IvanKaramazov
Footballguy
This is exactly, 100% right. When a normal person encounters a situation like this -- a group of people freaking out over something really minor in the grand scheme of things -- your ordinary reaction is something like "Geeze, alright already, we'll get a different song." Because really, aside from some alumni who care way too much, what normal person wants to get into a big knock-down drag-out fight over a school song?And I think the natural tendency of most people is to say, “well, it’s only a stupid song, just get rid of it if it’s causing so much dissension.” The problem with this line of thinking is seen by looking at the actual facts around this – by the standard of “proof” that has been put forward, basically anything a small group of people declare problematic must be cancelled. And that sort of power is going to be abused by the worst sorts of people.
But the people instigating the freak-out tend to be inconsolable. In many cases, they're literally just bullies. Bullies don't go away when you hand over your lunch. They get emboldened. Then you find yourself in a situation where you can't refer to mothers as "mothers" and the normal people all look around wondering how that happened and how they got there.