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Wooing my neighbor: I came. I hugged. I wooed. Now moving on. (4 Viewers)

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One or more kid will spend 90% of the night in their lane... And drinking will have to be VERY light (if she will at all) with the little ones in tow. This is great for a "with kids" date, but they need an adults date. JMHO
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Disagree.  Won't get sloshy drunk but they shouldn't be yet either.  And the kids can easily hang by themselves, especially based on how they've played together so far.

This is a compromise between the backyard BBQ and adults only.  Might be perfect for where they are now.

 
BTW, NRJ it was a real pro's touch dropping the tat thing about 45 pages in, between daily updates. 

If somebody else ever drops a "woo my neighbor" thread, I hope they are taking notes.

 
gianmarco said:
Disagree.  Won't get sloshy drunk but they shouldn't be yet either.  And the kids can easily hang by themselves, especially based on how they've played together so far.

This is a compromise between the backyard BBQ and adults only.  Might be perfect for where they are now.
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 She may be the exception to the rule, but the vast majority of "single moms" I know refuse to have more than maybe one drink when they have their kids in the car . 

 
Nathan R. Jessep said:
Also, don't think I mentioned it before, but she has at least a couple of tats. One small tribal symbol (I think) on the back of her neck, that I saw one day when she had her hair in a ponytail :wub:   and then another that is some sort of quote or something along the inside of her forearm. It was in a foreign language (maybe Hebrew?). Could be dangerous.
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"To Serve Man", it's a cookbook!

 
cstu said:
If a woman is not sexually attracted to someone she's not going to have sex with them, regardless of age.  They aren't like men who can nail anything at anytime just because it's there.  Keep in mind that even though she's over 40 she's Marisa Beckinsale and has no problem getting laid.
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She may not be sexually attracted to him now (which I think she is, but let's play along), but they can become sexually attracted once they become emotionally attracted.  It's not a static feeling.   

 
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Bob Sacamano said:
"Marissa, I'd like to take you out to dinner.  I'd be happy to get a sitter for all the youts.  They can come over to my place and <insert something they'll all enjoy doing>."

It doesn't need to be complicated.
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"And then I can insert something that I'll enjoy doing. (and you might find mostly tolerable)"

 
NRJ - one thing I would say is that a woman at her place in life isn't going to be turned off by you knowing what you want and being out there about it.

She knows you're into her, the risk you have is that she likes having a texting buddy...something to distract her mind from life. Ive had two fairly attractive moms totally say they're looking for a relationship but really just want someone to text the boring assed stuff they should be sending their girlfriends. Basically an escape. I was willing to fulfill that role if there was consistent sechs but once that waned...no way.

My only point here is that no matter how sincere she sounds, she could just like the attention, and you'll waste a bunch of time and energy on her if you're not fairly up front about what you're after. Evilgrin isn't actually that far off - maybe you shouldn't text her that you want your hand up her --- but a little more forward about what you want isn't a bad thing. If she was 23, sure, don't go that way, but if she's turned off by an assertive man...no, she isn't...

 
culdeus said:
Last 5 pages recap please.
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NRJ's update: Coffee chat was mostly baggage chat between two divorcees with children.  Seemed to me like a "if this goes any further, we need to be on the same page" type of deal.  Went well for NRJ and he didn't need to use anything from the official playbook.

FFA update: Guys that won't be around after tomorrow (since they will be throwing poo at each other in the Shart Pool) claim that they could have already bagged this chick using only sentences containing the letters G, Q, B, Z, and Y.  The saner folks think NRJ playing it cool was and still is the way to go and we trust his judgement.  Some are claiming her crazy level is probably too high but this is not yet confirmed.  NRJ has had this on his radar so the vast majority of us are sitting back and wishing the best.

Clothes update: No Saints stuff this time around for our hero who was dressed like a gentleman.  She was looking hot as usual.  There are no pics in this thread.  Yet.

 
I guess I'm a bit surprised at how bad some of the advice is in here? I thought we were all fbgs... apparently only the 3 digiters really count, as per usual.

 
Nathan R. Jessep said:
I was wearing, IF YOU MUST ### #### KNOW, khaki shorts (not the same ones), a stylish music festival tee that fits me very well, Under Armor sneakers, and NO ####### HAT!!!! She was wearing a white, short-sleeve blouse type number, with some WELL fitting jeans and sandals. :wub:  
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Lose the UnderArmor sneakers.  Hopefully the Khaki shorts don't have pleats. 

 
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Nathan R. Jessep said:
I had several things in mind for conversation and didn't need any of them, as it was just natural progression of me talking, then her, and good back and forth. Nice, easy flowing conversation. 

Boring update, I know, but successful coffee date. And she already texted me (she text me first) saying thank you and thanks for listening to her. 
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You need to quit talking about serious stuff at coffee shops and start having fun...when she thinks of you she needs to think this dude is fun to be around.  Unloading baggage at a coffees shop is not fun.

Next date ideas:

1) bar with live band (if she's into music)

2) dinner with cocktails/wine and comedy show (if she has a sense of humor)

3) some kind of cool hike with drinking involved somehow (if she's into outdoors/fitness)

Regardless, you need to drastically change your approach if your goal is to get some.  If you get the vibe she is not ready for a date and she would turn you down you need to build up to it with fun activities minus the kids.  And don't overcommunicate, you want her to miss you, you want to be mysterious, and seem like you're not trying so hard.  If this girl is as hot as implied you need to adapt your game to what hot girls like.

 
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I observed a dual divorcee dating scene at an out of town wedding for a weekend. They took turns complaining about there respective exes the whole time.  I don't think the ex venting topic is avoidable for all the lunch and #### proponents in here. 

 
Evilgrin 72 said:
I have a vision of NRJ punching the steering wheel of his truck on the way home, second-guessing everything he said on the date and adjusting his Saints cap in the rearview mirror while "Kashmir" drones in the background.
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:lmao:

 
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