***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (5 Viewers)

[-fish-]

Suggestions on this:

match. cute woman, single mom. seems like she could be someone I could potentially see myself dating.

got her number, a few texts back and forth, set up a date. all seems well.

day of the date, she tells me school called; her daughter's sick, she'll keep me posted. (everyone around here is getting sick, and the same thing happened with my daughter two days earlier). she ends up asking for raincheck, and asks when we could reschedule it to, which turns out to be this coming weekend (about 10 days out). she suggests that we talk on the phone over the weekend in between. I call--VM. she texts the next day saying she was busy taking care of sick kids, sorry she missed me, looks forward to going out.

one more round of texts the next day, another "really look forward to meeting you" text, from her and she asks again to talk on the phone soon.

yesterday text once, no reply.

Call last night--VM.

We had talked about going out this Saturday night, but we didn't confirm plans because we were supposed to talk on the phone and work out details. If I can't make this Saturday work, it would be two weeks more before I'd be able to schedule something, and by then this whole thing is dead.

At this point, this is too much effort for a first date, but there is something about her I like. Any suggestions on trying to get confirmation here without looking like I'm pushing too hard?

 

[OC Zed]

Suggestions on this:

match. cute woman, single mom. seems like she could be someone I could potentially see myself dating.

got her number, a few texts back and forth, set up a date. all seems well.

day of the date, she tells me school called; her daughter's sick, she'll keep me posted. (everyone around here is getting sick, and the same thing happened with my daughter two days earlier). she ends up asking for raincheck, and asks when we could reschedule it to, which turns out to be this coming weekend (about 10 days out). she suggests that we talk on the phone over the weekend in between. I call--VM. she texts the next day saying she was busy taking care of sick kids, sorry she missed me, looks forward to going out.

one more round of texts the next day, another "really look forward to meeting you" text, from her and she asks again to talk on the phone soon.

yesterday text once, no reply.

Call last night--VM.

We had talked about going out this Saturday night, but we didn't confirm plans because we were supposed to talk on the phone and work out details. If I can't make this Saturday work, it would be two weeks more before I'd be able to schedule something, and by then this whole thing is dead.

At this point, this is too much effort for a first date, but there is something about her I like. Any suggestions on trying to get confirmation here without looking like I'm pushing too hard?

Why not just text her to see if she's still up for going out on Saturday? Maybe give one line about it's been hard trying to connect this week via the phone and leave it at that. If she's interested, she'll make time. If she's not, then she won't and you can move on.

If she does confirm for "yes" this Saturday, make sure you have one or two places in mind right away to show that you are organized and have put some thought into the date.

 

[pats3in4]

Suggestions on this:

match. cute woman, single mom. seems like she could be someone I could potentially see myself dating.

got her number, a few texts back and forth, set up a date. all seems well.

day of the date, she tells me school called; her daughter's sick, she'll keep me posted. (everyone around here is getting sick, and the same thing happened with my daughter two days earlier). she ends up asking for raincheck, and asks when we could reschedule it to, which turns out to be this coming weekend (about 10 days out). she suggests that we talk on the phone over the weekend in between. I call--VM. she texts the next day saying she was busy taking care of sick kids, sorry she missed me, looks forward to going out.

one more round of texts the next day, another "really look forward to meeting you" text, from her and she asks again to talk on the phone soon.

yesterday text once, no reply.

Call last night--VM.

We had talked about going out this Saturday night, but we didn't confirm plans because we were supposed to talk on the phone and work out details. If I can't make this Saturday work, it would be two weeks more before I'd be able to schedule something, and by then this whole thing is dead.

At this point, this is too much effort for a first date, but there is something about her I like. Any suggestions on trying to get confirmation here without looking like I'm pushing too hard?

Let it chill.

This. You left texts and voicemails. She knows how to contact you. She will if she wants.

I had a similar thing happen back in January. After a great coffee date and lots of email correspondence, her last email to me was "Yes, let's get together," so when I tried contacting her to actually get together, she didn't respond. I let about a week go by and dropped her one final, "Hey, haven't heard from you in a while. Hope you're doing well."...just to leave the door open if she wants to walk through it. She never did and I never followed up thereafter. No big loss. Been on a handful of other dates since.

 

[offdee]

Suggestions on this:

match. cute woman, single mom. seems like she could be someone I could potentially see myself dating.

got her number, a few texts back and forth, set up a date. all seems well.

day of the date, she tells me school called; her daughter's sick, she'll keep me posted. (everyone around here is getting sick, and the same thing happened with my daughter two days earlier). she ends up asking for raincheck, and asks when we could reschedule it to, which turns out to be this coming weekend (about 10 days out). she suggests that we talk on the phone over the weekend in between. I call--VM. she texts the next day saying she was busy taking care of sick kids, sorry she missed me, looks forward to going out.

one more round of texts the next day, another "really look forward to meeting you" text, from her and she asks again to talk on the phone soon.

yesterday text once, no reply.

Call last night--VM.

We had talked about going out this Saturday night, but we didn't confirm plans because we were supposed to talk on the phone and work out details. If I can't make this Saturday work, it would be two weeks more before I'd be able to schedule something, and by then this whole thing is dead.

At this point, this is too much effort for a first date, but there is something about her I like. Any suggestions on trying to get confirmation here without looking like I'm pushing too hard?

Let it chill.

This. You left texts and voicemails. She knows how to contact you. She will if she wants.

I had a similar thing happen back in January. After a great coffee date and lots of email correspondence, her last email to me was "Yes, let's get together," so when I tried contacting her to actually get together, she didn't respond. I let about a week go by and dropped her one final, "Hey, haven't heard from you in a while. Hope you're doing well."...just to leave the door open if she wants to walk through it. She never did and I never followed up thereafter. No big loss. Been on a handful of other dates since.

Yep, most likely just means she got interested in someone else in the meantime and all of her excuses/silence were delay tactics to keep you on the hook but see how the other guy progressed. Unfortunately that's the reality of online dating...you need to strike fast and direct.

Be silent from now until Friday afternoon. Around mid-afternoon on Friday shoot her this text...

Crazy busy week for me. Know it's been tough for us to connect recently. I'm definitely going to be enjoying a drink or two at (x bar- be specific) Saturday night to unwind from the week. Join me.

And then just let it be. If she doesn't reply than she's onto something else...no big deal, there's something better out there for you. You do not message her anymore after sending the above. If she replies than you're still in the game.

The simple message above accomplishes a number of attraction building things...

- Silence over the next few days = you're a busy man with lots going on in your life.

- You enjoying a night out whether its with her or not = independence

- You TELLING her things and not ASKING her anything = confidence & leadership

And one last thing...if she writes you between now and Friday than you do not reply. Add a little mystery and intrigue of your own into this mix. Women are interested in the chase and you may just be coming off as too accessible right now.

 

[sbonomo]

Suggestions on this:

match. cute woman, single mom. seems like she could be someone I could potentially see myself dating.

got her number, a few texts back and forth, set up a date. all seems well.

day of the date, she tells me school called; her daughter's sick, she'll keep me posted. (everyone around here is getting sick, and the same thing happened with my daughter two days earlier). she ends up asking for raincheck, and asks when we could reschedule it to, which turns out to be this coming weekend (about 10 days out). she suggests that we talk on the phone over the weekend in between. I call--VM. she texts the next day saying she was busy taking care of sick kids, sorry she missed me, looks forward to going out.

one more round of texts the next day, another "really look forward to meeting you" text, from her and she asks again to talk on the phone soon.

yesterday text once, no reply.

Call last night--VM.

We had talked about going out this Saturday night, but we didn't confirm plans because we were supposed to talk on the phone and work out details. If I can't make this Saturday work, it would be two weeks more before I'd be able to schedule something, and by then this whole thing is dead.

At this point, this is too much effort for a first date, but there is something about her I like. Any suggestions on trying to get confirmation here without looking like I'm pushing too hard?

Grow a spine sally.....I would have been done after the first call. Who leaves multiple VM without a call back...you are looking much too desperate here. I would just send a text letting her know that you understand that she is busy and that you will leave the ball in her court if she wants to get together. Sounds like a odd situation to get into anyway. Move on...

 

[sbonomo]

Suggestions on this:

match. cute woman, single mom. seems like she could be someone I could potentially see myself dating.

got her number, a few texts back and forth, set up a date. all seems well.

day of the date, she tells me school called; her daughter's sick, she'll keep me posted. (everyone around here is getting sick, and the same thing happened with my daughter two days earlier). she ends up asking for raincheck, and asks when we could reschedule it to, which turns out to be this coming weekend (about 10 days out). she suggests that we talk on the phone over the weekend in between. I call--VM. she texts the next day saying she was busy taking care of sick kids, sorry she missed me, looks forward to going out.

one more round of texts the next day, another "really look forward to meeting you" text, from her and she asks again to talk on the phone soon.

yesterday text once, no reply.

Call last night--VM.

We had talked about going out this Saturday night, but we didn't confirm plans because we were supposed to talk on the phone and work out details. If I can't make this Saturday work, it would be two weeks more before I'd be able to schedule something, and by then this whole thing is dead.

At this point, this is too much effort for a first date, but there is something about her I like. Any suggestions on trying to get confirmation here without looking like I'm pushing too hard?

Why not just text her to see if she's still up for going out on Saturday? Maybe give one line about it's been hard trying to connect this week via the phone and leave it at that. If she's interested, she'll make time. If she's not, then she won't and you can move on.

If she does confirm for "yes" this Saturday, make sure you have one or two places in mind right away to show that you are organized and have put some thought into the date.

The guy has called her back with no response....he is a doormat going forward right? You all are way too nice...

 

[-fish-]

Suggestions on this:

match. cute woman, single mom. seems like she could be someone I could potentially see myself dating.

got her number, a few texts back and forth, set up a date. all seems well.

day of the date, she tells me school called; her daughter's sick, she'll keep me posted. (everyone around here is getting sick, and the same thing happened with my daughter two days earlier). she ends up asking for raincheck, and asks when we could reschedule it to, which turns out to be this coming weekend (about 10 days out). she suggests that we talk on the phone over the weekend in between. I call--VM. she texts the next day saying she was busy taking care of sick kids, sorry she missed me, looks forward to going out.

one more round of texts the next day, another "really look forward to meeting you" text, from her and she asks again to talk on the phone soon.

yesterday text once, no reply.

Call last night--VM.

We had talked about going out this Saturday night, but we didn't confirm plans because we were supposed to talk on the phone and work out details. If I can't make this Saturday work, it would be two weeks more before I'd be able to schedule something, and by then this whole thing is dead.

At this point, this is too much effort for a first date, but there is something about her I like. Any suggestions on trying to get confirmation here without looking like I'm pushing too hard?

Grow a spine sally.....I would have been done after the first call. Who leaves multiple VM without a call back...you are looking much too desperate here. I would just send a text letting her know that you understand that she is busy and that you will leave the ball in her court if she wants to get together. Sounds like a odd situation to get into anyway. Move on...

It's not a big deal...just never encountered this before. I left two voice mails because both times she specifically asked me to give her a call. The response to the VM was a text both times.

I've dated enough to know the fade out and to just move on...but she keeps coming back with these texts saying she's excited to meet. if she wasn't interested, I'd expect more consistency in the non-replies.

I just think it's a weird deal. I'm just going with silence. I think Offdee's approach is the one to go with.

 

[-fish-]

Suggestions on this:

match. cute woman, single mom. seems like she could be someone I could potentially see myself dating.

got her number, a few texts back and forth, set up a date. all seems well.

day of the date, she tells me school called; her daughter's sick, she'll keep me posted. (everyone around here is getting sick, and the same thing happened with my daughter two days earlier). she ends up asking for raincheck, and asks when we could reschedule it to, which turns out to be this coming weekend (about 10 days out). she suggests that we talk on the phone over the weekend in between. I call--VM. she texts the next day saying she was busy taking care of sick kids, sorry she missed me, looks forward to going out.

one more round of texts the next day, another "really look forward to meeting you" text, from her and she asks again to talk on the phone soon.

yesterday text once, no reply.

Call last night--VM.

We had talked about going out this Saturday night, but we didn't confirm plans because we were supposed to talk on the phone and work out details. If I can't make this Saturday work, it would be two weeks more before I'd be able to schedule something, and by then this whole thing is dead.

At this point, this is too much effort for a first date, but there is something about her I like. Any suggestions on trying to get confirmation here without looking like I'm pushing too hard?

Why not just text her to see if she's still up for going out on Saturday? Maybe give one line about it's been hard trying to connect this week via the phone and leave it at that. If she's interested, she'll make time. If she's not, then she won't and you can move on.

If she does confirm for "yes" this Saturday, make sure you have one or two places in mind right away to show that you are organized and have put some thought into the date.

The guy has called her back with no response....he is a doormat going forward right? You all are way too nice...

you don't read too well.

 

[sbonomo]

Suggestions on this:

match. cute woman, single mom. seems like she could be someone I could potentially see myself dating.

got her number, a few texts back and forth, set up a date. all seems well.

day of the date, she tells me school called; her daughter's sick, she'll keep me posted. (everyone around here is getting sick, and the same thing happened with my daughter two days earlier). she ends up asking for raincheck, and asks when we could reschedule it to, which turns out to be this coming weekend (about 10 days out). she suggests that we talk on the phone over the weekend in between. I call--VM. she texts the next day saying she was busy taking care of sick kids, sorry she missed me, looks forward to going out.

one more round of texts the next day, another "really look forward to meeting you" text, from her and she asks again to talk on the phone soon.

yesterday text once, no reply.

Call last night--VM.

We had talked about going out this Saturday night, but we didn't confirm plans because we were supposed to talk on the phone and work out details. If I can't make this Saturday work, it would be two weeks more before I'd be able to schedule something, and by then this whole thing is dead.

At this point, this is too much effort for a first date, but there is something about her I like. Any suggestions on trying to get confirmation here without looking like I'm pushing too hard?

Why not just text her to see if she's still up for going out on Saturday? Maybe give one line about it's been hard trying to connect this week via the phone and leave it at that. If she's interested, she'll make time. If she's not, then she won't and you can move on.

If she does confirm for "yes" this Saturday, make sure you have one or two places in mind right away to show that you are organized and have put some thought into the date.

The guy has called her back with no response....he is a doormat going forward right? You all are way too nice...

you don't read too well.

didn't you just say she has never called you back, only text? I guess i could have been more clear that she has specifically asked you to call on several occations without having the courtesy to call you back. You don't see that as a problem? Honestly, that is a huge red flag to me. Maybe i am too old school, but if i make an effort it had better be reciprocated. There are far too many fish in this see to waste my time on one. Just out of curiosity....do you live in a large city or smaller area? I ask this becuase in my area (SF now - LA prior) there are so many choices I definately would not waste my time.

 

[McGarnicle]

Keep calling and texting several times per day. If she doesn't respond, start saying you're getting worried and maybe you'll call the hospitals and state police if she doesn't call back soon. That should ensure a call back. Then firm up your plans. When she agrees to meet you, ask her "Do you promise?" If she promises, she has to show up. Enjoy all that sex you're about to get GB.

 

[James Daulton]

Keep calling and texting several times per day. If she doesn't respond, start saying you're getting worried and maybe you'll call the hospitals and state police if she doesn't call back soon. That should ensure a call back. Then firm up your plans. When she agrees to meet you, ask her "Do you promise?" If she promises, she has to show up. Enjoy all that sex you're about to get GB.

And don't forget to remind her that you love her very much and are devoted to her. Chicks love that.

 

[sbonomo]

I too can feel the desperation in this one......remember Fish, you are tiger with huge claws and she is a little bunny rabbit....no reason you need to be afraid of her.

 

[-fish-]

Lol. She's one woman, and I haven't met her, so it's no loss. I'm just not getting why the excited texts and specifically asking me to call with no follow through. I'm busy, and I'm a single dad. I only have so many nights I can go out. Would have liked to get Saturday nailed down, because if she is interested like she said, I cant reschedule for two more weeks...by then we're both on to the next. If she isn't, no big deal.

 

[pats3in4]

Got emailed through Match the other day from someone 50 miles away commenting on my youthful looks (hat tip to hair coloring thread). Ended up emailing back and forth with me offering to meet if she was willing to make the long drive. She then drops this on me:

"Want to spend the weekend with me in Santa Cruz April 11-12?"

Hmmm. So without committing either way, we go back and forth some more, and then I get:

"I don't want to get your hopes up. I'm a good person and a good lay, but I'm crazy."

 

[pats3in4]

Got emailed through Match the other day from someone 50 miles away commenting on my youthful looks (hat tip to hair coloring thread). Ended up emailing back and forth with me offering to meet if she was willing to make the long drive. She then drops this on me:

"Want to spend the weekend with me in Santa Cruz April 11-12?"

Hmmm. So without committing either way, we go back and forth some more, and then I get:

"I don't want to get your hopes up. I'm a good person and a good lay, but I'm crazy."

bring extra condoms.

And maybe a gun.

 

[Bogart]

Met a girl from an offshoot hookup site (horrible interface, I was drunk, don't judge me). She didn't even have her profile with that site, so I guess these smaller site share female profiles. Yada, yada, sushi, yada, yada. Second date was last night at my place. She shows up at midnight. Halfway through our first glass of wire she asks what time I need to be asleep. I say somewhere around 2am. She looks at the clock and says, "Well, we better speed things up. Let's move to the bedroom."

Girls are just as horny as we are, love finding the ones that are open about it.

Her quote to me last week was "I had no problem getting enough sex when married, but it's so much tougher when casually dating. I'm not a nymphomaniac, I just want sex maybe 4-5, maybe 6 times a week."

Challenge accepted.

 

[sbonomo]

I hate you all :jealous married person:

 

[Socrates11]

 

[pats3in4]

So, I finally experienced the "lady is much larger in person than her pics suggest" date. And I do mean much. She took Uber to get to the restaurant we met at and asked me for a ride home. Since she didn't live far, I obliged. I walked her to her door and got the "Do you want to come in?" line, at which point I said "Oh, I need to get up at 6am so I better go."

 

[saintfool]

So, I finally experienced the "lady is much larger in person than her pics suggest" date. And I do mean much. She took Uber to get to the restaurant we met at and asked me for a ride home. Since she didn't live far, I obliged. I walked her to her door and got the "Do you want to come in?" line, at which point I said "Oh, I need to get up at 6am so I better go."

can you pass along her name and number to Christo?

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

So, I finally experienced the "lady is much larger in person than her pics suggest" date. And I do mean much. She took Uber to get to the restaurant we met at and asked me for a ride home. Since she didn't live far, I obliged. I walked her to her door and got the "Do you want to come in?" line, at which point I said "Oh, I need to get up at 6am so I better go."

what was your ballpark perception of her weight versus her actual weight? No pics from the neck down?

 

[Buck Bradcanon]

Bogey!

 

[Maik Jeaunz]

So, I finally experienced the "lady is much larger in person than her pics suggest" date. And I do mean much. She took Uber to get to the restaurant we met at and asked me for a ride home. Since she didn't live far, I obliged. I walked her to her door and got the "Do you want to come in?" line, at which point I said "Oh, I need to get up at 6am so I better go."

what was your ballpark perception of her weight versus her actual weight? No pics from the neck down?

how much larger are we talking about? cute face? big jugs? still might have been fun...

 

[pats3in4]

So, I finally experienced the "lady is much larger in person than her pics suggest" date. And I do mean much. She took Uber to get to the restaurant we met at and asked me for a ride home. Since she didn't live far, I obliged. I walked her to her door and got the "Do you want to come in?" line, at which point I said "Oh, I need to get up at 6am so I better go."

what was your ballpark perception of her weight versus her actual weight? No pics from the neck down?

To be honest, her pics did show her on the heavy side, so I had an inkling of what I might see. She said she was a stand up comic and wanted to try her routine on me so even though I wasn't attracted to her pics, I figured it could be a fun conversation. But when she showed up I didn't even recognize her.

 

[Bogart]

Random text from the girl who teaches Kink 101 classes, haven't seen her in about 6 months:

Her: Is this a kids weekend for you...or next weekend?

Me: Kids this weekend. Free next weekend.

Her: Interesting.

 

[pats3in4]

So, I finally experienced the "lady is much larger in person than her pics suggest" date. And I do mean much. She took Uber to get to the restaurant we met at and asked me for a ride home. Since she didn't live far, I obliged. I walked her to her door and got the "Do you want to come in?" line, at which point I said "Oh, I need to get up at 6am so I better go."

what was your ballpark perception of her weight versus her actual weight? No pics from the neck down?

how much larger are we talking about? cute face? big jugs? still might have been fun...

(shudder)

After setting up the date with the Uber lady a week ago, I hit it off with a very attractive lady this past Monday. I probably should have called off the date last night, but I kept it out of some (ill-advised?) sense of manners. So I went into the date last night with my mind on someone else anyway.

 

[EYLive]

Met a girl from an offshoot hookup site (horrible interface, I was drunk, don't judge me). She didn't even have her profile with that site, so I guess these smaller site share female profiles. Yada, yada, sushi, yada, yada. Second date was last night at my place. She shows up at midnight. Halfway through our first glass of wire she asks what time I need to be asleep. I say somewhere around 2am. She looks at the clock and says, "Well, we better speed things up. Let's move to the bedroom."

Girls are just as horny as we are, love finding the ones that are open about it.

Her quote to me last week was "I had no problem getting enough sex when married, but it's so much tougher when casually dating. I'm not a nymphomaniac, I just want sex maybe 4-5, maybe 6 times a week."

Challenge accepted.

Around this time Bogart leaves ElecBoog... coincidence? I THINK NOT. Not only is our hero doing lots of , he defected to her clan!!

OOooooh I'm gon' tell!

 

[saintfool]

Any of you players feel like working your game with Mariah Carey? She's rolling on Match these days.

 

[pats3in4]

Any of you players feel like working your game with Mariah Carey? She's rolling on Match these days.

Meh. "Curvy" is code for chubby.

 

[Murph]

Broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years about a month ago. Fired up an OKCupid account last week. Some good stuff in this thread. Planning to try Zook's alligator schtick tonight. Will relay any funny/stupid/sexy/embarrassing results for your entertainment.

 

[zed2283]

Back on the market after 16 months. Fired all my online accounts back up but I am stumped. Chatted with a few girls but it's mostly been frustrating. Haven't paid for any sites yet, but may decide to if things get a little better.

Met a girl on Tinder and have been chatting on and off for about a month. This past week she told me that she is deleting Tinder and gave me her phone number. We've been texting this week, and I asked her on Thursday if she'd like to talk on the phone or maybe Skype. She said she was seeing patients (she's in medical school) until 7pm and wasn't sure if she'd have time, but we could play it by ear. I said sounds good and then didn't hear from her the rest of the week. I sent her a text this morning (Saturday) and we've exchanged a few texts since then.

So I need the collective iDating FFA'ers to tell me what's the move to get to the next step? I assume there was some interest since she gave me her number, and yet my couple of moves since then have been stonewalled.

ETA: She has not actually deleted Tinder. Saw where she's been on there today.

 

[zed2283]

Well, she's 140 miles away. I had suggested earlier (before she gave me her number) that we meet up halfway some weekend, and she said she would let me know when she can. To me that seemed like she was putting me off. Just feel like I'm getting mixed signals.

 

[Eminence]

Well, she's 140 miles away. I had suggested earlier (before she gave me her number) that we meet up halfway some weekend, and she said she would let me know when she can. To me that seemed like she was putting me off. Just feel like I'm getting mixed signals.

Don't play yourself, imo.

 

[EYLive]

140 miles?

 

[saintfool]

I've got a new one for the thread. Message a chick online, send a few messages back and forth through the site, third one I ask for her number. She says she'd rather do kik than give out digits, I say fine. Text a bit, I ask her out to a bar. She says she doesn't drink. She says she wants to meet "somewhere she feels safe" since she's new to online dating. I suggest we hit a coffee shop Saturday afternoon. She counters with an S&M club Friday night.

I went with her idea.

what's your safe word?

"ballsdeep"

 

[McGarnicle]

140 miles?

I drove from Atlanta to Birmingham a bunch of times in my 20's to get my knob polished. She was a good Christian girl, still a virgin at 23, but world-class oral skills. She'd take care of me as many times as I could get it up too.

 

[Joe T]

GB Tinder

 

[Major]

GB Tinder

this

 

[Bogart]

Things have been moving along with a few FWBs, but decided to try and go out and meet some new people.

Worst first date ever yesterday.

Fifteen minutes into the date, she lets me know the following:

• CPS has been called out to her house three times (but she has talked her way out of 2 of them)
• she doesn't have a driver's licence (but she really showed the judge and DA why they were wrong in court, which saved her 87 days in jail)
• her kids are back in school, and she has the bus system figured out, so NOW she is ready to find a job
• her last boyfriend "flipped the script" on her, and called authorities on her when it was his idea "to party" that weekend (She made sure I knew what "to party" meant)
• she has to be careful what she does right now because she is "on housing"

I could not get out of there fast enough. Side hug after 20 mins and out the door. Blocked her number on my phone and called it a night.

 

[McGarnicle]

Things have been moving along with a few FWBs, but decided to try and go out and meet some new people.

Worst first date ever yesterday.

Fifteen minutes into the date, she lets me know the following:

• CPS has been called out to her house three times (but she has talked her way out of 2 of them)
• she doesn't have a driver's licence (but she really showed the judge and DA why they were wrong in court, which saved her 87 days in jail)
• her kids are back in school, and she has the bus system figured out, so NOW she is ready to find a job
• her last boyfriend "flipped the script" on her, and called authorities on her when it was his idea "to party" that weekend (She made sure I knew what "to party" meant)
• she has to be careful what she does right now because she is "on housing"

I could not get out of there fast enough. Side hug after 20 mins and out the door. Blocked her number on my phone and called it a night.

Could she get you some good crack? Friends like that are good to find.

 

[Bogart]

Wow. Was she at least good looking? I've met some odd ones, but nothing like this.

Kind of trashy hot in her pics, but upon seeing her in person, the pictures were clearer from a few years ago. I was planning my escape before she even opened her mouth.

Could she get you some good crack? Friends like that are good to find.

With her luck with the law, I'm going to pass.

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.

 

[James Daulton]

So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.

Oof, this has potential to be a dream or a nightmare.

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.

Oof, this has potential to be a dream or a nightmare.

I've got a good feeling about it. We shall see this evening.

 

[James Daulton]

So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.

Oof, this has potential to be a dream or a nightmare.

I've got a good feeling about it. We shall see this evening.

Is she flying in only to see you? Do you have a good sense of her hotness (like could she be fatter than she seemed on Skype)?

 

[PinkydaPimp]

So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.

Oof, this has potential to be a dream or a nightmare.

I've got a good feeling about it. We shall see this evening.

Is she flying in only to see you? Do you have a good sense of her hotness (like could she be fatter than she seemed on Skype)?

lol at this point i suspect he doesnt care what she looks like

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.

Oof, this has potential to be a dream or a nightmare.

I've got a good feeling about it. We shall see this evening.

Is she flying in only to see you? Do you have a good sense of her hotness (like could she be fatter than she seemed on Skype)?

lol at this point i suspect he doesnt care what she looks like

Yes sir, I have a very good sense of her hotness.

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.

Oof, this has potential to be a dream or a nightmare.

I've got a good feeling about it. We shall see this evening.

Is she flying in only to see you? Do you have a good sense of her hotness (like could she be fatter than she seemed on Skype)?

lol at this point i suspect he doesnt care what she looks like

Yes sir, I have a very good sense of her hotness.

Nudes?

 

[pats3in4]

Yes sir, I have a very good sense of her hotness.

Nudes?

Damn, you old smoothie.

 

[GOB]

So I met a chick on a social media site about a year ago. It wasn't a dating site, but I'm counting this as an iDate. We chitchatted for several months. Have texted, skyped, etc. She's flying in to hang out with me for a week. Should be interesting.

Oof, this has potential to be a dream or a nightmare.

I've got a good feeling about it. We shall see this evening.

Is she flying in only to see you? Do you have a good sense of her hotness (like could she be fatter than she seemed on Skype)?

lol at this point i suspect he doesnt care what she looks like

Yes sir, I have a very good sense of her hotness.

Nudes?

Sherlock Holmes over here.