One where $2k in premiums have grown to $7k in cash value - and provided a $50k insurance benefit this entire time? Yeah, sounds horrible to me
. Sorry, couldn't help myself, and yes I'm an insurance agent.
No, you can't 1035 into a term policy. You may be able to make the policy a "reduced paid up", or turn it into an "extended term" policy - talk that carrier (you'll likely need one of your inlaws to ask). Or, they can give it to her (no real transfer for value if they gift it to the insured, your wife), then she can make that call. Reduced paid up might just turn it into a $40k policy that never needs another premium (depending on her age, $7k might do just that). Extended term pretty much just means the policy would pay for itself out of it's own cash value for as long as it can.
Is the policy from a "mutual" company (one that pays dividends)?