***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (4 Viewers)

[Mrs. BSR]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

 

[krista4]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

 

[krista4]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

You just beat me.

 

[Mrs. BSR]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

You just beat me.

 

[Bankerguy]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

You just beat me.

Oh my ladies.... That would be my son.Over/under for pile on jokes......27.

 

[krista4]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

You just beat me.

Oh my ladies.... That would be my son.

 

[Mrs. BSR]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

You just beat me.

Oh my ladies.... That would be my son.

 

[Bankerguy]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

You just beat me.

Oh my ladies.... That would be my son.

Krista.....you've seen more of me than most.Nothing about me is little....I'll leave it there.

 

[Mrs. BSR]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

You just beat me.

Oh my ladies.... That would be my son.

Krista.....you've seen more of me than most.Nothing about me is little....I'll leave it there.

 

[Early_10]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

You just beat me.

Oh my ladies.... That would be my son.

Krista.....you've seen more of me than most.Nothing about me is little....I'll leave it there.

Now thats a better tangent.

 

[zander_s]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

You just beat me.

Oh my ladies.... That would be my son.

Krista.....you've seen more of me than most.Nothing about me is little....I'll leave it there.

I'd like to commend the ladies for both jumping all over that quicker than any of the guys.Well done ladies!!!

 

[zander_s]

And welcome early_10......does some kind of alarm go off to the women when an open ended line like that comes outta a guys mouth??

 

[Mrs. BSR]

And welcome early_10......does some kind of alarm go off to the women when an open ended line like that comes outta a guys mouth??

Yes!

 

[code]

Duh.......yeah guys hate hot bi-sexual wimmens who are into three-somes.

In an effort to deflect this tangent back into the iDating fold...I found a surprising number of the women I met iDating were bisexual...I seemed to be a magnet for them...had to be at least 40%...never did experience a real payoff there, but it was a surprising statistical anomaly...anyone else finding this?...any idea why?

Apparently not...

 

[Bankerguy]

Duh.......yeah guys hate hot bi-sexual wimmens who are into three-somes.

In an effort to deflect this tangent back into the iDating fold...I found a surprising number of the women I met iDating were bisexual...I seemed to be a magnet for them...had to be at least 40%...never did experience a real payoff there, but it was a surprising statistical anomaly...anyone else finding this?...any idea why?

Apparently not...

I have had a couple of girls bring this up as topic during a first dates/convo's. I almost think sometimes it is test. "No Nonsense" brought this up on a recent phone call. How she is curious.......I just said well if you are.....holla.

 

[Pip's Invitation]

Duh.......yeah guys hate hot bi-sexual wimmens who are into three-somes.

In an effort to deflect this tangent back into the iDating fold...I found a surprising number of the women I met iDating were bisexual...I seemed to be a magnet for them...had to be at least 40%...never did experience a real payoff there, but it was a surprising statistical anomaly...anyone else finding this?...any idea why?

Apparently not...

Because it's not a statistical anomaly among women under 30?

 

[BassNBrew]

2) High Society with big ### - Ended communications with me after first date. Maybe she was mad I oVVned her in ping-pong.

Do you mean "ended communication" in the eHarmony sense?...because i found this was a tricky bit once I met someone in person...when to close out communication on eHarmony because we'd "transcended" the site, without sending the wrong impression early...ending the communication on the site for me was about house cleaning my inbox, not ending communication with a prospect...my wife (eHarmony) to this day busts my balls for closing communication with her on the site after our second date...If you mean she stopped communicating with you outside the site, then carry on...

Both internally and externally.

 

[BassNBrew]

File this down in the LOL category...

With e-harmony you have to answer a lot of questions before you can e-mail. Anyway this gal inititated contact yesterday. In answering one of her questions I basically said I wouldn't be a good match for someone who is sedentary. She then "closed me out" (ended communication)...her reason...I'm pursuing a relationship with someone else. OK...but you weren't less than 24 hours when you contacted me??? Actually this might be a good system for Woz because they limit communication.

I filled out the survey for this, and everything's ready to go, but I haven't paid.Is it any good, or a waste of time?

The female to male ratio seems to be much higher than any site I've been on. That said, it's a ton of work to keep up with the process. I probably have at least 12 open connections at some stage or another, most initiated by the woman first.

 

[KGB]

I will post an update later after my little guy goes down.

You just beat me.

Thats what my "little guy" said

 

[Bankerguy]

Update....tomorrow.

Too tired.

 

[Pip's Invitation]

File this down in the LOL category...

With e-harmony you have to answer a lot of questions before you can e-mail. Anyway this gal inititated contact yesterday. In answering one of her questions I basically said I wouldn't be a good match for someone who is sedentary. She then "closed me out" (ended communication)...her reason...I'm pursuing a relationship with someone else. OK...but you weren't less than 24 hours when you contacted me??? Actually this might be a good system for Woz because they limit communication.

I filled out the survey for this, and everything's ready to go, but I haven't paid.Is it any good, or a waste of time?

The female to male ratio seems to be much higher than any site I've been on. That said, it's a ton of work to keep up with the process. I probably have at least 12 open connections at some stage or another, most initiated by the woman first.

Agreed. And, as I've said previously in this thread, most of the wimmins there are looking for a serious relationship and/or marriage. If that's your goal too, sign up. If your goal is one-night stands, NSA secks partners, or casual dating, look elsewhere.

 

[Uruk-Hai]

Going out tonight with a different group of female friends - three very attractive and one that I don't know. Much more conservative crowd than last night's, but I think I'll have to try to work this subject into conversation. I need to know if the girl-on-girl stuff is something that all my friends are doing and I've somehow missed it, sort of like I found out just AFTER high school that everyone was sleeping with everyone else while I thought that only the "bad" girls were doing it. I might need to have a lot of wine again. Will report back. Also will try to find pics.

 

[code]

Duh.......yeah guys hate hot bi-sexual wimmens who are into three-somes.

In an effort to deflect this tangent back into the iDating fold...I found a surprising number of the women I met iDating were bisexual...I seemed to be a magnet for them...had to be at least 40%...never did experience a real payoff there, but it was a surprising statistical anomaly...anyone else finding this?...any idea why?

Apparently not...

Because it's not a statistical anomaly among women under 30?

Really?...understand I'm talking about real bisexual women, who have had long term relationships with other women, not just chicks kissing and fooling around...that's "common" huh?...consider me educated...

 

[Uruk-Hai]

Duh.......yeah guys hate hot bi-sexual wimmens who are into three-somes.

In an effort to deflect this tangent back into the iDating fold...I found a surprising number of the women I met iDating were bisexual...I seemed to be a magnet for them...had to be at least 40%...never did experience a real payoff there, but it was a surprising statistical anomaly...anyone else finding this?...any idea why?

Apparently not...

Because it's not a statistical anomaly among women under 30?

Really?...understand I'm talking about real bisexual women, who have had long term relationships with other women, not just chicks kissing and fooling around...that's "common" huh?...consider me educated...

Most of the women I know who have swung both ways did so for fun, and not as a lifestyle choice (i.e. they weren't "real" bisexuals or closeted lesbians).

 

[krista4]

Going out tonight with a different group of female friends - three very attractive and one that I don't know. Much more conservative crowd than last night's, but I think I'll have to try to work this subject into conversation. I need to know if the girl-on-girl stuff is something that all my friends are doing and I've somehow missed it, sort of like I found out just AFTER high school that everyone was sleeping with everyone else while I thought that only the "bad" girls were doing it. I might need to have a lot of wine again. Will report back. Also will try to find pics.

Sorry, I got nothin'. Turned out to be six of us, two of whom I'd never met before and who were both married and quite a bit older. Given that, I couldn't really go forward with any more "interesting" discussions.

 

[BassNBrew]

A couple of updates...

bikergirl1 - This was the gal who e-mailed me that she was going another direction. I sent her a new pic from a recent ride and the comment was "I didn't think you were that big". Since then I've been getting more e-mails then ever before and questions indicating that she may be having second thoughts about her choice.

bikergirl2 - May rename her the icelady. No reply to my Monday e-mail. Didn't answer my call last nite, figured it was the blow off. She just called me to wish me luck at my race this weekend and tell me that I appeared to be in good enough shape to do very well. I did manage to get a couple of laughs, but this gal is very guarded. Guess I'll sniff this trail a little longer to figure out what the deal is....protective or crappy personality.

 

[Notorious T.R.E.]

A couple of updates...

bikergirl1 - This was the gal who e-mailed me that she was going another direction. I sent her a new pic from a recent ride and the comment was "I didn't think you were that big". Since then I've been getting more e-mails then ever before and questions indicating that she may be having second thoughts about her choice.

bikergirl2 - May rename her the icelady. No reply to my Monday e-mail. Didn't answer my call last nite, figured it was the blow off. She just called me to wish me luck at my race this weekend and tell me that I appeared to be in good enough shape to do very well. I did manage to get a couple of laughs, but this gal is very guarded. Guess I'll sniff this trail a little longer to figure out what the deal is....protective or crappy personality.

:flex:

 

[BassNBrew]

A couple of updates...

bikergirl1 - This was the gal who e-mailed me that she was going another direction. I sent her a new pic from a recent ride and the comment was "I didn't think you were that big". Since then I've been getting more e-mails then ever before and questions indicating that she may be having second thoughts about her choice.

bikergirl2 - May rename her the icelady. No reply to my Monday e-mail. Didn't answer my call last nite, figured it was the blow off. She just called me to wish me luck at my race this weekend and tell me that I appeared to be in good enough shape to do very well. I did manage to get a couple of laughs, but this gal is very guarded. Guess I'll sniff this trail a little longer to figure out what the deal is....protective or crappy personality.

:flex:

Look at me, I lift and can Explode11!!!!

 

[TimeWellWasted]

A couple of updates...

bikergirl1 - This was the gal who e-mailed me that she was going another direction. I sent her a new pic from a recent ride and the comment was "I didn't think you were that big". Since then I've been getting more e-mails then ever before and questions indicating that she may be having second thoughts about her choice.

bikergirl2 - May rename her the icelady. No reply to my Monday e-mail. Didn't answer my call last nite, figured it was the blow off. She just called me to wish me luck at my race this weekend and tell me that I appeared to be in good enough shape to do very well. I did manage to get a couple of laughs, but this gal is very guarded. Guess I'll sniff this trail a little longer to figure out what the deal is....protective or crappy personality.

my first guess? protective of her heart.

 

[Mrs. BSR]

Update....tomorrow.Too tired.

Tease!

 

[ditka...mike ditka]

Krista i can be there in a 22 hour car drive....By the way you will have mail soon on my profile. (please)Hope to contribute Quality to the FBG -UD

Happy to help out on the profile - just send it whenever you get a chance!ditka, I'm too old for you.

i'll have you know im very mature for my age, but alas, i will settle for any younger friends you may have for me

 

[Tirnan]

Update on my buddy and his idating situation.

I read "impending trainwreck" all over it. I think he is desperate on the inside to have some sort of relationship and is creating one in his own mind. The background...

He has yet to physically meet his date (that happens tomorrow at lunch). Yet, this week he has:

1) spent more than 6 hours on the phone with her.

2) dropped subtle hints about relationship in our conversations

3) decided to go to church with her this Sunday... from the guy who had to ask me what exactly Lutherans believed in! Don't get me wrong, he has a strong spiritual side, its just more pseudo wiccan/buddist than christian.

4) told me he was tired of the "wenching and whoring" to which I was forced to reply "What wenching and whoring???? this is your MFing first date since the divorce!"

I think he is way overbuilding the potential in his own mind and can't seem to get him to come down to a steady state where its just a no pressure "meet and greet" type situation.

I have been heavy handed in the "be yourself", "if you talked that much she already likes who you are so just be relaxed", "stop talking like she is your girlfriend and keep the pressure to perform down so you can focus on getting to know her" types of advice. I am standing here looking at the entire situation as a train going over the cliff at about 5 mph. Its obvious and inevitable, wtf do I say to try to stop it though? Aside from agreeing to rework his profiles and get more pictures (this weekend), I'm not sure his heart is really into looking for other potential dates at the moment.

So whats the good buddy move here? I am thinking its best to stand aside and be ready to pick up the pieces if he gets in over his head. I can't pinpoint if he is desperate for companionship, scared to death of dating and latching onto the first one as his rebound relationship, or if he just handed in his cojones and decided to act like a 14 year old girl in love.

I suppose its possible that he met his "soulmate" (designated torturer) after just talking to a few, but the way he is building up this BEFORE he has even met her in person has me .

Tirnan

 

[ditka...mike ditka]

update (its been awhile as i have been sick and not loggin on as much):

polibaby - have hung out with her twice since the first date. She is cute and fun, but there is just somthing about here I dont like. Sometimes i think she just "doesnt get it"...doesnt get what you might ask? It can be anything, it just seems like she has a blank stare sometimes..its wierd. But im sure we will hang out again soon so ill see what sup

cougar - she wants to meet up for drinks asap. She lives out near one of the towns i play softball at that is 45 min from home so she suggested possibly meeting up this tuesday after the game. I plan on doing that. She wanted to meet up this saturday, but im going to the Sox vs Cubs game with buddies that is at 1205, which means we will be drinking by 10am, which makes for a drunk Ditka and probably not the best way to meet her the first time

tall girl - This girl seemed really interested, then nothing. So i gave her the :crickets: email someone said they used earlier, and sure enough, it started the comvo up again. we will see what happens

illini girl - this girl contacted me on plentyoffish saying how much we have in common except for the fact im 5 years older (25 to 20) but I like where this one is going. ONly probalby is she is at University of Illinois for most of the summer, but she is talking about coming home for a weekend to meet me. She is very cute, is 6'0 tall (im 6'3 so it works) and seems motivated. So she could be a good long term prospect.

Blondie - This girl i have had one line emails with for about 2 weeks. Finally i just flat out said "lets stop wasting time sending one line messages and meet up for a drink" to which she replied "when and where". Im thinking she seems like more of a party girl, and lives closer to me, so she might get to meet the drunk Ditka after the cubs sox game saturday...we will see

thats all for me..sorry nothing too exciting.

 

[koby925]

Just based on initial impressions, this is how I'd rank them from most casual to most serious...

1. hotornot

2. myspace

huge gap

3. yahoo

4. plentyoffish

5. match

gap

6. e-harmony

For those that have been doing this longer, does that seem accurate?

Nobody ever commented on this or else I missed it. Thoughts? I have never done any idating but am intrigued. Haven't heard of 1 or 4 and wouldn't do 2 but what about the others?

 

[Bankerguy]

Update:

Been busy dealing with the closing of my house sale (Old marital home) and ex wife drama stuff.....non of which is update worthy. Although, I have a pocket full of money and an open calendar this Sat/Sun. Ladies ...lookout!!!

OK here we go:

The girl that I saw for a while after my wife has suddenly taken a big interest in me again. Let's call her "Crazy" This is one of those girls who you know have no future with but the sex is so amazing that you could never say no to her. Honestly she is one of the hottest girls I have ever done the hibbidy dibbity with. Sorry no pics for the underground. Anyway, I get the idea she is interested in something going down. She jsut texted me and asked if I wanted to go to the park with her......I responded... No thanks...too tired!!

I met "The Teacher" today, a very in shape girl. I think she has bigger arms then me! She is the one who says she wants to just be friends first. This works for now as I am still "busy" checking out other options. She is lots of fun, easy to talk to. I think she liked me...more than friends. Got a good vibe for sure.

"No Nonsense" and I are working non date 2. She is starting to strike me as a very sexually open person. She casually mentioned she is bi-curious (Who mentions this just after a first date?). Anyway, we shall see what is up with her. Hopefully getting together this coming weekend.

"TinyShyBlonde"...is just weird. Still have NO read on her. Chatted for a bit last night, still

....I have no clue. So, I have decided to put her on the back burner and let her chase me if she is interested. If not.....oh well. Live and learn. I am not investing anyomre time in long MSN marathons anymore. If you like me....great......let's meet.

Other updates.....

2 new girls......

"Works at the same company" (we still met on POF). Crazy amounts in common. Average looking pics though. We might meet soon as well. Not much more to add at the moment.

"Finance girl". Really down to earth talked for a few days we have already agreed to meet. Lives in the really nice part of my town, seems to have her life together. Makes a great living, likes sports and has a similar outlook on life and with what she is looking for in a partner. I have to say I am intrigued by this one for sure. Her pics look nice, although she will never be called a "hottie". She is still attractive to me in a weird sort of way. Updates to follow on this one.

Other tidbits....

I have been mesaged by a married woman looking for some action....LOL. I passed.

and

A couple looking for a MMF three-some. I told her I don't do swordfights.

The pics were posted for a short time in the underground.....yikes.

That is it for now.

 

[dancingbones]

I just started reading this sucker at about noon, and haven't gotten much done since.

Great stuff here!

 

[Disco Stu]

tall girl - This girl seemed really interested, then nothing. So i gave her the :crickets: email someone said they used earlier, and sure enough, it started the comvo up again. we will see what happens

 

[Bankerguy]

tall girl - This girl seemed really interested, then nothing. So i gave her the :crickets: email someone said they used earlier, and sure enough, it started the comvo up again. we will see what happens

:whoosh:

Share the email please....for future reference.

 

[krista4]

Update on my buddy and his idating situation.I read "impending trainwreck" all over it. I think he is desperate on the inside to have some sort of relationship and is creating one in his own mind. The background...He has yet to physically meet his date (that happens tomorrow at lunch). Yet, this week he has:1) spent more than 6 hours on the phone with her.2) dropped subtle hints about relationship in our conversations3) decided to go to church with her this Sunday... from the guy who had to ask me what exactly Lutherans believed in! Don't get me wrong, he has a strong spiritual side, its just more pseudo wiccan/buddist than christian.4) told me he was tired of the "wenching and whoring" to which I was forced to reply "What wenching and whoring???? this is your MFing first date since the divorce!"I think he is way overbuilding the potential in his own mind and can't seem to get him to come down to a steady state where its just a no pressure "meet and greet" type situation.I have been heavy handed in the "be yourself", "if you talked that much she already likes who you are so just be relaxed", "stop talking like she is your girlfriend and keep the pressure to perform down so you can focus on getting to know her" types of advice. I am standing here looking at the entire situation as a train going over the cliff at about 5 mph. Its obvious and inevitable, wtf do I say to try to stop it though? Aside from agreeing to rework his profiles and get more pictures (this weekend), I'm not sure his heart is really into looking for other potential dates at the moment.So whats the good buddy move here? I am thinking its best to stand aside and be ready to pick up the pieces if he gets in over his head. I can't pinpoint if he is desperate for companionship, scared to death of dating and latching onto the first one as his rebound relationship, or if he just handed in his cojones and decided to act like a 14 year old girl in love.I suppose its possible that he met his "soulmate" (designated torturer) after just talking to a few, but the way he is building up this BEFORE he has even met her in person has me .Tirnan

Sorry to hear all this. Sounds like your buddy is just on the most serious rebound course ever. I agree with you in just not seeing a good ending here. He's already begun the process of molding himself into what he thinks she wants instead of just being who he is? Yikes. I have absolutely no good advice here. I think standing aside and letting him figure it out is about all you can do. I can't imagine there's any reasoning with him. In the meantime, though, if you can try to push him on rewriting his profile and such, maybe he'll get some more people interested and can see that there are plenty of other fish, or that he shouldn't put all his eggs in one basket, or that too many cooks...well, whatever. :(

 

[Bankerguy]

Update on my buddy and his idating situation.I read "impending trainwreck" all over it. I think he is desperate on the inside to have some sort of relationship and is creating one in his own mind. The background...He has yet to physically meet his date (that happens tomorrow at lunch). Yet, this week he has:1) spent more than 6 hours on the phone with her.2) dropped subtle hints about relationship in our conversations3) decided to go to church with her this Sunday... from the guy who had to ask me what exactly Lutherans believed in! Don't get me wrong, he has a strong spiritual side, its just more pseudo wiccan/buddist than christian.4) told me he was tired of the "wenching and whoring" to which I was forced to reply "What wenching and whoring???? this is your MFing first date since the divorce!"I think he is way overbuilding the potential in his own mind and can't seem to get him to come down to a steady state where its just a no pressure "meet and greet" type situation.I have been heavy handed in the "be yourself", "if you talked that much she already likes who you are so just be relaxed", "stop talking like she is your girlfriend and keep the pressure to perform down so you can focus on getting to know her" types of advice. I am standing here looking at the entire situation as a train going over the cliff at about 5 mph. Its obvious and inevitable, wtf do I say to try to stop it though? Aside from agreeing to rework his profiles and get more pictures (this weekend), I'm not sure his heart is really into looking for other potential dates at the moment.So whats the good buddy move here? I am thinking its best to stand aside and be ready to pick up the pieces if he gets in over his head. I can't pinpoint if he is desperate for companionship, scared to death of dating and latching onto the first one as his rebound relationship, or if he just handed in his cojones and decided to act like a 14 year old girl in love.I suppose its possible that he met his "soulmate" (designated torturer) after just talking to a few, but the way he is building up this BEFORE he has even met her in person has me .Tirnan

Sorry to hear all this. Sounds like your buddy is just on the most serious rebound course ever. I agree with you in just not seeing a good ending here. He's already begun the process of molding himself into what he thinks she wants instead of just being who he is? :( Yikes. I have absolutely no good advice here. I think standing aside and letting him figure it out is about all you can do. I can't imagine there's any reasoning with him. In the meantime, though, if you can try to push him on rewriting his profile and such, maybe he'll get some more people interested and can see that there are plenty of other fish, or that he shouldn't put all his eggs in one basket, or that too many cooks...well, whatever. :(

Sometimes you just have to let your friends ...and then be there for them after to help put the pieces back.

 

[krista4]

update (its been awhile as i have been sick and not loggin on as much):

polibaby - have hung out with her twice since the first date. She is cute and fun, but there is just somthing about here I dont like. Sometimes i think she just "doesnt get it"...doesnt get what you might ask? It can be anything, it just seems like she has a blank stare sometimes..its wierd. But im sure we will hang out again soon so ill see what sup

cougar - she wants to meet up for drinks asap. She lives out near one of the towns i play softball at that is 45 min from home so she suggested possibly meeting up this tuesday after the game. I plan on doing that. She wanted to meet up this saturday, but im going to the Sox vs Cubs game with buddies that is at 1205, which means we will be drinking by 10am, which makes for a drunk Ditka and probably not the best way to meet her the first time

tall girl - This girl seemed really interested, then nothing. So i gave her the :crickets: email someone said they used earlier, and sure enough, it started the comvo up again. we will see what happens

illini girl - this girl contacted me on plentyoffish saying how much we have in common except for the fact im 5 years older (25 to 20) but I like where this one is going. ONly probalby is she is at University of Illinois for most of the summer, but she is talking about coming home for a weekend to meet me. She is very cute, is 6'0 tall (im 6'3 so it works) and seems motivated. So she could be a good long term prospect.

Blondie - This girl i have had one line emails with for about 2 weeks. Finally i just flat out said "lets stop wasting time sending one line messages and meet up for a drink" to which she replied "when and where". Im thinking she seems like more of a party girl, and lives closer to me, so she might get to meet the drunk Ditka after the cubs sox game saturday...we will see

thats all for me..sorry nothing too exciting.

Couldn't believe when I read the bolded part...a guy friend and I used this for years as our own code for whether we liked a particular person (as a potential date). I'd go out with somebody, and my friend would ask me one question (or vice versa): "Does he get it?" We both knew what we meant by that (no, not that)--if they get it, then we were interested; if not, then they were out. I wouldn't know how to describe it, either. BTW, how is her English? I ask just because you mention the "blank stare". Last summer during my World Cup of Dating, one of the guys I dated was a Bulgarian guy that I kept thinking might be kind of dumb, but he had a FBG-style education and other indications that he wasn't...it took me a couple of months before I figured out that it was a language issue. His English was generally very good, but he had only been here a few years and so there were a lot of American phrases he really didn't get, and instead of admitting that he would pretend he did. Ended up making him seem dumb when he really wasn't. Just thought it might be a possibility with your poligirl...

Is "cougar" someone a bit older than you? I can't remember everyone now. If so, then

If I have time over the weekend, I'm going to try to make a master list of everyone and their prospects, so that we can then just keep that updated. Would be easier for everyone, yes?

Love the updates!

 

[krista4]

Update:Been busy dealing with the closing of my house sale (Old marital home) and ex wife drama stuff.....non of which is update worthy. Although, I have a pocket full of money and an open calendar this Sat/Sun. Ladies ...lookout!!! OK here we go:The girl that I saw for a while after my wife has suddenly taken a big interest in me again. Let's call her "Crazy" This is one of those girls who you know have no future with but the sex is so amazing that you could never say no to her. Honestly she is one of the hottest girls I have ever done the hibbidy dibbity with. Sorry no pics for the underground. Anyway, I get the idea she is interested in something going down. She jsut texted me and asked if I wanted to go to the park with her......I responded... No thanks...too tired!!I met "The Teacher" today, a very in shape girl. I think she has bigger arms then me! She is the one who says she wants to just be friends first. This works for now as I am still "busy" checking out other options. She is lots of fun, easy to talk to. I think she liked me...more than friends. Got a good vibe for sure."No Nonsense" and I are working non date 2. She is starting to strike me as a very sexually open person. She casually mentioned she is bi-curious (Who mentions this just after a first date?). Anyway, we shall see what is up with her. Hopefully getting together this coming weekend."TinyShyBlonde"...is just weird. Still have NO read on her. Chatted for a bit last night, still....I have no clue. So, I have decided to put her on the back burner and let her chase me if she is interested. If not.....oh well. Live and learn. I am not investing anyomre time in long MSN marathons anymore. If you like me....great......let's meet.Other updates.....2 new girls......"Works at the same company" (we still met on POF). Crazy amounts in common. Average looking pics though. We might meet soon as well. Not much more to add at the moment. "Finance girl". Really down to earth talked for a few days we have already agreed to meet. Lives in the really nice part of my town, seems to have her life together. Makes a great living, likes sports and has a similar outlook on life and with what she is looking for in a partner. I have to say I am intrigued by this one for sure. Her pics look nice, although she will never be called a "hottie". She is still attractive to me in a weird sort of way. Updates to follow on this one.Other tidbits....I have been mesaged by a married woman looking for some action....LOL. I passed.andA couple looking for a MMF three-some. I told her I don't do swordfights. The pics were posted for a short time in the underground.....yikes. That is it for now.

Wow, just when I thought some of the other guys might be catching up...! What's your gut feeling on TinyShyBlonde? Do we have pics of the new girls on the underground? (I suppose I could go look for them.)Sounds like we should have a lot to read about from several people this weekend. Oh, on my end, despite my current firm anti-dating stance, I was tempted to forgo it when I had my first meeting today with our new summer intern in the law department at the company.

 

[Bankerguy]

Update:Been busy dealing with the closing of my house sale (Old marital home) and ex wife drama stuff.....non of which is update worthy. Although, I have a pocket full of money and an open calendar this Sat/Sun. Ladies ...lookout!!! OK here we go:The girl that I saw for a while after my wife has suddenly taken a big interest in me again. Let's call her "Crazy" This is one of those girls who you know have no future with but the sex is so amazing that you could never say no to her. Honestly she is one of the hottest girls I have ever done the hibbidy dibbity with. Sorry no pics for the underground. Anyway, I get the idea she is interested in something going down. She jsut texted me and asked if I wanted to go to the park with her......I responded... No thanks...too tired!!I met "The Teacher" today, a very in shape girl. I think she has bigger arms then me! She is the one who says she wants to just be friends first. This works for now as I am still "busy" checking out other options. She is lots of fun, easy to talk to. I think she liked me...more than friends. Got a good vibe for sure."No Nonsense" and I are working non date 2. She is starting to strike me as a very sexually open person. She casually mentioned she is bi-curious (Who mentions this just after a first date?). Anyway, we shall see what is up with her. Hopefully getting together this coming weekend."TinyShyBlonde"...is just weird. Still have NO read on her. Chatted for a bit last night, still....I have no clue. So, I have decided to put her on the back burner and let her chase me if she is interested. If not.....oh well. Live and learn. I am not investing anyomre time in long MSN marathons anymore. If you like me....great......let's meet.Other updates.....2 new girls......"Works at the same company" (we still met on POF). Crazy amounts in common. Average looking pics though. We might meet soon as well. Not much more to add at the moment. "Finance girl". Really down to earth talked for a few days we have already agreed to meet. Lives in the really nice part of my town, seems to have her life together. Makes a great living, likes sports and has a similar outlook on life and with what she is looking for in a partner. I have to say I am intrigued by this one for sure. Her pics look nice, although she will never be called a "hottie". She is still attractive to me in a weird sort of way. Updates to follow on this one.Other tidbits....I have been mesaged by a married woman looking for some action....LOL. I passed.andA couple looking for a MMF three-some. I told her I don't do swordfights. The pics were posted for a short time in the underground.....yikes. That is it for now.

Wow, just when I thought some of the other guys might be catching up...! What's your gut feeling on TinyShyBlonde? Do we have pics of the new girls on the underground? (I suppose I could go look for them.)Sounds like we should have a lot to read about from several people this weekend. Oh, on my end, despite my current firm anti-dating stance, I was tempted to forgo it when I had my first meeting today with our new summer intern in the law department at the company.

My feeling on Tiny Shy Blonde......Just with talking for so long and knowing so much about her already, I knew I had to go slow because of her shyness and trust issues. I really think my game was off. I don't think she got a good sense of who I was. Too was too serious and conscious of being a good guy......maybe came off as boring. This is what I thimk happened, but have nothing to base it on. I normally date and have relationships with MUCH more confident and agressive woman. She doesn't fit the mold. I think she is wonderful and very attractive, just not sure it will work as things are right now. She would have to change and be more aggressive. Not seeing that happening.....although I am testing her now. I won't call or write for a couple of days, and see what that brings. Krista....I have already offered to come to Chicago..you keep dodging me girl! Still waiting on your pic?????

 

[NRV77]

Just joined match a few days ago and I've gotten a number of winks from interested ladies so far; only one of which I'm interested in. We exchanged emails today. Is it weird to respond quickly, or do you make them wait and want?

 

[Bankerguy]

Just joined match a few days ago and I've gotten a number of winks from interested ladies so far; only one of which I'm interested in. We exchanged emails today. Is it weird to respond quickly, or do you make them wait and want?

No advantage in waiting.....imo.Just don't sound desparate...you'll be fine.

 

[krista4]

Just joined match a few days ago and I've gotten a number of winks from interested ladies so far; only one of which I'm interested in. We exchanged emails today. Is it weird to respond quickly, or do you make them wait and want?

No advantage in waiting.....imo.Just don't sound desparate...you'll be fine.

Agree wholeheartedly.BG, I'll be interested to see what happens with TSB. As an observer, I can't figure it out. You did seem to be really into her, so I hope she'll come around and make her interest clear. Do you think, though, that not knowing what she's thinking makes you slightly more interested in her--i.e. the ol' "the fun is in the chase"?

As for me, I'll put the pic back up at the underground, but it's so tiny you can't see anything anyway. I'll look for another one. I figure it doesn't really matter, so long as GordonGekko's not here to tell me (unsolicited) that I'm a five.

WE NEED A WOZZY BEAR UPDATE!

 

[Bankerguy]

Just joined match a few days ago and I've gotten a number of winks from interested ladies so far; only one of which I'm interested in. We exchanged emails today. Is it weird to respond quickly, or do you make them wait and want?

No advantage in waiting.....imo.Just don't sound desparate...you'll be fine.

Agree wholeheartedly.BG, I'll be interested to see what happens with TSB. As an observer, I can't figure it out. You did seem to be really into her, so I hope she'll come around and make her interest clear. Do you think, though, that not knowing what she's thinking makes you slightly more interested in her--i.e. the ol' "the fun is in the chase"?

As for me, I'll put the pic back up at the underground, but it's so tiny you can't see anything anyway. I'll look for another one. I figure it doesn't really matter, so long as GordonGekko's not here to tell me (unsolicited) that I'm a five.

WE NEED A WOZZY BEAR UPDATE!

Krista...this may sound really wierd but I like the reverse.....getting chased by woman. I am not a big "chaser" at all.Waiting patiently in the Underground as I type.

Edit....Your pic is small. Definately not a 5...good grief. Nice hair...I like.

Why are you so anti dating? Maybe something for a PM?

 

[krista4]

Just joined match a few days ago and I've gotten a number of winks from interested ladies so far; only one of which I'm interested in. We exchanged emails today. Is it weird to respond quickly, or do you make them wait and want?

No advantage in waiting.....imo.Just don't sound desparate...you'll be fine.

Agree wholeheartedly.BG, I'll be interested to see what happens with TSB. As an observer, I can't figure it out. You did seem to be really into her, so I hope she'll come around and make her interest clear. Do you think, though, that not knowing what she's thinking makes you slightly more interested in her--i.e. the ol' "the fun is in the chase"?

As for me, I'll put the pic back up at the underground, but it's so tiny you can't see anything anyway. I'll look for another one. I figure it doesn't really matter, so long as GordonGekko's not here to tell me (unsolicited) that I'm a five.

WE NEED A WOZZY BEAR UPDATE!

Krista...this may sound really wierd but I like the reverse.....getting chased by woman. I am not a big "chaser" at all.Waiting patiently in the Underground as I type.

It's there.You didn't strike me as a "chaser" type, but most of us have at least a little of that in us.

 

[NRV77]

Krista...this may sound really wierd but I like the reverse.....getting chased by woman. I am not a big "chaser" at all.

Waiting patiently in the Underground as I type.

Whats this "underground" I keep reading about?

 

[krista4]

Whats this "underground" I keep reading about?

PM Disco Stu. I think he might be gone right now, though, due to his grandpa's death.