***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (2 Viewers)

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Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

 

[Woz]

Update: Come back from lunch and find a text from psycho chick letting me know she's back on the market. Guess new guy found out already she's insane. *sigh*Why, of why, has it been the loonies that are continuing to show interest. I've turned down my college ex more times than I can count since my last breakup and she keeps trying. I've literally shoved psycho chick off me and told her to get the #### out yet she keeps at it. The girls online who keep coming back are the ones I'm not interested in - yet the seemingly normal cool ones stand me up. What the ####.

Woz, I got dumped on Thursday morning. Another prospect and I are caught up in a game of phone tag / texting that makes OTIS and the HBFA look like beginners. Did I come here and lament, no!!! I called the tall red head and had drinks at her place.Listen dude, there are 300 million people in the country. Half of them are guys and since you claim not gay that narrows the field to 150 million. If I narrow your window to +/- 5 years of your age, that eliminates 7/8's of the field so you're left with roughly 19 million options. Probably half of those are married and let's say 3/4 (I'm being generous here) aren't up to your looks standards. Wow, we're down to 2.3 million women. OK, gas prices are high so let's narrow the geography down to 1%....that leaves 23, 437.5 women for you to date. I guess the 1/2 women is kind of short. If you went out on a date a day, it would take you 64 years to spend time with all of them. Hell, ask them all out and even if your hit rate is only 5% you'd have 1172 women willing to date you. Say 2 out of 3 stand you up, you'd still have 391 dates lined up. Time for you to get busy.

Now consider the fact that I am likely not into like 98 percent of the girls I meet and this narrows the field considerably.

 

[Disco Stu]

I didn't reply to the Ruskie but got this message yesterday...

Hello the my dear friend Stu!!! Why you today to not write to me? Dialogue with me probably is not interesting to you, and I so to wait from you for your answer but and to not receive it.Please do not ignore me, I look forward from you to the answer... Tatyana

 

[boltjeff]

I am in, but probably won't be ready with my pictures and profile until this weekend. I am taking the leap into eharmony for a 3 month period. I will post after I get everything setup.

 

[murph420]

Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

hmm, that sure sounds like me, having broken off an engagement last week

 

[krista4]

Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

hmm, that sure sounds like me, having broken off an engagement last week

Sorry.

 

[pricklypete]

Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

hmm, that sure sounds like me, having broken off an engagement last week

Sorry to hear that.What happened?

 

[murph420]

Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

hmm, that sure sounds like me, having broken off an engagement last week

Sorry to hear that.What happened?

thx Pete and Krista. it's all good...well once i get some new furniture in my place it was crunch time. less than 90 days to go. been having second thoughts for about a month, never said anything to her. 2 weekends ago, we start fighting about something else (something SHE forgot, but it was still MY fault) and i told her my feelings. she gave me an ultimatum, saying that if i wanted to call it off, go ahead. i told her i need to seriously think about it, talk to my family, friends, etc. - i didn't want to make a decision in the heat of the moment. that's the end of fight #1. about an hour later after being on the phone with one of her friends, she starts up fight #2. really starts pushing my buttons, getting me pissed. eventually, i told her it was off, if she was going to act like this, i didn't need to talk to anyone else to make a decision. she starts really freaking out, and then runs out of the apartment (we've been living together for about 1 1/2 years). end of fight #2.while she was gone i called her a couple times, just to see where she went. she was just down the block sitting in her call calling friends/family. she's gone for like 2 hours. i dozed off on the couch. here comes fight #3. she comes back around 4am - punches me in the chest, waking me up. i'm like WTF???!!?! then she picks up a glass of water and throws it through the glass table. **CRASH** broken glass everywhere at 4am in the morning. the neighbors MUST hate me. now she's hysterical - i got no boyfriend, i'm 36, i gotta go live at home, i hate my job, i've got nothing to live for - and then picks up a piece of glass and starts cutting herself. nothing too bad, just for show/attention, but it freaked me out enough to call the cops.they took her away, ended up keeping her in ER for like 8 hours and then released her. she needs to see a counselor, maybe take some drugs to help her anixiety, and we were going to see a couples counselor. i waited about a week and a half to let things cool down, talked to friends and family and really thought about it. i gotta do what's best for me. i love her dearly, she's a sweetheart, but i can't see myself being happy with her for the rest of my life. so i called it off. whew! that was close!her mom called my mom last night and told her it was her fault. real classy

 

[Disco Stu]

Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

hmm, that sure sounds like me, having broken off an engagement last week

Sorry to hear that.What happened?

thx Pete and Krista. it's all good...well once i get some new furniture in my place it was crunch time. less than 90 days to go. been having second thoughts for about a month, never said anything to her. 2 weekends ago, we start fighting about something else (something SHE forgot, but it was still MY fault) and i told her my feelings. she gave me an ultimatum, saying that if i wanted to call it off, go ahead. i told her i need to seriously think about it, talk to my family, friends, etc. - i didn't want to make a decision in the heat of the moment. that's the end of fight #1. about an hour later after being on the phone with one of her friends, she starts up fight #2. really starts pushing my buttons, getting me pissed. eventually, i told her it was off, if she was going to act like this, i didn't need to talk to anyone else to make a decision. she starts really freaking out, and then runs out of the apartment (we've been living together for about 1 1/2 years). end of fight #2.while she was gone i called her a couple times, just to see where she went. she was just down the block sitting in her call calling friends/family. she's gone for like 2 hours. i dozed off on the couch. here comes fight #3. she comes back around 4am - punches me in the chest, waking me up. i'm like WTF???!!?! then she picks up a glass of water and throws it through the glass table. **CRASH** broken glass everywhere at 4am in the morning. the neighbors MUST hate me. now she's hysterical - i got no boyfriend, i'm 36, i gotta go live at home, i hate my job, i've got nothing to live for - and then picks up a piece of glass and starts cutting herself. nothing too bad, just for show/attention, but it freaked me out enough to call the cops.they took her away, ended up keeping her in ER for like 8 hours and then released her. she needs to see a counselor, maybe take some drugs to help her anixiety, and we were going to see a couples counselor. i waited about a week and a half to let things cool down, talked to friends and family and really thought about it. i gotta do what's best for me. i love her dearly, she's a sweetheart, but i can't see myself being happy with her for the rest of my life. so i called it off. whew! that was close!her mom called my mom last night and told her it was her fault. real classy

Ummmm... congrats? BTW, in the last sentence who does the final "her" refer to? Your ex? Her mom? Your mom?

 

[pricklypete]

Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

hmm, that sure sounds like me, having broken off an engagement last week

Sorry to hear that.What happened?

thx Pete and Krista. it's all good...well once i get some new furniture in my place it was crunch time. less than 90 days to go. been having second thoughts for about a month, never said anything to her. 2 weekends ago, we start fighting about something else (something SHE forgot, but it was still MY fault) and i told her my feelings. she gave me an ultimatum, saying that if i wanted to call it off, go ahead. i told her i need to seriously think about it, talk to my family, friends, etc. - i didn't want to make a decision in the heat of the moment. that's the end of fight #1. about an hour later after being on the phone with one of her friends, she starts up fight #2. really starts pushing my buttons, getting me pissed. eventually, i told her it was off, if she was going to act like this, i didn't need to talk to anyone else to make a decision. she starts really freaking out, and then runs out of the apartment (we've been living together for about 1 1/2 years). end of fight #2.while she was gone i called her a couple times, just to see where she went. she was just down the block sitting in her call calling friends/family. she's gone for like 2 hours. i dozed off on the couch. here comes fight #3. she comes back around 4am - punches me in the chest, waking me up. i'm like WTF???!!?! then she picks up a glass of water and throws it through the glass table. **CRASH** broken glass everywhere at 4am in the morning. the neighbors MUST hate me. now she's hysterical - i got no boyfriend, i'm 36, i gotta go live at home, i hate my job, i've got nothing to live for - and then picks up a piece of glass and starts cutting herself. nothing too bad, just for show/attention, but it freaked me out enough to call the cops.they took her away, ended up keeping her in ER for like 8 hours and then released her. she needs to see a counselor, maybe take some drugs to help her anixiety, and we were going to see a couples counselor. i waited about a week and a half to let things cool down, talked to friends and family and really thought about it. i gotta do what's best for me. i love her dearly, she's a sweetheart, but i can't see myself being happy with her for the rest of my life. so i called it off. whew! that was close!her mom called my mom last night and told her it was her fault. real classy

Wow. I'm sure it really sucks right now (an understatement, I know) but you have to be very thankful to be out before the wedding.You really dodged a big one right there. Wow.

 

[Bankerguy]

Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

hmm, that sure sounds like me, having broken off an engagement last week

Sorry to hear that.What happened?

thx Pete and Krista. it's all good...well once i get some new furniture in my place it was crunch time. less than 90 days to go. been having second thoughts for about a month, never said anything to her. 2 weekends ago, we start fighting about something else (something SHE forgot, but it was still MY fault) and i told her my feelings. she gave me an ultimatum, saying that if i wanted to call it off, go ahead. i told her i need to seriously think about it, talk to my family, friends, etc. - i didn't want to make a decision in the heat of the moment. that's the end of fight #1. about an hour later after being on the phone with one of her friends, she starts up fight #2. really starts pushing my buttons, getting me pissed. eventually, i told her it was off, if she was going to act like this, i didn't need to talk to anyone else to make a decision. she starts really freaking out, and then runs out of the apartment (we've been living together for about 1 1/2 years). end of fight #2.while she was gone i called her a couple times, just to see where she went. she was just down the block sitting in her call calling friends/family. she's gone for like 2 hours. i dozed off on the couch. here comes fight #3. she comes back around 4am - punches me in the chest, waking me up. i'm like WTF???!!?! then she picks up a glass of water and throws it through the glass table. **CRASH** broken glass everywhere at 4am in the morning. the neighbors MUST hate me. now she's hysterical - i got no boyfriend, i'm 36, i gotta go live at home, i hate my job, i've got nothing to live for - and then picks up a piece of glass and starts cutting herself. nothing too bad, just for show/attention, but it freaked me out enough to call the cops.they took her away, ended up keeping her in ER for like 8 hours and then released her. she needs to see a counselor, maybe take some drugs to help her anixiety, and we were going to see a couples counselor. i waited about a week and a half to let things cool down, talked to friends and family and really thought about it. i gotta do what's best for me. i love her dearly, she's a sweetheart, but i can't see myself being happy with her for the rest of my life. so i called it off. whew! that was close!her mom called my mom last night and told her it was her fault. real classy

Sorry to hear dude.Take some time for yourself before you jump into dating again. Take it from me. Then when you are ready....get your profile to Krista and share your stories.

 

[code]

Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

hmm, that sure sounds like me, having broken off an engagement last week

Sorry to hear that.What happened?

thx Pete and Krista. it's all good...well once i get some new furniture in my place it was crunch time. less than 90 days to go. been having second thoughts for about a month, never said anything to her. 2 weekends ago, we start fighting about something else (something SHE forgot, but it was still MY fault) and i told her my feelings. she gave me an ultimatum, saying that if i wanted to call it off, go ahead. i told her i need to seriously think about it, talk to my family, friends, etc. - i didn't want to make a decision in the heat of the moment. that's the end of fight #1. about an hour later after being on the phone with one of her friends, she starts up fight #2. really starts pushing my buttons, getting me pissed. eventually, i told her it was off, if she was going to act like this, i didn't need to talk to anyone else to make a decision. she starts really freaking out, and then runs out of the apartment (we've been living together for about 1 1/2 years). end of fight #2.while she was gone i called her a couple times, just to see where she went. she was just down the block sitting in her call calling friends/family. she's gone for like 2 hours. i dozed off on the couch. here comes fight #3. she comes back around 4am - punches me in the chest, waking me up. i'm like WTF???!!?! then she picks up a glass of water and throws it through the glass table. **CRASH** broken glass everywhere at 4am in the morning. the neighbors MUST hate me. now she's hysterical - i got no boyfriend, i'm 36, i gotta go live at home, i hate my job, i've got nothing to live for - and then picks up a piece of glass and starts cutting herself. nothing too bad, just for show/attention, but it freaked me out enough to call the cops.they took her away, ended up keeping her in ER for like 8 hours and then released her. she needs to see a counselor, maybe take some drugs to help her anixiety, and we were going to see a couples counselor. i waited about a week and a half to let things cool down, talked to friends and family and really thought about it. i gotta do what's best for me. i love her dearly, she's a sweetheart, but i can't see myself being happy with her for the rest of my life. so i called it off. whew! that was close!her mom called my mom last night and told her it was her fault. real classy

Wow...sorry to hear it went down like this, but better to know now I guess...Buddy of mine broke off his engagement a few years ago...I ended up helping him move out of her place at 3am...it was not pretty...Good luck to you...

 

[murph420]

Ummmm... congrats? BTW, in the last sentence who does the final "her" refer to? Your ex? Her mom? Your mom?

yeah, congrats is the proper response. she needs to get her #### together. i was paying rent, bills, her car insurance, totally faithful, and treated her with respect. and she still couldn't be happy.her mom blamed my mom for the breakup. ##### needs to shut her pie-hole.vega$ bachelor party for week 2 of NFL is still ON

 

[Disco Stu]

Ummmm... congrats? BTW, in the last sentence who does the final "her" refer to? Your ex? Her mom? Your mom?

yeah, congrats is the proper response. she needs to get her #### together. i was paying rent, bills, her car insurance, totally faithful, and treated her with respect. and she still couldn't be happy.her mom blamed my mom for the breakup. ##### needs to shut her pie-hole.vega$ bachelor party for week 2 of NFL is still ON

Bachelor party without the gray clouds of a pending wedding =

 

[zander_s]

Ummmm... congrats?

BTW, in the last sentence who does the final "her" refer to? Your ex? Her mom? Your mom?

yeah, congrats is the proper response. she needs to get her #### together. i was paying rent, bills, her car insurance, totally faithful, and treated her with respect. and she still couldn't be happy.

her mom blamed my mom for the breakup. ##### needs to shut her pie-hole.

vega$ bachelor party for week 2 of NFL is still ON

I guess the ex gets it from her mom huh??

 

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vega$ bachelor party for week 2 of NFL is still ON

[guinessguys]BRILLIANT![/guinessguys]

 

[murph420]

vega$ bachelor party for week 2 of NFL is still ON

[guinessguys]BRILLIANT![/guinessguys]

[Hannibal Smith]I love it when a plan comes together[/Hannibal Smith] sorry for the thread-jacking. please return to your regularly scheduled iDating hijinks. i'll be posting my profile at some sites and giving it a try after i get some new furniture (and the other set of keys back).

 

[iwabaf]

vega$ bachelor party for week 2 of NFL is still ON

[guinessguys]BRILLIANT![/guinessguys]

[Hannibal Smith]I love it when a plan comes together[/Hannibal Smith] sorry for the thread-jacking. please return to your regularly scheduled iDating hijinks. i'll be posting my profile at some sites and giving it a try after i get some new furniture (and the other set of keys back).

Definitely get the keys before the new furniture...

 

[krista4]

Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

hmm, that sure sounds like me, having broken off an engagement last week

Sorry to hear that.What happened?

thx Pete and Krista. it's all good...well once i get some new furniture in my place it was crunch time. less than 90 days to go. been having second thoughts for about a month, never said anything to her. 2 weekends ago, we start fighting about something else (something SHE forgot, but it was still MY fault) and i told her my feelings. she gave me an ultimatum, saying that if i wanted to call it off, go ahead. i told her i need to seriously think about it, talk to my family, friends, etc. - i didn't want to make a decision in the heat of the moment. that's the end of fight #1. about an hour later after being on the phone with one of her friends, she starts up fight #2. really starts pushing my buttons, getting me pissed. eventually, i told her it was off, if she was going to act like this, i didn't need to talk to anyone else to make a decision. she starts really freaking out, and then runs out of the apartment (we've been living together for about 1 1/2 years). end of fight #2.while she was gone i called her a couple times, just to see where she went. she was just down the block sitting in her call calling friends/family. she's gone for like 2 hours. i dozed off on the couch. here comes fight #3. she comes back around 4am - punches me in the chest, waking me up. i'm like WTF???!!?! then she picks up a glass of water and throws it through the glass table. **CRASH** broken glass everywhere at 4am in the morning. the neighbors MUST hate me. now she's hysterical - i got no boyfriend, i'm 36, i gotta go live at home, i hate my job, i've got nothing to live for - and then picks up a piece of glass and starts cutting herself. nothing too bad, just for show/attention, but it freaked me out enough to call the cops.they took her away, ended up keeping her in ER for like 8 hours and then released her. she needs to see a counselor, maybe take some drugs to help her anixiety, and we were going to see a couples counselor. i waited about a week and a half to let things cool down, talked to friends and family and really thought about it. i gotta do what's best for me. i love her dearly, she's a sweetheart, but i can't see myself being happy with her for the rest of my life. so i called it off. whew! that was close!her mom called my mom last night and told her it was her fault. real classy

Sorry to hear dude.Take some time for yourself before you jump into dating again. Take it from me. Then when you are ready....get your profile to Krista and share your stories.

Please wait a while before dating again.

 

[Kraft...]

vega$ bachelor party for week 2 of NFL is still ON

[guinessguys]BRILLIANT![/guinessguys]

[Hannibal Smith]I love it when a plan comes together[/Hannibal Smith] sorry for the thread-jacking. please return to your regularly scheduled iDating hijinks. i'll be posting my profile at some sites and giving it a try after i get some new furniture (and the other set of keys back).

Good for you dude, a lot of people wouldn't have the balls, better now than 6 months or even ten years from now with a couple kids to worry about

 

[BassNBrew]

Update: Come back from lunch and find a text from psycho chick letting me know she's back on the market. Guess new guy found out already she's insane. *sigh*Why, of why, has it been the loonies that are continuing to show interest. I've turned down my college ex more times than I can count since my last breakup and she keeps trying. I've literally shoved psycho chick off me and told her to get the #### out yet she keeps at it. The girls online who keep coming back are the ones I'm not interested in - yet the seemingly normal cool ones stand me up. What the ####.

Woz, I got dumped on Thursday morning. Another prospect and I are caught up in a game of phone tag / texting that makes OTIS and the HBFA look like beginners. Did I come here and lament, no!!! I called the tall red head and had drinks at her place.Listen dude, there are 300 million people in the country. Half of them are guys and since you claim not gay that narrows the field to 150 million. If I narrow your window to +/- 5 years of your age, that eliminates 7/8's of the field so you're left with roughly 19 million options. Probably half of those are married and let's say 3/4 (I'm being generous here) aren't up to your looks standards. Wow, we're down to 2.3 million women. OK, gas prices are high so let's narrow the geography down to 1%....that leaves 23, 437.5 women for you to date. I guess the 1/2 women is kind of short. If you went out on a date a day, it would take you 64 years to spend time with all of them. Hell, ask them all out and even if your hit rate is only 5% you'd have 1172 women willing to date you. Say 2 out of 3 stand you up, you'd still have 391 dates lined up. Time for you to get busy.

Now consider the fact that I am likely not into like 98 percent of the girls I meet and this narrows the field considerably.

That's why it's call dating. You're looking for marriage before you even go out once.

 

[Alias]

Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

hmm, that sure sounds like me, having broken off an engagement last week

Sorry to hear that.What happened?

thx Pete and Krista. it's all good...well once i get some new furniture in my place it was crunch time. less than 90 days to go. been having second thoughts for about a month, never said anything to her. 2 weekends ago, we start fighting about something else (something SHE forgot, but it was still MY fault) and i told her my feelings. she gave me an ultimatum, saying that if i wanted to call it off, go ahead. i told her i need to seriously think about it, talk to my family, friends, etc. - i didn't want to make a decision in the heat of the moment. that's the end of fight #1. about an hour later after being on the phone with one of her friends, she starts up fight #2. really starts pushing my buttons, getting me pissed. eventually, i told her it was off, if she was going to act like this, i didn't need to talk to anyone else to make a decision. she starts really freaking out, and then runs out of the apartment (we've been living together for about 1 1/2 years). end of fight #2.while she was gone i called her a couple times, just to see where she went. she was just down the block sitting in her call calling friends/family. she's gone for like 2 hours. i dozed off on the couch. here comes fight #3. she comes back around 4am - punches me in the chest, waking me up. i'm like WTF???!!?! then she picks up a glass of water and throws it through the glass table. **CRASH** broken glass everywhere at 4am in the morning. the neighbors MUST hate me. now she's hysterical - i got no boyfriend, i'm 36, i gotta go live at home, i hate my job, i've got nothing to live for - and then picks up a piece of glass and starts cutting herself. nothing too bad, just for show/attention, but it freaked me out enough to call the cops.they took her away, ended up keeping her in ER for like 8 hours and then released her. she needs to see a counselor, maybe take some drugs to help her anixiety, and we were going to see a couples counselor. i waited about a week and a half to let things cool down, talked to friends and family and really thought about it. i gotta do what's best for me. i love her dearly, she's a sweetheart, but i can't see myself being happy with her for the rest of my life. so i called it off. whew! that was close!her mom called my mom last night and told her it was her fault. real classy

Dude you dodged a Congrats Have one on me

 

[Alias]

Update: Come back from lunch and find a text from psycho chick letting me know she's back on the market. Guess new guy found out already she's insane. *sigh*Why, of why, has it been the loonies that are continuing to show interest. I've turned down my college ex more times than I can count since my last breakup and she keeps trying. I've literally shoved psycho chick off me and told her to get the #### out yet she keeps at it. The girls online who keep coming back are the ones I'm not interested in - yet the seemingly normal cool ones stand me up. What the ####.

Woz, I got dumped on Thursday morning. Another prospect and I are caught up in a game of phone tag / texting that makes OTIS and the HBFA look like beginners. Did I come here and lament, no!!! I called the tall red head and had drinks at her place.Listen dude, there are 300 million people in the country. Half of them are guys and since you claim not gay that narrows the field to 150 million. If I narrow your window to +/- 5 years of your age, that eliminates 7/8's of the field so you're left with roughly 19 million options. Probably half of those are married and let's say 3/4 (I'm being generous here) aren't up to your looks standards. Wow, we're down to 2.3 million women. OK, gas prices are high so let's narrow the geography down to 1%....that leaves 23, 437.5 women for you to date. I guess the 1/2 women is kind of short. If you went out on a date a day, it would take you 64 years to spend time with all of them. Hell, ask them all out and even if your hit rate is only 5% you'd have 1172 women willing to date you. Say 2 out of 3 stand you up, you'd still have 391 dates lined up. Time for you to get busy.

Now consider the fact that I am likely not into like 98 percent of the girls I meet and this narrows the field considerably.

That's why it's call dating. You're looking for marriage before you even go out once.

I mean :honda:

 

[Keys Myaths]

So, met up with Date2 girl last night. Date started off really well, went back to her place for a nice makeout/petting session, but she got heavy into relationship implications (just like blondie), except about 2 hours after I met her. So, had a friend make an "emergency" phone call, but obviously, she's hot, so no idea where to go from there, except to slow her way the hell down. Plan on calling her tomorrow for another date, but have to find a way to make sure I'm not headed to CrazyTown.

Need a little advice from you guys about workgirl. I'm following the whole plan of not letting her realize I work with her, and asked her to get a drink with me--she said Tuesday or Thursday (got the e-mail just now), but has "never done this before" and is nervous. What's my play for a response here?

As far as Summerfest girl, I think we're done. The dates have been absolutely fantastic, don't get me wrong, but it's everything in between that has me running. She's actually starting to become demanding and flaky...and obviously, I'm not into that, so I think it's going to stop at those two dates.

And, about Latina...she's done too. I canceled, she actually got fairly upset, even when I had a legitimate excuse (even if it wasn't true). Screw that.

So, we're basically back at the beginning. There's workgirl, if I can ever figure out how to respond to her, and there's actually another girl who works in a completely different department who's very interesting. I might try to get a group together this weekend that involves her.

It's been a hell of a ride so far...and I'm looking forward to more.

And being single kicks ###. Basically, it's been a while for me...I was in a relationship for four years, then three months later, got into another 4-month one. This is MUCH better.

But please help me with my question. TIA.

 

[Bankerguy]

So, met up with Date2 girl last night. Date started off really well, went back to her place for a nice makeout/petting session, but she got heavy into relationship implications (just like blondie), except about 2 hours after I met her. So, had a friend make an "emergency" phone call, but obviously, she's hot, so no idea where to go from there, except to slow her way the hell down. Plan on calling her tomorrow for another date, but have to find a way to make sure I'm not headed to CrazyTown.Need a little advice from you guys about workgirl. I'm following the whole plan of not letting her realize I work with her, and asked her to get a drink with me--she said Tuesday or Thursday (got the e-mail just now), but has "never done this before" and is nervous. What's my play for a response here?As far as Summerfest girl, I think we're done. The dates have been absolutely fantastic, don't get me wrong, but it's everything in between that has me running. She's actually starting to become demanding and flaky...and obviously, I'm not into that, so I think it's going to stop at those two dates.And, about Latina...she's done too. I canceled, she actually got fairly upset, even when I had a legitimate excuse (even if it wasn't true). Screw that.So, we're basically back at the beginning. There's workgirl, if I can ever figure out how to respond to her, and there's actually another girl who works in a completely different department who's very interesting. I might try to get a group together this weekend that involves her.It's been a hell of a ride so far...and I'm looking forward to more.And being single kicks ###. Basically, it's been a while for me...I was in a relationship for four years, then three months later, got into another 4-month one. This is MUCH better.But please help me with my question. TIA.

The only hope for you is to try to put her at ease. Tell her you think it's nice that she is nervous and that you are looking forward to meeting her with no huge expectations. You will also have to ensure your date plan is low pressure in it's presentation. You will then have to turn on the "KeysCharm". Her saying all of this...probably makes her a tough chick to wheel quickly, although it's no fun if they just fall down with their legs in the air if you know what I mean. You might want to re-think the whole strategy. You do work with her so be careful. You can always deny knowing you work with her. This is your out when and if things get too hot or uncomfortable. Go hardcore or don't get involved. My 0.02.

 

[Alias]

Try to avoid dating women at the workplace, especially given you have only been there a short while. Seems like you have a pretty senior position (report to the CEO), aren't you worried about sexual harassment possibilities if it goes sour?

 

[Keys Myaths]

So, met up with Date2 girl last night. Date started off really well, went back to her place for a nice makeout/petting session, but she got heavy into relationship implications (just like blondie), except about 2 hours after I met her. So, had a friend make an "emergency" phone call, but obviously, she's hot, so no idea where to go from there, except to slow her way the hell down. Plan on calling her tomorrow for another date, but have to find a way to make sure I'm not headed to CrazyTown.Need a little advice from you guys about workgirl. I'm following the whole plan of not letting her realize I work with her, and asked her to get a drink with me--she said Tuesday or Thursday (got the e-mail just now), but has "never done this before" and is nervous. What's my play for a response here?As far as Summerfest girl, I think we're done. The dates have been absolutely fantastic, don't get me wrong, but it's everything in between that has me running. She's actually starting to become demanding and flaky...and obviously, I'm not into that, so I think it's going to stop at those two dates.And, about Latina...she's done too. I canceled, she actually got fairly upset, even when I had a legitimate excuse (even if it wasn't true). Screw that.So, we're basically back at the beginning. There's workgirl, if I can ever figure out how to respond to her, and there's actually another girl who works in a completely different department who's very interesting. I might try to get a group together this weekend that involves her.It's been a hell of a ride so far...and I'm looking forward to more.And being single kicks ###. Basically, it's been a while for me...I was in a relationship for four years, then three months later, got into another 4-month one. This is MUCH better.But please help me with my question. TIA.

The only hope for you is to try to put her at ease. Tell her you think it's nice that she is nervous and that you are looking forward to meeting her with no huge expectations. You will also have to ensure your date plan is low pressure in it's presentation. You will then have to turn on the "KeysCharm". Her saying all of this...probably makes her a tough chick to wheel quickly, although it's no fun if they just fall down with their legs in the air if you know what I mean. You might want to re-think the whole strategy. You do work with her so be careful. Go hardcore or don't get involved. My 0.02.

Probably, and John brought up an extremely good point.Ok, time to turn on niceguyKeys. Damn.

 

[Bankerguy]

So, met up with Date2 girl last night. Date started off really well, went back to her place for a nice makeout/petting session, but she got heavy into relationship implications (just like blondie), except about 2 hours after I met her. So, had a friend make an "emergency" phone call, but obviously, she's hot, so no idea where to go from there, except to slow her way the hell down. Plan on calling her tomorrow for another date, but have to find a way to make sure I'm not headed to CrazyTown.Need a little advice from you guys about workgirl. I'm following the whole plan of not letting her realize I work with her, and asked her to get a drink with me--she said Tuesday or Thursday (got the e-mail just now), but has "never done this before" and is nervous. What's my play for a response here?As far as Summerfest girl, I think we're done. The dates have been absolutely fantastic, don't get me wrong, but it's everything in between that has me running. She's actually starting to become demanding and flaky...and obviously, I'm not into that, so I think it's going to stop at those two dates.And, about Latina...she's done too. I canceled, she actually got fairly upset, even when I had a legitimate excuse (even if it wasn't true). Screw that.So, we're basically back at the beginning. There's workgirl, if I can ever figure out how to respond to her, and there's actually another girl who works in a completely different department who's very interesting. I might try to get a group together this weekend that involves her.It's been a hell of a ride so far...and I'm looking forward to more.And being single kicks ###. Basically, it's been a while for me...I was in a relationship for four years, then three months later, got into another 4-month one. This is MUCH better.But please help me with my question. TIA.

The only hope for you is to try to put her at ease. Tell her you think it's nice that she is nervous and that you are looking forward to meeting her with no huge expectations. You will also have to ensure your date plan is low pressure in it's presentation. You will then have to turn on the "KeysCharm". Her saying all of this...probably makes her a tough chick to wheel quickly, although it's no fun if they just fall down with their legs in the air if you know what I mean. You might want to re-think the whole strategy. You do work with her so be careful. Go hardcore or don't get involved. My 0.02.

Probably, and John brought up an extremely good point.Ok, time to turn on niceguyKeys. Damn.

Who the hell is John??

 

[Tremendous Upside]

So, met up with Date2 girl last night. Date started off really well, went back to her place for a nice makeout/petting session, but she got heavy into relationship implications (just like blondie), except about 2 hours after I met her. So, had a friend make an "emergency" phone call, but obviously, she's hot, so no idea where to go from there, except to slow her way the hell down. Plan on calling her tomorrow for another date, but have to find a way to make sure I'm not headed to CrazyTown.

Need a little advice from you guys about workgirl. I'm following the whole plan of not letting her realize I work with her, and asked her to get a drink with me--she said Tuesday or Thursday (got the e-mail just now), but has "never done this before" and is nervous. What's my play for a response here?

As far as Summerfest girl, I think we're done. The dates have been absolutely fantastic, don't get me wrong, but it's everything in between that has me running. She's actually starting to become demanding and flaky...and obviously, I'm not into that, so I think it's going to stop at those two dates.

And, about Latina...she's done too. I canceled, she actually got fairly upset, even when I had a legitimate excuse (even if it wasn't true). Screw that.

So, we're basically back at the beginning. There's workgirl, if I can ever figure out how to respond to her, and there's actually another girl who works in a completely different department who's very interesting. I might try to get a group together this weekend that involves her.

It's been a hell of a ride so far...and I'm looking forward to more.

And being single kicks ###. Basically, it's been a while for me...I was in a relationship for four years, then three months later, got into another 4-month one. This is MUCH better.

But please help me with my question. TIA.

The only hope for you is to try to put her at ease. Tell her you think it's nice that she is nervous and that you are looking forward to meeting her with no huge expectations. You will also have to ensure your date plan is low pressure in it's presentation. You will then have to turn on the "KeysCharm". Her saying all of this...probably makes her a tough chick to wheel quickly, although it's no fun if they just fall down with their legs in the air if you know what I mean.

You might want to re-think the whole strategy. You do work with her so be careful. Go hardcore or don't get involved. My 0.02.

Probably, and John brought up an extremely good point.Ok, time to turn on niceguyKeys. Damn.

Who the hell is John??

Alias, I believe...They know each other in real life

 

[Keys Myaths]

So, met up with Date2 girl last night. Date started off really well, went back to her place for a nice makeout/petting session, but she got heavy into relationship implications (just like blondie), except about 2 hours after I met her. So, had a friend make an "emergency" phone call, but obviously, she's hot, so no idea where to go from there, except to slow her way the hell down. Plan on calling her tomorrow for another date, but have to find a way to make sure I'm not headed to CrazyTown.Need a little advice from you guys about workgirl. I'm following the whole plan of not letting her realize I work with her, and asked her to get a drink with me--she said Tuesday or Thursday (got the e-mail just now), but has "never done this before" and is nervous. What's my play for a response here?As far as Summerfest girl, I think we're done. The dates have been absolutely fantastic, don't get me wrong, but it's everything in between that has me running. She's actually starting to become demanding and flaky...and obviously, I'm not into that, so I think it's going to stop at those two dates.And, about Latina...she's done too. I canceled, she actually got fairly upset, even when I had a legitimate excuse (even if it wasn't true). Screw that.So, we're basically back at the beginning. There's workgirl, if I can ever figure out how to respond to her, and there's actually another girl who works in a completely different department who's very interesting. I might try to get a group together this weekend that involves her.It's been a hell of a ride so far...and I'm looking forward to more.And being single kicks ###. Basically, it's been a while for me...I was in a relationship for four years, then three months later, got into another 4-month one. This is MUCH better.But please help me with my question. TIA.

The only hope for you is to try to put her at ease. Tell her you think it's nice that she is nervous and that you are looking forward to meeting her with no huge expectations. You will also have to ensure your date plan is low pressure in it's presentation. You will then have to turn on the "KeysCharm". Her saying all of this...probably makes her a tough chick to wheel quickly, although it's no fun if they just fall down with their legs in the air if you know what I mean. You might want to re-think the whole strategy. You do work with her so be careful. Go hardcore or don't get involved. My 0.02.

Probably, and John brought up an extremely good point.Ok, time to turn on niceguyKeys. Damn.

Who the hell is John??

Alias. We were roommates in Vegas.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Alright, set it for tomorrow, so we'll see if she actually shows up.

Could break my streak of that never happening.

 

[Alias]

Don't get me wrong, date women from the workplace. It is just that if I was in your shoes I would just wait at least 6 months preferably a year after you have been there. More so that you know the lay of the land and feel very comfortable at your job and will be taking on a lot less risk in doing so.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Don't get me wrong, date women from the workplace. It is just that if I was in your shoes I would just wait at least 6 months preferably a year after you have been there. More so that you know the lay of the land and feel very comfortable at your job and will be taking on a lot less risk in doing so.

Well, it's a big enough company that I'm not all THAT worried about it.As far as the legal stuff is concerned, that point is severely taken. I'm toning it way down for her.

 

[Bankerguy]

Don't get me wrong, date women from the workplace. It is just that if I was in your shoes I would just wait at least 6 months preferably a year after you have been there. More so that you know the lay of the land and feel very comfortable at your job and will be taking on a lot less risk in doing so.

Until it is known that he knows they work together.....it's a freebie and an easy escape. Plausible denial.

 

[Alias]

Don't get me wrong, date women from the workplace. It is just that if I was in your shoes I would just wait at least 6 months preferably a year after you have been there. More so that you know the lay of the land and feel very comfortable at your job and will be taking on a lot less risk in doing so.

Until it is known that he knows they work together.....it's a freebie and an easy escape. Plausible denial.

Ah o.k. kinda missed the ambiguity, thought it was a given for some reason.

 

[Disco Stu]

Meeting a new chick tonight. Not really an iDate, since she's a friend of a friend. But she did see me on myspace (and thought I was "really hot" ) and everything was lined up via email, so it may be somewhat iDating related.

Getting set up by friends' wives was what I was hoping to avoid by going online, but oh well. I needed a date tonight (have tickets to a musical), and my first couple options couldn't find babysitters. I took a chance and trusted the matchmaker, who assured me she's "cute and not fat or creepy", and made the date sight unseen. I just received a pic a few minutes ago and posted it to the underground.

I also posted a pic of this French chick I started talking to on hot or not. Très gentil!

 

[Kraft...]

Meeting a new chick tonight. Not really an iDate, since she's a friend of a friend. But she did see me on myspace (and thought I was "really hot" ) and everything was lined up via email, so it may be somewhat iDating related. Getting set up by friends' wives was what I was hoping to avoid by going online, but oh well. I needed a date tonight (have tickets to a musical), and my first couple options couldn't find babysitters. I took a chance and trusted the matchmaker, who assured me she's "cute and not fat or creepy", and made the date sight unseen. I just received a pic a few minutes ago and posted it to the underground.I also posted a pic of this French chick I started talking to on hot or not. Très gentil!

Stu, you're on the ball with the pics Blind date looks like she could be a little pare shaped(not a great pic though), French chick looks cute

 

[Disco Stu]

Blind date looks like she could be a little pare shaped(not a great pic though)

Tough to tell because of the small pic and the black shirt, but this is a concern.

 

[Woz]

Text I just got from psycho chick:

"I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."

 

[Leeroy Jenkins]

Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."

There are certain things a man cannot turn down no matter the circumstances. This is one of those things. Be sure, however, to buy condoms w/ spermacidal lube and do not let them out of your sight/control. Dont want psycho ##### poking holes in them. Also, bring a knife or gun just in case.

 

[Tremendous Upside]

Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."

Jeebus...This is a predicament! A dilemma! A veritable quandary!This is a request that is damn near impossible to turn down (especially since she is not hideous, IIRC)...And yet, she is ####### psycho, and isn't she the one with the sister you work with?What to do? What to do?Off the top of my head I think a visit there and then changing your cell phone # might be in order...

 

[Kraft...]

Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."

Hmmm, think you could bite the bullet and shag her for a few months? Figure that's how much time you'd need to put in to save face with the sister.

 

[mr. furley]

Monday bump for all the new guys thinking about jumping into iDating...

hmm, that sure sounds like me, having broken off an engagement last week

big picture, this may not have been the worst option

 

[Woz]

Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."

Jeebus...This is a predicament! A dilemma! A veritable quandary!This is a request that is damn near impossible to turn down (especially since she is not hideous, IIRC)...And yet, she is ####### psycho, and isn't she the one with the sister you work with?What to do? What to do?Off the top of my head I think a visit there and then changing your cell phone # might be in order...

1. At first she wasn't hideous, but like has been covered she's downright batty. This is a turnoff for me. 2. One-timers are generally a big turn off for me anyways - I honestly may pull an Otis here.3. She is the sister of one of my co-workers and...4. Has already gotten me in minor trouble by claiming I told here I didn't want to work here and showed up at a function where she told all my co-workers how we had gone out once. 5. Normally this is something I'd blow off like it was nothing, but #### I get bored and lonely sometimes.6. Would love to lead this chick on for some payback for breaking into my room, but hesitant due to knowing the sister.

 

[Tremendous Upside]

Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."

Jeebus...This is a predicament! A dilemma! A veritable quandary!This is a request that is damn near impossible to turn down (especially since she is not hideous, IIRC)...And yet, she is ####### psycho, and isn't she the one with the sister you work with?What to do? What to do?Off the top of my head I think a visit there and then changing your cell phone # might be in order...

1. At first she wasn't hideous, but like has been covered she's downright batty. This is a turnoff for me. 2. One-timers are generally a big turn off for me anyways - I honestly may pull an Otis here.3. She is the sister of one of my co-workers and...4. Has already gotten me in minor trouble by claiming I told here I didn't want to work here and showed up at a function where she told all my co-workers how we had gone out once. 5. Normally this is something I'd blow off like it was nothing, but #### I get bored and lonely sometimes.6. Would love to lead this chick on for some payback for breaking into my room, but hesitant due to knowing the sister.

How about, "I am honestly not ready for an emotional relationship, so if you are fine with this being purely physical, then giddyup!"

 

[Bankerguy]

Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."

Jeebus...This is a predicament! A dilemma! A veritable quandary!This is a request that is damn near impossible to turn down (especially since she is not hideous, IIRC)...And yet, she is ####### psycho, and isn't she the one with the sister you work with?What to do? What to do?Off the top of my head I think a visit there and then changing your cell phone # might be in order...

1. At first she wasn't hideous, but like has been covered she's downright batty. This is a turnoff for me. 2. One-timers are generally a big turn off for me anyways - I honestly may pull an Otis here.3. She is the sister of one of my co-workers and...4. Has already gotten me in minor trouble by claiming I told here I didn't want to work here and showed up at a function where she told all my co-workers how we had gone out once. 5. Normally this is something I'd blow off like it was nothing, but #### I get bored and lonely sometimes.6. Would love to lead this chick on for some payback for breaking into my room, but hesitant due to knowing the sister.

IF you ever had a chance to loose your bad rap around here.....this is it.

 

[Woz]

Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."

Hmmm, think you could bite the bullet and shag her for a few months? Figure that's how much time you'd need to put in to save face with the sister.

I leave to move back to the cities in a week...

 

[mr. furley]

Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."

There are certain things a man cannot turn down no matter the circumstances. This is one of those things. Be sure, however, to buy condoms w/ spermacidal lube and do not let them out of your sight/control. Dont want psycho ##### poking holes in them. Also, bring a knife or gun just in case.

and don't forget the track shoes. you don't want want to be trying to outrun her goons with loafers on.

 

[mr. furley]

Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."

Hmmm, think you could bite the bullet and shag her for a few months? Figure that's how much time you'd need to put in to save face with the sister.

I leave to move back to the cities in a week...

slam it like a broken screen door, gb

 

[Woz]

Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."

There are certain things a man cannot turn down no matter the circumstances. This is one of those things. Be sure, however, to buy condoms w/ spermacidal lube and do not let them out of your sight/control. Dont want psycho ##### poking holes in them. Also, bring a knife or gun just in case.

Every point you have made crossed my mind. I really don't like psycho chicks though, or desparate ones for that matter. I don't want to get a timeout here so I'll say this delicately, I could easily see me pulling an Otis or worse if her body isn't the best or if she freaks me out.