Dude, chill. Have you noticed how many people you have gotten into ###-for-tats with in multiple threads lately? I believe you aren't meaning to antagonize, but when it keeps happening - even inadvertently - you gotta stop at some point and genuinely ask yourself why. Especially, when you are a highly intelligent person, which clearly you are.
I speak from personal experience here. I have the same 'not trying to be offensive, but sometimes come across offensive' gene that you and
@Dr. Dan do. We can all be good again, though. Just like on the sports field, it's always about the next play. Cheers.