Agree with this for 90% of the small-talk, but people ended up getting loaded and telling my wife and her friend stuff that you'd never see on FB. This is an actual list of things they learned.
- My one GB confided that he has a mistress half his age that no one (except for my wife and her friend now) knows anything about.
- Another GB's wife told them that my buddy is an alcoholic and often starts drinking by 9am. :( His dad was an alcoholic too.
- One girl told them that she was a photographer that shot fetish festivals. By the end of the night, she admitted that she was a professional dominatrix and was showing them pics of herself in action.
- One girl told them that she loves to go to swingers clubs, but will not do it local. She said they travel to clubs in other countries / islands (or sometimes Vegas) on their vacations and that she participates and her husband just likes to watch.