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***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (1 Viewer)

Slinger said:
Keys Myaths said:
So, last night...then we do it on her couch overlooking downtown.
Lucky *******. :lmao:
If this was a competition, Keys would definitely be winning. :banned:
Well, I'd like to hit a bar with you/me/Keys......could be dangerous.:wreckshop:
:goodposting: I'll actually be in Wisconsin the next seven days. Other side of the state from Keys though...
Welcome! :banned:
 
I haven't heard back from Jill yet. She apparently hasnt been online..who knows. I sent out a few more emails today so we'll see what kind of responses I get this week.

Date with Amanda on Friday night actually went really well. She's actually cool to talk to we had a great time. Went to dinner and then to check out a band at a local festival where a bunch of mutual friends were. She called me Saturday night and wanted to meet for a drink. So she and a friend came to the bar where I was hanging out at. She's coming over to my house on Tuesday to watch a movie. Suggestions?

 
I haven't heard back from Jill yet. She apparently hasnt been online..who knows. I sent out a few more emails today so we'll see what kind of responses I get this week.

Date with Amanda on Friday night actually went really well. She's actually cool to talk to we had a great time. Went to dinner and then to check out a band at a local festival where a bunch of mutual friends were. She called me Saturday night and wanted to meet for a drink. So she and a friend came to the bar where I was hanging out at. She's coming over to my house on Tuesday to watch a movie. Suggestions?
Wrap it? :rolleyes:
 
I sent out a few more emails today so we'll see what kind of responses I get this week.
XNever call, email or contact a woman in any way, shape or form more than once unless she replies back. You'll appear needy. Jill is officially out. Move your game to the next girl. I wish you luck. Make us proud.

 
I sent out a few more emails today so we'll see what kind of responses I get this week.
XNever call, email or contact a woman in any way, shape or form more than once unless she replies back. You'll appear needy. Jill is officially out. Move your game to the next girl. I wish you luck. Make us proud.
LOL! C'mon, gimme some credit, I'm not that dumb. I didnt send Jill anything else. I sent out emails to other chicks. Sorry I probably should have clarified
 
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I haven't heard back from Jill yet. She apparently hasnt been online..who knows. I sent out a few more emails today so we'll see what kind of responses I get this week.

Date with Amanda on Friday night actually went really well. She's actually cool to talk to we had a great time. Went to dinner and then to check out a band at a local festival where a bunch of mutual friends were. She called me Saturday night and wanted to meet for a drink. So she and a friend came to the bar where I was hanging out at. She's coming over to my house on Tuesday to watch a movie. Suggestions?
Wrap it? :rolleyes:
:lmao: Definately looking to seal the deal.

 
Slinger said:
Keys Myaths said:
So, last night...then we do it on her couch overlooking downtown.
Lucky *******. :thumbup:
If this was a competition, Keys would definitely be winning. :thumbup:
Hah.Well, I actually have to bow out of the "competition" now. Dating's probably not a good idea while I try to get my life on track. But hey, it was a good run.
:shrug: This is shtick, right? If not, what the hell are you talking about?
Not shtick. See thread on page 1.
 
I sent out a few more emails today so we'll see what kind of responses I get this week.
XNever call, email or contact a woman in any way, shape or form more than once unless she replies back. You'll appear needy. Jill is officially out. Move your game to the next girl. I wish you luck. Make us proud.
LOL! C'mon, gimme some credit, I'm not that dumb. I didnt send Jill anything else. I sent out emails to other chicks. Sorry I probably should have clarified
:shrug: Oppps. Carry on.

 
I haven't heard back from Jill yet. She apparently hasnt been online..who knows. I sent out a few more emails today so we'll see what kind of responses I get this week.Date with Amanda on Friday night actually went really well. She's actually cool to talk to we had a great time. Went to dinner and then to check out a band at a local festival where a bunch of mutual friends were. She called me Saturday night and wanted to meet for a drink. So she and a friend came to the bar where I was hanging out at. She's coming over to my house on Tuesday to watch a movie. Suggestions?
Yeah, please don't pull an Otis.
 
Crazy update/story... making my own thread about it. Will post pics of the chick on the underground here in a few.

 
Slinger said:
Keys Myaths said:
So, last night...then we do it on her couch overlooking downtown.
Lucky *******. :rolleyes:
If this was a competition, Keys would definitely be winning. :coffee:
Hah.Well, I actually have to bow out of the "competition" now. Dating's probably not a good idea while I try to get my life on track. But hey, it was a good run.
:mellow: This is shtick, right? If not, what the hell are you talking about?
Not shtick. See thread on page 1.
Looks like the thread is gone. Good luck bud.
 
I stumbled upon this thread, and checked in expecting to see that it was a bunch of posts about how the online dating sites don't work...

I wonder what I'm doing wrong. (And, no, I'm not ugly. :lmao: )

 
I don't know... I usually say something to the effect of: "Hey, I saw your profile and wanted to know if you'd like to chat a bit."

I've tried lots of different approaches, though.

 
I don't know... I usually say something to the effect of: "Hey, I saw your profile and wanted to know if you'd like to chat a bit."I've tried lots of different approaches, though.
May want to get a little more creative here. There were some posts somewhere in this thread discussing how to open. Although my success rate has been horrible at yahoo, so wtf do I know? :lmao:I'm assuming my problem is one of these things...1. aiming too high (these are all chicks I'd approach in a B&M setting though)2. profile isn't good enough (opening with the poo joke may have been a mistake :coffee: )3. message is lame (keeping them short and hopefully clever, trying to pick up something from her profile, never complimenting her looks)4. not turning enough quantity (only trying to contact 5 or 6 new girls a week)Thoughts?
 
BTW--I have about a month and a half left on Match. I can give someone my username/password, and you can just change all the details if you'd like.

 
BTW--I have about a month and a half left on Match. I can give someone my username/password, and you can just change all the details if you'd like.
:thumbup: Hmmm... and then Woz owes me a month thanks to AMBO, so that'd give me until nearly Halloween...You sure you're out Keys?
 
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Posted my story... but going to add this here because it's good idating insight:

BTW, funny thing I forgot to mention, especially for the idating guys. Me and my date got to talking about how odd the online dating thing is. She told me some of the stories how all the guys lie and it's incredibly apparent when she meets them. She also mentioned that like 2 guys from online had already called her during our date and she let me listen to the messages. HILARIOUS. One dude wanted her to come meet him, another guy pretty much said the same. She then got like 5 more calls from online dudes the rest of the night and she'd let them go to voicemail and we'd listen to them. Like three of them were dude number 2 and his last message was something like "look, I thought we had a connection but maybe we don't. I can handle rejection, so at least call and let me know what's up. We probably weren't meant to be anyways." High comedy. Straight out of Swingers.

This did lead her to giving me some female insight on online dating. Here's what she said:

1. Given that she's pretty cute, she gets like 20 messages per every one a decent looking guy would get. This means she has to weed by appearance.

2. In her case, she contacted me because she liked the way I looked and hadn't sent her some cheesy initial message. So, she basically said that unless your message and profile would blow her away, she's not giving you the time of day.

3. She liked the fact I didn't message her constantly and called when it was convenient with the actual intention of getting together

 
Minor Update...just met a white house intern online (yes...I managed to avoid any crude jokes). Seems like a great gal and has her #### together. After tonite's conversation I expect a date shortly unless I Woz it up.

 
Slinger said:
Keys Myaths said:
So, last night...then we do it on her couch overlooking downtown.
Lucky *******. :shrug:
If this was a competition, Keys would definitely be winning. :X
Hah.Well, I actually have to bow out of the "competition" now. Dating's probably not a good idea while I try to get my life on track. But hey, it was a good run.
:mellow: This is shtick, right? If not, what the hell are you talking about?
Not shtick. See thread on page 1.
Looks like the thread is gone. Good luck bud.
Nothing here or at :e: :football:
 
Not iDating, but what the heck...

Last night one of my friends from work (and his wife) hosted a party for his 30th birthday. It was going to be a couples-intensive gathering, so I originally planned to bring a date. Then I realized that a coworker party seemed like too much of a girlfriend type activity for comfort, so I scratched that idea.

Party was looking very uneventful, just drinking and chatting with friends/coworkers. As expected there weren't really any single girls to speak of. Buddy's wife is a teacher, so I'm shuked as to what the problem is there though.

Finally I went outside and there were actually a couple girls who looked unattached. One was a cute, very fit blonde so I started talking to her. She was from St Cloud and went to UW, which made for some pretty easy ins for me. She and her friend beat me in beer pong (I blame my partner), we talk some more, and eventually they leave with a "hopefully we'll see you out again" or somesuch. For some reason I didn't ask for her number.

Shortly thereafter I asked my friend's wife about her... "oh, she's a lesbian". :lmao: She also said it was decided in advance that I was supposed to meet some other friend of hers that night. But that one got too drunk and went home early (possibly before I even arrived).

Luckily, around this time a new teacher had shown up. We'll call her "sexy librarian". I'm feeling pretty loose by now, so I just plop down next to her on the cooler and start chatting her up. I had almost forgotten how much I love parties. Chicks defenses are down, since if you're there you must know someone they know, therefore you must be ok. So much easier than bars. Anyway, this girl is clearly not an exception. It turns out she also just got divorced this month. We flirt, play some beer pong, casually come into physical contact way more than necessary, etc. At one point I made her get her glasses and put her hair up to show a little of the librarian look. Very nice. :boxing:

Unfortunately her very sober and likely very bored sister (it was past 3 by now) was going to make sure she got home safely, so there was no hope of any drunken shananigans. Party was wrapping up and we were all saying our goodbyes to the hosts. Before she can leave, I hustle her back outside. Not subtle at all, but what do I care? She gives me her number, and we do a little kissing before calling it a night.

Granted I was drunk, but I kinda dug this chick. Will definitely call sometime this week. First I should probably find out from my buddy if there was some reason she wasn't the predetermined target though.

 
Good work my friend! :blackdot:

Just got an email from Jill asking for a pic. She said "NOW IS THE HARD PART WHERE IS AN ATTACHED PICTURE BECAUSE IM NOT SURE WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE. IT HELPS TO PUT A FACE WITH A LETTER OTHERWISE IM LOST. LOL"

Yes, typed in all caps. Its quite obvious that she isn't the brightest crayon in the box because I have like 5 pics on my profile. I'm gonna keep working this one purely for schtick. Hopefully this 5-days-between-emails crap doesnt last long. The entertainment value will plummet.

 
Realized a couple things today...

1. I'm a ####### for not realizing that chick was a lesbian. She played college soccer and mentioned having a condo with her "friend". :unsure:

2. I had three different "first kisses" this week. None went beyond that, but still... kinda fun.

 
Quick Update:

OCAztec called me Friday evening. We talked for a bit. She's going to be down here for a wedding on Saturday (I have one as well) so we are going to meet up on Sunday.

41YearOld called me Saturday. Turns out she really wasn't talking about her bolt ons when she said she has twins. She's got twin 17 year old daughters. We are going to meet up soon. I'll call her Monday evening and set something up for Friday hopefully.

Other than those two, all is quiet. :) ColumbianChick seems to think Police Academy is more important than hooking up with me. TallRussian is getting ready to go to Russia for 3 weeks. Guess I gotta throw some more bait out there and get some more potentials on the line.

 
41YearOld called me Saturday. Turns out she really wasn't talking about her bolt ons when she said she has twins. She's got twin 17 year old daughters. We are going to meet up soon. I'll call her Monday evening and set something up for Friday hopefully.
String this one along for a year :)
 
My update:

Hot Cougar and I have moved to more of a "friends with benefits" approach. Fine by me for a while.

Re-added my profile Friday night. Had something lined up with one girl who contacted me right after re-joining. However, after a couple of phone calls, I realized something wasn't right. We never met....I am thinking pyscho.

I like to check out the Newly Added members section, if your services offer this, use it. Anyway, I read one that I liked and wrote her a short note. Turns out she had contacted me before in April but at the time had no pics. Long story short, she claims she was joining back "with picture" to write me. Total fluke that I wrote her within . I do not talk to anyone long term without seeing a pic (Waste of time). It gets more interesting.

So, we start to chat in the IM thing (Let's call her "Has Potential" . Turns out she works in the same department as my ex wife. Once I learned this I was temporarily :shuked:. What is the FFA move here? She asked me what I thought and without pause, I typed "who cares let's go for it" or something like that. A couple minutes later she suggests a meeting for Sunday. :cool:

We met yesterday at the best patio in town and shot the breeze. We were there just under 3 hours, conversation was great. She was very "cute" not hot. Definately GF material. Turns out we used to go to the same high school and worked at the same grocery store as teenagers. Lots in common for sure.

My only concern is she has 2 kids (that's not the problem). Her custody arrangement she only has free time every other weekend. I haven't encoutered this yet.....weird. Other than that, I am writing her today to set something up.

Couple of questions for the masses:

What was the FFA play on the Ex-wife working with her?

Experiences or thoughts on the availability issue?

Glad to be back!!!

 
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strykerpks said:
I haven't heard back from Jill yet. She apparently hasnt been online..who knows. I sent out a few more emails today so we'll see what kind of responses I get this week.Date with Amanda on Friday night actually went really well. She's actually cool to talk to we had a great time. Went to dinner and then to check out a band at a local festival where a bunch of mutual friends were. She called me Saturday night and wanted to meet for a drink. So she and a friend came to the bar where I was hanging out at. She's coming over to my house on Tuesday to watch a movie. Suggestions?
rent a boring movie
 
My update:Hot Cougar and I have moved to more of a "friends with benefits" approach. Fine by me for a while.Re-added my profile Friday night. Had something lined up with one girl who contacted me right after re-joining. However, after a couple of phone calls, I realized something wasn't right. We never met....I am thinking pyscho.I like to check out the Newly Added members section, if your services offer this, use it. Anyway, I read one that I liked and wrote her a short note. Turns out she had contacted me before in April but at the time had no pics. Long story short, she claims she was joining back "with picture" to write me. Total fluke that I wrote her within . I do not talk to anyone long term without seeing a pic (Waste of time). It gets more interesting.So, we start to chat in the IM thing (Let's call her "Has Potential" . Turns out she works in the same department as my ex wife. Once I learned this I was temporarily :shuked:. What is the FFA move here? She asked me what I thought and without pause, I typed "who cares let's go for it" or something like that. A couple minutes later she suggests a meeting for Sunday. :tumbleweed: We met yesterday at the best patio in town and shot the breeze. We were there just under 3 hours, conversation was great. She was very "cute" not hot. Definately GF material. Turns out we used to go to the same high school and worked at the same grocery store as teenagers. Lots in common for sure. My only concern is she has 2 kids (that's not the problem). Her custody arrangement she only has free time every other weekend. I haven't encoutered this yet.....weird. Other than that, I am writing her today to set something up.Couple of questions for the masses:What was the FFA play on the Ex-wife working with her?Experiences or thoughts on the availability issue?Glad to be back!!!
Not being able to see her so freqently should be a good thing since neither should get attahced quickly. Will also give you plenty of time in between :confused: . Ex-wife thing I would ignore. It will either push her away or make her more interested (kinky side). Chances are if she has any common acquaintences with the ex, things might get dicey. Unless there is a reason for it to be a big deal if they know each other, why bother dealing with it? I guess I dont see much downside unless the girl has a real future. In the end, if you see her once a week at most (she can find a sitter when she has kids) you should be good to go.
 
I got a reply from Katie today (the 24 year old moving from Madison to MKE). She was moving and is finally in town. I put a few pics of her up on the underground. IMing with her right now. Trying to line something up for Thursday or this weekend.

Just got a text from Amanda, "Can't wait to see you tomorrow"

I'm thinking I'm pass on Jill. She just changed her profile to say something to the effect of "If you aren't looking for a serious relationship, don't bother"

Its been so long, I really forgot how fun this is

 
My update:Hot Cougar and I have moved to more of a "friends with benefits" approach. Fine by me for a while.Re-added my profile Friday night. Had something lined up with one girl who contacted me right after re-joining. However, after a couple of phone calls, I realized something wasn't right. We never met....I am thinking pyscho.I like to check out the Newly Added members section, if your services offer this, use it. Anyway, I read one that I liked and wrote her a short note. Turns out she had contacted me before in April but at the time had no pics. Long story short, she claims she was joining back "with picture" to write me. Total fluke that I wrote her within . I do not talk to anyone long term without seeing a pic (Waste of time). It gets more interesting.So, we start to chat in the IM thing (Let's call her "Has Potential" . Turns out she works in the same department as my ex wife. Once I learned this I was temporarily :shuked:. What is the FFA move here? She asked me what I thought and without pause, I typed "who cares let's go for it" or something like that. A couple minutes later she suggests a meeting for Sunday. :popcorn: We met yesterday at the best patio in town and shot the breeze. We were there just under 3 hours, conversation was great. She was very "cute" not hot. Definately GF material. Turns out we used to go to the same high school and worked at the same grocery store as teenagers. Lots in common for sure. My only concern is she has 2 kids (that's not the problem). Her custody arrangement she only has free time every other weekend. I haven't encoutered this yet.....weird. Other than that, I am writing her today to set something up.Couple of questions for the masses:What was the FFA play on the Ex-wife working with her?Experiences or thoughts on the availability issue?Glad to be back!!!
Not being able to see her so freqently should be a good thing since neither should get attahced quickly. Will also give you plenty of time in between ;) . Ex-wife thing I would ignore. It will either push her away or make her more interested (kinky side). Chances are if she has any common acquaintences with the ex, things might get dicey. Unless there is a reason for it to be a big deal if they know each other, why bother dealing with it? I guess I dont see much downside unless the girl has a real future. In the end, if you see her once a week at most (she can find a sitter when she has kids) you should be good to go.
Problem is if her custody schedule lines up poorly with bankerguy's custody schedule, it's going to be even more difficult. Although if the kids are young enough, the "come by after the kids are in bed" routine is :kicksrock: .
 
Disco Stu said:
My update:Hot Cougar and I have moved to more of a "friends with benefits" approach. Fine by me for a while.Re-added my profile Friday night. Had something lined up with one girl who contacted me right after re-joining. However, after a couple of phone calls, I realized something wasn't right. We never met....I am thinking pyscho.I like to check out the Newly Added members section, if your services offer this, use it. Anyway, I read one that I liked and wrote her a short note. Turns out she had contacted me before in April but at the time had no pics. Long story short, she claims she was joining back "with picture" to write me. Total fluke that I wrote her within . I do not talk to anyone long term without seeing a pic (Waste of time). It gets more interesting.So, we start to chat in the IM thing (Let's call her "Has Potential" . Turns out she works in the same department as my ex wife. Once I learned this I was temporarily :shuked:. What is the FFA move here? She asked me what I thought and without pause, I typed "who cares let's go for it" or something like that. A couple minutes later she suggests a meeting for Sunday. :thumbup: We met yesterday at the best patio in town and shot the breeze. We were there just under 3 hours, conversation was great. She was very "cute" not hot. Definately GF material. Turns out we used to go to the same high school and worked at the same grocery store as teenagers. Lots in common for sure. My only concern is she has 2 kids (that's not the problem). Her custody arrangement she only has free time every other weekend. I haven't encoutered this yet.....weird. Other than that, I am writing her today to set something up.Couple of questions for the masses:What was the FFA play on the Ex-wife working with her?Experiences or thoughts on the availability issue?Glad to be back!!!
Not being able to see her so freqently should be a good thing since neither should get attahced quickly. Will also give you plenty of time in between ;) . Ex-wife thing I would ignore. It will either push her away or make her more interested (kinky side). Chances are if she has any common acquaintences with the ex, things might get dicey. Unless there is a reason for it to be a big deal if they know each other, why bother dealing with it? I guess I dont see much downside unless the girl has a real future. In the end, if you see her once a week at most (she can find a sitter when she has kids) you should be good to go.
Problem is if her custody schedule lines up poorly with bankerguy's custody schedule, it's going to be even more difficult. Although if the kids are young enough, the "come by after the kids are in bed" routine is :moneybag: .
She is a really nice girl, I wont get to see her until next weekend though. :rolleyes: So, I made a date with an Athletic type from out of town. Great personality, average looking. Going out just for the hell of it. Will report back if anything interesting happens.
 
strykerpks said:
BassNBrew said:
strykerpks said:
I'm thinking I'm pass on Jill. She just changed her profile to say something to the effect of "If you aren't looking for a serious relationship, don't bother"
Seriously, don't let that deter you. Odds are she has no clue what's she's looking for or wants.
Shes 30 and the communication has been less than stimulating. We'll see if she comes back with anything :rolleyes:
Personally, I wouldn't bother. The "if you aren't looking for a serious relationship, don't bother" comment doesn't bother me because she knows what she wants, it's the tone that needs help. Don't bother? She's got some sort of complex going on.Final update from me: Thought I'd be respectful and e-mail all of the girls I'd been talking to about my decision to stop dating for a while. Obviously, I didn't tell them why, but I figured that was the right thing to do.
 
Final update from me: Thought I'd be respectful and e-mail all of the girls I'd been talking to about my decision to stop dating for a while. Obviously, I didn't tell them why, but I figured that was the right thing to do.
Glllll GB! Thats a classy thing to do. :thumbup: Keep us posted on your progress. Lemme know if/when I can help a fellow Wisconsinite out!
 
What's going on here? Nobody dating this week?
I am just getting back into the swing of things. My update is lame but here it goes:"Hot Cougar" = Friend with benefits"Has Potential" - Been out twice with her very casually. We talk and email each other daily. I can see if things go well on out next few dates that I will be off the market again. Very cute and well spoken...she makes me happy in my pants. "Sporty out of town chick"- Came into town went for a light dinner and some cosmic bowling. Went back to my place after and was rounding second base only to find the stop sign. She has promised a wilder date the next time we get together.There are about 4 other I am chatting with including a very hot blond who just got separated. She actually still lives with him until their house closes. That's it for now....
 
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I signed up with eHarmony, not sure if I like the format. Can you search for women on this thing or only take the matches they give you? Also it seems like they spoon feed you matches rather then letting you browse a bunch of profiles :popcorn: I tried the find more matches option, the page "thinks" for like a minute and then came back with nothing. Then I get an email 5 minutes later saying "new match" and then the next morning I got like 5 new matches :lmao:

I found 1 potential match and I am hitting the later questionnaire stages (which it also goes a little too far with IMO), have like a round or two of questions and then open up communication via IM or Phone, none of this 6 rounds of questionnaires. I signed up for 6 months because it looked like a good value, hopefully I do not regret it.

I will post a pic of her if we advance to the "final round" :bye:

 
also I am at the stage where you ask 3 questions, what are some good ones? Mine were pretty lame.
1. What are some of your favorite songs, and why?2. What was your best moment of the past year?3. Why did you join e-harmony (preset question). ALWAYS ask this. Always. You find out more about a person than anything else through this question. You can tell if they're dishonest, desperate, or even crazy through this.
 

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