***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (1 Viewer)

[Disco Stu]

So, Latina girl just called me to invite me to some outdoor shopping thing in town tomorrow afternoon and go to dinner. But then, she's meeting a friend to go to some opera #### that night.For a review, we've been on two dates, they've been fun, she's very attractive and a riot to be around, but it just hasn't seemed like we've clicked on that level. Nothing physical has happened at all.Basically, after date #2, I wrote her off, but why is she still pursuing this?

Please review your sig.

If the problem is a lack of the physical, this sounds like a terrible date idea. I'd come up with an excuse here...

 

[Slinger]

Basically, after date #2, I wrote her off, but why is she still pursuing this?

Do you think you're on her friend's ladder?

 

[krista4]

So, Latina girl just called me to invite me to some outdoor shopping thing in town tomorrow afternoon and go to dinner. But then, she's meeting a friend to go to some opera #### that night.

For a review, we've been on two dates, they've been fun, she's very attractive and a riot to be around, but it just hasn't seemed like we've clicked on that level. Nothing physical has happened at all.

Basically, after date #2, I wrote her off, but why is she still pursuing this?

Please review your sig.

If the problem is a lack of the physical, this sounds like a terrible date idea. I'd come up with an excuse here...

Fixed.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Basically, after date #2, I wrote her off, but why is she still pursuing this?

Do you think you're on her friend's ladder?

I thought about this, but it would be very weird to be put there if we met on a dating site. If that's the case, more power to her.Canceling is a good idea, though.

 

[Slinger]

Basically, after date #2, I wrote her off, but why is she still pursuing this?

Do you think you're on her friend's ladder?

I thought about this, but it would be very weird to be put there if we met on a dating site. If that's the case, more power to her.Canceling is a good idea, though.

Women are weird like that. I agree that you should cancel. I think your next date should be to 'hang out and rent a movie'. If you can't get a kiss out of that then you're officially a friend.

 

[Kraft...]

Got a really nasty message from blondie today...My favorite part, "I chose to ignore the 'no' you texted me. It just proves what a selfish arrogant ******* you are though."She hit that pretty spot-on.

Nice, so she did see the "no". Any other nuggets?

 

[code]

Basically, after date #2, I wrote her off, but why is she still pursuing this?

Do you think you're on her friend's ladder?

I thought about this, but it would be very weird to be put there if we met on a dating site. If that's the case, more power to her.Canceling is a good idea, though.

There seems to be a bit of a hanger-on problem with our iDaters here...Why not just say you're not interested in her?

 

[Keys Myaths]

Got a really nasty message from blondie today...My favorite part, "I chose to ignore the 'no' you texted me. It just proves what a selfish arrogant ******* you are though."She hit that pretty spot-on.

Nice, so she did see the "no". Any other nuggets?

Nah, just the typical "I hate you, you never called me" stuff.Boring.

 

[Disco Stu]

Sharing a little message exchange from last night, because I thought it was entertaining.

Guess I'm the only one. It did lead us to moving up our planned meeting from Sunday night to tonight, so I guess it worked. I don't know what we're going to do yet though.

 

[Keys Myaths]

I don't know what we're going to do yet

 

[Disco Stu]

I don't know what we're going to do yet

ie meeting time and place hasn't been established.

 

[Alias]

Sharing a little message exchange from last night, because I thought it was entertaining.

Guess I'm the only one. It did lead us to moving up our planned meeting from Sunday night to tonight, so I guess it worked. I don't know what we're going to do yet though.

I liked it, just saw it

 

[code]

I was talking to a buddy the other day about my iDating experience and he raised an interesting question, how do you answer the "how did you meet?" inquiries...obviously since Mrs. Code and I recently married, we've been asked this a lot...but I'm curious what our current iDaters think...is this something you try to hide or something you broadcast around town?...do you think it matters who the audience is?...is age a factor?...

No other thoughts on this one?This was my response to him:

I think my wife was a little more uncomfortable about this than I was...she felt it was mildly embarrassing, I guess in the same way that meeting in the personals used to be looked down upon...but personally I think online dating has become so popular that it has escaped those stereotypes...A few things that helped us...(a) I was actually very open with friends, coworkers and family that I was meeting people online dating even before I met the Mrs...so when it came time for introductions I wasn't at all embarrassed by it and no one was really surprised...(b) it helped that my two best friends were also online dating (one now married, one now living together), so it was a regular topic of discussion...(c ) consider your audience, I don't think my wife ever told her grandparents how we met because she figured they just wouldn't understand, but younger people "get it"...(d) given the growth of social sites online you could soften it a bit and say "we met online" (could be myspace, facebook, or a community site)...only problem is this just begs the follow on question "oh really, where?"...(e) if someone really hassles you and seems to be looking down at you give them an easy explanation like "it was just a more efficient way to meet people that I knew were single and were looking to meet someone"...no one can really argue with an "efficiency" argument and you haven't lost anything...I know you're a bit younger than me but I would also suggest that this isn't as big a deal as it might seem to you right now...my summary advice is just be comfortable with it, "we met on match" (or wherever)...people might be intrigued but they most likely won't think less of you for it...and within 5 minutes it will be history and won't matter...remember it's just how you met, not how you developed a relationship, so in the end it's pretty insignificant...

Good advice? Bad advice? Smoo?

 

[Disco Stu]

I think it's common enough now that it doesn't matter at all. Most people probably know a married couple who met online.

"Met online" may not be a good answer for the grandparents, but "met at a bar" was never a good one either. What can ya do?

 

[BassNBrew]

I think it's common enough now that it doesn't matter at all. Most people probably know a married couple who met online."Met online" may not be a good answer for the grandparents, but "met at a bar" was never a good one either. What can ya do?

Bingo...I met my wife online after reading about her background and accomplishments v. I met my wife at a bar on my way to the head after downing a 12-pack and my 4th Yeager bomb. It was love at first site after I helped her up off the floor in the men's room.

 

[Disco Stu]

I think it's common enough now that it doesn't matter at all. Most people probably know a married couple who met online."Met online" may not be a good answer for the grandparents, but "met at a bar" was never a good one either. What can ya do?

Bingo...I met my wife online after reading about her background and accomplishments v. I met my wife at a bar on my way to the head after downing a 12-pack and my 4th Yeager bomb. It was love at first site after I helped her up off the floor in the men's room.

But it's "Jager". Although it's often "the right stuff" it has nothing to do with Chuck Yeager.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Got a really nasty message from blondie today...My favorite part, "I chose to ignore the 'no' you texted me. It just proves what a selfish arrogant ******* you are though."She hit that pretty spot-on.

Nice, so she did see the "no". Any other nuggets?

Nah, just the typical "I hate you, you never called me" stuff.Boring.

UPDATE!!She just texted me, profusely apologizing...and offering to cook dinner on Sunday.

 

[Kraft...]

Got a really nasty message from blondie today...My favorite part, "I chose to ignore the 'no' you texted me. It just proves what a selfish arrogant ******* you are though."She hit that pretty spot-on.

Nice, so she did see the "no". Any other nuggets?

Nah, just the typical "I hate you, you never called me" stuff.Boring.

UPDATE!!She just texted me, profusely apologizing...and offering to cook dinner on Sunday.

KeysCharm indeed

 

[Disco Stu]

Got a really nasty message from blondie today...My favorite part, "I chose to ignore the 'no' you texted me. It just proves what a selfish arrogant ******* you are though."She hit that pretty spot-on.

Nice, so she did see the "no". Any other nuggets?

Nah, just the typical "I hate you, you never called me" stuff.Boring.

UPDATE!!She just texted me, profusely apologizing...and offering to cook dinner on Sunday.

Perfect opportunity to pass the blame. "Your message was very hurtful. I'm not going to be able to get past this. Sorry."

 

[Keys Myaths]

Got a really nasty message from blondie today...My favorite part, "I chose to ignore the 'no' you texted me. It just proves what a selfish arrogant ******* you are though."She hit that pretty spot-on.

Nice, so she did see the "no". Any other nuggets?

Nah, just the typical "I hate you, you never called me" stuff.Boring.

UPDATE!!She just texted me, profusely apologizing...and offering to cook dinner on Sunday.

Perfect opportunity to pass the blame. "Your message was very hurtful. I'm not going to be able to get past this. Sorry."

What if, instead of texting that back to her, I just tell her that on my way out Monday morning?

 

[Pip's Invitation]

Tell her that you're not interested, but that you have a friend named Woz who would just love her.

 

[Slider6]

Just added a quick intro to the underground w/ pics.

 

[Disco Stu]

Got a really nasty message from blondie today...My favorite part, "I chose to ignore the 'no' you texted me. It just proves what a selfish arrogant ******* you are though."She hit that pretty spot-on.

Nice, so she did see the "no". Any other nuggets?

Nah, just the typical "I hate you, you never called me" stuff.Boring.

UPDATE!!She just texted me, profusely apologizing...and offering to cook dinner on Sunday.

Perfect opportunity to pass the blame. "Your message was very hurtful. I'm not going to be able to get past this. Sorry."

What if, instead of texting that back to her, I just tell her that on my way out Monday morning?

She's right, you are a *******.

 

[Woz]

Sharing a little message exchange from last night, because I thought it was entertaining.

fetish grrl: i work in tire lube express...stu: how many "express lube" comments have you heard?fetish grrl: well today one guy came in and he was real shy and as i was doing his intake form he says "will you be doing my lube job personally?" and i had to think for a minute to figure out what he was asking me because i used to work at a topless club for a bit... stu: lol. gonna want to hear more about the topless club job...fetish grrl: lol i worked at illusions briefly in february and back in 1999 til 2003 i worked at sinbads both times as a waitress (lol professional tease vs. being a professional slut) stu: i don't know about you, but i'm trying to maintain my amateur status. slut olympics are just around the corner. fetish grrl: lol. well i am really good at teasing but my slut routine could use a little practice...if i could just find a skillful and willing partner to practice with i might just be good at it......

you're in like sin

 

[Woz]

Update:

Come back from lunch and find a text from psycho chick letting me know she's back on the market. Guess new guy found out already she's insane. *sigh*

Why, of why, has it been the loonies that are continuing to show interest. I've turned down my college ex more times than I can count since my last breakup and she keeps trying. I've literally shoved psycho chick off me and told her to get the #### out yet she keeps at it. The girls online who keep coming back are the ones I'm not interested in - yet the seemingly normal cool ones stand me up. What the ####.

 

[Alias]

today's lesson courtesy of gunwitch

Section 11:What to say. What you say isn't that important – rather, its how you present yourself to her. Still you need to talk or be labelled an alien so here goes. Simple advice and techniques, as the sexual state, is FAR more important to convey than what you say to her is.The opener, as I said can just be simple a "hi", "hello", or "you from around here" ect. Introduce yourself at some point with your FULL name, first and last. People used to do this and it had a touch of class, dignity, pride and authority. Now its like, "I’m Dan, I don't have a last name I’m just Dan, I’m simple Dan ". Also being on first and last name basis is good, as she won’t feel like a "slut" for having sex with some guy who she can’t delude herself to think she knows. Get used to introducing yourself this way all the time and within 6 months it’ll be natural so you don't have to think about it.Say her first name a few times after meeting her, like before a question - "Becky, how do you find yourself in Los Angeles?" Many psychologists say that hearing your name from someone builds a connection, as they usually only hear it from friends, family, and people they like. Don't obsess on these small details, but if you can remember to work it into your convo, great. So long as its not at the expense of breaking your sexual state, and failing to convey that to her. Might be a buncha pop psychology bull#### anyway. Try to get used to doing it though, as it can’t really hurt anything and may help.The conversation. You don't need to worry about what you aren't saying to get into women’s pants. It’s what you’re saying to keep you -out of them- that you need be concerned about. Try not to swear so much you ####### #######, its not really sexy. Don't talk about puke, ####, piss, ejaculate, death, your horrid job, her horrid job, illness, religion, politics, rape, child molestation, pornography, or SEX (yes that's right no sex talk, being sexual yet tactful with your words is what women call "subtle”, and as was mentioned, gets them thinking sexually EASIER than saying it outright). Nothing NEGATIVE. You don't wanna talk about her problems or negative things, so if it comes up change the subject. Otherwise, she'll tend to associate negative things with you. It’s the same problem that talking about romance and love ect, causes, except in reverse. You don’t wanna talk about these things that she associates as GOOD with you, because it will prod her to put you into a dating "make him wait" “start a relationship” frame of reference. The same goes for negative topics. You want the topics as neutral. People underestimate the power of just getting to know each other as a comfort builder between folks, so they complicate it with LOADS of "say this, say that" armchair psychology.Just get to know each other as you convey your sexual state, and watch for hers to appear. "Where are you from?", " what do ya like bout the area", "what’s your favourite TV show?", "why do you like it?", "what do you like to do for fun", "ok well IDEALY what would you LIKE to do for fun?" (they never DO what they like for fun, but like to talk about it). Keep it light -> "getting to know each other before we ####" kinda dynamic. More important to stay in sexual state than to try to "say the right thing" or "get her to think this about me by saying this" ect. Have some ####### curiosity about people you are gonna do the wamba mamba with would ya!!!!!!!! Her imagining you doing your hobbies, watching the same TV show, going out to the same drive in ect, gets her to imagine you as a normal person, not some guy with a van, ball gag, camera equipment, and a pistol outside waiting to lure her into the lead role of a "snuff" film.The power of "me too-ing". Saying, "oh my god that's so true", or "me too I love that" ect even when it's a lie, makes you seem more "meant to be" or “compatible”. This is the best verbal technique I've come across yet. Opposites attract? BULL, people hook up with people who are in the same kind of place mentally, or at least who are somewhat agreeable with their little "model of the world".Let her get to know you. If she’s at all attracted the conversation will get 2 sided within a minute or so.BIGGEST OF ALL, don't leave, eject, walk off ect just because there is a lull in conversation. She may like you ALOT but she’s nervous and can’t think of much to say. You just haven't verbally connected yet or found out anything about each other. Do you know how many people have lost the love of their life because they didn't give it 5 more seconds???? 910,876,531 that's how many! No I don't ####### know, but GET REJECTED, don't just walk off. "make the ho say no"Not a lot of conversation material here huh? Well most guys who are getting bikini models and strippers, as well as all other women into bed, have NO scripts, NO hypnosis phooey, and NO lines. They are just acceptably attractive enough, even slightly overweight, maybe a little short, maybe a kinda odd looking, BUT GO FOR IT! They don't hide their sexuality and they persist where other men tuck tail and run.I commonly get snubbed, the cold shoulder ect or overall rejected with the women I have sex with right away, but I just persist and eventually things take a turn. You love to breath right? Well I don't care how bad a fart is lingering around you are eventually gonna say "#### I love to breath I think its worth it to smell the fart". Air = sex, bad fart smell = your love handles, bad teeth, short stature or balding head in this metaphor. Cyanide gas = morbid obesity, stinky armpits, deformities and such. They’d rather hold their breath forever = rather go without sex than have it with him.

 

[code]

Just added a quick intro to the underground w/ pics.

"Bolt-ons" And pics are

 

[Early_10]

Disco you up for that bet?

Ground rules...no money can exchange handsdon't tell her about the bet (ie no "pity dates")post picture here of the two of you together by 6/18/07Loser pays for one month on match.com for winner.

All works (I'll even forward you any contact with her through e-mails). My only gripe is with the date. I haven't signed up yet and that time period only gives me 3 weeks. I figure at least a week or two of initial contact to set something up, the need for at least one very "good" date to get a photo or several so taking it with her isn't awkward (even a goofy spur of the moment camera phone pic would be odd), and finally I have my next few weekends booked and will have people out visiting for a week of the next 3 weeks so the timing is too short. Would you be okay with 7/18/07?

So Woz, do we have to wait for Krista to forward you money for you to pay up?

 

[DrJ]

Disco you up for that bet?

Ground rules...no money can exchange handsdon't tell her about the bet (ie no "pity dates")post picture here of the two of you together by 6/18/07Loser pays for one month on match.com for winner.

All works (I'll even forward you any contact with her through e-mails). My only gripe is with the date. I haven't signed up yet and that time period only gives me 3 weeks. I figure at least a week or two of initial contact to set something up, the need for at least one very "good" date to get a photo or several so taking it with her isn't awkward (even a goofy spur of the moment camera phone pic would be odd), and finally I have my next few weekends booked and will have people out visiting for a week of the next 3 weeks so the timing is too short. Would you be okay with 7/18/07?

So Woz, do we have to wait for Krista to forward you money for you to pay up?

Woz, don't even dignify this with a response. This thread needs some new life, and you welching is just what the Dr ordered.

 

[DrJ]

Also, I missed the update where Woz gets a backbone and disses on the legal secretary for standing him up. Anyone have a link for that?

 

[Disco Stu]

Nothing too exciting to report from last night. Chick is kinda out there (shocking, I know) but pretty fun to talk to. One weird thing is that I share a first name with her 2nd husband, a middle name with her 1st husband, and a last name with her daughter's dad (I think, was struggling to keep track without a cheatsheet).

May see her again, but not a high priority.

 

[Disco Stu]

Posted a pic of a blonde with big ol fakies (not normally a fan, but trying to branch out). I may meet up with her tonight. She's going to be at a bar just down the road from my house.

 

[Woz]

Disco you up for that bet?

Ground rules...no money can exchange handsdon't tell her about the bet (ie no "pity dates")post picture here of the two of you together by 6/18/07Loser pays for one month on match.com for winner.

All works (I'll even forward you any contact with her through e-mails). My only gripe is with the date. I haven't signed up yet and that time period only gives me 3 weeks. I figure at least a week or two of initial contact to set something up, the need for at least one very "good" date to get a photo or several so taking it with her isn't awkward (even a goofy spur of the moment camera phone pic would be odd), and finally I have my next few weekends booked and will have people out visiting for a week of the next 3 weeks so the timing is too short. Would you be okay with 7/18/07?

So Woz, do we have to wait for Krista to forward you money for you to pay up?

I don't have paypal. PM me your address and I'll send you a check.

 

[Woz]

Disco you up for that bet?

Ground rules...no money can exchange handsdon't tell her about the bet (ie no "pity dates")post picture here of the two of you together by 6/18/07Loser pays for one month on match.com for winner.

All works (I'll even forward you any contact with her through e-mails). My only gripe is with the date. I haven't signed up yet and that time period only gives me 3 weeks. I figure at least a week or two of initial contact to set something up, the need for at least one very "good" date to get a photo or several so taking it with her isn't awkward (even a goofy spur of the moment camera phone pic would be odd), and finally I have my next few weekends booked and will have people out visiting for a week of the next 3 weeks so the timing is too short. Would you be okay with 7/18/07?

So Woz, do we have to wait for Krista to forward you money for you to pay up?

Woz, don't even dignify this with a response. This thread needs some new life, and you welching is just what the Dr ordered.

I'm not a welch. I lost. She'll get paid.

 

[BassNBrew]

Update: Come back from lunch and find a text from psycho chick letting me know she's back on the market. Guess new guy found out already she's insane. *sigh*Why, of why, has it been the loonies that are continuing to show interest. I've turned down my college ex more times than I can count since my last breakup and she keeps trying. I've literally shoved psycho chick off me and told her to get the #### out yet she keeps at it. The girls online who keep coming back are the ones I'm not interested in - yet the seemingly normal cool ones stand me up. What the ####.

Woz, I got dumped on Thursday morning. Another prospect and I are caught up in a game of phone tag / texting that makes OTIS and the HBFA look like beginners. Did I come here and lament, no!!! I called the tall red head and had drinks at her place.Listen dude, there are 300 million people in the country. Half of them are guys and since you claim not gay that narrows the field to 150 million. If I narrow your window to +/- 5 years of your age, that eliminates 7/8's of the field so you're left with roughly 19 million options. Probably half of those are married and let's say 3/4 (I'm being generous here) aren't up to your looks standards. Wow, we're down to 2.3 million women. OK, gas prices are high so let's narrow the geography down to 1%....that leaves 23, 437.5 women for you to date. I guess the 1/2 women is kind of short. If you went out on a date a day, it would take you 64 years to spend time with all of them. Hell, ask them all out and even if your hit rate is only 5% you'd have 1172 women willing to date you. Say 2 out of 3 stand you up, you'd still have 391 dates lined up. Time for you to get busy.

 

[Mr. Pickles]

Anyone get some yet?

 

[Disco Stu]

Anyone get some yet?

Several of us have.

 

[Mr. Pickles]

Anyone get some yet?

Several of us have.

I'd hope so, but it seems like this thread is filled with minutiae.

 

[Disco Stu]

Anyone get some yet?

Several of us have.

I'd hope so, but it seems like this thread is filled with minutiae.

This is the FFA, no?

 

[Bankerguy]

Update: Come back from lunch and find a text from psycho chick letting me know she's back on the market. Guess new guy found out already she's insane. *sigh*Why, of why, has it been the loonies that are continuing to show interest. I've turned down my college ex more times than I can count since my last breakup and she keeps trying. I've literally shoved psycho chick off me and told her to get the #### out yet she keeps at it. The girls online who keep coming back are the ones I'm not interested in - yet the seemingly normal cool ones stand me up. What the ####.

Woz, I got dumped on Thursday morning. Another prospect and I are caught up in a game of phone tag / texting that makes OTIS and the HBFA look like beginners. Did I come here and lament, no!!! I called the tall red head and had drinks at her place.Listen dude, there are 300 million people in the country. Half of them are guys and since you claim not gay that narrows the field to 150 million. If I narrow your window to +/- 5 years of your age, that eliminates 7/8's of the field so you're left with roughly 19 million options. Probably half of those are married and let's say 3/4 (I'm being generous here) aren't up to your looks standards. Wow, we're down to 2.3 million women. OK, gas prices are high so let's narrow the geography down to 1%....that leaves 23, 437.5 women for you to date. I guess the 1/2 women is kind of short. If you went out on a date a day, it would take you 64 years to spend time with all of them. Hell, ask them all out and even if your hit rate is only 5% you'd have 1172 women willing to date you. Say 2 out of 3 stand you up, you'd still have 391 dates lined up. Time for you to get busy.

Nice math!!!

 

[HellToupee]

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[Early_10]

Date1 (just because it's almost impossible to tell from those pics)

Yeah, that does worry me a little...but what the hell. It's only a drink.Edit: And she's 27. That's a little much.

Mrs. Code is 27...as women approach 30 they gain, uh, "enthusiasm" :confirmed:

very accurate and

 

[Big Dumb Ape]

Update:

Come back from lunch and find a text from psycho chick letting me know she's back on the market. Guess new guy found out already she's insane. *sigh*

Why, of why, has it been the loonies that are continuing to show interest. I've turned down my college ex more times than I can count since my last breakup and she keeps trying. I've literally shoved psycho chick off me and told her to get the #### out yet she keeps at it. The girls online who keep coming back are the ones I'm not interested in - yet the seemingly normal cool ones stand me up. What the ####.

It's not them. It's you.Remember. Quiet Confidence. Next date you go on, I want you to play a little game called "Don't talk about woz." Whenever the conversation dips, ask her a question. It's really easy to ask questions. Heck, have a list of 'em. The best part is, they snowball on each other.

-"What do you do for a living?"

-"Wow, that's really interesting, have you been doing it long?"

-"So, how does somebody end up in the ______ industry?"

etc

If she asks a question, answer it simply and modestly. Never, under any circumstances, mention anything that you think she'd be impressed by. For example.

"So woz, what do you do?"

"I'm a law student at Hamline. I'm on a very solid career path, and enjoy the challenge of success in my field squeezed in with my busy schedule of working out 5 days a week, playing amateur baseball, and jerking off while I look in the mirror because I'm so damn sexy."

vs.

"I'm finishing up my degree right now, looking to join the real world in a year or so. What about you?" Then hit her with the followup questions.

The less they know, the more they're intrigued. What they imagine will usually be better than the truth if you've got any game at all, so why spoil it? Let them blather on about themselves. They'll be "comfortable" with you, you'll be "really easy to talk to" and you'll be "a lot of fun to hang out with." Right now you're not getting the quality chicks because you're not playing the game very well, and quality chicks are picky. You're not good enough. You're getting flaky chicks because, well, water seeks its own level.

The less you talk about yourself, the more impressed with yourself they will be.

 

[Disco Stu]

Posted a pic of a blonde with big ol fakies (not normally a fan, but trying to branch out). I may meet up with her tonight. She's going to be at a bar just down the road from my house.

This chick was a pain in the ###. I'm not sure what I dislike more... fake cans, or the personalities of the chicks who get them.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Okay, posting pics on the underground now.Date1 is Saturday night, date2 is Sunday night, and the other four are from the girl from work.

Date 1 was entirely unspectacular.Yeah, she's really hot, which got me through the first 30 minutes of drinks...then I thought the alcohol would kick in, and I would be okay.Nope.If I have to hear one more sorority story/"I was so wasted when..." story, I'm going to go out of my mind.Left after two drinks...really couldn't take it.

 

[Disco Stu]

Okay, posting pics on the underground now.Date1 is Saturday night, date2 is Sunday night, and the other four are from the girl from work.

Date 1 was entirely unspectacular.Yeah, she's really hot, which got me through the first 30 minutes of drinks...then I thought the alcohol would kick in, and I would be okay.Nope.If I have to hear one more sorority story/"I was so wasted when..." story, I'm going to go out of my mind.Left after two drinks...really couldn't take it.

Wait, I thought it was Date2 that was really hot.

 

[mr. furley]

Update:

Come back from lunch and find a text from psycho chick letting me know she's back on the market. Guess new guy found out already she's insane. *sigh*

Why, of why, has it been the loonies that are continuing to show interest. I've turned down my college ex more times than I can count since my last breakup and she keeps trying. I've literally shoved psycho chick off me and told her to get the #### out yet she keeps at it. The girls online who keep coming back are the ones I'm not interested in - yet the seemingly normal cool ones stand me up. What the ####.

It's not them. It's you.Remember. Quiet Confidence. Next date you go on, I want you to play a little game called "Don't talk about woz." Whenever the conversation dips, ask her a question. It's really easy to ask questions. Heck, have a list of 'em. The best part is, they snowball on each other.

-"What do you do for a living?"

-"Wow, that's really interesting, have you been doing it long?"

-"So, how does somebody end up in the ______ industry?"

etc

If she asks a question, answer it simply and modestly. Never, under any circumstances, mention anything that you think she'd be impressed by. For example.

"So woz, what do you do?"

"I'm a law student at Hamline. I'm on a very solid career path, and enjoy the challenge of success in my field squeezed in with my busy schedule of working out 5 days a week, playing amateur baseball, and jerking off while I look in the mirror because I'm so damn sexy."

vs.

"I'm finishing up my degree right now, looking to join the real world in a year or so. What about you?" Then hit her with the followup questions.

The less they know, the more they're intrigued. What they imagine will usually be better than the truth if you've got any game at all, so why spoil it? Let them blather on about themselves. They'll be "comfortable" with you, you'll be "really easy to talk to" and you'll be "a lot of fun to hang out with." Right now you're not getting the quality chicks because you're not playing the game very well, and quality chicks are picky. You're not good enough. You're getting flaky chicks because, well, water seeks its own level.

The less you talk about yourself, the more impressed with yourself they will be.

damned fine posting here

 

[Keys Myaths]

Okay, posting pics on the underground now.Date1 is Saturday night, date2 is Sunday night, and the other four are from the girl from work.

Date 1 was entirely unspectacular.Yeah, she's really hot, which got me through the first 30 minutes of drinks...then I thought the alcohol would kick in, and I would be okay.Nope.If I have to hear one more sorority story/"I was so wasted when..." story, I'm going to go out of my mind.Left after two drinks...really couldn't take it.

Wait, I thought it was Date2 that was really hot.

Yeah, that's tonight, and I'm excited to see if that's anything good...But the 27 year old turned out to be gorgeous, too. Problem was, she was stuck in her sophomore year of college.

 

[strykerpks]

But the 27 year old turned out to be gorgeous, too. Problem was, she was stuck in her sophomore year of college.

Send her my way

 

[Keys Myaths]

But the 27 year old turned out to be gorgeous, too. Problem was, she was stuck in her sophomore year of college.

Send her my way