Here's the thing about home ownership and starting a family...from this point forward it never ends. There is always something new needed to be done. Enjoy!
I don't see how anyone could disagree with this. Hell, I own a small condo that needed updating when I moved in 3 years ago (just finished a kitchen remodel), no kids and feel like the to-do's are never ending. I can't imagine how those with kids get anything done.
Wife and I built our 2nd home, paid a little extra to build because I figured it would cut down on my home chores. Nope. Just a different set of problems with a new build.
We're 2 months into a new build, and there is definitiely less maintenance than the last house. What new problems are you seeing?
Settling is the biggest problem.After year 1 not much settling in the house....we're 3 years in and we're seeing a lot of nail pops in the drywall. Problem is our builder came out to fix nail pops after 10 months, we didn't have that many at 10 months. In the walls they're easy to fix, in the ceiling they're a pain.
We also had settling in our yard. We had one part of our yard drop almost a foot last winter, after 2 years in the house.
Establishing a lawn was a lot of work, establishing landscaping was a lot of work. Both things that I took for granted in our first house that had all that when I moved in.
ETA: one other thing, in a new house everything is so clean, you notice every mark on the wall, every mark on the carpet/hardwood, everything. All the little dings/marks are brand new and noticeable.