Just attempts to avoid personal responsibility in our society.
agreed, we just differ on the party. im gonna go with parents, family, teachers and kids themselves.
But what about when there is no daddy, because he left home when the kid was 2 and the classroom is so overcrowded that the teacher can't deal much with the kids on a 1v1 basis because they're way overwhelmed?It's true that family and school should play the #1 role in shaping a young person's life, but the reality is that families are often single parent families now. A single income household with one parent often working 2-3 jobs to keep a roof over their heads.And how do you teach morality in schools now? The ACLU comes after you if you try. Furthermore its not the schools job to really parent a kid.So in this less than perfect time, where families are often single parent/single income ones, and schools are overcrowded and handicapped as far as what they can teach, you have an entire generation of kids growing up and learning to emulate either Jersey Shore, Skins and other vacuous MTV garbage, or professional athletes and Hollywood figures. TV is the babysitter now. Kids imitate what they see, especially on TV, where the "cool" people are. So whether people like it or not, they're being emulated. And often times the idiots get all the air time, Sheen, Vince Young, Pac Man Jones, Lawrence Taylor, the Jersey Shore crew, because it sells. Well it also allows little kids to think their behavior is normal and acceptable.If there was a show about a working class couple in the suburb of a city that was just barely getting by, living a normal life, trying to bring up their kids, church on sundays, little league, pee wee football, helping their kids with their homework, denying themselves a lot of the pleasures of life to provide for their kids, working long hours, and having a good relationship, it would get canceled. Why? Because it's not F-ed up enough to sell. People in this country love a circus. They love Sheen. They love the completely empty, unintelligent and nauseating hedonism of the Jersey Shore. They love reality TV full of extremely damaged and imbalanced individuals. They love selfish and extravagant athletes. There are no reality TV shows about an offensive linemen that makes veteran minimum and has a family, a couple kids and just does his job every day. Only about idiot, bipolar WRs that do situps in their driveway and destroy and divide locker rooms and teams.If I was a parent and I had a girl, and she grew up to be like Kim Kardashian, prostituting herself for fame and being completely self obsessed, fame and money hungry, then I'd feel like a failure as a parent, especially when I didn't take the time to raise her. If I just parked her in front of the TV so she could watch "Keeping up with the Kardashians," then I would be a bad parent. However many parents don't have a choice, as they work 2-3 jobs to make ends meet.If I had a son and he thought that being a selfish ####### who evades responsibility, and can't fit into a "team" because TO was his favorite athlete, then I'd be pretty disappointed about it. A lot of the athletes glorified in the media for the exact opposite reasons that we start little kids into youth sports. We start them into youth sports to develop good relationships with team mates, build character, learn how to win/lose with class, learn how to overcome obstacles, learn how to work as a team to meet challenges, learn how to help one another, to develop a sense of belonging in a community, to have pride in hard work and team work. But many times the public figures that are just out of control get most of the air time, because it sells to our sick society. Little kids don't know any better, and they process and emulate behavior that they see.Obviously TO and Kim K are just 2 examples out of many that I could use, but they're the most glaring ones to me right now. There's VY, LT, Pac Man Jones, Ray Lewis (people forget hes a murderer) Marvin Harrison, Plaxico- hell there's a new one every day.As soon as you sign that contract, that endorsement deal, you get your own shoe, your highlights on ESPN, everything you do is now public domain. And whether you like it or not, little kids with no guidance are watching you, and thinking everything you do is "cool," and often times there's no one there to tell them otherwise./endrant