My son is 13. He has had a phone since he was 11. He is an incredibly responsible and smart kid. I discovered last night that he has Snapchat on his phone and has been using it. I have the log ins to all of his accounts and do spot checks on activity. To date I have not installed any type of monitoring app on his phone to see every text or picture post or whatever. To be honest he has like 2 pictures posted on his Insta account and none posted on what is called a Finsta account(evidently some kids create for a spam account or pictures not worthy of their main account).
Anyway - my question is do any of you let your teen use Snapchat. If so do you monitor it and if you do what app you use to do so. The crux of all this for me is that there was a let down in the trust level. I have a family account on Apple. So i have to approve all apps that are requested. I never saw the request for Snapchat. He has asked before in the past for it and my wife and i had always said no. We were going to have a discussion about it as we knew more and more of his friends were using Snapchat to text etc. Looking for opinions on the best way to safely let my teen use the app but with some controls.
Thanks.
Anyway - my question is do any of you let your teen use Snapchat. If so do you monitor it and if you do what app you use to do so. The crux of all this for me is that there was a let down in the trust level. I have a family account on Apple. So i have to approve all apps that are requested. I never saw the request for Snapchat. He has asked before in the past for it and my wife and i had always said no. We were going to have a discussion about it as we knew more and more of his friends were using Snapchat to text etc. Looking for opinions on the best way to safely let my teen use the app but with some controls.
Thanks.