Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
BTW--when I get home tonight, I'm going to see that movie for the first time ever.
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***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (3 Viewers)
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Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
See, this is what I used to tell myself.However, I've had four girlfriends since high school, and they ALL said that about me. Honestly, with most of them, it's the only complaint they had.That, plus now her telling me that has me pretty sure there's something wrong with it. It might be in the way I do it...who knows.
OOr, they all might be #####es.
Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
OK, how's this for a blow off?
From TallRussian after I invited her to dinner/drinks. She's going to Russia for 3 weeks next Thursday.ok, I will let you know... thanks for the invitation
Why would she talk with you at all if she wasn't interested?Don't waste my time.
strykerpks
Footballguy
So I have a date lined up on Friday with a chick I've known for about a year or so. She hangs out with the SOs of some of the guys I play softball with and we talked a few weeks ago and kinda hit it off. She isnt super attractive but she is kinda cute we had a good time last night at the bar after my game. Technically not iDating but getting back on the horse after a tough breakup can be hard sometimes. A step in the right direction at least....
Also, I got a reply from "Jill", a 30 year old mom of 2. She's skinny as hell with not much up top but she's kinda cute. I'll post some pics on the underground tonight if I get a chance. I'll have to try to set something up with her next week.
[LouBrown]
Startin to come together, Pepper...startin to come together
[/LouBrown]
Also, I got a reply from "Jill", a 30 year old mom of 2. She's skinny as hell with not much up top but she's kinda cute. I'll post some pics on the underground tonight if I get a chance. I'll have to try to set something up with her next week.
[LouBrown]
Startin to come together, Pepper...startin to come together
[/LouBrown]
Woz, I agree with you. I recently went out with someone twice and before I left on vacation we talked about going out on a third date when I got back. The day after I get back on vacation I run into her at the grocery store and it was like I had the black plague. I told her I would contact later that evening, which I did. No answer and never got a call back. If you didn't want to go out anymore, why just not tell me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wouldn't be upset if she just called me back and told me thanks but no thanks on a future date. Since I just got back into the dating mode, I guess this is a normal occurance from reading your stories. It makes me feel better I am not the only one.
Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
Good for you, dude. Seriously.And when the #### are you coming to Madison?strykerpks said:
strykerpks
Footballguy
Thanks man!
I just posted 2 pics of 'Jill' on the undergound tooI dont know when I'll make it to Madtown again. I was going to return a bike that I bought up there but I figured, to hell with it, I'll keep it. It would have just been an excuse to be in the area and drop by "her" house. Gimme an excuse to come up there and we'll figure something out! 
krista4
Footballguy
Geez, I actually have to work for a full day and the iDating thread picks up again!
A lot to catch up on here.First, I've heard the same thing before about my sarcasm. Can't imagine why. But if someone doesn't "get" me, I just say #### 'em.Second, glad to see everybody's really active in this again! The thread was getting a little slow...
Third, Stu have you had any more notes from the Russian?
Most importantly, wanted to pop in and say I did read all of Woz's correspondence with iGirls, as he mentioned. And he's correct in that I don't think he did anything majorly wrong. The biggest issue I noticed was that it took him a long time to get around to making definite plans, and I think in the iDating world you need to pull the trigger more quickly. He probably hasn't done this because he really isn't interested since he's still hung up on his ex. But he even handled some delicate questions about his ex very well.
Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
New pics coming to the underground today.
Dude, you're a ####### machineNew pics coming to the underground today.
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
Yeah, I never did get around to responding, so she(?) sent another desperate note...Third, Stu have you had any more notes from the Russian?
Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
Leeroy Jenkins
Footballguy
How would she log in as you? Change your password.Woz said:I really think better of her which is why I hope not and don't want to check... but like I said it's been uncanny and I've had Krista look at things for me and she has said there's no major flaw. But there are other plausible explainations too - seems like girl have an ability sometimes to see when a guy really doesn't have the interest in the long term of being with them (which I don't).Alias said:O god, please don't tell me you think the ex is logging in as you at dating sites to see who you have been contacting and you think she is running interferenceThis has all dawned on me too man. There are times when I have the feeling that a third party has been contacting these girls and telling them to stay away. I have a way to check on this, but just don't have the heart to do it. It's uncanny though. Honestly, all my convos with them both online and on the phone have been really good and nothing but "absolutely, I want to meet you." Then they fall off the face of the Earth. Furthermore, while I know I sound bad on here sometimes, in real life I'm a pretty decent, non-weird guy (think Keys could attest to this) and never had this kind of stuff happen before.The thing that just throws me is that they never even bothered to respond again after agreeing to meet you. I could see a death in the family excuse or something along those lines. Keys made up a BS excuse for Latino chick, and while it was BS, he at least took the time to contact her and let he know he wasn't going out with her. It's pretty danged cold to just ignore somebody after agreeing to meet them. I understand there's a lot of guys out there that are going after them, and perhaps they found someone they felt was a better match for them. But why in the world couldn't they just make something up? Just seems....odd.Maybe you're not doing anything terribly wrong and i-dating is just that way. But to the casual observer who has never been on one of these sites, it just seems odd that so many of your prospects turn out this way while you've got guys in here bangin out date after date.very possible. As the underground can show, I went for the hotter ones... I'm sure there are a dozen Woz-type guys messaging them.I think iDating though is particularly detail oriented. A slight #### up via email or on your profile will just make the girls go back into the pool instead of wasting their time on you.
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
Update:
"curvy 34" - interest fading (both sides). Previously we were in almost daily contact, but it's been pretty sparse the past week. I know she's been busy - kids, work, selling house, divorce stuff finally gaining steam - but it feels like a blow-off to me. Oh well... I'd like to have sex with her again but other than that, no big loss. How much time could I really spend with a chick who plays WoW and considers Ben Affleck her favorite actor?
"fetish grrl" - she was all about me for about 3 days. Then she had another iDate and transferred that attention over to him. Kind of a relief. I still hear from her but at a much more reasonable frequency. I'm on the back-burner, which is completely fine.
"blind date" - probably waiting for me to ask her out again but doesn't want to be pushy or come on too strong. Much more sane than any of the girls I've met online.
"beach girl" - It's been a month since last contact, but I was thinking about lobbing a message to her today just to see where her head's at.
I'll be out of town all next week, so it's doubtful I'll have anything else to share anytime soon.
"curvy 34" - interest fading (both sides). Previously we were in almost daily contact, but it's been pretty sparse the past week. I know she's been busy - kids, work, selling house, divorce stuff finally gaining steam - but it feels like a blow-off to me. Oh well... I'd like to have sex with her again but other than that, no big loss.
How much time could I really spend with a chick who plays WoW and considers Ben Affleck her favorite actor?"fetish grrl" - she was all about me for about 3 days. Then she had another iDate and transferred that attention over to him. Kind of a relief. I still hear from her but at a much more reasonable frequency. I'm on the back-burner, which is completely fine.
"blind date" - probably waiting for me to ask her out again but doesn't want to be pushy or come on too strong. Much more sane than any of the girls I've met online.
"beach girl" - It's been a month since last contact, but I was thinking about lobbing a message to her today just to see where her head's at.
I'll be out of town all next week, so it's doubtful I'll have anything else to share anytime soon.
pricklypete
Footballguy
Stu-
What's going on with French Chic?
What's going on with French Chic?
Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
This is a good idea. I think I'll follow.Summerfest girl: Found another guy (as detailed above). Called me too sarcastic.Blondie: She became halfway stalkerish after a while. After the last text inviting me over for dinner (which I ignored), she hasn't tried to contact me since, but that was 5 days ago. Anything can happen, I suppose.Latina: Who knows. She's in my "friend zone", but she's cool enough to hang out with.Shortie1: Pretty sure she drunk dialed me one night at 2 AM. She didn't leave a message, and I didn't care to return the call.Shortie2: After abruptly leaving her apartment afterward, and our awkward messaging, she finally e-mailed me to ask if we could be friends. I didn't reply. No contact from her since--about 3 weeks ago.Date1 (past weekend): She called me last night. I didn't care to call her back, and probably won't. Way too out there for me.Date2: Meh. It's weird, I can be unattracted to the hottest girls if they have nothing between the ears. No contact since the weekend.Workgirl: Probably will send her a message today just to check in, but am going to be uber-nice, obviously. Any suggestions, or just leave this alone?Newgirl1: Lives 50 miles away, which is tough. Very cute, seems extremely intelligent, so I'm still interested.Newgirl2: Seems cute enough, but the pics of only her face scare the crap out of me. These are the ones I want opinions on when I post them.Newgirl3: She has a lot of what I want--very good looking, volunteers ALL the time (went to Africa and NO, both for months at a time), and wants to be a nurse. Wants to be? Yeah, she's 20. Keys does not have good experiences with that age.Pics of all three will be up tonight, most likely.Update:"curvy 34" - interest fading (both sides). Previously we were in almost daily contact, but it's been pretty sparse the past week. I know she's been busy - kids, work, selling house, divorce stuff finally gaining steam - but it feels like a blow-off to me. Oh well... I'd like to have sex with her again but other than that, no big loss.How much time could I really spend with a chick who plays WoW and considers Ben Affleck her favorite actor?"fetish grrl" - she was all about me for about 3 days. Then she had another iDate and transferred that attention over to him. Kind of a relief. I still hear from her but at a much more reasonable frequency. I'm on the back-burner, which is completely fine."blind date" - probably waiting for me to ask her out again but doesn't want to be pushy or come on too strong. Much more sane than any of the girls I've met online."beach girl" - It's been a month since last contact, but I was thinking about lobbing a message to her today just to see where her head's at.
I'll be out of town all next week, so it's doubtful I'll have anything else to share anytime soon.
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
code
Footballguy
...and must like very sarcastic guys...Sounds like Keys would dig Mrs. Code...back-off buddy
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
WTF? Just got another message. I haven't even read it all yet...
There was also a new pic attached.HI my new friend Stu.
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Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
...and must like very sarcastic guys...Sounds like Keys would dig Mrs. Code...back-off buddy
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
I've mainly been playing defense on myspace. Changed status from "married" to "divorced", received random messages and friend requests, deleted the uglies and spammers, replied to rest...I'm not sure how well being the aggressor works there. I'd imagine they play better defense than I do. That is how I met "enhanced blonde" though. Quantity is probably key.I'm on Yahoo currently. Not sure about myspace. I've only used it to keep in touch with old college friends etc. How does the idating work on there?What website are you using? I'm using myspace.Problem is, there aren't 10-20 even worth it. Nothin but fatties, uggos and moms. Oh well.I'm going to send out between 100-200 as soon as my well dries up.I've sent out about 5 or 6 emails to the few that are even semi worth it. No dice.
They seem to drop off after I have called them or they have called me...Leeroy Jenkins said:How would she log in as you? Change your password.Woz said:I really think better of her which is why I hope not and don't want to check... but like I said it's been uncanny and I've had Krista look at things for me and she has said there's no major flaw. But there are other plausible explainations too - seems like girl have an ability sometimes to see when a guy really doesn't have the interest in the long term of being with them (which I don't).Alias said:O god, please don't tell me you think the ex is logging in as you at dating sites to see who you have been contacting and you think she is running interferenceWoz said:This has all dawned on me too man. There are times when I have the feeling that a third party has been contacting these girls and telling them to stay away. I have a way to check on this, but just don't have the heart to do it. It's uncanny though. Honestly, all my convos with them both online and on the phone have been really good and nothing but "absolutely, I want to meet you." Then they fall off the face of the Earth. Furthermore, while I know I sound bad on here sometimes, in real life I'm a pretty decent, non-weird guy (think Keys could attest to this) and never had this kind of stuff happen before.The thing that just throws me is that they never even bothered to respond again after agreeing to meet you. I could see a death in the family excuse or something along those lines. Keys made up a BS excuse for Latino chick, and while it was BS, he at least took the time to contact her and let he know he wasn't going out with her. It's pretty danged cold to just ignore somebody after agreeing to meet them. I understand there's a lot of guys out there that are going after them, and perhaps they found someone they felt was a better match for them. But why in the world couldn't they just make something up? Just seems....odd.Maybe you're not doing anything terribly wrong and i-dating is just that way. But to the casual observer who has never been on one of these sites, it just seems odd that so many of your prospects turn out this way while you've got guys in here bangin out date after date.very possible. As the underground can show, I went for the hotter ones... I'm sure there are a dozen Woz-type guys messaging them.I think iDating though is particularly detail oriented. A slight #### up via email or on your profile will just make the girls go back into the pool instead of wasting their time on you.
Leeroy Jenkins
Footballguy
can't afford my own and I really don't think she'd pull something like this
pricklypete
Footballguy
They must have a regular template they use for the emails. She simply forgot to edit it correctly.Disco Stu said:
Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
Leeroy Jenkins
Footballguy
I'm 95 percent sure she wouldn't, but obviously it crossed my mind. However, I'm guessing had she at least one of the girls would have said something to me about it. Plus she is a nice person and I don't think she'd do it.
because I'm not 100 percent certain and the rate at which girls were falling off the map seemed to coincidental.
pricklypete
Footballguy
I see djcolts is in the thread.
Any chance you join the party?
Any chance you join the party?
djcolts
Footballguy
Not quite yet. I'm still trying to finish losing weight, which will take a couple more months, before I think about trying again. I'm meeting people in my singles activities group, and there are some nice people there - but no dates from there yet.
Leeroy Jenkins
Footballguy
strykerpks
Footballguy
Leeroy Jenkins
Footballguy
He's insinuating a 5% chance of that. I think it is probably closer to 0% and Woz is just fumbling.
pricklypete
Footballguy
Good Luck.
Tremendous Upside
Footballguy
You should have WAY less faith in people...You will be rarely disappointed...I'm 95 percent sure she wouldn't, but obviously it crossed my mind. However, I'm guessing had she at least one of the girls would have said something to me about it. Plus she is a nice person and I don't think she'd do it.
strykerpks
Footballguy
Gotcha
Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
So, yeah...nothing good happens after 2 AM, right?
Well, it's 3:51, and I just got home. Awesome night, will tell story later.
But, let's just say that Keys is the king of being able to go home and sleep in his own bed. #### this spooning stuff.
Well, it's 3:51, and I just got home. Awesome night, will tell story later.
But, let's just say that Keys is the king of being able to go home and sleep in his own bed. #### this spooning stuff.
Slinger
Footballguy
This ain't Will & Grace.
Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
So, last night...
I'm pretty much in for this weekend because a lot of my friends are out of town. So, I'm enjoying Swingers (which I've still never seen), when Latina (yes, the girl of three dates and no action) calls.
She and her friends are out downtown, and she invites me, so what the hell. I get there around 12:30. We hang out, have a couple of drinks, and she introduces me to her friends. Pretty cool...and at 2:00, the bars close, so I'm pretty sure I'm just headed home.
Except, she decides to just grab my hand, and we walk to her apartment. Awesome. So, nothing for three dates, and then we do it on her couch overlooking downtown (windows open, lights on...let's hope nobody had a videocamera).
If they did...Keys is about to become an internet superstar.
Afterward, it's just kind of awkward. We both just want me to go home, so I go. Fun night, but weird at the same time. I'm just glad I didn't stay the night.
I'm pretty much in for this weekend because a lot of my friends are out of town. So, I'm enjoying Swingers (which I've still never seen), when Latina (yes, the girl of three dates and no action) calls.
She and her friends are out downtown, and she invites me, so what the hell. I get there around 12:30. We hang out, have a couple of drinks, and she introduces me to her friends. Pretty cool...and at 2:00, the bars close, so I'm pretty sure I'm just headed home.
Except, she decides to just grab my hand, and we walk to her apartment. Awesome. So, nothing for three dates, and then we do it on her couch overlooking downtown (windows open, lights on...let's hope nobody had a videocamera).
If they did...Keys is about to become an internet superstar.
Afterward, it's just kind of awkward. We both just want me to go home, so I go. Fun night, but weird at the same time. I'm just glad I didn't stay the night.
Slinger
Footballguy
Lucky *******.
TLEF316
Footballguy
so after pretty much giving up this little experiment, i got a message from someone on match.com. (where im apparently hotter than 80% of the members) Anyways, the girl is pretty good looking and lives just north of me. We've exchanged a couple of brief messages (I've been out of town without computer access) and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna try try to meet up with her in the next week or so.
This isn't something I'd normally do, but I'm in a bit of a slump and she's the first >5 to match me that wasn't trying to sign me up for her web cam. (Based on her pictures, id say she's about a 7, with upside) Hopefully, updates to follow. If you guys are still doing the underground stuff, id appreciate an invite.
Anyways, the girl is pretty good looking and lives just north of me. We've exchanged a couple of brief messages (I've been out of town without computer access) and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna try try to meet up with her in the next week or so.This isn't something I'd normally do, but I'm in a bit of a slump and she's the first >5 to match me that wasn't trying to sign me up for her web cam. (Based on her pictures, id say she's about a 7, with upside) Hopefully, updates to follow. If you guys are still doing the underground stuff, id appreciate an invite.
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Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
Hah.Well, I actually have to bow out of the "competition" now. Dating's probably not a good idea while I try to get my life on track. But hey, it was a good run.If this was a competition, Keys would definitely be winning.Slinger said:Lucky *******.Keys Myaths said:
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
Hah.Well, I actually have to bow out of the "competition" now. Dating's probably not a good idea while I try to get my life on track. But hey, it was a good run.If this was a competition, Keys would definitely be winning.Slinger said:Lucky *******.Keys Myaths said:
This is shtick, right? If not, what the hell are you talking about?
