Clucking Flu
Footballguy
In general, if you don't know a female all that well and then there suddenly is a lot of talk about "The Birds and The Bees," does that mean much of anything?
As for back story, I've known someone casually for 5 years. Met on a short term project and stayed in touch. We hung out and a few times over the years (probably 5 or 6 times). Definitely some chemistry, nothing beyond talking. Just someone fun to hang out with.
Hadn't heard from her since the plague started. She called out of the blue and announced she was single. Talked for hours on the phone . . . texted for hours after (we had never texted before). In getting caught up, there was a lot of talk about her personal life and her after hours activities. I have no idea why she "went there," but once we were there she didn't hold back. It started with her venting about men and getting dumped recently, which turned into her full dating history, which turned into a pretty graphic discussion about her nighttime activities.
At the beginning of the conversation (before hearing all of the above), I asked if she wanted to get together again. She mentioned she really wanted to, but she couldn't in the short term due to her schedule. Jump from early morning to the evening, and things finally ended with her reiterating she really wished we could get together again . . . but she offered no alternatives / suggestions about when we could get together. Me afterwards:
I admit that, on a good day, everything I know about women would only fill up half a thimble. And women just don't disclose what happens in their bedrooms to me . . . as in it just doesn't happen. I am completely out of the loop on how women operate these days. Just trying to figure out if this sudden development means anything, if she just needed a friend to talk to, if this was just a random discussion, or if she is actually interested in me. Female perspectives encouraged. Please keep all responses PG / clean to not get the thread locked.
As for back story, I've known someone casually for 5 years. Met on a short term project and stayed in touch. We hung out and a few times over the years (probably 5 or 6 times). Definitely some chemistry, nothing beyond talking. Just someone fun to hang out with.
Hadn't heard from her since the plague started. She called out of the blue and announced she was single. Talked for hours on the phone . . . texted for hours after (we had never texted before). In getting caught up, there was a lot of talk about her personal life and her after hours activities. I have no idea why she "went there," but once we were there she didn't hold back. It started with her venting about men and getting dumped recently, which turned into her full dating history, which turned into a pretty graphic discussion about her nighttime activities.
At the beginning of the conversation (before hearing all of the above), I asked if she wanted to get together again. She mentioned she really wanted to, but she couldn't in the short term due to her schedule. Jump from early morning to the evening, and things finally ended with her reiterating she really wished we could get together again . . . but she offered no alternatives / suggestions about when we could get together. Me afterwards:
I admit that, on a good day, everything I know about women would only fill up half a thimble. And women just don't disclose what happens in their bedrooms to me . . . as in it just doesn't happen. I am completely out of the loop on how women operate these days. Just trying to figure out if this sudden development means anything, if she just needed a friend to talk to, if this was just a random discussion, or if she is actually interested in me. Female perspectives encouraged. Please keep all responses PG / clean to not get the thread locked.
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