates to follow late tonight or early morning.

Thats a GREAT sign. When my ex and I first started dating, we played the same "joke." Turns out we went to the store and had some fun that night. Gllll!

 

[Bankerguy]

OK....I'll give an update.

I really enjoy spending time and hanging out with "Hot Cougar" and I have stayed exclusive with her to date. However, as mentioned the sex was not the best the last couple of times. Basically, if things don't improve tonight, I may be back to i.dating.

BG, if you don't mind being put on the spot a bit, after the first passionate night how did the dating commence?...I mean, were you still trying to win her over or did you just sort of assume that hookup meant you were "in"?

a) We knew each other before we hooked up.b) We see each other about every 2-3 days.

c) I am in from her side (I think anyway). Just for me the secks has been a little PG.

What I was getting at was she might be looking to be "courted" a bit...I'm not expert on the female mind but I could imagine if after that first night she felt a little guilty and was looking to see you show some interest in winning her heart...it would be the natural result of friends-turning-into-lovers scenario...she just wants a little additional confirmation that you are in it for more than the sex...just a thought...maybe lay it on a little thick tonight, see if that heats things up...

Or give her a poem:Roses are Red

Violets are Blue

If the Sex Doesn't Improve,

I Am Through With You

Chicks love poems...

Classic

 

[Leeroy Jenkins]

Was supposed to meet cute_emilie and another girl this weekend. But, they've completely fallen off the planet the last couple days even thought the stalker options on the websites show me they've been online and I left voicemails with each. Is it possible to have a "slump" at something you've never tried before, or is the reasonable conclusion that I just suck at this. #### it, I'm spending the weekend in a drunken stupor and making phone calls I'll regret at a later date.

Dude. Dont make the phone calls. Go out. Get drunk. hang out with your boys. dont let them use your cell phone. keep both of your socks. Loosen up man, if you go home alone, who ####### cares? Just go out an see what happens w/o analyzing every female situation and comparing it to all your past mistakes. Relax and get ####### hammered. jesus man, life isnt this hard.

 

[Bankerguy]

The plan for tonight is simple because I have my son home with me. She will come by after my son does down to sleep. We are watching a movie and a having couple of glasses of wine. OH, and we joked about watching pron.....we'll see where that goes. I believe she is sensing that my interest levels have been waning. Tonight could be interesting, I am hoping for her A game for sure.

Updates to follow late tonight or early morning.

Thats a GREAT sign. When my ex and I first started dating, we played the same "joke." Turns out we went to the store and had some fun that night. Gllll!

Here was our email exchange earlier........ME-

OK cool......I'll grab some munchies. What do you like?

We can pick a movie or something. So, do you prefer regular porn or more girl on girl type of stuff?

I need to read the previews before you come over.....lol. (Just kidding).

Feel free to stop by whenever you are ready!

Looking forward to seeing you.

Bankerguy

Hot Cougar-

Ok - thanks - laughing my ### off here! So, are you - in a round about way

- asking if porn disturbs me? It's porK (Background info....she hates pork which I learned at the dinner party) I don't like!!! Hehehe (sorry -had to!)

Looking forward to seeing you too. See you at 8:01. (I told her anytime after 8pm in an earlier note)

 

[Keys Myaths]

Looking forward to seeing you too. See you at 8:01. (I told her anytime after 8pm in an earlier note)

This line would have Keys the commitment-phobe running.

 

[Kraft...]

Was supposed to meet cute_emilie and another girl this weekend. But, they've completely fallen off the planet the last couple days even thought the stalker options on the websites show me they've been online and I left voicemails with each. Is it possible to have a "slump" at something you've never tried before, or is the reasonable conclusion that I just suck at this. #### it, I'm spending the weekend in a drunken stupor and making phone calls I'll regret at a later date.

Dude. Dont make the phone calls. Go out. Get drunk. hang out with your boys. dont let them use your cell phone. keep both of your socks. Loosen up man, if you go home alone, who ####### cares? Just go out an see what happens w/o analyzing every female situation and comparing it to all your past mistakes. Relax and get ####### hammered. jesus man, life isnt this hard.

Or, heaven forbid, leave the cell phone at home

 

[Bankerguy]

Looking forward to seeing you too. See you at 8:01. (I told her anytime after 8pm in an earlier note)

This line would have Keys the commitment-phobe running.

It's a joke......I believe anyway.Haven't seen each other for 4-5 days, so we are both looking forward to it.Keys...

 

[Keys Myaths]

Keys...

 

[Bankerguy]

Keys...

Nobody can make you commit if you don't want to Big Guy!!!

 

[Keys Myaths]

Keys...

Nobody can make you commit if you don't want to Big Guy!!!

 

[Early_10]

Sex with someone you care about >>>>> sex with someone you don't.

the problem here is that you're not cut out for dating. some people just aren't. you're trying to find a wife w/o any of the legwork. glllllll

explain

based on what we "know" of you, you're just not the kinda guy who wants to go out meeting random girls, living the single life, carousing, cheating on gf's, sleeping around, finding yourself and what you like/don't like about women.you have an ideal in your head and think you can 1) spot it in women and 2) find that woman and make her feel the same about you as you do her, instantaneously.some people would call you a "romantic".

Others would...nah.Seriously Woz, can't you just go have fun with a woman and not analyze whether you'd marry her? I tell my son he should date at least 20 of the wrong girls to figure out the things he likes about girls in general. Like everything, dating takes practice. Go get it wrong a dozen more times.

 

[BassNBrew]

Sex with someone you care about >>>>> sex with someone you don't.

the problem here is that you're not cut out for dating. some people just aren't. you're trying to find a wife w/o any of the legwork. glllllll

explain

based on what we "know" of you, you're just not the kinda guy who wants to go out meeting random girls, living the single life, carousing, cheating on gf's, sleeping around, finding yourself and what you like/don't like about women.you have an ideal in your head and think you can 1) spot it in women and 2) find that woman and make her feel the same about you as you do her, instantaneously.

some people would call you a "romantic".

Others would...nah.Seriously Woz, can't you just go have fun with a woman and not analyze whether you'd marry her? I tell my son he should date at least 20 of the wrong girls to figure out the things he likes about girls in general. Like everything, dating takes practice. Go get it wrong a dozen more times.

Would that include wrapping it up?

 

[BassNBrew]

Will post the promised update later tonite or tomorrow. Had it typed out earlier today and lost my met connection when I went to post it. Just didn't have the energy to type it all again.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Go get it wrong a dozen more times.

Getting it wrong can be fun, too!

 

[Early_10]

Sex with someone you care about >>>>> sex with someone you don't.

the problem here is that you're not cut out for dating. some people just aren't. you're trying to find a wife w/o any of the legwork. glllllll

explain

based on what we "know" of you, you're just not the kinda guy who wants to go out meeting random girls, living the single life, carousing, cheating on gf's, sleeping around, finding yourself and what you like/don't like about women.you have an ideal in your head and think you can 1) spot it in women and 2) find that woman and make her feel the same about you as you do her, instantaneously.

some people would call you a "romantic".

Others would...nah.Seriously Woz, can't you just go have fun with a woman and not analyze whether you'd marry her? I tell my son he should date at least 20 of the wrong girls to figure out the things he likes about girls in general. Like everything, dating takes practice. Go get it wrong a dozen more times.

Would that include wrapping it up?

No, don't get that wrong!! Tighter than a virgins daughter!

 

[Early_10]

Go get it wrong a dozen more times.

Getting it wrong can be fun, too!

My point.

 

[code]

For what it's worth, as you know I married my iDate, and Code has been enjoying a heaping helpful of newlywed lovin' lately

 

[strykerpks]

Go out, talk to girls, get shot down, talk to more girls, get shot down some more, talk to more girls, dance, flirt, exchange numbers, play tonsil hockey.

Getting it wrong can be fun, too!

I said it earlier but....

 

[strykerpks]

I'm going to hope my buddy has me escorting his wifes hottest single friend down the aisle.

DAMN. I get the fattie..go F'N figurre

 

[Keys Myaths]

Well, I'm going to be getting it wrong again tomorrow with summerfest girl.

Right now, though, I fell asleep at 8:30 from a long workweek, woke up at 12:15, and am now wide awake. Hopefully going to the gym will make me tired.

 

[JAA]

 

[Keys Myaths]

So, the date last night was even twice as good as the first one with this girl. She's got potential...and obviously, it scares the hell out of me. She took a few pictures, so those will be on the underground sometime soon.

Blondie KEEPS texting me. "I'm in Portland now! Do you miss me yet?"

Would it be bad to reply, "no"?

 

[Disco Stu]

So, the date last night was even twice as good as the first one with this girl. She's got potential...and obviously, it scares the hell out of me. She took a few pictures, so those will be on the underground sometime soon.Blondie KEEPS texting me. "I'm in Portland now! Do you miss me yet?"Would it be bad to reply, "no"?

That would be an excellent "can you take a hint?" reply.

 

[Keys Myaths]

So, the date last night was even twice as good as the first one with this girl. She's got potential...and obviously, it scares the hell out of me. She took a few pictures, so those will be on the underground sometime soon.Blondie KEEPS texting me. "I'm in Portland now! Do you miss me yet?"Would it be bad to reply, "no"?

That would be an excellent "can you take a hint?" reply.

Done.

 

[Disco Stu]

So, the date last night was even twice as good as the first one with this girl. She's got potential...and obviously, it scares the hell out of me. She took a few pictures, so those will be on the underground sometime soon.Blondie KEEPS texting me. "I'm in Portland now! Do you miss me yet?"Would it be bad to reply, "no"?

That would be an excellent "can you take a hint?" reply.

Done.

 

[westyplz]

So, the date last night was even twice as good as the first one with this girl. She's got potential...and obviously, it scares the hell out of me. She took a few pictures, so those will be on the underground sometime soon.Blondie KEEPS texting me. "I'm in Portland now! Do you miss me yet?"Would it be bad to reply, "no"?

That would be an excellent "can you take a hint?" reply.

Done.

 

[code]

So, the date last night was even twice as good as the first one with this girl. She's got potential...and obviously, it scares the hell out of me. She took a few pictures, so those will be on the underground sometime soon.Blondie KEEPS texting me. "I'm in Portland now! Do you miss me yet?"Would it be bad to reply, "no"?

That would be an excellent "can you take a hint?" reply.

Done.

:5star:

 

[Keys Myaths]

No response to the "no".

Instead, got a text, "Do you want wednesday or saturday night? U pick!"

 

[krista4]

No response to the "no".Instead, got a text, "Do you want wednesday or saturday night? U pick!"

"Ooooo, girls, this Keys, he is soooooooooooo funny! Look at this text he sent me--isn't he just a silly goose? I can't wait until our wedding! He will probably be up to all kind of hijinks!"

 

[Keys Myaths]

No response to the "no".Instead, got a text, "Do you want wednesday or saturday night? U pick!"

"Ooooo, girls, this Keys, he is soooooooooooo funny! Look at this text he sent me--isn't he just a silly goose? I can't wait until our wedding! He will probably be up to all kind of hijinks!"

ETA: Gentlemen, this is EXACTLY why you don't take her home on the first few dates. EVER. See, right now, I can just ignore every phone call/text and be fine.If I took her home, I'm ####ed.

 

[krista4]

Love your sig, Keys.

Is anyone else a little concerned that Wozzy Bear announced he was going into a drunken stupor this past weekend, and we haven't seen him since?

 

[Keys Myaths]

Love your sig, Keys. Is anyone else a little concerned that Wozzy Bear announced he was going into a drunken stupor this past weekend, and we haven't seen him since?

A little. If he doesn't show up for a bit, I'll call him.

 

[Disco Stu]

Love your sig, Keys. Is anyone else a little concerned that Wozzy Bear announced he was going into a drunken stupor this past weekend, and we haven't seen him since?

A little. If he doesn't show up for a bit, I'll call him.

Call of the search and rescue team...

Last Seen: Today, 03:03 PM

Maybe he just doesn't want to come in here and admit to the number of drunken calls/texts made to his ex.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Love your sig, Keys. Is anyone else a little concerned that Wozzy Bear announced he was going into a drunken stupor this past weekend, and we haven't seen him since?

A little. If he doesn't show up for a bit, I'll call him.

Call of the search and rescue team...

Last Seen: Today, 03:03 PM

Maybe he just doesn't want to come in here and admit to the number of drunken calls/texts made to his ex.

Actually, I spent part of last night looking at e-mails and such from the ex that I dated for four years...the first time I've basically done anything related to her since we broke up last September.With nearly every e-mail, the thought of "what the hell was I thinking?" came up. Sad.

 

[Tremendous Upside]

Love your sig, Keys. Is anyone else a little concerned that Wozzy Bear announced he was going into a drunken stupor this past weekend, and we haven't seen him since?

A little. If he doesn't show up for a bit, I'll call him.

Call of the search and rescue team...

Last Seen: Today, 03:03 PM

Maybe he just doesn't want to come in here and admit to the number of drunken calls/texts made to his ex.

Actually, I spent part of last night looking at e-mails and such from the ex that I dated for four years...the first time I've basically done anything related to her since we broke up last September.With nearly every e-mail, the thought of "what the hell was I thinking?" came up. Sad.

It's not sad, it's you learning from your mistakes...It's healthy...

 

[Bankerguy]

haha alright guys i just don't want to risk anything like my feed getting shut down. you all do what you want

Love your sig, Keys. Is anyone else a little concerned that Wozzy Bear announced he was going into a drunken stupor this past weekend, and we haven't seen him since?

A little. If he doesn't show up for a bit, I'll call him.

Call of the search and rescue team...

Last Seen: Today, 03:03 PM

Maybe he just doesn't want to come in here and admit to the number of drunken calls/texts made to his ex.

Actually, I spent part of last night looking at e-mails and such from the ex that I dated for four years...the first time I've basically done anything related to her since we broke up last September.With nearly every e-mail, the thought of "what the hell was I thinking?" came up. Sad.

I just played this game recently as well.

 

[Woz]

Love your sig, Keys. Is anyone else a little concerned that Wozzy Bear announced he was going into a drunken stupor this past weekend, and we haven't seen him since?

A little. If he doesn't show up for a bit, I'll call him.

Call of the search and rescue team...

Last Seen: Today, 03:03 PM

Maybe he just doesn't want to come in here and admit to the number of drunken calls/texts made to his ex.

I was out in the middle of nowhere. Phone was put away for the weekend. Although psycho chick did text me informing she has a bf now and I "blew it." Was supposed to meet a girl that a guy on my baseball team knows... she never showed. I'm quitting dating for awhile.

 

[Keys Myaths]

haha alright guys i just don't want to risk anything like my feed getting shut down. you all do what you want

Love your sig, Keys. Is anyone else a little concerned that Wozzy Bear announced he was going into a drunken stupor this past weekend, and we haven't seen him since?

A little. If he doesn't show up for a bit, I'll call him.

Call of the search and rescue team...

Last Seen: Today, 03:03 PM

Maybe he just doesn't want to come in here and admit to the number of drunken calls/texts made to his ex.

Actually, I spent part of last night looking at e-mails and such from the ex that I dated for four years...the first time I've basically done anything related to her since we broke up last September.With nearly every e-mail, the thought of "what the hell was I thinking?" came up. Sad.

I just played this game recently as well.

It was just surreal...and it was just 10 months ago. Not only am I a completely different person (I'm literally shuddering at some of the things I said/did), but today, I wouldn't even give her a second look.That just seems really weird to me.

 

[Keys Myaths]

I was out in the middle of nowhere. Phone was put away for the weekend. Although psycho chick did text me informing she has a bf now and I "blew it."

My immediate response would've been: "I'm no expert, but you were doing most of the blowing."

 

[Bankerguy]

I was out in the middle of nowhere. Phone was put away for the weekend. Although psycho chick did text me informing she has a bf now and I "blew it."

My immediate response would've been: "I'm no expert, but you were doing most of the blowing."

 

[Tremendous Upside]

Boy do I feel bad for the new boyfriend (if he exists)...

 

[Woz]

Boy do I feel bad for the new boyfriend (if he exists)...

I sure hope he does and he keeps her off my back for the next couple of weeks.

 

[mr. furley]

Boy do I feel bad for the new boyfriend (if he exists)...

I sure hope he does and he keeps her off my back for the next couple of weeks.

my guess is she went on one "date" with this guy and he's now dealing with the same thing you were. attempting to duck her calls, texts, etc. she sounds crazy enough to think one meeting with a guy means they're committed to each other.

 

[Keys Myaths]

BTW--What the hell are you doing to get stood up so damn much? I've never been stood up in my life.

 

[Woz]

BTW--What the hell are you doing to get stood up so damn much? I've never been stood up in my life.

I don't know. If I'm doing something wrong I can't figure it out. Not exactly targetting ultra hotties either. Then again, you've seen me with my shirt off, can you blame the girls for saying "no"? I don't mind being rejected so long as it's done right away and doesn't turn into a damn inconvenience.

 

[Keys Myaths]

To get this back on track a little...

Have a first date tonight with random B&M girl. Just a drink after work, so will report back on that one.

But, need advice. Company picnic on Saturday afternoon. Thinking about bringing Summerfest girl. Talk me out of it.

 

[Tremendous Upside]

Then again, you've seen me with my shirt off, can you blame the girls for saying "no"?

 

[mr. furley]

BTW--What the hell are you doing to get stood up so damn much? I've never been stood up in my life.

I don't know. If I'm doing something wrong I can't figure it out. Not exactly targetting ultra hotties either. Then again, you've seen me with my shirt off, can you blame the girls for saying "no"? I don't mind being rejected so long as it's done right away and doesn't turn into a damn inconvenience.

shot in the dark hereconfidence issues. shines through like a 1,000,000 watt light bulb.