The Hug Life Chronicles: :( (1 Viewer)

[Nathan R. Jessep]

My apologies....being a 49 year old 20 plus years of marriage guy I am not totally up to date on all the sites/apps....but I thought that was THE thing that separated Tinder from the rest....I thought it was the site for I don’t want to deal with all the other stuff, I just want to get down to business site....in fact I thought it is precisely the opposite type of a site for someone like you that wasn’t looking to bed down for the night...so pardon my confusion....I never said she was a whore, but with my ideas of what Tinder is as a back drop, her excessive drinking, and other things that have been described in this thread including sleeping with her friends husband/men...I guess thats why I thought she might be pretty much a sure thing and was curious as to what happened that first night you met her through Tinder...never read your other thread, not judging or belittling you or your friend in any way.....just asking questions based on the information somebody provides in an on line message board thread where they are airing out/sharing their personal life and sexcapades for the entire world to see.....just seemed kinda weird for somebody that is not all about “that”...so sorry for the confusion, maybe had I read the other thread I would have a better understanding, maybe not.... I wish you the best of luck with your friend and your sexual conquests with Stacy.....

Fair enough. Thanks for the clarification. And I'm sure some may use Tinder (and any other dating app) as a straight-to-sex type thing.  (For the record, I believe Grindr is the go-to sex app ) And yes, I am aware that I open myself to criticisms by sharing any part of my life here. It was just that, along with your first reply in here, it seemed to be illogically flawed, so I was attempting to explain a little better. Perhaps that is on me for not explaining well in the first place.. But since you explained your point of view, it does make better sense. I am also aware that, as with my other thread, I'm privy to more information that what I have or will share here, that definitely influences my decisions as well, so if it seems "things don't add up," then that could very well be why. I have tried to answer everyone's questions, though, as best I can. 

 Again, thanks for taking the time to reply and explaining your point of view. And I appreciate the well-wishes. 

 

[Tom Servo]

I know this might be hard for you, but remember all those posts about go away and quit ruining the thread, well they were talking to you. HTH

And take @Stinkin Ref with you. 

 

[DA RAIDERS]

This group could have a show on Lifetime

I do not know all the details. But from what I've been able to piece together, I believe Margot and Kate got into a spat several weeks earlier at a get-together for Dave's birthday. Kate was drunk and being over-the-top ridiculous (shocking) and Margot told her to dial it down a bit, and threw in a personal attack (something about Kate's exBF who had broken up with her). MJ was there and took up for Kate (yep, I know). Then again the next day by telling Margot off the next day in a very long and detailed text message.  Margot and Kate have since made up and are friends again, but the ripples through the friend group were still being felt on the night of the shindig. Some of this is what Kate filled me in on when I got to her place before the party.

Then that night, Dave apparently apologized to Margot for something (not sure what) and MJ saw it and was not pleased, and the fight ensued.  Then the guy Dave got into a scuffle with after that was Margot's ex boyfriend, so not sure what was going on there. 

I don't know that Kate and Dave were doing anything prior (I would not be shocked if that wasn't the first time it had happened, but I don't know for sure), but if so, that's not what the skirmish was about that night. If the Kate v. MJ conflict comes to fruition, I think it's going to be epic. 

I couldn't read all the way through that.   I'm married and boring.  Can't imagine caring about any of it. 

 

[JAA]

Less bickering more updating 

 

[James Daulton]

Our hero hasn't given us a wardrobe update in quite a while.  I'd think with the change of season upcoming, he'd be bagging the Saints polo for the Saints tank top.  But how will we know if our hero does not tell us?  Fewer sex updates and more Saints gear updates my friend. 

 

[northern exposure]

Our hero hasn't given us a wardrobe update in quite a while.  I'd think with the change of season upcoming, he'd be bagging the Saints polo for the Saints tank top.  But how will we know if our hero does not tell us?  Fewer sex updates and more Saints gear updates my friend. 

Actually less NRJ attire updates and more Stacy attire updates please! 

 

[Stinkin Ref]

And take @Stinkin Ref with you. 

Why?

 

[Tom Servo]

Why?

It was before I saw that you misunderstood the intricacies of Tinder. Carry on.

 

[Stinkin Ref]

just curious....was I wrong in thinking that when Tinder first hit the scene that it was thought of and used as a more of a let's just get down to business app where both sides pretty much knew each others intentions...?....and then did that kind of change or something and now it this Grinder or whatever NRJ referred too.....and Tinder is now just a dating app like all the others....

 

[dhockster]

When is our update? Just want to plan my day.

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

Until the impending Kate/Dave/MJ saga blows up, not sure how much updating there will be. I don't want to bore everyone (more  ) with daily updates from the text line. 

Friday was a casual visit and we never left the house. For the WardrobeGuys, I wore a t-shirt (non-Saints)  and jeans and I don't think I ever even put shoes on. Stacy wore jeans, a denim shirt, and some gray pumps, briefly.  

We are planning to hang out again this weekend for a St. Patty's day get-together. Not sure yet if it's with Kate and crew or another group. In general, things are going well with Stacy. There may be a little something there between us. I think we are just enjoying the ride (pun intended) and going with the flow for now and we will see where it goes. 

 

[Worm]

The fewer the updates and/or detail, the closer NRJ gets to full on relationship status. Seen it/been there imo.

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

The fewer the updates and/or detail, the closer NRJ gets to full on relationship status. Seen it/been there imo.

 

 

[JAA]

Until the impending Kate/Dave/MJ saga blows up, not sure how much updating there will be. I don't want to bore everyone (more  ) with daily updates from the text line. 

Friday was a casual visit and we never left the house. For the WardrobeGuys, I wore a t-shirt (non-Saints)  and jeans and I don't think I ever even put shoes on. Stacy wore jeans, a denim shirt, and some gray pumps, briefly.  

We are planning to hang out again this weekend for a St. Patty's day get-together. Not sure yet if it's with Kate and crew or another group. In general, things are going well with Stacy. There may be a little something there between us. I think we are just enjoying the ride (pun intended) and going with the flow for now and we will see where it goes. 

If Im being honest, the denim shirt drops her a .5 anywhere on the board.  I cant think or find one that is relatively attractive.  Can you elaborate?  Please dont say they look awesome in a clump on the floor next to the bed ... even though its true.

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

If Im being honest, the denim shirt drops her a .5 anywhere on the board.  I cant think or find one that is relatively attractive.  Can you elaborate?  Please dont say they look awesome in a clump on the floor next to the bed ... even though its true.

Not a big fan of the denim shirt either, but it looked good on her. Also in a clump on the floor next to the bed. (I almost typed that in my original description.)    If it helps, it wasn't like a farm supply store denim shirt, more like a ladies' cut something like this.

 

[ChiefD]

 more like a ladies' cut something like this.

We'll allow it.

Carry on. 

 

[Bob Sacamano]

Are we done with this episode of Queer Eye For The iGuy yet?

 

[Bull Dozier]

Not a big fan of the denim shirt either, but it looked good on her. Also in a clump on the floor next to the bed. (I almost typed that in my original description.)    If it helps, it wasn't like a farm supply store denim shirt, more like a ladies' cut something like this.

Chambray is different than denim.  I would allow it.

 

[jonessed]

just curious....was I wrong in thinking that when Tinder first hit the scene that it was thought of and used as a more of a let's just get down to business app where both sides pretty much knew each others intentions...?....and then did that kind of change or something and now it this Grinder or whatever NRJ referred too.....and Tinder is now just a dating app like all the others....

I thought Grinder was a gay hookup app ?

 

[Tom Servo]

Are we done with this episode of Queer Eye For The iGuy yet?

I hope so. I don't want this to turn into an Offdee freezing jeans thread.

 

[Bob Sacamano]

Who doesn't freeze their jeans?

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

I thought Grinder was a gay hookup app ?

I thought the same thing but was informed otherwise. Maybe it's a regional thing.  

 

[Steeler]

Not a big fan of the denim shirt either, but it looked good on her. Also in a clump on the floor next to the bed. (I almost typed that in my original description.)    If it helps, it wasn't like a farm supply store denim shirt, more like a ladies' cut something like this.

I have a foot fetish, what did the pumps look like?

Better yet, take a pic of Stacy's actual feet in the pumps with a penny in between.

 

[Don't Toews Me]

We are planning to hang out again this weekend for a St. Patty's day get-together. Not sure yet if it's with Kate and crew or another group. In general, things are going well with Stacy. There may be a little something there between us. I think we are just enjoying the ride (pun intended) and going with the flow for now and we will see where it goes. 

Will Random Guy be there?

 

[msommer]

 something like this.

You really must find a better model to showcase Stacy's outfits

Just saying...

 

[falguy]

we never left the house

Did you hit for the cycle? How many total bases? Asking for a friend

 

[Zegras11]

Did you hit for the cycle? How many total bases? Asking for a friend

read the thread.  he said he went 3 for 4 

 

[falguy]

read the thread.  he said he went 3 for 4 

guess i missed that

 

[General Malaise]

If you're insinuating that Kate is a whore, then that is yet another bad assumption on your part. If your intent is to belittle me by saying I didn't seal the deal with Kate on the first night I met her, I can't say I understand your reasoning for doing so, but alright. I've stated in this very thread that taking a girl home the first night I meet her and trying to bed her is not my mission. Just not my style. Also, not everyone on Tinder (or other dating apps) is looking to meet up and #### someone immediately. Sure, some are. I was not, and neither was she. We went out several times and had a great time together and while there was some mutual  physical attraction, there just wasn't a spark, so it didn't progress beyond that. But there were 2 people with similar senses of humor, taste in music and personalities that just meshed well together. So yep, we bonded over those things. I stated this in my other thread a couple years ago and whether you believe me or not, it's not JUST about sex for me. Judge away, I don't give a ####. I realize I don't act/react like everybody else with and I'm fine with that. 

I gotta give you props for keeping your composure and not letting the haters get to you.  Big ups, man.

I tell my kids the same thing almost daily: 'Good manners are the glue of society' - Cosmo Kramer, 1993.  Good manners, people.  Good.  Manners.

 

[Brony]

read the thread.  he said he went 3 for 4 

I hope the next update skips the baseball analogies and just says how many times he banged her. 

 

[Charlie Steiner]

I hope the next update skips the baseball analogies and just says how many times he banged her. 

How can you not be romantic about baseball? 

 

[Stinkin Ref]

Good manners must include talking about the women in your life the way our hero has on an internet board. I'm sure they would be excited.  None of us are angels, but our hero isn't really captaining the All Gentlemans Team here. 

 

[General Malaise]

Good manners must include talking about the women in your life the way our hero has on an internet board. I'm sure they would be excited.  None of us are angels, but our hero isn't really captaining the All Gentleman Team here. 

He's been nothing but complimentary in his autobiographical masterpiece.  

 

[JAA]

Not a big fan of the denim shirt either, but it looked good on her. Also in a clump on the floor next to the bed. (I almost typed that in my original description.)    If it helps, it wasn't like a farm supply store denim shirt, more like a ladies' cut something like this.

I cant get behind it ... but I understand why you are and am confident I would do the same in your shoes

 

[JAA]

You really must find a better model to showcase Stacy's outfits

Just saying...

whats wrong with squirrel face there?

 

[JAA]

Good manners must include talking about the women in your life the way our hero has on an internet board. I'm sure they would be excited.  None of us are angels, but our hero isn't really captaining the All Gentleman Team here. 

you may yet again leave ... tia

 

[Stinkin Ref]

you may yet again leave ... tia

same to you...tia

 

[ProstheticRGK]

 for laughs and to bust your balls

Hopefully, when yours finally drop, you can start busting your own and have a new toy. 

 

[Tom Servo]

I have a foot fetish, what did the pumps look like?

Better yet, take a pic of Stacy's actual feet in the pumps with a penny in between.

Is that you, Rex Ryan?

 

[northern exposure]

Good manners must include talking about the women in your life the way our hero has on an internet board. I'm sure they would be excited.  None of us are angels, but our hero isn't really captaining the All Gentlemans Team here. 

At first I thought your comments were coming from a young guy that thought he had more game than Jessep, so you were mocking his lack of game. But, you have stated you are a 40 something in a 20+ year marriage, so what is the motivation for your snide remarks....jealousy?

 

[Stinkin Ref]

At first I thought your comments were coming from a young guy that thought he had more game than Jessep, so you were mocking his lack of game. But, you have stated you are a 40 something in a 20+ year marriage, so what is the motivation for your snide remarks....jealousy?

The comment about manners was in response to GM’s comments about giving NRJ props for having manners....I was just pointing out that none of us in here are angels including NRJ cause talking about a friend, and a lady he is kind dating the way he has in here isn’t neccessaily very gentlemanly in the grand scheme of things....even behind the curtain of anonymity on a internet message board....otherwise I’m not sure what “snide” comments you are talking about...

 

[Zasada]

[Deleted, wrong thread!]

 

[Tom Servo]

Why do hotels have to keep fitness rooms so freaking hot and with no ventilation?

Wrong thread, chief.

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

Will Random Guy be there?

 never know, I'll keep an eye out

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

I have a foot fetish, what did the pumps look like?

Better yet, take a pic of Stacy's actual feet in the pumps with a penny in between.

something like these, best I can recall

 

[Nathan R. Jessep]

Why do hotels have to keep fitness rooms so freaking hot and with no ventilation?

Any room can be a fitness room if you try hard enough.  

 

[JAA]

At first I thought your comments were coming from a young guy that thought he had more game than Jessep, so you were mocking his lack of game. But, you have stated you are a 40 something in a 20+ year marriage, so what is the motivation for your snide remarks....jealousy?

Please don’t feed the trolls

 

[Keerock]

:hug:

 

[Don't Toews Me]

Saw this bumped.

Thought there was an update from our Colonel. 

Got my hopes up. 

 

[Drunken knight]

did he wake up in a bathtub without a kidney?