MC Gas Money
Footballguy
They arent deadlines its just a timeline that I think is sensible and will allow us time to be certain we are making the right decisions.I understand. If you both connect on that level and share certain issues, my advice to you is to simply enjoy each other and do not rush into anything. If you both feel as you claim, there is no need to set deadlines or make plans for marriage or children. Those things will come naturally and develop in time.The difficulties that come with anxiety and depression which is another way we are connected and comforting of eachother.I know we both have our issues and nothing is ever perfect, but we are both good people and share a lot of trust. Thwt is why I have no fear of marrying her. We love and trust eechother and that is a solid foundation of any marriageI feel like we have a sense of your psychological issues, although more explanation is always interesting.Every weekend. 3 days a week and we talk and text every day. A long phonecall almost every night.As I said I told her we have to live together at least a year before.
good luck!
ETA: This is after what, 6 months of dating and seeing each other mainly on the weekends?
Why are you being so mean to me about the best thing that ever hsppened to me?
I dont care if you laugh about my mistakes in the past, I laugh about them too, now ive found the person I was looking for so dont dump on the only happiness ive found in life because that does hurt and is not at all funny.
I do not know about your future wife's psychological issues, though, and I can not give you the thoughtful advice you deserve unless I know what we are dealing with there. Please explain what you meant when you said you both needed to work on psychological issues. It will help make advice as stellar as you deserve.
She talks about marriage a lot, which is understandable being that she is 31 and went through a couple of long relationships with guys who never proposed, but ive made it clear to her that I love her tremendously and do want to marry her but I do not want to rush it. Despite how strong our feelings are I believe the mature thing to do is live together a couple of years until we are more stable, both personally and as a couple so that we go in to that commitment as strongly as we can.