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I AM DIVORCED :-D WHOOOOHOOO (1 Viewer)
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fantasycurse42
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MC Gas Money
Footballguy
EVERYONE uses message boards for attention. Everyone needs people to talk to and have a place to voice their opinions. Im not seeking attention just for its own sake I just want to enjoy some laughs with people. I am no more "simply seeking attention" anymore than you or any other posters.
Stop belittling me with your "counceling diatribe. You know I go to counseling each week and im trying very hard to feel better. Do you know who else could benefit from counceling? Nearly everyone. We all have issues and could use therapy. Its nothing to be ashamed of so stop acting like you are too good for it. I dont need therapy any more than you do
There is nothing immature about feeling that I have a soulmate. I used to think it was a silly concept until I met someone I connected with so deeply. Im 30. Im divorced and also been through many failed relationships so this is not just childish whimsical thinking. I met a person who have a lot in common, who wants the same things, has gone through the same troubles that I met at the time when we both needed eachother the most. Its significant enough to me to use a term like soulmate.
And stay there.You REALLY need to go to China...We arent like most of you who look at the world as assets with values. We value love and eachother.Love to hear the conversation with a lawyer though; "So what type of assets are at stake here?"
If for some reason we just werent happy and decided to split up I would still love her and do anything for her becsuse she is not just my gf but she is my best friend. She can have anything she needs and I would do anything from me without a judge having to say so.
Our connection is so deep that I know 100% what im getting in to and that we will be together forever.
And yes we do plan on having a child in a few years once we have built stability for them. I may never be a rich man and you may think im crazy but I will be a very good and loving gather. There may be a few problems with my mind but there is nothing wrong witj my heart. I love children and my wife and child will mean everything to me and will be the glue that keeps me together. Of this I am certain
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MC Gas Money
Footballguy
Im not jaded about love and im happy ive found it. It is not an issue of maturity.
fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
northern exposure
Footballguy
I can't see any of the OP's posts. But based on the other posts in this thread and some that have quoted the OP, it seems things haven't gone the way the OP hoped they would in this thread.
For those that are being "mean" to the OP in this thread, I will offer this warning to you. Keep it up and the OP will create a very unflattering drawing of you and then you'll really be sorry, Mister.
You've been warned.
For those that are being "mean" to the OP in this thread, I will offer this warning to you. Keep it up and the OP will create a very unflattering drawing of you and then you'll really be sorry, Mister.
You've been warned.
ConnSKINS26
Footballguy
Neither am I. I've been living with my girlfriend for five years, and it's incredible.
I don't need to be a cynic to think you sound like a hopelessly idealistic teenager.
ConnSKINS26
Footballguy
I can't imagine the ignore function works all that well when you don't have the willpower to allow it to do it's job.
northern exposure
Footballguy
Yeah by all means comment about me and ignore the kicking the others are giving the OP.
northern exposure
Footballguy
Don't you need to go back to piling on the OP?
MC Gas Money
Footballguy
Id like to see some of these ecamples because I dont desire any more wealth than I would need to be comfortable, which isnt much.
If I was wealthy I would give most of it away to do humanitarian work. If im obsessive about anything its that I hate greed and apathy
MC Gas Money
Footballguy
I feel very fortunate to have her and will spend the rest of my life giving her all the wonderful things she deserves.
If that makes me a teenager then so be it
ConnSKINS26
Footballguy
Chaka
Footballguy
fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
MC Gas Money
Footballguy
I dont play any "poor me" card. Im just open an honest about my feelings.
Im a target on here because im disabled and very poor so im an easy target for the people that need to prop themselves up by bullying people on the internet like cowards.
What really burns me is that any time I try to talk about something positive 90% of the people posting are just coming to kick me back down and add nothing to the thread.
If I ask for advice I cant get any because its all just laughing at me.
If I say weird things its shtick. If I say serious things it becomes insult fodder. If im negative people say stop being such a downer. When im positive people come to ruin my party.
I cant win. Doom if I do and doomed if I dont.
There are a lot if people who do follow me everywhere on here and stalk every one of my posts. They think they are so above and that im dirt yet they are completely obsessed with me.
I didnt realize I used a MB full of perfect people who dont have the slightest faults.
Truth is there are s couple of people I met here that I talk to by phone regularly that think im a great guy, and I think they are too. Most of you would like me a lot if you met me. You cant even get along with me here because you judge me by the personal things ive shared which prevents you im not so vastly different from you. Im a very nice person and easy to get along with. Most people think so when they dont judge me without getting to know me.
Im a target on here because im disabled and very poor so im an easy target for the people that need to prop themselves up by bullying people on the internet like cowards.
What really burns me is that any time I try to talk about something positive 90% of the people posting are just coming to kick me back down and add nothing to the thread.
If I ask for advice I cant get any because its all just laughing at me.
If I say weird things its shtick. If I say serious things it becomes insult fodder. If im negative people say stop being such a downer. When im positive people come to ruin my party.
I cant win. Doom if I do and doomed if I dont.
There are a lot if people who do follow me everywhere on here and stalk every one of my posts. They think they are so above and that im dirt yet they are completely obsessed with me.
I didnt realize I used a MB full of perfect people who dont have the slightest faults.
Truth is there are s couple of people I met here that I talk to by phone regularly that think im a great guy, and I think they are too. Most of you would like me a lot if you met me. You cant even get along with me here because you judge me by the personal things ive shared which prevents you im not so vastly different from you. Im a very nice person and easy to get along with. Most people think so when they dont judge me without getting to know me.
fantasycurse42
Footballguy Jr.
Your first two sentences are gigantic contradiction. I stopped right there.
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johnnycakes
Footballguy
MCM, we really are a great bunch of guys here. A lot of what you get is schtick... And that's great because it makes the love you get, real.
All that said, you have to be careful about how much of yourself you put out there and you have to know how much of other peoples' schtick you can tolerate. And above all, you have to be comfortable with who and what you are. Ability to laugh at yourself can save your sanity.
I can honestly say I love to read your material. Keep on keep in' on. You'll roll with the punches just fine.
All that said, you have to be careful about how much of yourself you put out there and you have to know how much of other peoples' schtick you can tolerate. And above all, you have to be comfortable with who and what you are. Ability to laugh at yourself can save your sanity.
I can honestly say I love to read your material. Keep on keep in' on. You'll roll with the punches just fine.
MC Gas Money
Footballguy
No they arent because its a fact that I am disabledand way below the poverty line. 2 of the biggest things people like to attack are the mentally ill and poor because it is easy.
"Poor me" would be when people complain about rich white people problems or blow little things out of proportion. You are educated enough to know the difference.
I dont go around starting threads just to complain about my problems besides the depression thread which is what that is for.
You did read my entire post, but you had to use one of your little passive aggressive responses because you have no retort for whst I said and/or you just cant admit when you are wrong.
MC Gas Money
Footballguy
Ty but I dont believe the attacks I recieve are mostly shtick based on their frequency and severity. People would not use shtick just for a laugh against who is clearly geniune and none of the problems I have are fabricated.
It has to be purposely intended to hurt me because a simple jokester wouldnt risk doing harm to a person like me just for a laugh. They are real mean people.
MC Gas Money
Footballguy
johnnycakes
Footballguy
I disagree, MCM. I don't know how to explain it any more... but there are people here whom I really love but whom I would really like to punch in the nose sometimes.
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MC Gas Money
Footballguy
Your opinion is valid and may be more correct than I think. I have a lot of experience with this particular brand of venom and the psychology of the people who spit it in my direction. There is s very big difference between just being a jerk and attacking someones deepest personal pain.People dont go that far for a joke and risk the harm it can do if they really are a nice person. Only truly vile person would make jokes at the expense of the people in thr lowest caste of society
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Chaka
Footballguy
As someone who has seen a lot of the attacks that come your way and pretty regularly defended you I have to point out that I don't think people target you because you are poor and disabled.
It seems to me that you have made some pretty outrageous comments in the past about things like class and race (I am sure there are plenty of people who will provide examples if you really want them) and people have a long memory for those kinds of things. So when you expose yourself by making similarly outrageous comments, regardless of how well founded or sincere they may be, people are going to take advantage of that opportunity. When you make comments like those you did about finding a soul-mate and speak with such absolute confidence about how you see the future unfolding in your relationship it qualifies as outrageous. It comes across as quite naive to virtually anyone who has been in a long term relationship. I personally wish you all the happiness you can possibly hope for in your relationship but I think realistically it is going to be a much rockier road than you are predicting. Not because of anything inherently wrong with you (we all have our faults) but because that is the nature of relationships. I would submit that if at no point in your relationship do you ever find yourself wanting to punch a hole in the wall next to their head then you probably don't have that much of an emotional connection with them in the first place.
As far as this thread goes I honestly don't think there has been much said that is truly hateful, in fact most of it seems like good natured ribbing (I know my comments were) and calling you out for being naive. What would be nice to see from you is to not take things like that so seriously (it only fuels the responses). I doubt many people, if any, were actually trying to hurt you in here.
BeaverCleaver
Footballguy
That is false.
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Throw in the fact that his prior choice in a woman didn't work out so well, it's silly to think he's now got it right. When it comes to relationships, most people commit the same mistakes repeatedly.
Insein
Footballguy
MC don't double down on the stupid. If your girl is cool with dating, leave it at that. Let her bring up marriage and then you can give the slow your roll pre nup. Don't go begging into another ball and chain willingly. Theyre all soulmates until its signed sealed and delivered. Then the real soul emerges.
Doctor Detroit
Please remove your headgear
I leave for 24 hours and this thread jumps the track.
Didn't see that coming.
Didn't see that coming.
Todd Andrews
Footballguy
I feel like we have a sense of your psychological issues, although more explanation is always interesting.Every weekend. 3 days a week and we talk and text every day. A long phonecall almost every night.
good luck!
ETA: This is after what, 6 months of dating and seeing each other mainly on the weekends?
As I said I told her we have to live together at least a year before.
Why are you being so mean to me about the best thing that ever hsppened to me?
I dont care if you laugh about my mistakes in the past, I laugh about them too, now ive found the person I was looking for so dont dump on the only happiness ive found in life because that does hurt and is not at all funny.
I do not know about your future wife's psychological issues, though, and I can not give you the thoughtful advice you deserve unless I know what we are dealing with there. Please explain what you meant when you said you both needed to work on psychological issues. It will help make my advice as stellar as you deserve.
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MC Gas Money
Footballguy
You are joking right?
The first was an article I posted that I didnt evem write about possible civil uprising
The second was me and , I think Henry, joking about hookerd
And the third was complaining about bank fees that male no sense.
How do those 3 mean im obsessed with wealth? Especially considering they are a tiny fraction of my posts.
Im concerned as everyone is about the economy and if I have any passionate feelings about wealth its that I am against unregulated money hoarding at the expense of the economy.
I just dont see why you think I post about stuff like this on a regular basis, or where I came across as coveting wealth
MC Gas Money
Footballguy
The difficulties that come with anxiety and depression which is another way we are connected and comforting of eachother.I feel like we have a sense of your psychological issues, although more explanation is always interesting.Every weekend. 3 days a week and we talk and text every day. A long phonecall almost every night.As I said I told her we have to live together at least a year before.
good luck!
ETA: This is after what, 6 months of dating and seeing each other mainly on the weekends?
Why are you being so mean to me about the best thing that ever hsppened to me?
I dont care if you laugh about my mistakes in the past, I laugh about them too, now ive found the person I was looking for so dont dump on the only happiness ive found in life because that does hurt and is not at all funny.
I do not know about your future wife's psychological issues, though, and I can not give you the thoughtful advice you deserve unless I know what we are dealing with there. Please explain what you meant when you said you both needed to work on psychological issues. It will help make advice as stellar as you deserve.
I know we both have our issues and nothing is ever perfect, but we are both good people and share a lot of trust. Thwt is why I have no fear of marrying her. We love and trust eechother and that is a solid foundation of any marriage
MC Gas Money
Footballguy
MC Gas Money
Footballguy
There are lots more. You constantly complain about how poor you are and are critical of those who have money. You ##### about your job delivering flyers because it does not pay what you think it is worth. You have a giant chip on your shoulders concerning money that comes across in a lot of your postings.
Todd Andrews
Footballguy
I understand. If you both connect on that level and share certain issues, my advice to you is to simply enjoy each other and do not rush into anything. If you both feel as you claim, there is no need to set deadlines or make plans for marriage or children. Those things will come naturally and develop in time.The difficulties that come with anxiety and depression which is another way we are connected and comforting of eachother.I feel like we have a sense of your psychological issues, although more explanation is always interesting.Every weekend. 3 days a week and we talk and text every day. A long phonecall almost every night.As I said I told her we have to live together at least a year before.
good luck!
ETA: This is after what, 6 months of dating and seeing each other mainly on the weekends?
Why are you being so mean to me about the best thing that ever hsppened to me?
I dont care if you laugh about my mistakes in the past, I laugh about them too, now ive found the person I was looking for so dont dump on the only happiness ive found in life because that does hurt and is not at all funny.
I do not know about your future wife's psychological issues, though, and I can not give you the thoughtful advice you deserve unless I know what we are dealing with there. Please explain what you meant when you said you both needed to work on psychological issues. It will help make advice as stellar as you deserve.
I know we both have our issues and nothing is ever perfect, but we are both good people and share a lot of trust. Thwt is why I have no fear of marrying her. We love and trust eechother and that is a solid foundation of any marriage
Zow
Footballguy
Old school values?
I also assume "old school values" mean being racist, trying to dissuade equal rights for women in the workplace, a marital relationship where the wife is submissive to the husband, and where forms of domestic violence are acceptable.
MC Gas Money
Footballguy
Well of course. Ive hardly even scratched the surface of how many times ive been screwed at work or had money flatly stolen from me (actually I wasnt planning to go in to any of that) and a lot of that was by friends and family.
I also have many years of first hand accounts of class descrimination in our society and I keep myself fairly abreast of the ongoing crimes and conspiracies being perpetrated against the american people.
But these are a minor part of my postings and how do I come across as coveting wealth?
I just dont understand what you are trying to say
GoBirds
Footballguy
Zow
Footballguy
Let me know when a poster with a Star Wars handle takes pictures of your "soul-mate" and photoshops them into an incredibly raunchy pornographic photo despite being informed that her father would likely be seeing the photo and you have to BS some crazy complaint to a fictional investigatory agency just to get him to stop.
Das Boot
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MC Gas Money
Footballguy
You think im making all this up?
Need a photo of my certificate of dissolution of marriage?
John Bender
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