What can we do to discourage this type of behavior?
Mandatory conscription at the age of 16, for a full three year tour, in a military style full time training cycle or a Public Service Corps.
Have young Americans learn to get up at 4am, cook and clean, go to practical classes like money management and how to succeed in a job interview and how to manage a household and how to set a schedule and a budget. Have them do log PT and formation runs. Restrict their diet and teach them about nutrition and physical training. Prepare them for life. Let them make friendships and build bonds and learn shared attrition and understand the value of teamwork.
There needs to be a wide scale logistical fix here. If parents alone and schools alone could do this job, it wouldn't have turned into the current madness in place. No time for social media when everyone is restricted from using a cell phone for three years. You get to send emails for 20 minutes on day a week to your family, that's it.
If you want to change behavior, you have to change your environment.
How many people here grew up with madness and neglect and pain and abuse, and you knew if you stayed, if you stayed one day longer or stayed in that town any longer, that you would be finishing off a death sentence given to you from birth.
All practical problems need a logistical pathway towards a solution. Things boil down to the nuts of bolts of where people will live, what will they be taught and whom will pay for it. Anything that was ever made right in this life was done by some version of math and resource management.
Key point here - I'm right. Everyone who disagrees is not wrong per se but are probably "soft" in nature. You can't teach America's youth to be born again hard by way of the madness of the Charmin Brigade. Sometimes I read posts in these forums and I wonder if some of you guys just want to spend the evening popping in a DVD copy of The Notebook and just start spontaneously crying in your fondue pot.
What's wrong with the world that log PT at 4am can't fix?