Now that I have lost the weight I am finding the new numbers frustrating. I am allowed less calories and I dont burn as many when doing cardio. Maybe that is why they say the last few lbs are the hardest?
I had a bad weekend but I will make it up during the week. I am looking forward to maintenance calories.
You got it. Depending on your goals as a general rule when going from bad shape to good shape if you exercise and eat well you'll get there. If you want to go from good to great shape that's a lot more difficult. For 99% of the population the diet has to be near-perfect. Going beyond just calorie counting, but going to specific types of foods, ones that help promote burning more calories keeping your metabolic rate high. Some are able to do it with just increased exercise - quantity or intensity, but as we all get older it's more challenging. In my single days I was lifting 6x per week, playing rec sports 3-4x per week, and running on the non rec days and even some of the rec days - always taking one day (usually Friday) off. I ate more because due to the increased exercise I needed to and was in the best shape of my life. 6'1 185 under 10% body fat - think I peaked at 8. Marriage + children + added a side job and I don't have nearly as much time as I used to. Exercise between 4 and 6 times per week but not nearly as much as before. Diet's stayed the same and now I'm around 190-195 and body fat's closer to 15%, last I checked it was 13 but it fluctuates. If I ate perfectly I could maintain at 185, but I won't do that so I'm not expecting to get and stay there.
Sorry, I rambled, if the exercise won't change, you still have a few lbs to go, and you've plateuad then you have to eat better calories.
Generally speaking, the outer rim of the grocery store, stay out of the aisles and be careful about dairy and salt/fat-heavy meats. Fruit (berries are best), veggies (no corn and potatoes), seafood/fish, turkey, chicken, (homemade) protein shakes, almonds, pistachios, macadmaias, oatmeal, etc. That's your diet.