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[Keys Myaths]

...you on the other hand dont like younger guys!

My last boyfriend was 26, and I dated a guy just before my self-imposed hiatus who was 22. I always like younger guys, but have been actively trying to break myself of the habit.

How YOU doin'?

 

[Kraft...]

Why is everyone so pissy in here? Its Friday, #####es.

 

[ditka...mike ditka]

have any of you guys had this expierence with plentyoffish?I signed up a couple of weeks ago and wasnt impressed with the girls i could find in my area and no one was really contacting me. I went back and forth with a girl a little bit, but i wouldnt even really check the site much. all of a sudden recently though im getting 3-4 messages initiated by girls a day (usually 1, maybe 2 worth messaging back) and im finding alot of girls I havent seen before. has this happened to anyone else? Is this site just getting popular so alot of people are signing up?

Perhaps word has gotten around Chicagoland that you are there.

I hope that is the case. Maybe you can spread the word a little more?

 

[Woz]

...you on the other hand dont like younger guys!

My last boyfriend was 26, and I dated a guy just before my self-imposed hiatus who was 22. I always like younger guys, but have been actively trying to break myself of the habit.

What's not to like about us socially unaware, emotionally unstable but incredibly virulant younger guys??

 

[Woz]

Well this place took an odd turn.Anyway, Woz, I'm not going to call you an idiot. What I will do is reiterate what I've mentioned to you before. You need to deal with your ex, one way or another. It's obviously affecting your everyday life. You can't go on dates and then have her text you, which in turn makes you think about her or worry or whatever. It's not fair to you or to the person you are on the date with.You'll need to do some soul searching and make a decision. Everything will be in limbo until you do.

Right... thought maybe just jumping back into dating was the idea. But, and this is tough for me to admit, the only real reason I'm doing it is for the physical. Thought maybe it'd help. But I've never been the guy who can dissassociate sexual feelings for actual (meaning they go together usually for me) so I basically just can't bring myself to go after a girl I know I'd only want for sex. We'll see where these two dates go though (definitely my two favorite contacts) and what a week or two of thinking about things does.

 

[Mrs. BSR]

Well this place took an odd turn.Anyway, Woz, I'm not going to call you an idiot. What I will do is reiterate what I've mentioned to you before. You need to deal with your ex, one way or another. It's obviously affecting your everyday life. You can't go on dates and then have her text you, which in turn makes you think about her or worry or whatever. It's not fair to you or to the person you are on the date with.You'll need to do some soul searching and make a decision. Everything will be in limbo until you do.

Right... thought maybe just jumping back into dating was the idea. But, and this is tough for me to admit, the only real reason I'm doing it is for the physical. Thought maybe it'd help. But I've never been the guy who can dissassociate sexual feelings for actual (meaning they go together usually for me) so I basically just can't bring myself to go after a girl I know I'd only want for sex. We'll see where these two dates go though (definitely my two favorite contacts) and what a week or two of thinking about things does.

I would say get yourself a bottle of KY and a washcloth and deal with your ex before you start any more dating.

 

[Woz]

Well this place took an odd turn.Anyway, Woz, I'm not going to call you an idiot. What I will do is reiterate what I've mentioned to you before. You need to deal with your ex, one way or another. It's obviously affecting your everyday life. You can't go on dates and then have her text you, which in turn makes you think about her or worry or whatever. It's not fair to you or to the person you are on the date with.You'll need to do some soul searching and make a decision. Everything will be in limbo until you do.

Right... thought maybe just jumping back into dating was the idea. But, and this is tough for me to admit, the only real reason I'm doing it is for the physical. Thought maybe it'd help. But I've never been the guy who can dissassociate sexual feelings for actual (meaning they go together usually for me) so I basically just can't bring myself to go after a girl I know I'd only want for sex. We'll see where these two dates go though (definitely my two favorite contacts) and what a week or two of thinking about things does.

I would say get yourself a bottle of KY and a washcloth and deal with your ex before you start any more dating.

Why would she want me to bring a washcloth?

 

[Mrs. BSR]

Well this place took an odd turn.Anyway, Woz, I'm not going to call you an idiot. What I will do is reiterate what I've mentioned to you before. You need to deal with your ex, one way or another. It's obviously affecting your everyday life. You can't go on dates and then have her text you, which in turn makes you think about her or worry or whatever. It's not fair to you or to the person you are on the date with.You'll need to do some soul searching and make a decision. Everything will be in limbo until you do.

Right... thought maybe just jumping back into dating was the idea. But, and this is tough for me to admit, the only real reason I'm doing it is for the physical. Thought maybe it'd help. But I've never been the guy who can dissassociate sexual feelings for actual (meaning they go together usually for me) so I basically just can't bring myself to go after a girl I know I'd only want for sex. We'll see where these two dates go though (definitely my two favorite contacts) and what a week or two of thinking about things does.

I would say get yourself a bottle of KY and a washcloth and deal with your ex before you start any more dating.

Why would she want me to bring a washcloth?

:sigh:

 

[Woz]

Well this place took an odd turn.Anyway, Woz, I'm not going to call you an idiot. What I will do is reiterate what I've mentioned to you before. You need to deal with your ex, one way or another. It's obviously affecting your everyday life. You can't go on dates and then have her text you, which in turn makes you think about her or worry or whatever. It's not fair to you or to the person you are on the date with.You'll need to do some soul searching and make a decision. Everything will be in limbo until you do.

Right... thought maybe just jumping back into dating was the idea. But, and this is tough for me to admit, the only real reason I'm doing it is for the physical. Thought maybe it'd help. But I've never been the guy who can dissassociate sexual feelings for actual (meaning they go together usually for me) so I basically just can't bring myself to go after a girl I know I'd only want for sex. We'll see where these two dates go though (definitely my two favorite contacts) and what a week or two of thinking about things does.

I would say get yourself a bottle of KY and a washcloth and deal with your ex before you start any more dating.

Why would she want me to bring a washcloth?

:sigh:

What? Can't I make a joke once in awhile?

 

[Notorious T.R.E.]

Well this place took an odd turn.Anyway, Woz, I'm not going to call you an idiot. What I will do is reiterate what I've mentioned to you before. You need to deal with your ex, one way or another. It's obviously affecting your everyday life. You can't go on dates and then have her text you, which in turn makes you think about her or worry or whatever. It's not fair to you or to the person you are on the date with.You'll need to do some soul searching and make a decision. Everything will be in limbo until you do.

Right... thought maybe just jumping back into dating was the idea. But, and this is tough for me to admit, the only real reason I'm doing it is for the physical. Thought maybe it'd help. But I've never been the guy who can dissassociate sexual feelings for actual (meaning they go together usually for me) so I basically just can't bring myself to go after a girl I know I'd only want for sex. We'll see where these two dates go though (definitely my two favorite contacts) and what a week or two of thinking about things does.

I would say get yourself a bottle of KY and a washcloth and deal with your ex before you start any more dating.

Why would she want me to bring a washcloth?

:sigh:

What? Can't I make a joke once in awhile?

Is she saying you need KY to rub one out?

 

[Kraft...]

Well this place took an odd turn.Anyway, Woz, I'm not going to call you an idiot. What I will do is reiterate what I've mentioned to you before. You need to deal with your ex, one way or another. It's obviously affecting your everyday life. You can't go on dates and then have her text you, which in turn makes you think about her or worry or whatever. It's not fair to you or to the person you are on the date with.You'll need to do some soul searching and make a decision. Everything will be in limbo until you do.

Right... thought maybe just jumping back into dating was the idea. But, and this is tough for me to admit, the only real reason I'm doing it is for the physical. Thought maybe it'd help. But I've never been the guy who can dissassociate sexual feelings for actual (meaning they go together usually for me) so I basically just can't bring myself to go after a girl I know I'd only want for sex. We'll see where these two dates go though (definitely my two favorite contacts) and what a week or two of thinking about things does.

I would say get yourself a bottle of KY and a washcloth and deal with your ex before you start any more dating.

:(

 

[Woz]

Well this place took an odd turn.Anyway, Woz, I'm not going to call you an idiot. What I will do is reiterate what I've mentioned to you before. You need to deal with your ex, one way or another. It's obviously affecting your everyday life. You can't go on dates and then have her text you, which in turn makes you think about her or worry or whatever. It's not fair to you or to the person you are on the date with.You'll need to do some soul searching and make a decision. Everything will be in limbo until you do.

Right... thought maybe just jumping back into dating was the idea. But, and this is tough for me to admit, the only real reason I'm doing it is for the physical. Thought maybe it'd help. But I've never been the guy who can dissassociate sexual feelings for actual (meaning they go together usually for me) so I basically just can't bring myself to go after a girl I know I'd only want for sex. We'll see where these two dates go though (definitely my two favorite contacts) and what a week or two of thinking about things does.

I would say get yourself a bottle of KY and a washcloth and deal with your ex before you start any more dating.

Why would she want me to bring a washcloth?

:sigh:

What? Can't I make a joke once in awhile?

Is she saying you need KY to rub one out?

Apparently... guess she's not too familiar with the ease of it.

 

[krista4]

...you on the other hand dont like younger guys!

My last boyfriend was 26, and I dated a guy just before my self-imposed hiatus who was 22. I always like younger guys, but have been actively trying to break myself of the habit. :(

What's not to like about us socially unaware, emotionally unstable but incredibly virulant younger guys??

Good point. Though I hope you meant "virile" rather than "virulent"...or are we talking about Otis here?

 

[ditka...mike ditka]

Well this place took an odd turn.Anyway, Woz, I'm not going to call you an idiot. What I will do is reiterate what I've mentioned to you before. You need to deal with your ex, one way or another. It's obviously affecting your everyday life. You can't go on dates and then have her text you, which in turn makes you think about her or worry or whatever. It's not fair to you or to the person you are on the date with.You'll need to do some soul searching and make a decision. Everything will be in limbo until you do.

Right... thought maybe just jumping back into dating was the idea. But, and this is tough for me to admit, the only real reason I'm doing it is for the physical. Thought maybe it'd help. But I've never been the guy who can dissassociate sexual feelings for actual (meaning they go together usually for me) so I basically just can't bring myself to go after a girl I know I'd only want for sex. We'll see where these two dates go though (definitely my two favorite contacts) and what a week or two of thinking about things does.

I would say get yourself a bottle of KY and a washcloth and deal with your ex before you start any more dating.

Why would she want me to bring a washcloth?

:sigh:

What? Can't I make a joke once in awhile?

Is she saying you need KY to rub one out?

Apparently... guess she's not too familiar with the ease of it.

 

[Woz]

...you on the other hand dont like younger guys!

My last boyfriend was 26, and I dated a guy just before my self-imposed hiatus who was 22. I always like younger guys, but have been actively trying to break myself of the habit. :(

What's not to like about us socially unaware, emotionally unstable but incredibly virulant younger guys??

Good point. Though I hope you meant "virile" rather than "virulent"...or are we talking about Otis here?

That's what I meant. Trust me when I say at my age I have zero of the performance problems that guy has. Young guys like me are basically a tommygun with never-ending bullets - which I suppose may actually be a bad thing at times.

 

[Duk]

...you on the other hand dont like younger guys!

My last boyfriend was 26, and I dated a guy just before my self-imposed hiatus who was 22. I always like younger guys, but have been actively trying to break myself of the habit. :(

What's not to like about us socially unaware, emotionally unstable but incredibly virulant younger guys??

Good point. Though I hope you meant "virile" rather than "virulent"...or are we talking about Otis here?

That's what I meant. Trust me when I say at my age I have zero of the performance problems that guy has. Young guys like me are basically a tommygun with never-ending bullets - which I suppose may actually be a bad thing at times.

:(

 

[cubbyMIH]

Quick update..........ended up getting out of my date with the large and in charge hispanic (beauty) tonight. She called and asked what I was wearing and I gave her the shorts and t-shirt bit (knowing she hates that) told her I was really trashed after 2 long days of work and would probably be no fun..........she asked if I wanted to do it some other time........... B I N G O............. B I N G O...........B I N G O..........and BINGO was her name-O. Rest and relaxation tonight before the 2 minxes on Sat and Sun. Otis..........I'm gunnin for ya brother.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Alright, so I went from not playing in this game yet to five dates in five days.

Tomorrow, we get the tallish blonde. She's cute, but not gorgeous, but she's pretty funny, so we should have a good time, if nothing else.

Sunday is the talker. She was nicknamed Shortie1 earlier, until our phone conversation, which was 10 minutes of her talking, and 30 seconds of me setting up the date. That should be interesting.

Monday is the shortest of all of them. She's cute, but she's 4'10". Of course, dating a 20 year old, and watching her go crazy on me didn't teach me ####. This girl just turned twenty.

Tuesday is the girl I like the most so far. She's average sized (except the chest...wee!), not fat, not thin...half Spanish, and extremely intelligent. She's studying to be an opera singer, so that's a little strange, but cool.

Wednesday is one-sentence girl. She doesn't send Match e-mails that are more than one sentence, but one of those was agreeing to drinks.

This is going to be an expensive week.

 

[krista4]

Quick update..........ended up getting out of my date with the large and in charge hispanic (beauty) tonight. She called and asked what I was wearing and I gave her the shorts and t-shirt bit (knowing she hates that) told her I was really trashed after 2 long days of work and would probably be no fun..........she asked if I wanted to do it some other time........... B I N G O............. B I N G O...........B I N G O..........and BINGO was her name-O. Rest and relaxation tonight before the 2 minxes on Sat and Sun. Otis..........I'm gunnin for ya brother.

And wow, does everything look weird in here to everyone else?

 

[krista4]

Alright, so I went from not playing in this game yet to five dates in five days.Tomorrow, we get the tallish blonde. She's cute, but not gorgeous, but she's pretty funny, so we should have a good time, if nothing else.Sunday is the talker. She was nicknamed Shortie1 earlier, until our phone conversation, which was 10 minutes of her talking, and 30 seconds of me setting up the date. That should be interesting.Monday is the shortest of all of them. She's cute, but she's 4'10". Of course, dating a 20 year old, and watching her go crazy on me didn't teach me ####. This girl just turned twenty.Tuesday is the girl I like the most so far. She's average sized (except the chest...wee!), not fat, not thin...half Spanish, and extremely intelligent. She's studying to be an opera singer, so that's a little strange, but cool.Wednesday is one-sentence girl. She doesn't send Match e-mails that are more than one sentence, but one of those was agreeing to drinks.This is going to be an expensive week.

Can't wait for these updates!!!Are we putting together a dating fund?

 

[Keys Myaths]

Alright, so I went from not playing in this game yet to five dates in five days.Tomorrow, we get the tallish blonde. She's cute, but not gorgeous, but she's pretty funny, so we should have a good time, if nothing else.Sunday is the talker. She was nicknamed Shortie1 earlier, until our phone conversation, which was 10 minutes of her talking, and 30 seconds of me setting up the date. That should be interesting.Monday is the shortest of all of them. She's cute, but she's 4'10". Of course, dating a 20 year old, and watching her go crazy on me didn't teach me ####. This girl just turned twenty.Tuesday is the girl I like the most so far. She's average sized (except the chest...wee!), not fat, not thin...half Spanish, and extremely intelligent. She's studying to be an opera singer, so that's a little strange, but cool.Wednesday is one-sentence girl. She doesn't send Match e-mails that are more than one sentence, but one of those was agreeing to drinks.This is going to be an expensive week.

Can't wait for these updates!!!Are we putting together a dating fund?

Update #1:Tonight was very cool. She was a bit bigger than I thought, so I was a little disappointed at first, but she still was very cute, so what the hell...Very grounded, great sense of humor, and just cool in general. Not over the top excited, but she's getting a second date out of the deal.So, a good start.A little nervous about tomorrow night, though. Not so sure about that one. Not only does she talk a lot, she has this thing where she says "yeah" after every sentence.But, I really don't have anything else better to do, so we'll give it a shot.

 

[cubbyMIH]

Ended up seeing the blind date friend of a neighbor tonight..........started slowly, ended VERY well if ya know what I mean. Complete update with all the gory details are at the underground. BTW, absolutely NO Otis type problems with this one. CWS with crazy chick tonight.

 

[Otis]

Going out tonight with a different group of female friends - three very attractive and one that I don't know. Much more conservative crowd than last night's, but I think I'll have to try to work this subject into conversation. I need to know if the girl-on-girl stuff is something that all my friends are doing and I've somehow missed it, sort of like I found out just AFTER high school that everyone was sleeping with everyone else while I thought that only the "bad" girls were doing it. I might need to have a lot of wine again. Will report back. Also will try to find pics.

 

[Otis]

Somewhere above someone asked me for an update.

I'm just back into town after an insane couple weeks of work and travel. Some clearer days ahead.

I met the flight attendant in real life and am hoping to set up a meeting with her soon. We'll see if I haven't scared her off yet.

I also have the other girl I have been dating semi-casually but am really into. However, she's been pushing me off and keeping her distance, so I just don't know what to make of that. We are going camping upstate next weekend with a big group of friends. Should be interesting.

Anyway, as for the iDating, I've posted pics here of some of the girls I have had potential with/been chatting with. Three or four have given me numbers and asked me to call them when they get back in town but, to be honest, I'm just not looking to do all this work at this point. Maybe once I break the ice I'll be more inclined. Which brings me to today...

Last night I sent out another Otis media barrage, emailing and winking a dozen or so girls in rapid-fire succession. A couple responded today, one of whom is pretty spontaneous. We exchanged a couple messages today and I suggested we just wing it, be spontaneous, and grab a drink tonight. She thinks it's a good idea. She looks pretty cute, blonde, and 32 years old -- here is a pic.

It's the only pic she had up, but it says she's 5'6", slender, so who knows. From the pic she seems cute. From her messages she also seems pretty laid back.

Anyway, she's meeting a girlfriend for drinks this afternoon, and I coincidentally also have drink plans near my place (with a girl who once gave me the clap... ). Afterwards I'll ring this girl and head into the city to meet her. Why not.

If I actually make it there, I'll post a report later.

This has been a Special Report from the Otis Dating Life Media Service. All rights reserved.

 

[Slinger]

here is a pic.

It's the only pic she had up, but it says she's 5'6", slender, so who knows.

I've been iDating before most of you even knew what iDating was so believe me when I say that having a pic from the neck down is very, very important. If you ever go to a woman's profile on myspace or wherever and she has 15 pictures, all from the neck up, run and run fast. With that said she seems pretty enough, so odds are she's not a beast, but don't expect her to super skinny either. I'd go in expecting a 7, which is fine if she has the personality that you're looking for.

 

[Otis]

here is a pic.

It's the only pic she had up, but it says she's 5'6", slender, so who knows.

I've been iDating before most of you even knew what iDating was so believe me when I say that having a pic from the neck down is very, very important. If you ever go to a woman's profile on myspace or wherever and she has 15 pictures, all from the neck up, run and run fast. With that said she seems pretty enough, so odds are she's not a beast, but don't expect her to super skinny either. I'd go in expecting a 7, which is fine if she has the personality that you're looking for.

Otis never turns away a 7.

 

[cubbyMIH]

Somewhere above someone asked me for an update.

I'm just back into town after an insane couple weeks of work and travel. Some clearer days ahead.

I met the flight attendant in real life and am hoping to set up a meeting with her soon. We'll see if I haven't scared her off yet.

I also have the other girl I have been dating semi-casually but am really into. However, she's been pushing me off and keeping her distance, so I just don't know what to make of that. We are going camping upstate next weekend with a big group of friends. Should be interesting.

Anyway, as for the iDating, I've posted pics here of some of the girls I have had potential with/been chatting with. Three or four have given me numbers and asked me to call them when they get back in town but, to be honest, I'm just not looking to do all this work at this point. Maybe once I break the ice I'll be more inclined. Which brings me to today...

Last night I sent out another Otis media barrage, emailing and winking a dozen or so girls in rapid-fire succession. A couple responded today, one of whom is pretty spontaneous. We exchanged a couple messages today and I suggested we just wing it, be spontaneous, and grab a drink tonight. She thinks it's a good idea. She looks pretty cute, blonde, and 32 years old -- here is a pic.

It's the only pic she had up, but it says she's 5'6", slender, so who knows. From the pic she seems cute. From her messages she also seems pretty laid back.

Anyway, she's meeting a girlfriend for drinks this afternoon, and I coincidentally also have drink plans near my place (with a girl who once gave me the clap... ). Afterwards I'll ring this girl and head into the city to meet her. Why not.

If I actually make it there, I'll post a report later.

This has been a Special Report from the Otis Dating Life Media Service. All rights reserved.

Shoulder up pic = Fatty. Ask me. Sincerely, the guy who's too nice to simply drive away as the fat girl approaches his car. Oh, her head shots were great.................Krista and others ASSURED me she probably wasn't really "fat".........maybe just insecure with her body. WRONG. Could be what ya need thought GB.......little slump busting never killed anyone. Ask Mark Grace.

 

[JAA]

BG, let me know if that pic makes me look bald. I had my hair pulled back, but I'm thinking it makes me look partially bald. Had another up first but it was in sepia tones and harder to see. Maybe I should go back to the sepia.

Like you said, girls can be their own worst critic...you look great to me

Thanks - I really appreciate that!I changed the pic, though.

 

[JAA]

Just joined match a few days ago and I've gotten a number of winks from interested ladies so far; only one of which I'm interested in. We exchanged emails today. Is it weird to respond quickly, or do you make them wait and want?

No advantage in waiting.....imo.Just don't sound desparate...you'll be fine.

Agree wholeheartedly.BG, I'll be interested to see what happens with TSB. As an observer, I can't figure it out. You did seem to be really into her, so I hope she'll come around and make her interest clear. Do you think, though, that not knowing what she's thinking makes you slightly more interested in her--i.e. the ol' "the fun is in the chase"?

As for me, I'll put the pic back up at the underground, but it's so tiny you can't see anything anyway. I'll look for another one. I figure it doesn't really matter, so long as GordonGekko's not here to tell me (unsolicited) that I'm a five.

WE NEED A WOZZY BEAR UPDATE!

Update:This is no fun to type, but there's really no updates. I'm coming to realize I'm not at all ready to give anything to anybody yet. I'm just finding no motivation to move on to anyone else. Normally I love all the little nuances of dating - like the phone calls, e-mails, initial approaches, etc. - but now I'm viewing those things like a chore. A very very hot chick e-mailed me the other day, one I'd normally be happy to even be talking to, but I saw she lived like 100 miles away and simply thought to myself, "great, gotta put aside another 5 minutes now to write this chick back." That's not how it's supposed to work. Otis shotguns off 80 e-mails in a sitting and loves every minute of it. I can't do that and without that type of borderline psychotic effort, I don't think I can succeed at this idating crap. What's caused this? Probably a combination of two things. First, that psycho chick scared the #### out of me. Really, that was a rather inauspicious start. Second, I'll admit, the ex still is present in my mind. Bring on the barrage of "Woz is a moron comments," but rational thought and one's feelings don't always coincide and are at times (this is probably one of the only times for me). Anyways, I still have two dates lined up with what look like two very cool girls. Not much else to update though.

Cheer up GB, the only way to turn your luck around is to keep trying. FWIW - your 2 psycho chicks werent iChicks. One was your needy ex and the other is the sister of a coworker. Get back to the grind son

 

[Otis]

Somewhere above someone asked me for an update.

I'm just back into town after an insane couple weeks of work and travel. Some clearer days ahead.

I met the flight attendant in real life and am hoping to set up a meeting with her soon. We'll see if I haven't scared her off yet.

I also have the other girl I have been dating semi-casually but am really into. However, she's been pushing me off and keeping her distance, so I just don't know what to make of that. We are going camping upstate next weekend with a big group of friends. Should be interesting.

Anyway, as for the iDating, I've posted pics here of some of the girls I have had potential with/been chatting with. Three or four have given me numbers and asked me to call them when they get back in town but, to be honest, I'm just not looking to do all this work at this point. Maybe once I break the ice I'll be more inclined. Which brings me to today...

Last night I sent out another Otis media barrage, emailing and winking a dozen or so girls in rapid-fire succession. A couple responded today, one of whom is pretty spontaneous. We exchanged a couple messages today and I suggested we just wing it, be spontaneous, and grab a drink tonight. She thinks it's a good idea. She looks pretty cute, blonde, and 32 years old -- here is a pic.

It's the only pic she had up, but it says she's 5'6", slender, so who knows. From the pic she seems cute. From her messages she also seems pretty laid back.

Anyway, she's meeting a girlfriend for drinks this afternoon, and I coincidentally also have drink plans near my place (with a girl who once gave me the clap... ). Afterwards I'll ring this girl and head into the city to meet her. Why not.

If I actually make it there, I'll post a report later.

This has been a Special Report from the Otis Dating Life Media Service. All rights reserved.

Shoulder up pic = Fatty. Ask me. Sincerely, the guy who's too nice to simply drive away as the fat girl approaches his car. Oh, her head shots were great.................Krista and others ASSURED me she probably wasn't really "fat".........maybe just insecure with her body. WRONG. Could be what ya need thought GB.......little slump busting never killed anyone. Ask Mark Grace.

Well, then she's completely lying in her profile, because her body type says "athletic and toned," under Exercise Habits it says "3-4 times per week," and under the diet portion it says "Keep it healthy." Maybe she just doesn't want dudes slobbering over her because she's got a killer body?A guy can hope anyway.

 

[krista4]

Somewhere above someone asked me for an update.

I'm just back into town after an insane couple weeks of work and travel. Some clearer days ahead.

I met the flight attendant in real life and am hoping to set up a meeting with her soon. We'll see if I haven't scared her off yet.

I also have the other girl I have been dating semi-casually but am really into. However, she's been pushing me off and keeping her distance, so I just don't know what to make of that. We are going camping upstate next weekend with a big group of friends. Should be interesting.

Anyway, as for the iDating, I've posted pics here of some of the girls I have had potential with/been chatting with. Three or four have given me numbers and asked me to call them when they get back in town but, to be honest, I'm just not looking to do all this work at this point. Maybe once I break the ice I'll be more inclined. Which brings me to today...

Last night I sent out another Otis media barrage, emailing and winking a dozen or so girls in rapid-fire succession. A couple responded today, one of whom is pretty spontaneous. We exchanged a couple messages today and I suggested we just wing it, be spontaneous, and grab a drink tonight. She thinks it's a good idea. She looks pretty cute, blonde, and 32 years old -- here is a pic.

It's the only pic she had up, but it says she's 5'6", slender, so who knows. From the pic she seems cute. From her messages she also seems pretty laid back.

Anyway, she's meeting a girlfriend for drinks this afternoon, and I coincidentally also have drink plans near my place (with a girl who once gave me the clap... ). Afterwards I'll ring this girl and head into the city to meet her. Why not.

If I actually make it there, I'll post a report later.

This has been a Special Report from the Otis Dating Life Media Service. All rights reserved.

Shoulder up pic = Fatty. Ask me. Sincerely, the guy who's too nice to simply drive away as the fat girl approaches his car. Oh, her head shots were great.................Krista and others ASSURED me she probably wasn't really "fat".........maybe just insecure with her body. WRONG. Could be what ya need thought GB.......little slump busting never killed anyone. Ask Mark Grace.

Well, then she's completely lying in her profile, because her body type says "athletic and toned," under Exercise Habits it says "3-4 times per week," and under the diet portion it says "Keep it healthy." Maybe she just doesn't want dudes slobbering over her because she's got a killer body?A guy can hope anyway.

Meh, I wouldn't put too much into this. One difference is that Cubby's girl TOLD him she was fat - we thought she was exaggerating. Yours has a face that looks thin and you can even see what looks like a toned shoulder. I'm sure she's fine. Spontaneous seems like the best way to go on these things - don't spend a million years e-mailing. Have a great time! ETA: "Head into the city"? You don't live in the city?

 

[Woz]

Alright, so I went from not playing in this game yet to five dates in five days.Tomorrow, we get the tallish blonde. She's cute, but not gorgeous, but she's pretty funny, so we should have a good time, if nothing else.Sunday is the talker. She was nicknamed Shortie1 earlier, until our phone conversation, which was 10 minutes of her talking, and 30 seconds of me setting up the date. That should be interesting.Monday is the shortest of all of them. She's cute, but she's 4'10". Of course, dating a 20 year old, and watching her go crazy on me didn't teach me ####. This girl just turned twenty.Tuesday is the girl I like the most so far. She's average sized (except the chest...wee!), not fat, not thin...half Spanish, and extremely intelligent. She's studying to be an opera singer, so that's a little strange, but cool.Wednesday is one-sentence girl. She doesn't send Match e-mails that are more than one sentence, but one of those was agreeing to drinks.This is going to be an expensive week.

Jesus Christ that's a lot of dates.

 

[mr. furley]

She looks pretty cute, blonde, and 32 years old -- here is a pic.

this one has the crazy. BAD

 

[Woz]

Well, Woz's mom got him a date with a surprisingly very good looking girl (it's the daughter of one of her college friends) - she got it on Friday so I'

ll call her tomorrow or something, but otherwise nothing to report. Was supposed to see a chick I went on a few dates with tonight, but she basically went AWOL on me so whatever.

Otherwise the idating sites are all blanks. Probably a good thing. I've hid all my profiles on the sites. Just can't get that one person from my past out of my head yet.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Alright, so I went from not playing in this game yet to five dates in five days.Tomorrow, we get the tallish blonde. She's cute, but not gorgeous, but she's pretty funny, so we should have a good time, if nothing else.Sunday is the talker. She was nicknamed Shortie1 earlier, until our phone conversation, which was 10 minutes of her talking, and 30 seconds of me setting up the date. That should be interesting.Monday is the shortest of all of them. She's cute, but she's 4'10". Of course, dating a 20 year old, and watching her go crazy on me didn't teach me ####. This girl just turned twenty.Tuesday is the girl I like the most so far. She's average sized (except the chest...wee!), not fat, not thin...half Spanish, and extremely intelligent. She's studying to be an opera singer, so that's a little strange, but cool.Wednesday is one-sentence girl. She doesn't send Match e-mails that are more than one sentence, but one of those was agreeing to drinks.This is going to be an expensive week.

Jesus Christ that's a lot of dates.

Read the underground.

 

[Woz]

Alright, so I went from not playing in this game yet to five dates in five days.Tomorrow, we get the tallish blonde. She's cute, but not gorgeous, but she's pretty funny, so we should have a good time, if nothing else.Sunday is the talker. She was nicknamed Shortie1 earlier, until our phone conversation, which was 10 minutes of her talking, and 30 seconds of me setting up the date. That should be interesting.Monday is the shortest of all of them. She's cute, but she's 4'10". Of course, dating a 20 year old, and watching her go crazy on me didn't teach me ####. This girl just turned twenty.Tuesday is the girl I like the most so far. She's average sized (except the chest...wee!), not fat, not thin...half Spanish, and extremely intelligent. She's studying to be an opera singer, so that's a little strange, but cool.Wednesday is one-sentence girl. She doesn't send Match e-mails that are more than one sentence, but one of those was agreeing to drinks.This is going to be an expensive week.

Jesus Christ that's a lot of dates.

Read the underground.

An offer to stay over?? Damn you must be doing something right.

 

[krista4]

Alright, so I went from not playing in this game yet to five dates in five days.Tomorrow, we get the tallish blonde. She's cute, but not gorgeous, but she's pretty funny, so we should have a good time, if nothing else.Sunday is the talker. She was nicknamed Shortie1 earlier, until our phone conversation, which was 10 minutes of her talking, and 30 seconds of me setting up the date. That should be interesting.Monday is the shortest of all of them. She's cute, but she's 4'10". Of course, dating a 20 year old, and watching her go crazy on me didn't teach me ####. This girl just turned twenty.Tuesday is the girl I like the most so far. She's average sized (except the chest...wee!), not fat, not thin...half Spanish, and extremely intelligent. She's studying to be an opera singer, so that's a little strange, but cool.Wednesday is one-sentence girl. She doesn't send Match e-mails that are more than one sentence, but one of those was agreeing to drinks.This is going to be an expensive week.

Jesus Christ that's a lot of dates.

Read the underground.

I read it and responded. She's nuts. Are you going out with shortie1 tonight?

 

[Keys Myaths]

Alright, so I went from not playing in this game yet to five dates in five days.Tomorrow, we get the tallish blonde. She's cute, but not gorgeous, but she's pretty funny, so we should have a good time, if nothing else.Sunday is the talker. She was nicknamed Shortie1 earlier, until our phone conversation, which was 10 minutes of her talking, and 30 seconds of me setting up the date. That should be interesting.Monday is the shortest of all of them. She's cute, but she's 4'10". Of course, dating a 20 year old, and watching her go crazy on me didn't teach me ####. This girl just turned twenty.Tuesday is the girl I like the most so far. She's average sized (except the chest...wee!), not fat, not thin...half Spanish, and extremely intelligent. She's studying to be an opera singer, so that's a little strange, but cool.Wednesday is one-sentence girl. She doesn't send Match e-mails that are more than one sentence, but one of those was agreeing to drinks.This is going to be an expensive week.

Jesus Christ that's a lot of dates.

Read the underground.

I read it and responded. She's nuts. Are you going out with shortie1 tonight?

Nuts? Probably a little.But, I attract the crazy like no other. You know this.And yes, shortie1 is tonight. Honestly, I'm a little skiddish, but I'm going to give her a chance anyway.

 

[krista4]

Read the underground.

I read it and responded. She's nuts. Are you going out with shortie1 tonight?

Nuts? Probably a little.But, I attract the crazy like no other. You know this.

And yes, shortie1 is tonight. Honestly, I'm a little skiddish, but I'm going to give her a chance anyway.

Not sure that you can claim this crown as long as Woz is around, but I'll admit that it's very close. Have a great time tonight!

 

[mr. furley]

Alright, so I went from not playing in this game yet to five dates in five days.

Tomorrow, we get the tallish blonde. She's cute, but not gorgeous, but she's pretty funny, so we should have a good time, if nothing else.

Sunday is the talker. She was nicknamed Shortie1 earlier, until our phone conversation, which was 10 minutes of her talking, and 30 seconds of me setting up the date. That should be interesting.

Monday is the shortest of all of them. She's cute, but she's 4'10". Of course, dating a 20 year old, and watching her go crazy on me didn't teach me ####. This girl just turned twenty.

Tuesday is the girl I like the most so far. She's average sized (except the chest...wee!), not fat, not thin...half Spanish, and extremely intelligent. She's studying to be an opera singer, so that's a little strange, but cool.

Wednesday is one-sentence girl. She doesn't send Match e-mails that are more than one sentence, but one of those was agreeing to drinks.

This is going to be an expensive week.

Jesus Christ that's a lot of dates.

Read the underground.

I read it and responded. She's nuts. Are you going out with shortie1 tonight?

Nuts? Probably a little.But, I attract the crazy like no other. You know this.

And yes, shortie1 is tonight. Honestly, I'm a little skiddish, but I'm going to give her a chance anyway.

this just popped in to my head.now that you're in Madison, you should check this place out.

run by the family of a friend. it's excellent. small, so it can be tough to get a table sometimes.. but the food is great.

 

[cubbyMIH]

New update on the underground about crazy chick. Not crazy at all. Very reserved. Was a little bit of a tough night, she's coming from an abusive relationship............had a hard time letting go. She's cute as a bug though, nice little body, blond, spend the entire 3 1/2 hours at the CWS championship with me tonight. I'll try to see her again, but I'm afraid the effort to get her to open up will wear me down in short order. After last night's go-round with blind date girl, probably better this girl was reserved. I needed a break. Endurance obviously not up to Otis levels yet. Maybe it was because I finished?

 

[Tirnan]

Met my friends idate today. She looks a hell of a lot better in real life than her picture. Still not hot, but not completely scary either. They met for lunch Friday and had a great meet and greet apparently. He went to her church to hear her sing Sunday morning etc etc blah blah blah. Nothing exciting to report. All in all she seems like a nice enough girl looking to build toward a relationship but SLOWLY. No imminent signs of some good old fashion train wreck yet. I really got the feel that she is a girl looking for a friend who may become a boyfriend. My boy also seems to have turned a corner and quelled his expectations somewhat.

Tirnan

If he keeps up I may have to share some of my old between marriages personal dating disasters.... just so I feel like I'm contributing or something.

 

[Pip's Invitation]

Last night I sent out another Otis media barrage, emailing and winking a dozen or so girls in rapid-fire succession. A couple responded today, one of whom is pretty spontaneous. We exchanged a couple messages today and I suggested we just wing it, be spontaneous, and grab a drink tonight. She thinks it's a good idea. She looks pretty cute, blonde, and 32 years old -- here is a pic.

Control freak at the office, drunken slut outside of it. If she seeks a relationship, run.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Well, that was the worst date i've been on in a while. Details tomorrow.

 

[Otis]

She looks pretty cute, blonde, and 32 years old -- here is a pic.

this one has the crazy. BAD

This turns out to be about accurate I think.I ended up taking the girl home who I met earlier, so I never met up with this chick. We exchanged texts for a while and then I was hammered and just ended up not responding anymore. She proceeded to text me a few times, call me three times, and leave me two voicemails.

Her pic looks good so I'm still tempted to give her a go sometime this week but, man, why is someone not teaching these women to play hard to get?

 

[BassNBrew]

She looks pretty cute, blonde, and 32 years old -- here is a pic.

this one has the crazy. BAD

This turns out to be about accurate I think.I ended up taking the girl home who I met earlier, so I never met up with this chick. We exchanged texts for a while and then I was hammered and just ended up not responding anymore. She proceeded to text me a few times, call me three times, and leave me two voicemails.

Her pic looks good so I'm still tempted to give her a go sometime this week but, man, why is someone not teaching these women to play hard to get?

They don't want to waste a lot of time on a guy who's likely a flounder when there's plenty of fish in the sea. You have little margin for not playing on their terms when there's another dozen that look identical to you in profile wise waiting in the wings.

 

[Woz]

Well, that was the worst date i've been on in a while. Details tomorrow.

isn't she the one who wanted you to stay over? even i could see that's a red flag

 

[Woz]

She looks pretty cute, blonde, and 32 years old -- here is a pic.

this one has the crazy. BAD

This turns out to be about accurate I think.I ended up taking the girl home who I met earlier, so I never met up with this chick. We exchanged texts for a while and then I was hammered and just ended up not responding anymore. She proceeded to text me a few times, call me three times, and leave me two voicemails.

Her pic looks good so I'm still tempted to give her a go sometime this week but, man, why is someone not teaching these women to play hard to get?

Wait... wasn't this the crazy clap girl you were meeting first? You took her home??

 

[mr. furley]

She looks pretty cute, blonde, and 32 years old -- here is a pic.

this one has the crazy. BAD

This turns out to be about accurate I think.I ended up taking the girl home who I met earlier, so I never met up with this chick. We exchanged texts for a while and then I was hammered and just ended up not responding anymore. She proceeded to text me a few times, call me three times, and leave me two voicemails.

Her pic looks good so I'm still tempted to give her a go sometime this week but, man, why is someone not teaching these women to play hard to get?

ordinarily i'd say spotting the crazy is a special skill of mine... but in this case she's wearing it on her sleeve. :fishinabarrel:

 

[krista4]

Well, that was the worst date i've been on in a while. Details tomorrow.

isn't she the one who wanted you to stay over? even i could see that's a red flag

No, that's the one he's seeing tonight!