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OK, that worked (signed in under the wrong google account). I'm off to check out the French chick!You sure you're signed in? I've had that happen a few times.Tried to check out the pics on the underground, but it says I'm not a member.I just received a pic a few minutes ago and posted it to the underground.I also posted a pic of this French chick I started talking to on hot or not. Très gentil!
Nice looking femme indeed! Long dark hair + tasteful French fashion + the accent = SCHWING!!I also posted a pic of this French chick I started talking to on hot or not. Très gentil!
Nice looking femme indeed! Long dark hair + tasteful French fashion + the accent = SCHWING!! :(I also posted a pic of this French chick I started talking to on hot or not. Très gentil!
If I ever talk to her on the phone I may be done for... 
Actually the two date girl was the "should I study or stay at a party and see where it goes" girl I made a thread about. Not counting psycho chick in any of this. As for the 2 standups, only one was an idating girl. And Furley you're not even close. 3 of them stood me up on the first date. The other stood me up on what would have been the third. I also should clarify on my definition of "stood up" - only one time did I actually go to a place, wait there for my date, and have her be a no show (that'd be the legal secretary I asked out at her office - apparently she told one of my colleagues she now feels bad about it but didn't go bc she had just broken up with her bf). The others were dates we had planned where they were going to meet me somewhere and we were going to talk on the phone the day of, I went through the hassle of missing some other social options, coming home early, opening up time for them, etc. and then they never called or answered when I did.I think he was stood up on 1st dates w/ all of them, save for the psycho chick whose sister he works for/with (bad idea to date co-workers or their family, especially when you're going to be seeking real employment for the first time next year and will need references - that hadso you reeled them in for a first date then got stood up on the 2nd and THEY are the problem?what the hell does me being stood up have to do with anything? It was three times in one week and one time prior with three girls I barely knew and one I had gone out with twice before and had to tell her she couldn't spend the night on the first date. Obviously all 4 said "yes" initially when a "no" or an excuse would have been as easy as hell to give to a guy they had little connection to so I must have done something right. As to why they didn't show I don't quite know, but looks wise none of those chicks were outside my perspective range. If anything this situation has taught me to be a bit pickier in the future and only ask out girls I've either gotten to know a little bit or knew ahead of time weren't flaky and childish.
:( Good point. I wasn't even paying attention. They could be sisters.
Haha, yes, I definitely have a "type". Its funny to see the thumbnails of the girls I've sent emails to. They all look close to each other. Guess its a good thing I live in San Diego (home of the hot blonde women).Disco Stu said:krista4 said:
Updates:Haven't talked to TallRussian in a while. Trying to decide if I should call her or not.PickyBlonde hasn't replied to my email reply to her.I got OCAztecs cell number yesterday and am going to call her tonight. We should set something up for this weekend probably.41YearOld never called back. Another one I'm trying to decide if I should call or not.ColumbianChick just started Police Academy, maybe I'll see her this weekend.New girl (TooShort) replied to my email to her saying she was too short for me. I replied back, we'll see if she was joking or being serious. I'll post a pic in the underground shortly.
What's with all the talking on the phone?Haha, yes, I definitely have a "type". Its funny to see the thumbnails of the girls I've sent emails to. They all look close to each other. Guess its a good thing I live in San Diego (home of the hot blonde women).Disco Stu said:krista4 said:Good point. I wasn't even paying attention. They could be sisters.
Updates:Haven't talked to TallRussian in a while. Trying to decide if I should call her or not.PickyBlonde hasn't replied to my email reply to her.I got OCAztecs cell number yesterday and am going to call her tonight. We should set something up for this weekend probably.41YearOld never called back. Another one I'm trying to decide if I should call or not.ColumbianChick just started Police Academy, maybe I'll see her this weekend.New girl (TooShort) replied to my email to her saying she was too short for me. I replied back, we'll see if she was joking or being serious. I'll post a pic in the underground shortly.
Gotta talk on the phone to set up the date right? Or is there a new way of doing this that I haven't been told about yet?What's with all the talking on the phone?Haha, yes, I definitely have a "type". Its funny to see the thumbnails of the girls I've sent emails to. They all look close to each other. Guess its a good thing I live in San Diego (home of the hot blonde women).Disco Stu said:krista4 said:
Otis, please pick up the white courtesy phone.Gotta talk on the phone to set up the date right? Or is there a new way of doing this that I haven't been told about yet?What's with all the talking on the phone?Haha, yes, I definitely have a "type". Its funny to see the thumbnails of the girls I've sent emails to. They all look close to each other. Guess its a good thing I live in San Diego (home of the hot blonde women).Disco Stu said:krista4 said:
I've never been a fan. One of the best things about iDating IMO is that it's no longer necessary. Email, texts, and occasionally yahoo messenger is how I roll.Gotta talk on the phone to set up the date right? Or is there a new way of doing this that I haven't been told about yet?What's with all the talking on the phone?Haha, yes, I definitely have a "type". Its funny to see the thumbnails of the girls I've sent emails to. They all look close to each other. Guess its a good thing I live in San Diego (home of the hot blonde women).Disco Stu said:krista4 said:Updates:Haven't talked to TallRussian in a while. Trying to decide if I should call her or not.PickyBlonde hasn't replied to my email reply to her.I got OCAztecs cell number yesterday and am going to call her tonight. We should set something up for this weekend probably.41YearOld never called back. Another one I'm trying to decide if I should call or not.ColumbianChick just started Police Academy, maybe I'll see her this weekend.New girl (TooShort) replied to my email to her saying she was too short for me. I replied back, we'll see if she was joking or being serious. I'll post a pic in the underground shortly.
I'm on Yahoo currently. Not sure about myspace. I've only used it to keep in touch with old college friends etc. How does the idating work on there?Slinger said:What website are you using? I'm using myspace.strykerpks said:Problem is, there aren't 10-20 even worth it. Nothin but fatties, uggos and moms. Oh well.Slinger said:I'm going to send out between 100-200 as soon as my well dries up.strykerpks said:I've sent out about 5 or 6 emails to the few that are even semi worth it. No dice.
If you arrange a date, and the girl continues to be active on the dating site yet stops commuinication with you, you have been stood up.Outside of psycho chick, you have been stood up by every prospect you arranged a date with in this thread. Including the legal secretary, who would have been easy enough to confront, yet for whatever reason you chose not to.Woz said:Actually the two date girl was the "should I study or stay at a party and see where it goes" girl I made a thread about. Not counting psycho chick in any of this. As for the 2 standups, only one was an idating girl. And Furley you're not even close. 3 of them stood me up on the first date. The other stood me up on what would have been the third. I also should clarify on my definition of "stood up" - only one time did I actually go to a place, wait there for my date, and have her be a no show (that'd be the legal secretary I asked out at her office - apparently she told one of my colleagues she now feels bad about it but didn't go bc she had just broken up with her bf). The others were dates we had planned where they were going to meet me somewhere and we were going to talk on the phone the day of, I went through the hassle of missing some other social options, coming home early, opening up time for them, etc. and then they never called or answered when I did.Leeroy Jenkins said:I think he was stood up on 1st dates w/ all of them, save for the psycho chick whose sister he works for/with (bad idea to date co-workers or their family, especially when you're going to be seeking real employment for the first time next year and will need references - that hadmr. furley said:so you reeled them in for a first date then got stood up on the 2nd and THEY are the problem?Woz said:what the hell does me being stood up have to do with anything? It was three times in one week and one time prior with three girls I barely knew and one I had gone out with twice before and had to tell her she couldn't spend the night on the first date. Obviously all 4 said "yes" initially when a "no" or an excuse would have been as easy as hell to give to a guy they had little connection to so I must have done something right. As to why they didn't show I don't quite know, but looks wise none of those chicks were outside my perspective range. If anything this situation has taught me to be a bit pickier in the future and only ask out girls I've either gotten to know a little bit or knew ahead of time weren't flaky and childish.where do you get that i don't have a whole lotta room to be picky? I've been picky my entire life and dated two great girls, one of which was extremely attractive IMO. No regrets here. Just because I've hit a dry spell doesn't mean I need to lower my standards. If I need it that bad I can find it. Just, to me, sex with quality chick <> sex with any chick willingyou're awfully picky for a guy who doesn't have a whole lotta room to be soEvery point you have made crossed my mind. I really don't like psycho chicks though, or desparate ones for that matter. I don't want to get a timeout here so I'll say this delicately, I could easily see me pulling an Otis or worse if her body isn't the best or if she freaks me out.There are certain things a man cannot turn down no matter the circumstances. This is one of those things. Be sure, however, to buy condoms w/ spermacidal lube and do not let them out of your sight/control. Dont want psycho ##### poking holes in them. Also, bring a knife or gun just in case.Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."
written all over it from Jump)
well you must be just a blast at parties... As for the secretary chick who stood me up, I've been in contact with her twice. Both went about my business and acted normal in that I went about my work business. Figured the "you're so unimportant it's not even worth giving you #### about standing me up" play was the best here. Heard today she wants me to ask again. Not gonna happen.
Grownups also keep dates/appointments they make. I haven't whined to her, ##### about it to anyone, or anything like that. I think I am doing the grownup thing by not making a big deal about it.
you're right. this makes it much better.Woz said:Actually the two date girl was the "should I study or stay at a party and see where it goes" girl I made a thread about. Not counting psycho chick in any of this. As for the 2 standups, only one was an idating girl. And Furley you're not even close. 3 of them stood me up on the first date. The other stood me up on what would have been the third. I also should clarify on my definition of "stood up" - only one time did I actually go to a place, wait there for my date, and have her be a no show (that'd be the legal secretary I asked out at her office - apparently she told one of my colleagues she now feels bad about it but didn't go bc she had just broken up with her bf). The others were dates we had planned where they were going to meet me somewhere and we were going to talk on the phone the day of, I went through the hassle of missing some other social options, coming home early, opening up time for them, etc. and then they never called or answered when I did.Leeroy Jenkins said:I think he was stood up on 1st dates w/ all of them, save for the psycho chick whose sister he works for/with (bad idea to date co-workers or their family, especially when you're going to be seeking real employment for the first time next year and will need references - that hadmr. furley said:so you reeled them in for a first date then got stood up on the 2nd and THEY are the problem?Woz said:what the hell does me being stood up have to do with anything? It was three times in one week and one time prior with three girls I barely knew and one I had gone out with twice before and had to tell her she couldn't spend the night on the first date. Obviously all 4 said "yes" initially when a "no" or an excuse would have been as easy as hell to give to a guy they had little connection to so I must have done something right. As to why they didn't show I don't quite know, but looks wise none of those chicks were outside my perspective range. If anything this situation has taught me to be a bit pickier in the future and only ask out girls I've either gotten to know a little bit or knew ahead of time weren't flaky and childish.where do you get that i don't have a whole lotta room to be picky? I've been picky my entire life and dated two great girls, one of which was extremely attractive IMO. No regrets here. Just because I've hit a dry spell doesn't mean I need to lower my standards. If I need it that bad I can find it. Just, to me, sex with quality chick <> sex with any chick willingyou're awfully picky for a guy who doesn't have a whole lotta room to be soEvery point you have made crossed my mind. I really don't like psycho chicks though, or desparate ones for that matter. I don't want to get a timeout here so I'll say this delicately, I could easily see me pulling an Otis or worse if her body isn't the best or if she freaks me out.There are certain things a man cannot turn down no matter the circumstances. This is one of those things. Be sure, however, to buy condoms w/ spermacidal lube and do not let them out of your sight/control. Dont want psycho ##### poking holes in them. Also, bring a knife or gun just in case.Text I just got from psycho chick: "I'm going 2 need u 2 do me from behind asap. let me know what we can do about this."you're a guy who has been stood up how many times in the last month?? i've never been stood up in my life. ever. i think you're confusing "picky" with "insecure, uncomfortable and not good with women".
written all over it from Jump)
I just don't see how you can categorize those as falling through. Dates were lined up. At one point, Woz reported having 3 dates all lined up. When attempts were made to finalize these dates, they neglected to respond despite still being active on the site. I can see your point that maybe they qualify as "blow offs" more than "stand ups". Either way, you gotta be doing something to have all of these women blowing you off after initial contact. Women that are obviously looking to meet new people since they are active on dating sites.
Actually went by there about an hour ago. Needed something from one of the attorneys there. Just acted like I was in a big hurry. She was expecting small talk, I didn't give it. She may think of me as an ####### but whatever, I offered her a date and didn't make her wait around.
They could be standups in that I made time for them. But I think the difference there is that idating <> real dating. As for me doing something wrong, it's possible but I honestly don't know where I'm ####### up. I had Krista check out of my contacts with them and while she said there may have been some menial mistakes, no deal-breakers or anything like that or anything from the chicks to suggest they'd just fall off the face of the earth.
very possible. As the underground can show, I went for the hotter ones... I'm sure there are a dozen Woz-type guys messaging them.I think iDating though is particularly detail oriented. A slight #### up via email or on your profile will just make the girls go back into the pool instead of wasting their time on you.
Makes her wonder why her standing me up doesn't appear to be bothering me. Also lets her guess I probably found a new date since I don't flirt with her anymore. Then again, this chick isn't very bright so who knows.
talking looks wise here...oof. Those poor girls.
That's not quite how I put it.I said I naturally AM an ####### when it comes to women. And yes, I'm going to date as many as I can.But, like I said in my initial, not this girl. Probably won't go out with her again...I'm clearly not the guy for her.Keys: remember the formula/plan you had for girls you told me about when you came out? The one where you said you were pretty much going to be an #######, date as many as you can, get sex from them, etc.? Yeah, I wouldn't employ that with this chick.I knew it was a mistake when it left my mouth.Quite honestly, though, I'm glad I found that out early. So in retrospect, bad question, good result.Encouraging talk about an ex is not a great move, but there's no way you could've seen this coming...Oh well...it was a good night out with a cute girl...keep rolling...So, back from the date with nervous girl.Still holding onto my streak of never being stood up. Honestly thought she'd be too frightened, but she was there.
Ummm...I think it was my plan......and yeah I agree. Don't be a Richard to this girl.That's not quite how I put it.I said I naturally AM an ####### when it comes to women. And yes, I'm going to date as many as I can.But, like I said in my initial, not this girl. Probably won't go out with her again...I'm clearly not the guy for her.Keys: remember the formula/plan you had for girls you told me about when you came out? The one where you said you were pretty much going to be an #######, date as many as you can, get sex from them, etc.? Yeah, I wouldn't employ that with this chick.I knew it was a mistake when it left my mouth.Quite honestly, though, I'm glad I found that out early. So in retrospect, bad question, good result.Encouraging talk about an ex is not a great move, but there's no way you could've seen this coming...Oh well...it was a good night out with a cute girl...keep rolling...So, back from the date with nervous girl.Still holding onto my streak of never being stood up. Honestly thought she'd be too frightened, but she was there.She was awesome. Great body, great to talk to, and we had a lot of fun in two hours.Hour and a half in, though, I'm thinking that Stu's plan is going to work perfectly, and I'm going to have an awesome story to tell. She talks about her time studying abroad, and somewhere in the picture, I knew she had a boyfriend through most of college.I made the mistake of saying, "that must've sucked being an ocean away in a long-distance relationship".She paused, and told me that the guy DIED when she was overseas.
So, as much of a ##### as I am, I'm not not ####### with this girl. She's been through way too much.Damn.
The thing that just throws me is that they never even bothered to respond again after agreeing to meet you. I could see a death in the family excuse or something along those lines. Keys made up a BS excuse for Latino chick, and while it was BS, he at least took the time to contact her and let he know he wasn't going out with her. It's pretty danged cold to just ignore somebody after agreeing to meet them. I understand there's a lot of guys out there that are going after them, and perhaps they found someone they felt was a better match for them. But why in the world couldn't they just make something up? Just seems....odd.Maybe you're not doing anything terribly wrong and i-dating is just that way. But to the casual observer who has never been on one of these sites, it just seems odd that so many of your prospects turn out this way while you've got guys in here bangin out date after date.very possible. As the underground can show, I went for the hotter ones... I'm sure there are a dozen Woz-type guys messaging them.I think iDating though is particularly detail oriented. A slight #### up via email or on your profile will just make the girls go back into the pool instead of wasting their time on you.
hey, at least she was considerate enough to write you and let you know... I'd take an e-mail like this any day over not hearing back at all and wondering why they never return a call.
This has all dawned on me too man. There are times when I have the feeling that a third party has been contacting these girls and telling them to stay away. I have a way to check on this, but just don't have the heart to do it. It's uncanny though. Honestly, all my convos with them both online and on the phone have been really good and nothing but "absolutely, I want to meet you." Then they fall off the face of the Earth. Furthermore, while I know I sound bad on here sometimes, in real life I'm a pretty decent, non-weird guy (think Keys could attest to this) and never had this kind of stuff happen before.The thing that just throws me is that they never even bothered to respond again after agreeing to meet you. I could see a death in the family excuse or something along those lines. Keys made up a BS excuse for Latino chick, and while it was BS, he at least took the time to contact her and let he know he wasn't going out with her. It's pretty danged cold to just ignore somebody after agreeing to meet them. I understand there's a lot of guys out there that are going after them, and perhaps they found someone they felt was a better match for them. But why in the world couldn't they just make something up? Just seems....odd.Maybe you're not doing anything terribly wrong and i-dating is just that way. But to the casual observer who has never been on one of these sites, it just seems odd that so many of your prospects turn out this way while you've got guys in here bangin out date after date.very possible. As the underground can show, I went for the hotter ones... I'm sure there are a dozen Woz-type guys messaging them.I think iDating though is particularly detail oriented. A slight #### up via email or on your profile will just make the girls go back into the pool instead of wasting their time on you.
My wife loves biting sarcasm...you just haven't found a woman to appreciate you yet...
O god, please don't tell me you think the ex is logging in as you at dating sites to see who you have been contacting and you think she is running interferenceThis has all dawned on me too man. There are times when I have the feeling that a third party has been contacting these girls and telling them to stay away. I have a way to check on this, but just don't have the heart to do it. It's uncanny though. Honestly, all my convos with them both online and on the phone have been really good and nothing but "absolutely, I want to meet you." Then they fall off the face of the Earth. Furthermore, while I know I sound bad on here sometimes, in real life I'm a pretty decent, non-weird guy (think Keys could attest to this) and never had this kind of stuff happen before.The thing that just throws me is that they never even bothered to respond again after agreeing to meet you. I could see a death in the family excuse or something along those lines. Keys made up a BS excuse for Latino chick, and while it was BS, he at least took the time to contact her and let he know he wasn't going out with her. It's pretty danged cold to just ignore somebody after agreeing to meet them. I understand there's a lot of guys out there that are going after them, and perhaps they found someone they felt was a better match for them. But why in the world couldn't they just make something up? Just seems....odd.Maybe you're not doing anything terribly wrong and i-dating is just that way. But to the casual observer who has never been on one of these sites, it just seems odd that so many of your prospects turn out this way while you've got guys in here bangin out date after date.very possible. As the underground can show, I went for the hotter ones... I'm sure there are a dozen Woz-type guys messaging them.I think iDating though is particularly detail oriented. A slight #### up via email or on your profile will just make the girls go back into the pool instead of wasting their time on you.
I really think better of her which is why I hope not and don't want to check... but like I said it's been uncanny and I've had Krista look at things for me and she has said there's no major flaw. But there are other plausible explainations too - seems like girl have an ability sometimes to see when a guy really doesn't have the interest in the long term of being with them (which I don't).O god, please don't tell me you think the ex is logging in as you at dating sites to see who you have been contacting and you think she is running interferenceThis has all dawned on me too man. There are times when I have the feeling that a third party has been contacting these girls and telling them to stay away. I have a way to check on this, but just don't have the heart to do it. It's uncanny though. Honestly, all my convos with them both online and on the phone have been really good and nothing but "absolutely, I want to meet you." Then they fall off the face of the Earth. Furthermore, while I know I sound bad on here sometimes, in real life I'm a pretty decent, non-weird guy (think Keys could attest to this) and never had this kind of stuff happen before.The thing that just throws me is that they never even bothered to respond again after agreeing to meet you. I could see a death in the family excuse or something along those lines. Keys made up a BS excuse for Latino chick, and while it was BS, he at least took the time to contact her and let he know he wasn't going out with her. It's pretty danged cold to just ignore somebody after agreeing to meet them. I understand there's a lot of guys out there that are going after them, and perhaps they found someone they felt was a better match for them. But why in the world couldn't they just make something up? Just seems....odd.Maybe you're not doing anything terribly wrong and i-dating is just that way. But to the casual observer who has never been on one of these sites, it just seems odd that so many of your prospects turn out this way while you've got guys in here bangin out date after date.very possible. As the underground can show, I went for the hotter ones... I'm sure there are a dozen Woz-type guys messaging them.I think iDating though is particularly detail oriented. A slight #### up via email or on your profile will just make the girls go back into the pool instead of wasting their time on you.
You're :money: and you don't even know it. I wouldn't let that freak me out.
