offdee
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So many variable factors here...Not sure this belongs here, but we did start off after meeting online.
Dated a girl a couple of years ago, and we have kept in touch since as "friends". We text regularly and have gotten together a few times since, again as "friends".
A few weeks ago we both had a free weekend, so I mentioned getting a hotel room, and was shot down. This weekend we both have free again so we are working on getting together. My last reply was, "I am up for anything as long as it ends with sex." Her reply was "typical guy response."
Was that wrong? I'm 45 she is 46. I wouldn't mind "dating" her again, but I am also tired of playing games.![]()
- when you "dated" was there sex involved at that time?
- why and how did it switch from "dating" to "friends"?
Bottom line is, once a girl views you as a "friend" then it more or less means she's lost physical attraction to you and very hard to get out of that. That's why hearing the word "friend" from a girl you want to bang needs to be squashed and dealt with immediately and swiftly. An attractive girl saying the word "friend" to you is more or less saying, I like talking to you but not banging you. In other words, it's basically the worst thing she could ever say to you.
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There are girls on places like OKcupid, etc. etc. where women are searching for couples. Good luck!