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Very much enjoy this thread so far and I look forward to following it along. Big fan of @wikkidpissah‘s thoughts, stories and writing style.
I feel bad for your friend. It's my opinion that my photography, while decent enough to impress friends, family, and the occasional pro, will never get to that super elite upper tier level that's required...and I'm ok with that. I do it for me. I look to guys like Dave Sandford for inspiration and tips on how to shoot things. I'm comfortable not trying to compete because I can't but still be good. This is a lesson I learned many years ago when I put myself in a company golf tournament with the three best golfers in the company. There was no pressure to compete - because I couldn't - and it allowed me to play my game with no stress.You've reminded me of a perfect example of how one's talents can work against them.
My best pal for 50 years is a hella photographer. Not only has a great eye, great sense of light & the frame and a great passion for it, but is a master of the darkroom. He more or less followed me out to New Mexico and he & his wife & i moved to Reno together when i finally gave up on NY & showbiz and his work (B&W mostly) in the desert and Rockies and Sierras and Pacific coastline was close to the level of Ansel Adams and Edward Weston.
Unfortunately, making a living in photography is mostly about self-promotion and/or taking ####. And the reason my pal is my pal is that he doesn't have a disingenuous bone in his body (being ten pounds of #### in a five-pound bag myself, i need someone like that) and, therefore, can do neither. He spent decades trying to get shows, burning out the flaws in inferior but more successful "artist"'s photos and an awful lot of time printing commercially for short dough. He don't shoot no more, don't print no more, can't drink no more so and, especially once digital took over and threw the last shovel of dirt on his career, he just sits and seethes. His wife feared he was gonna off himself, so i worked hard on him to go back to playing the bass (in college, he was bassist-of-choice for this guitarist) and did sessions w him to get him caring again. Now, he sits & seethes with a bass in his hands, which is apparently enough to keep him from quitting this orb, but just barely
For all my pal's skill in photography, he NEVER did it for pure reasons. He saw his talent for it and assumed it would carry him to high places. It was obvious to anyone that he didn't have the personality to make his way in the art world, the patience to climb ladders or the undeniability of a great artist. His stubbornness in tying his hopes to his talents against all evidence ruined him and soured his talent.
FYPTom Servo said:The Zeno of wikkidpissah
okeydokeyI believe there is a limit to the amount of "manual building" we can do for others simply because of the most prevalent, aggravating, inscrutability problem of the human condition: the denoting problem. Russell probably described it best. Wittgenstein spent a great deal of time working on it. Everyone knows it's there intuitively. The problem is this: you don't mean what I mean when we use the same words. We have a general sense of what we mean, but "definitions" aren't definite. The manual needs to start with a dictionary.
The closer we come to meaning the same thing, the closer we come to moving the human race forward. In my opinion. And once we all know what we mean, humanity is going to move forward at a pace that makes today look like the Dark Ages. Unfortunately, as noted by the original post, we're moving in the wrong direction.
It's a lot of what you're already doing. You're defining important terms, explaining them in ways people understand, and trying to bring a shared meaning to the concepts you're using by which one should improve human life. Go you.okeydokey
That's why I'm here.It's a lot of what you're already doing. You're defining important terms, explaining them in ways people understand, and trying to bring a shared meaning to the concepts you're using by which one should improve human life. Go you.
You're probably the most respected person on these boards and there's a reason for that. Your capacity and care is unmatched around here.It's a lot of what you're already doing. You're defining important terms, explaining them in ways people understand, and trying to bring a shared meaning to the concepts you're using by which one should improve human life. Go you.
I'm not sure how to be "one of those guys" but my tendency is to think "how is some idiot going to misunderstand me here" when writing, and then try to make sure I explain whatever that is. I recommend it.You're probably the most respected person on these boards and there's a reason for that. Your capacity and care is unmatched around here.
You are an "art of the possible" guy and i am an "art of the necessary" guy. A revolutionary. I am trying to be the first careful revolutionary and it's not easy. My favorite reading growing up was Sherlock Holmes, but i never understood why his talent for deduction never brought him to the conclusion that he was a ####. I am trying to be that bold, that piercing without being a richard about it. I hope as many persons such as you temper my vision as others might embrace it.
I started writing songs a few years ago, the only reason being that i had a project which would be improved by adding songs, so i gave it a try. I been around the music biz, at some high levels occasionally, for almost 50 years, but i can't play a musical instrument well enough to play what i write. Every time i've brought the songs to musician friends, they've been "You wrote this?! You don't even play anythi....you wrote this?!?!" Then they sit me down and explain to me what i done here or there and how weird and borderline wonderful that is. That's who i am - i come up with stuff. If i actually knew what i was doing, i probably wouldn't, but i don't know the rules, so.....The only reason i can keep trying is that i know there are guys like you around to refine what i come up with. I hope you'll think about being one of those guys.
One of the blessings of the first stuff i ever wrote being jokes for other people is that i never have any trouble finding the voice in which i want people to "hear" my words. One can make the most abstruse observation and, if it's written with comic timing, have it mean something to somebody - most bodies, actually. An FFA member once observed "I rarely understand anything wikkid says, but somehow feel better for having read it". @Eephus has said something to the effect that Cecil Taylor is the appropriate accompaniment for my rants (how could he know that this synchs up to my thought processes like Dark Side of the Moon does to Wizard of Oz).I'm not sure how to be "one of those guys" but my tendency is to think "how is some idiot going to misunderstand me here" when writing, and then try to make sure I explain whatever that is. I recommend it.
"Abbot Terrasson tells us that if the size of a book were measured not by the number of its pages but by the time required to understand it, then we could say about many books that they would be much shorter were they not so short." - Immanuel Kant
I used to tell students the difference between what something means and something's meaning by using the following example (which changed with the telling every time - like a philosophical "Aristocrats!" but somehow more boring than that sounds.)That's why I'm here.
Nice.
Thanks for sharing this Henry.I used to tell students the difference between what something means and something's meaning by using the following example (which changed with the telling every time - like a philosophical "Aristocrats!" but somehow more boring than that sounds.)
"I placed my hand upon the desk." What does that sentence mean?
And then some enterprising student would explain, in rather technical language, that someone put his extreme upper extremity on the surface of a wooden blah blah blah. And everyone was very impressed and giggly.
And then I would explain that the desk was a wooden, handcrafted desk from the Revolutionary War time that had been in the family for generations. It was passed from father to son in a family of lawyers and writers, of politicians and teachers, for over two hundred years. Since the dawn of the country. The family always imagined that some part of the founding documents had been written there. The Declaration. The Bill of Rights. They weren't, obviously, but it was a sort of fantasy in the back of everyone's minds - like finding a Van Gogh at a garage sale or something, maybe our desk had been in just the right place at just the right moment and maybe that's how greatness comes to a family. It was that desk.
It was the same desk where my father took his life. Where he had sat, alone, a single lamp burning on a dark night, placed a single cartridge into the cylinder of a snub nosed .38 special and blown the back of his head across the room. Where his head had fallen forward, and struck the edge of the wood, his nose breaking after he'd already put a bullet in his head. There was a sport in wood, over the center drawer. A dark, brown spot that just looked like a slight imperfection in the staining, but it wasn't. It was my father.
That night he had found out about my mother and his own brother. Apparently years in the making. And when he confronted her she pushed him to it - berated him, eviscerated him. Crushed anything that was left. Asked him why he even bothered to live anymore. And I suppose he couldn't think of an answer.
I was young, then. Ten. Maybe eleven. It wasn't until years later that I really understood what had happened. Years after I'd seen my uncle, sitting in my father's study. At my father's desk. In my father's home. But one day I did find out. My aunt.. my ex-aunt I guess? ... she explained to me on my twenty-first birthday, half drunk, at a bar in Mid City, why things were the way they were. And when I came home to confront him, there he was - my uncle, in my father's house, at my father's desk. I don't know exactly what was in my head - I was half drunk, half enraged, and half detached from my body, and that's a lot of halves to have. But it was all too much for me and I pulled my uncle out of that chair and I beat him half to death. All the way unconscious.
I stopped seeing red eventually - the world turned back to the colors I was used to, my heart stopped pounding, the blood stopped rushing in my ears. And there he was, my uncle, bruised and bloody on the floor of my father's office. The whole story finally out in the open in the family. The reason my father was gone.
I placed my hand upon the desk.
And then I asked them the meaning. And told them that's what denoting is about. And it's why the entirety of humanity is unable to effectively communicate with one another.
ABSOLUTELY.I'm not sure how to be "one of those guys" but my tendency is to think "how is some idiot going to misunderstand me here" when writing, and then try to make sure I explain whatever that is. I recommend it.
"Abbot Terrasson tells us that if the size of a book were measured not by the number of its pages but by the time required to understand it, then we could say about many books that they would be much shorter were they not so short." - Immanuel Kant
And, this point is perfectly wikkid.One of the blessings of the first stuff i ever wrote being jokes for other people is that i never have any trouble finding the voice in which i want people to "hear" my words.
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Yep.One can make the most abstruse observation and, if it's written with comic timing, have it mean something to somebody, most bodies, actually.
Can you unpack this?ABSOLUTELY.
The one thing I'm constantly disappointed in is how many people disagree with me on the idea that it's the responsibility of the speaker to be understood. I see lots of super smart people absolve themselves of that responsibility... While they are misunderstood.
That's it... I'm starting a Wikkid dictionary today of his colorful words:One of the blessings of the first stuff i ever wrote being jokes for other people is that i never have any trouble finding the voice in which i want people to "hear" my words. One can make the most abstruse observation and, if it's written with comic timing, have it mean something to somebody, most bodies, actually.
The job of human parenthood is to get offspring to the third instinct as quickly and completely as possible. The only effective way to do so is to continually and consistently frustrate the dominance and fight-to-the-death instincts of their children. The product of the frustration of dominance is rage.
This #### should be on a poster or a shirt or something, just saying.Maybe, once we show God we don't need him, she'll show her ugly mug.
The point is only this:Thanks for sharing this Henry.
I greatly missed you and your perspective during my absence.
I'll think a lot about everything in this thread; it's been awesome so far.
Pretty soon, I'll have something to say.
For now; I believe I understand a major portion of your point.![]()
Drop by my pad..Ford and Wikkid in the same thread. Good thing I'm not high or me head might explode.
That paper sounds interesting. What you write here jibes with my groove too.The point is only this:
When we speak, we do not know what others mean. Really ever. Not really. If you use the word mother and I use the word mother, we mean different things. Because "mother" has bound up in it all of the meaning I ascribe to my mother. And the mothers I've known. And the different definitions I allow to bleed into "mother" - mother-in-law, adoptive mother, nuns, etc. They evoke other feelings than the word "mother" does in you. There's really nothing we can do about that, and probably shouldn't try.
I wrote a paper about denoting language in the field of mathematics in college, basically explaining that we don't even agree on what we mean in (or even by) Euclidean Geometry. It's gotten worse, not better.
I see a lot of smart people make their point in a way that the listener doesn't understand. And thenCan you unpack this?
when the listener doesn't understand. Or worse, say something along the lines of "that's their problem if they're not smart enough to understand". My favorite thing about life is that we can't ask, never find out for sure.The point is only this:
When we speak, we do not know what others mean. Really ever. Not really. If you use the word mother and I use the word mother, we mean different things. Because "mother" has bound up in it all of the meaning I ascribe to my mother. And the mothers I've known. And the different definitions I allow to bleed into "mother" - mother-in-law, adoptive mother, nuns, etc. They evoke other feelings than the word "mother" does in you. There's really nothing we can do about that, and probably shouldn't try.
I wrote a paper about denoting language in the field of mathematics in college, basically explaining that we don't even agree on what we mean in (or even by) Euclidean Geometry. It's gotten worse, not better.
I will not claim that this is my favs, but I have long accepted the truth of it.My favorite thing about life is that we can't ask, never find out for sure.
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But imagine - what if it wasn’t?I will not claim that this is my favs, but I have long accepted the truth of it.
I have never found a way around it.
Imo, it will always have to be the fuzzy part of the formula.![]()
I’ll tell you why a manual is most important in my opinion: because it gives a definition - a real, live, definition by a person - of what a life well lived is.My favorite thing about life is that we can't ask, never find out for sure.
Me 94yo Ma don't remember what she said yesterday anymore. The thing about me to me she barks out most often is that i told her, when i first came up here to take care of her that, If i ever wrote my autobiography, i would title it "Why Is That House Brown?" after the kind of questions i'd ask her as a toddler. "So many questions. Remember him in the stroller, Woody? What about this? What about that?" My father always grunts and goes back to blaming gays for hurricanes.
I wanna know. I always wanna know. I could list 47 things i've done to put myself into position to understand more, but i aint blowing that many stories in one post. Becoming, next to the guy who taught me and my Mary, the best psych-unit crisis worker i ever seen. Having one of the greatest gamblers who ever lived, WSOP champ Jack Straus, call me the best psych player of my gen. Years of putting myself in jackpots, up against deadlines, sitches i couldn't get out of (even betting on em in my gambler days) just to keep sharp.
Cuz you can't ask, you just can't ask. And it's its own Uncertainty Principle - if you were to ask, you'd be guaranteeing you wouldn't get the truth. So we chase and we chase and we chase. Cuz that's how we get better, doncha think? Not hardly. It makes us meaner, crazier, ruins trust, creates perversions as diversions, makes us wanna get loaded so we just don't care for a while.
Orrrr. Orrrrrrrrrrrrrr, we could make our peace with it. Best decision i ever made, because i'd never have learned the meaning of the word "kind" if i hadn't. I'll have a piece about the meaning of kindness on here soon. Of all the things i haven't been able to live without, that may have the strongest hold on me. Who knows?
Well, that would be fantastic. Sincerely. And beautiful.But imagine - what if it wasn’t?
I remember the show, but not the episode.I don’t know if you guys remember the tv show “Head of the Class” from the 80s. It was about a gifted high school class.
There was an episode where they were returning from winning a trivia meet and broke down in a small town. They (their teacher after watching them treat the locals like yokels) decided to pass the time by doing a trivia competition with the residents. And it was basically a dead heat. Nobody knew the answers to each other’s questions.
One guy popped up who had gone to college and lived in a city and then came home to live where he loved and he answered them all in a row.
”Barns are red because red is the cheapest color of paint.”
And I said to myself, “I want to be that guy.”
Yes. Precisely. So it was cheap to make paint that color back in the day.I remember the show, but not the episode.
However, I disagree with the red barn answer.
Not impling I'm right, but I'd always been taught it was because of the inherent redness of the most common lead pigments and red oxides and chromiums, etc.
But I get the gist.
Nah. White has always been the cheapest color.Yes. Precisely. So it was cheap to make paint that color back in the day.
Lol. Well, fair enough. I will refrain from debating white as a color. I still have much to learn to be “that guy.”Nah. White has always been the cheapest color.
Red was the cheapest that met the minimum requirements for barn paint.
Imo.![]()
Well, white is a paint. I'll not argue color either.Lol. Well, fair enough. I will refrain from debating white as a color. I still have much to learn to be “that guy.”
Yours.......So, if I don’t understand what’s going on in this thread, is it my fault or yours?
YesSo, if I don’t understand what’s going on in this thread, is it my fault or yours?
this is serious business, fella - it makes me soooo FURIOUS when people are glib about rage!It was part tongue in cheek, W, but we’re far from the shallow now...
White is an absence of color and black is an absence of light.Lol. Well, fair enough. I will refrain from debating white as a color. I still have much to learn to be “that guy.”
who said, "You frequencies"?!Leroy Hoard said:White is an absence of color and black is an absence of light.
I'm not sure what a black light is.
I've been approaching life a bit differently than this. I don't think there is "a reason" in terms of some universal, objective reason for being, with the notion of reason implying some sort of purpose or plan (rather than just the physical mechanisms that arrange matter, etc.). I think the only reasons are the ones we provide for ourselves. We come to them in different ways (many of us indoctrinated since birth with a particular reason set), but ultimately they're of our making whether subconsciously avoiding questioning the reasons we've inherited or consciously defining out our own reasons. I find that assumption both liberating and frightening.We can't know why we're here, but us being here and being capable of what we are is exceptional enough to conclude that there is a reason.
We're pretty much on the same page, and i'll go so far to say that we'd be on the same very different page if it took 12 hours a day of physical labor for us to scratch existence from the land, working without any kind of net, deprivation a daily threat, prey to weather, pain without relief, etc etc. I understand the need for a reason because our kind of ease has only been the rule for about 0.1% of human history and it is that for which we are wired (i'll get into that down the line). If i was born in County Galway in 1830, there damned well better have been a reason. I hope that everything i think remembers that.I've been approaching life a bit differently than this. I don't think there is "a reason" in terms of some universal, objective reason for being, with the notion of reason implying some sort of purpose or plan (rather than just the physical mechanisms that arrange matter, etc.). I think the only reasons are the ones we provide for ourselves. We come to them in different ways (many of us indoctrinated since birth with a particular reason set), but ultimately they're of our making whether subconsciously avoiding questioning the reasons we've inherited or consciously defining out our own reasons. I find that assumption both liberating and frightening.
I promised you earlier that I would think.I believe there is a limit to the amount of "manual building" we can do for others simply because of the most prevalent, aggravating, inscrutability problem of the human condition: the denoting problem. Russell probably described it best. Wittgenstein spent a great deal of time working on it. Everyone knows it's there intuitively. The problem is this: you don't mean what I mean when we use the same words. We have a general sense of what we mean, but "definitions" aren't definite. The manual needs to start with a dictionary.
The closer we come to meaning the same thing, the closer we come to moving the human race forward. In my opinion. And once we all know what we mean, humanity is going to move forward at a pace that makes today look like the Dark Ages. Unfortunately, as noted by the original post, we're moving in the wrong direction.
Something along the lines of a wikkidpedia?That's it... I'm starting a Wikkid dictionary today of his colorful words:
1. Abstruse - Abstract/Obtuse
A certain blackbird emitting energetic waves?Leroy Hoard said:White is an absence of color and black is an absence of light.
I'm not sure what a black light is.