Less reading and more action.
There's money to be made in this market, right now, whether you're in San Diego or Seattle.
Tommy, there's two types of people. People who look at an opportunity and think "how can I make this work" then take the necessary steps and risk in order to make it work. Then, there are the people who sit back and take pot shots at the people who actually do things, and complain that the stars aren't aligned in their favor.
Let's take CAHE as an example. Ham does things. He gets off his ###, takes chances, and swings for the fences. He looks at business as "how can I make this work." Ham, to this day catches a lot of hell for the fact that CAHE didn't work. People give him crap, poke fun at him, and seem to actually enjoy the fact that CAHE failed. My guess is a lot of these people are employed in $50k/year jobs, don't know how they're going to retire themselves, and are living the "american dream" with a few car loans and credit cards. But hey, they didn't lose $120k on CAHE. They don't
have $120k to lose.
So, what's Ham do? He gets off the mat, goes back to the drawing board, and immediately starts working on something else - because he realizes that a failure is simply one step closer to success, and a lot of good lessons learned for the next time. What do the people making fun of him do? Nothing. The same thing they've always done. Who do you think is going to be more successful long term?
You and I are roughly the same age. You've got more education, are going into a profession that, on average, outearns mine by probably double. You've probably made more money in 2005 and 2006 than I did my first two years in the mortgage business. And, to top it all off, you probably read more about the health of the real estate market than I do.
I remember in 2003 when I bought my first home. We were coming off great years for real estate appreciation. I was making $38k a year, starting a brand new job, and my wife didn't work. My dad, whom I respect greatly, told me that buying a home was probably not a good idea. People on the board were screaming "bubble!" and that it was crazy for a 23 year old kid who'd never held a job for more than six months to buy a house. I remember you, specifically, back in 2003, screaming bubble, and that you were going to wait for the market to correct. My theory was this, and this is exactly what I told my dad. "I'm 23. If I go bankrupt, I've got plenty of time to recover."
Then, 18 months later, I was going into a career with no base salary, wife had a job at this point in time, and I wanted to take a line of credit, use that to put down on a larger home, and rent the smaller one out. I'd just turned 25, and my dad, again, advised me against it. It was too risky. My
wife didn't want to do it, she was adamant about it, and told me "this better work, I'm having nothing to do with it." The condo had already apppreciated pretty well, she wanted to get out and not take the risk. I took the risk, and sold it six months later for $50k more than I could have sold it for then. You were still here on the board crying bubble, as were many here locally as well. That was about two and a half years ago. Well, I'm about to sell the house I bought for a $150k gain. I've already cashed out of the condo on which I did pretty well, I'm in my third house which has done very well, and I'm looking to my next investment now. Keep in mind that you've probably out-earned me in terms of income.
It's not about San Diego vs. Seattle. It's simply an attitude. There are opportunities in every market. Does Warren Buffett stop investing during stock market downturns? Does he stop investing when the market's at its peak? Of course not. You say "there's record foreclosures, I can't buy a house now!" I see record foreclosures, and I start going to the foreclosure auctions.
My old karate instructor used to teach a women's self defense class. It was titled "Do Something." He didn't teach fighting technique, or really anything during the class. He essentially said to go for the eyes, the nuts, whatever - just start ####### swinging, and make life hell for the attacker as much as you can. It's an attitude.
Do something. Anything. Fail - it's ok. An individual incidence of failure does not a failure make. I don't care that the market has turned down in the last year. I don't care that you're in San Diego and I'm in Seattle. There are opportunities in San Diego right now, I guarantee it. Don't tell me about how you can't afford it, you don't have enough money down, how your neighbor is upside down $80k, or how inventory is high, or how mortgage/rent ratios are too high, or how the market is still overpriced, or how some article preaches doom and gloom, or any of the other excuses you make.
Find a way to make it work. If it doesn't work, take what you learned and go find something else and make it work. Action cures fear.
Good luck.