Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
So, Woz, want to update everyone on my situation? You know it better than me at this point.
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***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (4 Viewers)
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Uruk-Hai
Footballguy
Was she the one I said was either bat-**** crazy or completely together? If so, I'm guessing no psycho traits were evident (or you just got to the point where you didn't give a damnDisco Stu said:This was who came over tonight. That pic doesn't do her justice. At all. I was shocked that she was hiding 34Ds under there...Random local myspace chick started sending messages tonight. I don't use myspace for dating, but apparently she does...
She was pushing for a meeting ASAP, which kind of caught me off guard. Maybe I got used to the coyness of these younger girls.
Damn it's late...
She has a better (NSFW) pic on her phone that I'm going to do my best to acquire.
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Uruk-Hai
Footballguy
You need to find out where she is with the "we're exclusive/not exclusive" thing, but not knowing her makes it tough to recommend an entry point. This can be a touchy subject for a bunch of different reasons and approach (rather than what you're actually saying) can mean everything. Sometimes being direct is best & sometimes you have to approach from odd angles or over a period of time - depends on the person. I know this isn't much help. You know her - at least, a little - and if you can't come up with a way that would not upset the status quo then you may just have to come right out & say what's on your mind.cubbyMIH said:
Uruk-Hai
Footballguy
try 216 miles
The Z Machine
Footballguy
This is some ridiculous ####.
Also, can you fellas estimate what percentage of the women you date have children?
Also, can you fellas estimate what percentage of the women you date have children?
Keys Myaths
Pokerguy
0% for me.
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
This is probably going to be completely dependent on our age. The divorced >30 guys are naturally going to date more moms.I'd guess around 33% for me but it could easily jump to 50%.
Uruk-Hai
Footballguy
When I started dating again in my late 30s, I'd say 80% of the women I met had kids. Most were older (teens) or no longer living at home, but some had young children (most of these were professional women who had established careers before starting families).
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
Yeah, that's the one. I had talked to her once on the phone and the smart money moved to bat-#### crazy. She had a court date that day though (she's also going through divorce... complete with custody battle), so I think that brought the crazy closer to the surface than usual.She was definitely on the backburner, but I was bored when she sent me a text Saturday night. Your advice that I needed to meet her turned out to be very good.Was she the one I said was either bat-**** crazy or completely together? If so, I'm guessing no psycho traits were evident (or you just got to the point where you didn't give a damnDisco Stu said:This was who came over tonight. That pic doesn't do her justice. At all. I was shocked that she was hiding 34Ds under there...Random local myspace chick started sending messages tonight. I don't use myspace for dating, but apparently she does...
She was pushing for a meeting ASAP, which kind of caught me off guard. Maybe I got used to the coyness of these younger girls.
Damn it's late...
She has a better (NSFW) pic on her phone that I'm going to do my best to acquire.
Uruk-Hai
Footballguy
Obviously, your impression of her is positive right now. How would you describe her, personality-wise?Yeah, that's the one. I had talked to her once on the phone and the smart money moved to bat-#### crazy. She had a court date that day though (she's also going through divorce... complete with custody battle), so I think that brought the crazy closer to the surface than usual.She was definitely on the backburner, but I was bored when she sent me a text Saturday night. Your advice that I needed to meet her turned out to be very good.Was she the one I said was either bat-**** crazy or completely together? If so, I'm guessing no psycho traits were evident (or you just got to the point where you didn't give a damnDisco Stu said:This was who came over tonight. That pic doesn't do her justice. At all. I was shocked that she was hiding 34Ds under there...Random local myspace chick started sending messages tonight. I don't use myspace for dating, but apparently she does...
She was pushing for a meeting ASAP, which kind of caught me off guard. Maybe I got used to the coyness of these younger girls.
Damn it's late...
She has a better (NSFW) pic on her phone that I'm going to do my best to acquire.
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
Obviously, your impression of her is positive right now. How would you describe her, personality-wise?Yeah, that's the one. I had talked to her once on the phone and the smart money moved to bat-#### crazy. She had a court date that day though (she's also going through divorce... complete with custody battle), so I think that brought the crazy closer to the surface than usual.She was definitely on the backburner, but I was bored when she sent me a text Saturday night. Your advice that I needed to meet her turned out to be very good.Was she the one I said was either bat-**** crazy or completely together? If so, I'm guessing no psycho traits were evident (or you just got to the point where you didn't give a damnDisco Stu said:This was who came over tonight. That pic doesn't do her justice. At all. I was shocked that she was hiding 34Ds under there...Random local myspace chick started sending messages tonight. I don't use myspace for dating, but apparently she does...
She was pushing for a meeting ASAP, which kind of caught me off guard. Maybe I got used to the coyness of these younger girls.
Damn it's late...
She has a better (NSFW) pic on her phone that I'm going to do my best to acquire.
Maybe fun and outgoing? Honestly we didn't talk that much... We talked mainly about our divorces and what led to them. I think that (and the sexy time) makes it a good short-term fit for both of us. As far as I can tell she's not expecting anything serious to develop either... Famous last words?
cubbyMIH
Footballguy
So far, 4 dates in a couple of weeks, I'm 37. 1 24 year old who had no kids and hadn't been previously married, a 29 year old with 3 kids, a 37 year old with 2 kids, and the 4th is the next week date.........she's 37 and has no kids. Was previously in a fairly serious relationship with a 23 year old with no kids before this whole i-dating thing started.
You have 800 ####### dates in a row with girls texting you left and right even when you were out here and I just got back to my comp after a 3 day hiatus and got nothing
ditka...mike ditka
Footballguy
so I got this girl that wants to meet up on friday who is coming back from college up to Chicago for the weekend and wants to know when I want to hang out on friday. Either dinner time or at night on saturday. Her reasoning is that she is going to meet another guy during the other time, and then is meeting two guys at different times on saturday as well. Girl seems kinda desperate/crazy to be trying to squeeze all those dates in in two days, plus telling the people she is going out with about it (i might try one date fri, and one date sat, but i think what she is doing is overkill)...seem wierd to anyone else? I think i may blow this one off
also, I had a very promising date friday that I will update you all on in a bit.
also, I had a very promising date friday that I will update you all on in a bit.
wilked
Footballguy
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http://www.byebyelist.com
Basically it allows you to do an image search of craigslist. Select W4M, then search away...
Works great for furniture too, I found a great table easily this way
http://www.byebyelist.com
Basically it allows you to do an image search of craigslist. Select W4M, then search away...
Works great for furniture too, I found a great table easily this way
krista4
Footballguy
Seems very weird to me. Proceed with caution.
Have you seen "birthday girl" again lately?ditka...mike ditka
Footballguy
I havent seen her. She called saturday though. Kinda funny cause it was right after I was talking to a buddy about my date friday night and one of her good friends was around, so im assuming she called and told her. Anyway, she called asking what I was doing, and what i did the night before (acting like she didnt know) so i just told her what I did and told her how I have no interest in being anything but friends with her. She wanted to talk about it more, but I just told her I was out with my friends and if she wanted anymore explanation to call me sometime during the week. I doubt she calls, she didnt seem happy. so that was good!Anyway, on Friday I went on a date with a nurse who is 7 years older than me but hasnt been married and doesnt have any kids (shes 32, im 25). From what I understand a couple of long relationships that she just ended up realizing werent good for her for whatever reasons. I almost canceled because I was soo exhausted and she was tired as well, but we figured we should still at least meet up for awhile. Anyway, I picked her up out by her place (about 45 min from where I live) and when I got there her and her brother were sitting on the front porch, so I had to meet him, but he seemed nice. She was gorgeous though. Better than I expected. Long dark hair, good smile, tan, nice body. Then she suggested just going to restarant/bar for a few drinks. So we got there around 830, and before we knew it it was 1 am. At that time we tried to run over to this other bar that we saw was setting up for a band around 8 when we drove by, but by the time we got there they were done playing, so she suggested going back to her place and making a pizza and watching TV. I knew her brother would be home so doubted anything good would happen so I wanted to play the nice guy card (which i am anyway) so I went over and we made the pizza, I ate a couple of slices then just said "alright, well im pretty tired and I know you are too so I'm going to get going." So she walked me out, gave me a hug, and I left. I figure why look anxious the first time out since im actually interested in this girl for more than just a one night thing.So I figured im not going to call saturday so I called her last night since she was leaving for New York today. It rang like 4 times and I figured she wasnt going to answer then i hear "hold on, hold on, ill call you right back....hello"...I guess she was on her house phone and she hung up with her sister to talk to me. So thats a good sign! We talked for about 20 min then I said "well you should probably call your sister back and im getting to my softball game so Ill just try to get ahold of you when you get back from New York." to which she replied "well it was really nice talking to you, ill give you a call Wednesday or Thursday while im there". So i think me finally being able to play the whole "non chalant(sp?)" not overeagerly interested guy is turning out to be kinda money! we will see if she actually calls though!Seems very weird to me. Proceed with caution.
krista4
Footballguy
I havent seen her. She called saturday though. Kinda funny cause it was right after I was talking to a buddy about my date friday night and one of her good friends was around, so im assuming she called and told her. Anyway, she called asking what I was doing, and what i did the night before (acting like she didnt know) so i just told her what I did and told her how I have no interest in being anything but friends with her. She wanted to talk about it more, but I just told her I was out with my friends and if she wanted anymore explanation to call me sometime during the week. I doubt she calls, she didnt seem happy. so that was good!Anyway, on Friday I went on a date with a nurse who is 7 years older than me but hasnt been married and doesnt have any kids (shes 32, im 25). From what I understand a couple of long relationships that she just ended up realizing werent good for her for whatever reasons. I almost canceled because I was soo exhausted and she was tired as well, but we figured we should still at least meet up for awhile. Anyway, I picked her up out by her place (about 45 min from where I live) and when I got there her and her brother were sitting on the front porch, so I had to meet him, but he seemed nice. She was gorgeous though. Better than I expected. Long dark hair, good smile, tan, nice body. Then she suggested just going to restarant/bar for a few drinks. So we got there around 830, and before we knew it it was 1 am. At that time we tried to run over to this other bar that we saw was setting up for a band around 8 when we drove by, but by the time we got there they were done playing, so she suggested going back to her place and making a pizza and watching TV. I knew her brother would be home so doubted anything good would happen so I wanted to play the nice guy card (which i am anyway) so I went over and we made the pizza, I ate a couple of slices then just said "alright, well im pretty tired and I know you are too so I'm going to get going." So she walked me out, gave me a hug, and I left. I figure why look anxious the first time out since im actually interested in this girl for more than just a one night thing.So I figured im not going to call saturday so I called her last night since she was leaving for New York today. It rang like 4 times and I figured she wasnt going to answer then i hear "hold on, hold on, ill call you right back....hello"...I guess she was on her house phone and she hung up with her sister to talk to me. So thats a good sign! We talked for about 20 min then I said "well you should probably call your sister back and im getting to my softball game so Ill just try to get ahold of you when you get back from New York." to which she replied "well it was really nice talking to you, ill give you a call Wednesday or Thursday while im there". So i think me finally being able to play the whole "non chalant(sp?)" not overeagerly interested guy is turning out to be kinda money! we will see if she actually calls though!Seems very weird to me. Proceed with caution.
Sounds like you're doing great! I think it's also because the 32-year-old is probably a bit more mature and less willing to play games, too. Glad you drew a line on the other one - she was definitely a 
Pip's Invitation
Footballguy
It's not uncommon to squeeze in a bunch of iDates at once. Keys did it. However, it's more than a little odd to bring the others up to one of the iDates. Even if nothing is meant by it, it gives off a "you're just a statistic" vibe. There's no need to bring up others that you might be seeing until someone wants to ramp the relationship up a notch.ditka...mike ditka said:
ditka...mike ditka
Footballguy
Pip's Invitation
Footballguy
Oh -- As of Saturday, The Future Mrs. Pip, whom I met on eharmony, is now The Future Mrs. Pip For Real. I proposed and she said yes.
Tremendous Upside
Footballguy
Otis
Footballguy
OTIS iDATES 2 AND 3 LINED UP FOR TODAY -- A DOUBLEHEADER
My first match "date" wasn't much of anything. She only had one pic up and I was warned here about the lack of body shots. You all were right. I squeezed her in for a single fifteen minute drink between a meeting with friends at the same bar and a meeting with another chick at another bar. She came to me, I bought one drink, and cut bait. The end was awkward but I can deal with that.
I've been busy traveling and dating non-iGirls, so I haven't had much time to advance the ball in the match realm. That said, I updated my profile recently and have now had a constant barrage of winks and messages, several or more per day. It's too easy. Most uninteresting, but some not bad. I still on occasion shoot out some messages of my own when I'm bored.
I just lined up drinks with one I started e-mailing with a few hours ago. She's coming to the bar next to my office for some afternoon margaritas in the sun. It's beautiful in NYC today.
Then, later on, I have drinks lined up with another whom I have been messaging with since just before the weekend.
So today is the first doubleheader. Should be interesting.
My first match "date" wasn't much of anything. She only had one pic up and I was warned here about the lack of body shots. You all were right. I squeezed her in for a single fifteen minute drink between a meeting with friends at the same bar and a meeting with another chick at another bar. She came to me, I bought one drink, and cut bait. The end was awkward but I can deal with that.
I've been busy traveling and dating non-iGirls, so I haven't had much time to advance the ball in the match realm. That said, I updated my profile recently and have now had a constant barrage of winks and messages, several or more per day. It's too easy. Most uninteresting, but some not bad. I still on occasion shoot out some messages of my own when I'm bored.
I just lined up drinks with one I started e-mailing with a few hours ago. She's coming to the bar next to my office for some afternoon margaritas in the sun. It's beautiful in NYC today.
Then, later on, I have drinks lined up with another whom I have been messaging with since just before the weekend.
So today is the first doubleheader. Should be interesting.
Otis
Footballguy
Nice!Congrats!Another eHarmony success story (make sure you write to them and get your free Tiffany's bowl)
Congrats.
ScottNorwood
Footballcutie
This could be... an everlasting loveNice!Congrats!Another eHarmony success story (make sure you write to them and get your free Tiffany's bowl)
Pip's Invitation
Footballguy
Thanks, all!Nice!Congrats!Another eHarmony success story (make sure you write to them and get your free Tiffany's bowl)
mr. furley
Footballguy
ditka...mike ditka
Footballguy
Otis
Footballguy
Try, try againthats the spirit woz!!!Since I've been getting ishutdown a ton as a of late and have no idea what the hell happened to the three dates I was/am supposed to have this week, I decided to message AMBO again.
culdeus
Footballguy
I have no idea how you guys handle these dismounts which seem fairly common.
Figured it's like I'm 0-3 with 2 Ks and a double play, so I opened up the stance a little bit, held my hands higher, and took a cut at a high and inside fastball I probably can't catch up to... but if I do that ####er is outta here.I'll take 1-4 with a bomb anyday.Since I've been getting ishutdown a ton as a of late and have no idea what the hell happened to the three dates I was/am supposed to have this week, I decided to message AMBO again.
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Otis
Footballguy
It was super awkward for sure, but you do what you have to do.I just had drinks with my first date today. At first I wasn't all that into her, but she grew on me. She's that one chick who looks better in pictures than in real life -- in fact, after our second drink she started showing me some family pictures she had in her purse. She was beautiful in her pics, and just sort of "OK" in real life. Wasn't sure what to make of that.
Either way, awesome chick, definitely not ugly, and we had a fun time. She was into me, I think, and we may hang out again, as friends or otherwise, who knows.
Now I'm off to meet up with today's #2.
:X
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
I meant to provide details at the underground today but didn't have time. Just got "booty texted"More detailsDisco Stu said:Update: she just left. Let's just say this went well...zander_s said:Good start!!Can't wait to hear how this goes.Disco Stu said:Chick I've never met is bringing me food right now (11pm).
so it's gonna have to wait.Well, WTF? I assumed that's what a 10pm text of "wanna come over" meant. Now as I was typing this she replied to my "sure" with "wanna come out even if we don't have sex?" Bad beat. Gotta be red menace, assuming that wasn't just a test.
Slinger
Footballguy
She's testing you. Go to her house.
Otis
Footballguy
Just back from date #2. I was INCHES from getting her home. She had an annoying voice and an ok personality but a killer body. By the end of the date, the first two just melted into the third. If I'd have pushed, I could have gotten her home. We made a scene for about 20 minutes outside the bar as we left. I had my hands on her like Beethoven on a piano as she debated how much she liked me and how she thinks I would never call her back if she came home with me the first night. I started to feel guilty and decided not to force the issue. Call me a good guy tonight. Had I pushed, she'd be here now.
Oh well.
Oh well.
InvisiPickles
Footballguy
I'd say you made the right choice here, nothing worse than fielding phone calls from a chick you can't stand. Better off showing the juice hermit who's boss for the night.
Disco Stu
Confirmed FBGal
Yeah I had to go at that point regardless. Pot commited to continue the tired analogy. Turned out to be a little bit of both... not enough of the first to be an issue.
GD am I going to be tired at work tomorrow...
Bankerguy
Footballguy
Update:
Although not necessarily an "i.date", just an interesting story.
Went up to a friends house this weekend. They hold an annual all weekend party at their house. There were about 8-9 of us people came and went throughout the weekend. Anyway one of the single girls there was very attractive and we hd met before when I was married, but even then I remembered thinking.....
. In my normal tradition I will give her "name", so, let's call her "Hot Cougar" (She is 40, me 33).
More background, the entire weekend we all spent drinking, swimming in pool, going out to bars, talking. Lot's of sexual talk going on....not just Hot Cougar and I.....but everyone. A weird dynamic. OK, so the last night there we are all pretty drunk and someone suggests eating dinner in "character" (We write down an idea for someone else to act out). Long story short....I write the following. "You are an ex stipper who like to show off your old work moves and hearing the word wine will will make you have a big O". So, I am praying "Hot Cougar" get this one.....she does!!!! She gets a big smile on her face after reading her sheet and says to me ....this was yours right? I nod. She then asks the female host of the house to borrow some clothes to get in character more.
About 10 mins later she comes down wearing high heels, a short mini skirt and this camesol/bra type thing. Everyone in the house is like
. I won't bore you with the other details of the other characters being played...but needless to say dinner was a laugh riot and all characters had a sexual component to them. So, time for dessert......The host make fancy coffee's with Baileys and whip cream......"Hot Cougar" spoons out the whip cream and rubs it on her mostly exposed chest. She then proceeds to straddle me at the dinner in front of everyone and I licked off every bit I could find, and then some. Oh good times....and yes "it moved".
Later in the night 3 of us decide to go skinny dipping. Me/a female friend of mine (not hot) and "Hot Cougar". I am trying to figure a way to move in......no chance with the damn third wheel there. Getting annoyed, I decide nothing is going to happen so I went inside and towel off and to get ready for bed. The girls come back in shortly after and the third wheel goes upstairs to change. I know this is my only chance.
I approach and her back is to me.......I wrapped my arms around her and whispered "have you been teasing me all night". She shakes her head no and we start to make out right there in the kitchen. ####.....the third wheel is coming back downstairs. We stop and separate.....I then proceed to my bed the couch, and Hot Cougar....upstairs.
Third wheel is basically standing gaurd in the office same floor as me. (She is friends with us both....and not wanting for anything to happen).
OK...this is taking forever......i have to leave for work......I promise I will finish the story as soon as I get in.
Although not necessarily an "i.date", just an interesting story.
Went up to a friends house this weekend. They hold an annual all weekend party at their house. There were about 8-9 of us people came and went throughout the weekend. Anyway one of the single girls there was very attractive and we hd met before when I was married, but even then I remembered thinking.....
. In my normal tradition I will give her "name", so, let's call her "Hot Cougar" (She is 40, me 33).More background, the entire weekend we all spent drinking, swimming in pool, going out to bars, talking. Lot's of sexual talk going on....not just Hot Cougar and I.....but everyone. A weird dynamic. OK, so the last night there we are all pretty drunk and someone suggests eating dinner in "character" (We write down an idea for someone else to act out). Long story short....I write the following. "You are an ex stipper who like to show off your old work moves and hearing the word wine will will make you have a big O". So, I am praying "Hot Cougar" get this one.....she does!!!! She gets a big smile on her face after reading her sheet and says to me ....this was yours right? I nod. She then asks the female host of the house to borrow some clothes to get in character more.
About 10 mins later she comes down wearing high heels, a short mini skirt and this camesol/bra type thing. Everyone in the house is like
. I won't bore you with the other details of the other characters being played...but needless to say dinner was a laugh riot and all characters had a sexual component to them. So, time for dessert......The host make fancy coffee's with Baileys and whip cream......"Hot Cougar" spoons out the whip cream and rubs it on her mostly exposed chest. She then proceeds to straddle me at the dinner in front of everyone and I licked off every bit I could find, and then some. Oh good times....and yes "it moved".Later in the night 3 of us decide to go skinny dipping. Me/a female friend of mine (not hot) and "Hot Cougar". I am trying to figure a way to move in......no chance with the damn third wheel there. Getting annoyed, I decide nothing is going to happen so I went inside and towel off and to get ready for bed. The girls come back in shortly after and the third wheel goes upstairs to change. I know this is my only chance.
I approach and her back is to me.......I wrapped my arms around her and whispered "have you been teasing me all night". She shakes her head no and we start to make out right there in the kitchen. ####.....the third wheel is coming back downstairs. We stop and separate.....I then proceed to my bed the couch, and Hot Cougar....upstairs.
Third wheel is basically standing gaurd in the office same floor as me. (She is friends with us both....and not wanting for anything to happen).
OK...this is taking forever......i have to leave for work......I promise I will finish the story as soon as I get in.
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Uruk-Hai
Footballguy
Why is Third Wheel so protective of Hot Cougar? I mean, she's a 40 year old woman & presumably can take care of herself. Or does 3rd Wheel have a thing for you & doesn't want you hooking up with someone else? Either way, if you're good friends with her maybe you should tell her to ease off & let you have some fun. Although, by the way you left the story, I have a feeling you found a way.
