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***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (1 Viewer)

So last night's date went all right. Fun was had - not sure when I will see him again though. Meanwhile, another guy I've been talking to on PoF will be in the area this weekend so we're going to meet up. Yay - he's fun to talk to (we chat pretty much every day), he has a cool accent, and he is a cutie, even if he doesn't think so. Boo - he lives in Wisconsin - about 5 hours from me. We'll see how that goes.
What kind of accent? :wall:
fox river valley?fargo?yah shoor
 
So last night's date went all right. Fun was had - not sure when I will see him again though.

Meanwhile, another guy I've been talking to on PoF will be in the area this weekend so we're going to meet up. Yay - he's fun to talk to (we chat pretty much every day), he has a cool accent, and he is a cutie, even if he doesn't think so. Boo - he lives in Wisconsin - about 5 hours from me. We'll see how that goes.
What kind of accent? :excited:
fox river valley?fargo?

yah shoor
You apparently missed the bolded word. ;)
 
I've said that I was going to wait a couple of months to go back to the online dating world, but last week I started up again on Match. I've written a few emails with no response (well, one wrote back saying thanks but no thanks), but I got a wink from someone a few days ago, and after a few email exchanges it looks like we'll meet up next week. It will be my first date in, well, a long time.
:excited: Good to hear you're back on the horse.Good Luck.
 
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so I've e-mailed back and forth with Blonde2 a couple times now... I think she's interested... :thumbup:
go get her!!!
Yeah...have you suggested a meeting yet, larry?
not yet...
Larry - go read the suggestions at the beginning of the thread again. Extensive get ot know ya emailing before meeting is extremely bad. It will hurt your chances in the long run.
:goodposting: :goodposting: :goodposting: Burning through standard first date get to know you chit chat prior to an actual first date is no good. Not to mention the whole limited "window of opportunity" aspect. You've got to make your move now larry.
 
so I've e-mailed back and forth with Blonde2 a couple times now... I think she's interested... :goodposting:
go get her!!!
Yeah...have you suggested a meeting yet, larry?
not yet...
You need to--soon (if not now). Run the e-mail by us, though.
that's good advice kid!
PM me your e-mail, hburgers.
 
This MILF is pressuring me to hang out. Her profile says she isn't looking for something serious, but that she doesn't want a one night stand either.

This seems wrong. Thoughts?

 
This MILF is pressuring me to hang out. Her profile says she isn't looking for something serious, but that she doesn't want a one night stand either.

This seems wrong. Thoughts?
So did you meet that girl last night?ETA: A two night stand is defintiely between a one night stand and something serious...

I say go for it

 
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This MILF is pressuring me to hang out. Her profile says she isn't looking for something serious, but that she doesn't want a one night stand either.

This seems wrong. Thoughts?
So did you meet that girl last night?ETA: A two night stand is defintiely between a one night stand and something serious...

I say go for it
I met another girl last night. She wasn't very cute (her pictures made it very tough to see what she really looked like) but she had a nice body and was cool enough. Still I wasn't really interested. In a bizarre twist, it turns out we have mutual friends, which was a little awkward to learn.This chick, however, has several pics and is clearly cute. And she's aggressive -- started pushing me for drinks on her second e-mail.

 
This MILF is pressuring me to hang out. Her profile says she isn't looking for something serious, but that she doesn't want a one night stand either.

This seems wrong. Thoughts?
Wrong how? Haven't you ever dated a single mom before?As long as you don't involve the kid in any way there aren't any special rules regarding moms. And as mentioned earlier the fact they have less free time can work to your advantage. She'll want to make every free night "count".

 
This MILF is pressuring me to hang out. Her profile says she isn't looking for something serious, but that she doesn't want a one night stand either.

This seems wrong. Thoughts?
Wrong how? Haven't you ever dated a single mom before?As long as you don't involve the kid in any way there aren't any special rules regarding moms. And as mentioned earlier the fact they have less free time can work to your advantage. She'll want to make every free night "count".
:drive: I've never dated a mom before. I guess I assumed there were some special rules.

I guess I'm not so sure I'd be cool with marrying a woman who has children from another marriage. That sounds like a collosal headache. As if raising a family isn't hard enough. Not a knock on their situation, just the reality of my situation.

 
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This MILF is pressuring me to hang out. Her profile says she isn't looking for something serious, but that she doesn't want a one night stand either.

This seems wrong. Thoughts?
Wrong how? Haven't you ever dated a single mom before?As long as you don't involve the kid in any way there aren't any special rules regarding moms. And as mentioned earlier the fact they have less free time can work to your advantage. She'll want to make every free night "count".
:thumbup: I've never dated a mom before. I guess I assumed there were some special rules.

I guess I'm not so sure I'd be cool with marrying a woman who has children from another marriage. That sounds like a collosal headache. As if raising a family isn't hard enough. Not a knock on their situation, just the reality of my situation.
Dating >< MarryingEDIT: And if by some chance this is the one for you, you'll get over the kid thing. This is not the time to worry about it though.

 
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This MILF is pressuring me to hang out. Her profile says she isn't looking for something serious, but that she doesn't want a one night stand either.

This seems wrong. Thoughts?
Wrong how? Haven't you ever dated a single mom before?As long as you don't involve the kid in any way there aren't any special rules regarding moms. And as mentioned earlier the fact they have less free time can work to your advantage. She'll want to make every free night "count".
:lmao: I've never dated a mom before. I guess I assumed there were some special rules.

I guess I'm not so sure I'd be cool with marrying a woman who has children from another marriage. That sounds like a collosal headache. As if raising a family isn't hard enough. Not a knock on their situation, just the reality of my situation.
I don't know where you got from dating to marriage, but that gal is a hottie, mom or not. :thumbup:
 
I don't know where you got from dating to marriage, but that gal is a hottie, mom or not. :thumbup:
Dating >< MarryingEDIT: And if by some chance this is the one for you, you'll get over the kid thing. This is not the time to worry about it though.
Fair points, I guess I just sort of felt like if I had a problem with the kids thing, that it was somehow wrong to bother dating her in the first place. That said, if consensus here is that I should date her as I would date any other chick, that works for me. Fire up us teh drinks.
 
What kind of stuff is good for first dates??? :clap:
A drink or coffee. Those are your two options (preferably the first, but seeing as the type of woman you're after, the second might be more viable).
I still think a drink is >>>> coffee. There's an inherent awkwardness in a first date, particularly when it's someone who met over the internet and there is added stigma attached. I don't get very nervous talking to girls in person at a bar, but I do get nervous going to meet up with someone I met on the internet. It's just harder.The drink is key to getting you both relaxed and acting more yourself and opening up the lines of communication. Nobody is saying you have to get blitzed (although that has happened on many a first date for me -- usually the good ones), but a drink or two is so key.
 
Just got this message back from her :sigh:

Hi,

I might change my mind :confused: But to be honest I would prefer not to do anything on Monday. Monday is my first day back to work and I will be starting school again that day as well. Like I said maybe Friday night, but I'm pretty swamped this coming week being that I am coming back to town after being gone for 6 weeks. Random question, do you have a m-y-s-p-a-c-e? If I don't type it like that it just puts the word "spam" in there.

Talk to you later,

Emily

Oh come ####### on. She is saying enough to not shoot me down, but it's like pulling teeth with her. Yes, I understand she may be busy these times, but I'd think if she really was serious she'd say like "here's my number though, call me the following weekend." I honestly can't tell if she's playing me (can't see someone like her doing this online though) or if she really is that shy/hesitant and I need to bear with it.

Next reply here? I don't have myspace so that's out.

 
What kind of stuff is good for first dates??? :confused:
A drink or coffee. Those are your two options (preferably the first, but seeing as the type of woman you're after, the second might be more viable).
yeah, I think her profile says she drinks occassionally or something, but not enough I'd venture there for a first date...
occassionally = socially i'd still push the drink
but... but...that almost confirms that I don't want to push drinks...
 
What kind of stuff is good for first dates??? :goodposting:
A drink or coffee. Those are your two options (preferably the first, but seeing as the type of woman you're after, the second might be more viable).
yeah, I think her profile says she drinks occassionally or something, but not enough I'd venture there for a first date...
occassionally = socially i'd still push the drink
but... but...that almost confirms that I don't want to push drinks...
I may not say this often, but listen to woz.
 
I still think a drink is >>>> coffee. There's an inherent awkwardness in a first date, particularly when it's someone who met over the internet and there is added stigma attached. I don't get very nervous talking to girls in person at a bar, but I do get nervous going to meet up with someone I met on the internet. It's just harder.The drink is key to getting you both relaxed and acting more yourself and opening up the lines of communication. Nobody is saying you have to get blitzed (although that has happened on many a first date for me -- usually the good ones), but a drink or two is so key.
BumpLarry boy, unless you're super smooth with the ladies, do drinks. Trust us here.
 
Just got this message back from her :sigh:Hi, I might change my mind :goodposting: But to be honest I would prefer not to do anything on Monday. Monday is my first day back to work and I will be starting school again that day as well. Like I said maybe Friday night, but I'm pretty swamped this coming week being that I am coming back to town after being gone for 6 weeks. Random question, do you have a m-y-s-p-a-c-e? If I don't type it like that it just puts the word "spam" in there.Talk to you later,Emily Oh come ####### on. She is saying enough to not shoot me down, but it's like pulling teeth with her. Yes, I understand she may be busy these times, but I'd think if she really was serious she'd say like "here's my number though, call me the following weekend." I honestly can't tell if she's playing me (can't see someone like her doing this online though) or if she really is that shy/hesitant and I need to bear with it. Next reply here? I don't have myspace so that's out.
next reply = no reply
 
there is another problem with going out for drinks...

um... namely...

I don't have a clue where to go...

the only places I've ever drank at that are "out" is where we went last Friday (Cans and whatever the other place was called)

thankfully, though, I have a tunch of Wisconsin Footballguys in here that could probably help me out }=o)

 
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there is another problem with going out for drinks...um... namely...I don't have a clue where to go...the only places I've ever drank at that are "out" is where we went last Friday (Cans and whatever the other place was called)thankfully, though, I have a tunch of Wisconsin Footballguys in here that could probably help me out }=o)
Louise's in Brookfield would be good Larry.Or Bjonda in WuawatosaETA Bjonda is pronounced beyonda
 
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Just got this message back from her :sigh:Hi, I might change my mind :unsure: But to be honest I would prefer not to do anything on Monday. Monday is my first day back to work and I will be starting school again that day as well. Like I said maybe Friday night, but I'm pretty swamped this coming week being that I am coming back to town after being gone for 6 weeks. Random question, do you have a m-y-s-p-a-c-e? If I don't type it like that it just puts the word "spam" in there.Talk to you later,Emily Oh come ####### on. She is saying enough to not shoot me down, but it's like pulling teeth with her. Yes, I understand she may be busy these times, but I'd think if she really was serious she'd say like "here's my number though, call me the following weekend." I honestly can't tell if she's playing me (can't see someone like her doing this online though) or if she really is that shy/hesitant and I need to bear with it. Next reply here? I don't have myspace so that's out.
next reply = no reply
I might reply, but at this point you've got to just put the ball in her court. She'll probably never do anything with it, but you've got nothing to lose."Give me a call when once you're settled back in" or something similar.
 
Just got this message back from her :sigh:Hi, I might change my mind :unsure: But to be honest I would prefer not to do anything on Monday. Monday is my first day back to work and I will be starting school again that day as well. Like I said maybe Friday night, but I'm pretty swamped this coming week being that I am coming back to town after being gone for 6 weeks. Random question, do you have a m-y-s-p-a-c-e? If I don't type it like that it just puts the word "spam" in there.Talk to you later,Emily Oh come ####### on. She is saying enough to not shoot me down, but it's like pulling teeth with her. Yes, I understand she may be busy these times, but I'd think if she really was serious she'd say like "here's my number though, call me the following weekend." I honestly can't tell if she's playing me (can't see someone like her doing this online though) or if she really is that shy/hesitant and I need to bear with it. Next reply here? I don't have myspace so that's out.
the real question here is simply if she actually is busy or not...
 
Louise's in Brookfield would be good Larry.Or Bjonda in WuawatosaETA Bjonda is pronounced beyonda
:yes: was just looking at an email from last year where a friend suggested these two places. is your name Angela?? :unsure:
no.is she single?
yes. and 32.
is she cute?
yes. wait, are you coming on to me?
that depends...are you angela?
 
Louise's in Brookfield would be good Larry.Or Bjonda in WuawatosaETA Bjonda is pronounced beyonda
:unsure: was just looking at an email from last year where a friend suggested these two places. is your name Angela?? :unsure:
no.is she single?
yes. and 32.
is she cute?
yes. wait, are you coming on to me?
that depends...are you angela?
in the right situation i can be :yes:
 
Louise's in Brookfield would be good Larry.Or Bjonda in WuawatosaETA Bjonda is pronounced beyonda
:unsure: was just looking at an email from last year where a friend suggested these two places. is your name Angela?? :unsure:
no.is she single?
yes. and 32.
is she cute?
yes. wait, are you coming on to me?
that depends...are you angela?
in the right situation i can be :yes:
this isnt fun anymore.bring your friend angela to the FBG charity event at my house.
 
Louise's in Brookfield would be good Larry.Or Bjonda in WuawatosaETA Bjonda is pronounced beyonda
:unsure: was just looking at an email from last year where a friend suggested these two places. is your name Angela?? :unsure:
no.is she single?
yes. and 32.
is she cute?
yes. wait, are you coming on to me?
that depends...are you angela?
in the right situation i can be :yes:
this isnt fun anymore.bring your friend angela to the FBG charity event at my house.
:lmao: i might just do that
 
Louise's in Brookfield would be good Larry.Or Bjonda in WuawatosaETA Bjonda is pronounced beyonda
:unsure: was just looking at an email from last year where a friend suggested these two places. is your name Angela?? :unsure:
no.is she single?
yes. and 32.
is she cute?
yes. wait, are you coming on to me?
that depends...are you angela?
in the right situation i can be :yes:
this isnt fun anymore.bring your friend angela to the FBG charity event at my house.
:lmao: i might just do that
make sure you send me a pic so I can recognize her there of course.
 
Just got this message back from her :sigh:Hi, I might change my mind :) But to be honest I would prefer not to do anything on Monday. Monday is my first day back to work and I will be starting school again that day as well. Like I said maybe Friday night, but I'm pretty swamped this coming week being that I am coming back to town after being gone for 6 weeks. Random question, do you have a m-y-s-p-a-c-e? If I don't type it like that it just puts the word "spam" in there.Talk to you later,Emily Oh come ####### on. She is saying enough to not shoot me down, but it's like pulling teeth with her. Yes, I understand she may be busy these times, but I'd think if she really was serious she'd say like "here's my number though, call me the following weekend." I honestly can't tell if she's playing me (can't see someone like her doing this online though) or if she really is that shy/hesitant and I need to bear with it. Next reply here? I don't have myspace so that's out.
next reply = no reply
I might reply, but at this point you've got to just put the ball in her court. She'll probably never do anything with it, but you've got nothing to lose."Give me a call when once you're settled back in" or something similar.
this was my instinct as well. mother ####er. i really thought this one was cute too. Thinking I'll mention I have facebook to keep the convo going (ex took down all our pictures the other day and this way she can see i'm real and maybe that'll comfort her) and just tell her then to let me know when she is free. Maybe do the Office Space, "look, here's what i'm thinking and if you want to go through with it cool, if not, that's cool too" type deal
 
how's this look:

That's fine, I started school today too so I know what it's like time-wise getting back into it. Like I said, I should be out on Friday so if you want to shoot me a text, cool. Also, school won't pick up yet for a little so I'll be open the next few weeks too, so if you want to get together I'd like that and just let me know. If not, that's cool too.

Have a safe drive back tomorrow.

Mike

 

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