***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (5 Viewers)

[Bogart]

Considering these girls are putting their pictures onto public sites, I'm shuked as to why this new influx of idaters aren't showing us what we're assisting with here. <_<

Oh, has this been common practice in the past?

I don't think I've seen photos of other peoples dates??

I'm typically very generous with the pics, but they usually don't have clothes on

 

[zed2283]

Also ended up subscribing last night to match. Didn't want to, but I had two promising winks lately and received an e-mail last night. Of course, you can't see the sender without subscribing (such ) so I decided to go ahead an pay. It was from a 32-year old Brazilian woman who lives in the area. Some of her pics I like, and others I don't, so I guess we'll see.

If you need any help with Brazilian girls, that's pretty much my wheelhouse so fire away with any questions. Main thing is most are not sluts. They'll kiss you the first day they meet you but most won't sleep with you then (unless they're already Americanized or if they're whores). Sex is reserved for the second or third date so be patient.

In my message back to Brazil girl last night, I suggested that maybe she could teach me some Portuguese. I just got the following response from her:

I would love to teach you some Portuguese... something besides bad words! (lol) This way when you go to Brazil you will be able to have a better time.

When and where would you like to meet for our class?

Meeting up with Brazil woman at 7:30 for drinks. I've been looking at her pics and there are two distinct groups: 1.) professional modeling-type pics where she looks smoking hot, and 2.) regular snap shots where she looks 40-45 years old. She's supposedly 32, but I'm starting to suspect she's lying about her age. I've asked a few innocent questions that lead me to believe the hot pictures are at least 3 years old.Guess we'll find out in a couple hours.

 

[zed2283]

2nd date went well. Grabbed brunch, went on a hike, ate cupcakes back at her place. no but she texted me right after I left and said she wants to order in dinner soon as treat for paying for brunch...

Wow, nice!

 

[zed2283]

Also ended up subscribing last night to match. Didn't want to, but I had two promising winks lately and received an e-mail last night. Of course, you can't see the sender without subscribing (such ) so I decided to go ahead an pay. It was from a 32-year old Brazilian woman who lives in the area. Some of her pics I like, and others I don't, so I guess we'll see.

If you need any help with Brazilian girls, that's pretty much my wheelhouse so fire away with any questions. Main thing is most are not sluts. They'll kiss you the first day they meet you but most won't sleep with you then (unless they're already Americanized or if they're whores). Sex is reserved for the second or third date so be patient.

In my message back to Brazil girl last night, I suggested that maybe she could teach me some Portuguese. I just got the following response from her:

I would love to teach you some Portuguese... something besides bad words! (lol) This way when you go to Brazil you will be able to have a better time.

When and where would you like to meet for our class?

Meeting up with Brazil woman at 7:30 for drinks. I've been looking at her pics and there are two distinct groups: 1.) professional modeling-type pics where she looks smoking hot, and 2.) regular snap shots where she looks 40-45 years old. She's supposedly 32, but I'm starting to suspect she's lying about her age. I've asked a few innocent questions that lead me to believe the hot pictures are at least 3 years old.Guess we'll find out in a couple hours.

Well, I was wrong. She was pretty attractive, though not as hot as those professional pics. Everything went well, she acted like she wanted to get together again, so I guess we'll see.

 

[Major]

Also ended up subscribing last night to match. Didn't want to, but I had two promising winks lately and received an e-mail last night. Of course, you can't see the sender without subscribing (such ) so I decided to go ahead an pay. It was from a 32-year old Brazilian woman who lives in the area. Some of her pics I like, and others I don't, so I guess we'll see.

If you need any help with Brazilian girls, that's pretty much my wheelhouse so fire away with any questions. Main thing is most are not sluts. They'll kiss you the first day they meet you but most won't sleep with you then (unless they're already Americanized or if they're whores). Sex is reserved for the second or third date so be patient.

In my message back to Brazil girl last night, I suggested that maybe she could teach me some Portuguese. I just got the following response from her:

I would love to teach you some Portuguese... something besides bad words! (lol) This way when you go to Brazil you will be able to have a better time.

When and where would you like to meet for our class?

Meeting up with Brazil woman at 7:30 for drinks. I've been looking at her pics and there are two distinct groups: 1.) professional modeling-type pics where she looks smoking hot, and 2.) regular snap shots where she looks 40-45 years old. She's supposedly 32, but I'm starting to suspect she's lying about her age. I've asked a few innocent questions that lead me to believe the hot pictures are at least 3 years old.Guess we'll find out in a couple hours.

Well, I was wrong. She was pretty attractive, though not as hot as those professional pics. Everything went well, she acted like she wanted to get together again, so I guess we'll see.

In Brasil, if you meet a girl you like, you kiss her the first night. We generally have a 5 minute rule amongst my friends. If you meet a girl at a bar in Brasil and don't kiss in her 5 minutes of conversation she's going to think you're gay. Good to bring a digital watch out so you can set a timer. Trust me if in doubt and just do it. Brasilian girls will generally kiss 3-5 guys a night if they're looking to have fun (no sexy time) so kissing one dude they're interested in on a date isn't a big deal.Brasilian girls like romance and laughter. They rarely understand sarcasm. Just be nice, charming and fun. They'll reward you sexually. They're very passionate if they like you

 

[bweiser]

I have it setup on Match.com to text me whenever I get an email. I got 2 texts while on the date with girl #1...I think she might have seen. I wonder if she gets the same alerts and knows what that was?

i seriously doubt she expected you to disable your profile and propose already.

 

[identikit]

I have it setup on Match.com to text me whenever I get an email. I got 2 texts while on the date with girl #1...I think she might have seen. I wonder if she gets the same alerts and knows what that was?

How about putting the phone away on dates?

 

[Major]

I have it setup on Match.com to text me whenever I get an email. I got 2 texts while on the date with girl #1...I think she might have seen. I wonder if she gets the same alerts and knows what that was?

How about putting the phone away on dates?

We tossed our phones together in the trunk during our hike.

That Veronica Vaughn is a piece of ###. I know from experience, dude.

 

[identikit]

I have it setup on Match.com to text me whenever I get an email. I got 2 texts while on the date with girl #1...I think she might have seen. I wonder if she gets the same alerts and knows what that was?

How about putting the phone away on dates?

We tossed our phones together in the trunk during our hike.

Turn it off then?

 

[Major]

I have it setup on Match.com to text me whenever I get an email. I got 2 texts while on the date with girl #1...I think she might have seen. I wonder if she gets the same alerts and knows what that was?

How about putting the phone away on dates?

We tossed our phones together in the trunk during our hike.

Turn it off then?

How old are you, little guy? 16? maybe a college who doesn't get out much? I don't buy any of this dating stuff but enjoyed helping you out for the first week or so. I won't be offering you any of my valuable assistance until you prove otherwise. Good luck getting past the sniffing butt stage, Bucky!

 

[bweiser]

I have it setup on Match.com to text me whenever I get an email. I got 2 texts while on the date with girl #1...I think she might have seen. I wonder if she gets the same alerts and knows what that was?

i seriously doubt she expected you to disable your profile and propose already.

I figured. It's my first time idating, do I'm not sure of the protocol.

good luck. i have never idated but i think it's just kind of common sense. i don't agree you should turn your phone off, though. we have cell phones because of potential emergencies.

 

[Major]

I have it setup on Match.com to text me whenever I get an email. I got 2 texts while on the date with girl #1...I think she might have seen. I wonder if she gets the same alerts and knows what that was?

How about putting the phone away on dates?

We tossed our phones together in the trunk during our hike.

Turn it off then?

How old are you, little guy? 16? maybe a college who doesn't get out much? I don't buy any of this dating stuff but enjoyed helping you out for the first week or so. I won't be offering you any of my valuable assistance until you prove otherwise. Good luck getting past the sniffing butt stage, Bucky!

Prove what?

that you're actually making moves and not just sitting behind your desktop jerking it to WoW characters

 

[Major]

I have it setup on Match.com to text me whenever I get an email. I got 2 texts while on the date with girl #1...I think she might have seen. I wonder if she gets the same alerts and knows what that was?

How about putting the phone away on dates?

We tossed our phones together in the trunk during our hike.

Turn it off then?

How old are you, little guy? 16? maybe a college who doesn't get out much? I don't buy any of this dating stuff but enjoyed helping you out for the first week or so. I won't be offering you any of my valuable assistance until you prove otherwise. Good luck getting past the sniffing butt stage, Bucky!

Prove what?

that you're actually making moves and not just sitting behind your desktop jerking it to WoW characters

How can I prove this? Why should I care to prove this?

Make up more believable stories and stop asking so many friggin questions.

 

[identikit]

I have it setup on Match.com to text me whenever I get an email. I got 2 texts while on the date with girl #1...I think she might have seen. I wonder if she gets the same alerts and knows what that was?

How about putting the phone away on dates?

We tossed our phones together in the trunk during our hike.

Turn it off then?

How old are you, little guy? 16? maybe a college who doesn't get out much? I don't buy any of this dating stuff but enjoyed helping you out for the first week or so. I won't be offering you any of my valuable assistance until you prove otherwise. Good luck getting past the sniffing butt stage, Bucky!

Prove what?

that you're actually making moves and not just sitting behind your desktop jerking it to WoW characters

How can I prove this? Why should I care to prove this?

Make up more believable stories and stop asking so many friggin questions.

Friggin questions that a prepubescent knows the answers to.'Oh no! She saw something on my phone. What do I do?'

 

[Sarnoff]

Officially jumping back in as of today. 4 lines dropped in the water the last hour. Felt a bit rusty, but I should be back to form quickly. Going to try for 4-5 per day during lunch hours during the week. Now we play the waiting game. :tents fingers:

 

[zed2283]

In Brasil, if you meet a girl you like, you kiss her the first night. We generally have a 5 minute rule amongst my friends. If you meet a girl at a bar in Brasil and don't kiss in her 5 minutes of conversation she's going to think you're gay. Good to bring a digital watch out so you can set a timer. Trust me if in doubt and just do it. Brasilian girls will generally kiss 3-5 guys a night if they're looking to have fun (no sexy time) so kissing one dude they're interested in on a date isn't a big deal.Brasilian girls like romance and laughter. They rarely understand sarcasm. Just be nice, charming and fun. They'll reward you sexually. They're very passionate if they like you

Problem is she's been here 11 years. Got here when she was 21, so she has undoubtedly been influenced by the evils of American women. That said, she did give me a hug when we met, and then another very nice hug at the end of the date. Guess we'll see where it goes from here.

 

[Major]

My participation in this thread is no longer appreciated. I'll just observe from now on.

Thanks, sport! I'd rather help guys in the game instead of those playing a game (i.e. Black Ops)

 

[Guinis72]

My participation in this thread is no longer appreciated. I'll just observe from now on.

Don't let one guy bring you down, I'm enjoying your journey!

 

[Major]

In Brasil, if you meet a girl you like, you kiss her the first night. We generally have a 5 minute rule amongst my friends. If you meet a girl at a bar in Brasil and don't kiss in her 5 minutes of conversation she's going to think you're gay. Good to bring a digital watch out so you can set a timer. Trust me if in doubt and just do it. Brasilian girls will generally kiss 3-5 guys a night if they're looking to have fun (no sexy time) so kissing one dude they're interested in on a date isn't a big deal.

Brasilian girls like romance and laughter. They rarely understand sarcasm. Just be nice, charming and fun. They'll reward you sexually. They're very passionate if they like you

Problem is she's been here 11 years. Got here when she was 21, so she has undoubtedly been influenced by the evils of American women. That said, she did give me a hug when we met, and then another very nice hug at the end of the date. Guess we'll see where it goes from here.

All is not lost. That means she'll probably sleep with you sooner.

 

[Major]

My participation in this thread is no longer appreciated. I'll just observe from now on.

Don't let one guy bring you down, I'm enjoying your journey!

Of course you are Bucky.

 

[Guinis72]

My participation in this thread is no longer appreciated. I'll just observe from now on.

Don't let one guy bring you down, I'm enjoying your journey!

Of course you are Bucky.

Nah, I've been out of the game for 10 yrs and will be back in pretty soon. I know I'm going to be rusty as hell, so appreciate seeing Bucky's success from where he started.

 

[Dr. Awesome]

My participation in this thread is no longer appreciated. I'll just observe from now on.

Either keep posting or don't. Some people enjoy your stories. Some don't. Some don't give a damn what you do. I wish you the best of luck and you've made some massive strides since you first started. But don't play the 'omg nobody loves me so i'll take my ball and go home' shtick. That's some girlish passive aggressive type behavior.* *Apologies to beavers and other women of this board. I am in no way saying you necessarily fit that description.

 

[Zegras11]

So with girl #1 I think she's into me now. We wouldn't really text much before, but last night after our date we texted back and forth until about midnight. She mentioned a few things on her LA bucket list that she wanted to try, but had no idea which one. I said lets knock one out this week. She didn't know which one, so I said narrow it down to 3 and I'll pick! (hopefully ones a restaurant and activity so I can maybe do 2 of them)

ok, if you're going to post, please use "Coke whore" or something like that more descriptive than #1, #2, etc... Makes it easier to keep track. TIA.p.s. You can never ask anyone ever to post pics again in any thread.p.s.s. welcome back.

 

[Disco Stu]

In general, just try to avoid "if you've got nothing better to do", "if you want to", "if you would like to", etc. Just rephrase them directly... "I'm sure you'll be bored. Shoot me a text at #."

I'll note that for next time.

That is good advice that i never thought of ... it makes it more confident.

Sarnoff, best advice of the thread Got a # last night by using the "let me buy you dinner" instead of something cheesy like "if you're free, wanna go out sometime?"

Something so simple yet such good advice!

Basic Game/alpha theory.

 

[UniAlias]

My participation in this thread is no longer appreciated. I'll just observe from now on.

That martyr hat you're wearing doesn't flatter you

Nah...I'll just pass over any Major posts.

You seem to be a pretty sensitive and defensive dude in general. This thread needs more pics and detailed stories about crazy #####es.

 

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Lunch was great. If it's your thing, you really can't go wrong with sushi as a date meal. Easy discussion on what you like and don't like. Typically you are sharing what you order. Good times.

We make it back to her place, all alone, and things get interesting. And then nothing. She clams up.

Agreed re: sushi as a perfect date meal. You (possibly?) messed up by not ordering some Sake... woulda helped ya out later on with the clamming up. Either way sounds like the groundwork is laid for you guys to progress. PROTIP: Hot sake is garbage. Some women prefer it because of the flavorings they add, but if you want to up your game, get a bottle of a quality cold unfiltered sake like Snow Beauty. It's a bit more, but the flavors are better (IMO) and it shows you're a little more cultured than the average chump pounding out 3 dollar bottles of hot piss.

 

[Major]

My participation in this thread is no longer appreciated. I'll just observe from now on.

That martyr hat you're wearing doesn't flatter you

Nah...I'll just pass over any Major posts.

Please do. You're nothing but a troll. Piss off.

 

[Major]

So what do you guys do if the girl in question "smells"? Major's tried and true method for eliminating feminine odor is insert finger(s), get a nice gob of nectar and then start caressing their body slowly moving said hand to their face and playing with their lips and nose. It's actually quite entertaining to see them squirm. Come on b, you gotta know your #### stinks.

 

[coyote5]

So what do you guys do if the girl in question "smells"? Major's tried and true method for eliminating feminine odor is insert finger(s), get a nice gob of nectar and then start caressing their body slowly moving said hand to their face and playing with their lips and nose. It's actually quite entertaining to see them squirm. Come on b, you gotta know your #### stinks.

I'm gonna bank this one for future use

 

[Guster]

So what do you guys do if the girl in question "smells"? Major's tried and true method for eliminating feminine odor is insert finger(s), get a nice gob of nectar and then start caressing their body slowly moving said hand to their face and playing with their lips and nose. It's actually quite entertaining to see them squirm. Come on b, you gotta know your #### stinks.

OMFG

 

[No. 16]

So what do you guys do if the girl in question "smells"? Major's tried and true method for eliminating feminine odor is insert finger(s), get a nice gob of nectar and then start caressing their body slowly moving said hand to their face and playing with their lips and nose. It's actually quite entertaining to see them squirm. Come on b, you gotta know your #### stinks.

Brilliant.

 

[identikit]

So what do you guys do if the girl in question "smells"? Major's tried and true method for eliminating feminine odor is insert finger(s), get a nice gob of nectar and then start caressing their body slowly moving said hand to their face and playing with their lips and nose. It's actually quite entertaining to see them squirm. Come on b, you gotta know your #### stinks.

Brilliant.

YMMV on this one, 16.What with the PT making deposits and all.

 

[Major]

Just had a cute latin spinner email me back. She sounds fun.

Sure ya did

 

[Worm]

Major> you're the one bringing the thread down now.

YWIA.

 

[skillz]

I know Major ##### is going to accuse me of lying, but I just had "deaf girl" (she teaches sign, not actually deaf) text me just now. This #### is fun!

Once you get confidence and a routine that works it really gets to be a lot of fun. Trouble then becomes keeping the names and other details pertaining to the women you are talking to straight.

 

[Major]

Major> you're the one bringing the thread down now. YWIA.

Actually, I'm one of the few FBGs giving you lads quality advice but I'm not going hold Bucky's d while he pisses. Don't bite the hand that feeds, Worm.

 

[coyote5]

Major> you're the one bringing the thread down now. YWIA.

Actually, I'm one of the few FBGs giving you lads quality advice but I'm not going hold Bucky's d while he pisses. Don't bite the hand that feeds, Worm.

Think you can provide the quality advice without dooshing it up over Bucky?

 

[Major]

Major> you're the one bringing the thread down now. YWIA.

Actually, I'm one of the few FBGs giving you lads quality advice but I'm not going hold Bucky's d while he pisses. Don't bite the hand that feeds, Worm.

Think you can provide the quality advice without dooshing it up over Bucky?

unless he keeps acting like a school girl, no. I have little patience and generally not bullish on low yielding commodities .

 

[Bogart]

Lunch was great. If it's your thing, you really can't go wrong with sushi as a date meal. Easy discussion on what you like and don't like. Typically you are sharing what you order. Good times.

We make it back to her place, all alone, and things get interesting. And then nothing. She clams up.

Agreed re: sushi as a perfect date meal. You (possibly?) messed up by not ordering some Sake... woulda helped ya out later on with the clamming up. Either way sounds like the groundwork is laid for you guys to progress. PROTIP: Hot sake is garbage. Some women prefer it because of the flavorings they add, but if you want to up your game, get a bottle of a quality cold unfiltered sake like Snow Beauty. It's a bit more, but the flavors are better (IMO) and it shows you're a little more cultured than the average chump pounding out 3 dollar bottles of hot piss.

This is a good call. I knew she drank from our first date, so I should have ordered. Of course, we had an hour drive back to her place, maybe too long of a drive and she would have sobered up.Either way, the is happening next time. She has point blank said she shouldn't have clamed up and will make up for it next time.

 

[Major]

Lunch was great. If it's your thing, you really can't go wrong with sushi as a date meal. Easy discussion on what you like and don't like. Typically you are sharing what you order. Good times.

We make it back to her place, all alone, and things get interesting. And then nothing. She clams up.

Agreed re: sushi as a perfect date meal. You (possibly?) messed up by not ordering some Sake... woulda helped ya out later on with the clamming up. Either way sounds like the groundwork is laid for you guys to progress. PROTIP: Hot sake is garbage. Some women prefer it because of the flavorings they add, but if you want to up your game, get a bottle of a quality cold unfiltered sake like Snow Beauty. It's a bit more, but the flavors are better (IMO) and it shows you're a little more cultured than the average chump pounding out 3 dollar bottles of hot piss.

This is a good call. I knew she drank from our first date, so I should have ordered. Of course, we had an hour drive back to her place, maybe too long of a drive and she would have sobered up.

Either way, the is happening next time. She has point blank said she shouldn't have clamed up and will make up for it next time.

cosign on hot sake being rubbish ....only way to go is a quality bottle of something chilled (300ml) won't break the bank.

 

[Buck Bradcanon]

Lunch was great. If it's your thing, you really can't go wrong with sushi as a date meal. Easy discussion on what you like and don't like. Typically you are sharing what you order. Good times.

We make it back to her place, all alone, and things get interesting. And then nothing. She clams up.

Agreed re: sushi as a perfect date meal. You (possibly?) messed up by not ordering some Sake... woulda helped ya out later on with the clamming up. Either way sounds like the groundwork is laid for you guys to progress. PROTIP: Hot sake is garbage. Some women prefer it because of the flavorings they add, but if you want to up your game, get a bottle of a quality cold unfiltered sake like Snow Beauty. It's a bit more, but the flavors are better (IMO) and it shows you're a little more cultured than the average chump pounding out 3 dollar bottles of hot piss.

This is a good call. I knew she drank from our first date, so I should have ordered. Of course, we had an hour drive back to her place, maybe too long of a drive and she would have sobered up.Either way, the is happening next time. She has point blank said she shouldn't have clamed up and will make up for it next time.

Plus you prolly made it home in time for the quality outing by Yu. Thank you for your courage.

 

[Sarnoff]

Officially jumping back in as of today. 4 lines dropped in the water the last hour. Felt a bit rusty, but I should be back to form quickly. Going to try for 4-5 per day during lunch hours during the week. Now we play the waiting game. :tents fingers:

5 more out today. So far only 2 profile views and one response from a girl who was on my to-do list before my last relationship started, but I hadn't messaged her yet. Her response was "Thanks, but I moved out of town. Just hadn't changed my location yet." Oh well. 5 more tomorrow.

 

[UniAlias]

I'll name this girl "Rookie" Is was both our first dates through match.com3rd date is setup for Wednesday. Drinks and dinner at Nobu's place. It's a very short drive to her place from there, so maybe a little after party?

Nobu seems pretty fancy for a third date. Geez, how much is that going to cost? Has this girl put out yet? I would lean more towards simple bars over fancy dinners for the first few dates.

 

[UniAlias]

I'll name this girl "Rookie" Is was both our first dates through match.com3rd date is setup for Wednesday. Drinks and dinner at Nobu's place. It's a very short drive to her place from there, so maybe a little after party?

Nobu seems pretty fancy for a third date. Geez, how much is that going to cost? Has this girl put out yet? I would lean more towards simple bars over fancy dinners for the first few dates.

This is how Bucky rolls.

If you can afford it go for it. I bet that'll be a great time! The thought of dropping $150+ for dinner on a girl I barely know seems crazy to me, but we're probably in different tax brackets.

 

[Sarnoff]

Officially jumping back in as of today. 4 lines dropped in the water the last hour. Felt a bit rusty, but I should be back to form quickly. Going to try for 4-5 per day during lunch hours during the week. Now we play the waiting game. :tents fingers:

5 more out today. So far only 2 profile views and one response from a girl who was on my to-do list before my last relationship started, but I hadn't messaged her yet. Her response was "Thanks, but I moved out of town. Just hadn't changed my location yet." Oh well. 5 more tomorrow.

Keep pushing. It took me a couple days until I got the hang of it and now I have a few fish on the line. It's getting to the point where I have enough that if one falls off I just toss another lure back in knowing ill get another soon enough.

 

[Major]

I'll name this girl "Rookie" Is was both our first dates through match.com3rd date is setup for Wednesday. Drinks and dinner at Nobu's place. It's a very short drive to her place from there, so maybe a little after party?

Nobu seems pretty fancy for a third date. Geez, how much is that going to cost? Has this girl put out yet? I would lean more towards simple bars over fancy dinners for the first few dates.

i'd take a girl to Nobu on a 3rd date. Bucky is getting some points and slowly creeping out of Major's dog house. Well played little buddy! hell, in NYC I've been paying on average about $250-300 for every dinner I take a girl to. That's why I generally take girls to dinner only after I sleep with them so I know whether they can ride

 

[Sarnoff]

I'll name this girl "Rookie" Is was both our first dates through match.com3rd date is setup for Wednesday. Drinks and dinner at Nobu's place. It's a very short drive to her place from there, so maybe a little after party?

Nobu seems pretty fancy for a third date. Geez, how much is that going to cost? Has this girl put out yet? I would lean more towards simple bars over fancy dinners for the first few dates.

i'd take a girl to Nobu on a 3rd date. Bucky is getting some points and slowly creeping out of Major's dog house. Well played little buddy! hell, in NYC I've been paying on average about $250-300 for every dinner I take a girl to. That's why I generally take girls to dinner only after I sleep with them so I know whether they can ride

So far I'm in for about $130 with this girl, if you include filling up a tank of gas. It'll probably be at least another $200 for our Wednesday date. It's close enough to her place that I'm hoping I'll be invited back.

Wow. My first relationship from online dating was $0 until . We went hiking with a group, one of her friends bought us breakfast, I invited her back to my place to relax in the jacuzzi. My most recent long relationship may have been $50 tops... 2 beers the first night, a beer and a plate of fries at bar trivia the next night, then the free museum, then . My first two dates are always cheap. Meet at a dive bar after work, then either bar trivia, mini golf, or the flea market. I couldn't imagine going three-digits on several women at once.

 

[Sarnoff]

I'll name this girl "Rookie" Is was both our first dates through match.com3rd date is setup for Wednesday. Drinks and dinner at Nobu's place. It's a very short drive to her place from there, so maybe a little after party?

Nobu seems pretty fancy for a third date. Geez, how much is that going to cost? Has this girl put out yet? I would lean more towards simple bars over fancy dinners for the first few dates.

i'd take a girl to Nobu on a 3rd date. Bucky is getting some points and slowly creeping out of Major's dog house. Well played little buddy! hell, in NYC I've been paying on average about $250-300 for every dinner I take a girl to. That's why I generally take girls to dinner only after I sleep with them so I know whether they can ride

So far I'm in for about $130 with this girl, if you include filling up a tank of gas. It'll probably be at least another $200 for our Wednesday date. It's close enough to her place that I'm hoping I'll be invited back.

Wow. My first relationship from online dating was $0 until . We went hiking with a group, one of her friends bought us breakfast, I invited her back to my place to relax in the jacuzzi. My most recent long relationship may have been $50 tops... 2 beers the first night, a beer and a plate of fries at bar trivia the next night, then the free museum, then . My first two dates are always cheap. Meet at a dive bar after work, then either bar trivia, mini golf, or the flea market. I couldn't imagine going three-digits on several women at once.

LA is expensive. 4 drinks and a coke were about $45-$50 the first date. Brunch was $40....we did also buy a really tasty gigantic red velvet cupcake for later.

I'm in LA too, bud. Pay attention Dive bars, Griffith Park hikes, jacuzzi at my complex, etc. Barney's Beanery might be the fanciest place in my rotation.

 

[Guster]

Considering these girls are putting their pictures onto public sites, I'm shuked as to why this new influx of idaters aren't showing us what we're assisting with here. <_<

Oh, has this been common practice in the past?

I don't think I've seen photos of other peoples dates??

I'm typically very generous with the pics, but they usually don't have clothes on

oh yeah, and vids

 

[Sarnoff]

I'm in LA too, bud. Pay attention Dive bars, Griffith Park hikes, jacuzzi at my complex, etc. Barney's Beanery might be the fanciest place in my rotation.

I must have missed where you mentioned LA???

Maybe in one of those first-message notes I wrote for you that mentioned the "I Shot Rock & Roll" exhibit at the Annenberg Space, or the Runyon Canyon hiking trails, or the Getty Center, etc.