I'm by no means a Hurts fan
Genuinely curious: As an Eagles fan, how do you reconcile this? The guy just had one of the best seasons in franchise history, set team records, NFL records, delivered the league's best record, took them to the Super Bowl and, outside of one mistake, played great and was a key reason they came close to winning it. He has the earned reputation as a fantastic leader and dedicated, hard-working person extremely focused on doing everything necessary to make himself better. And he just signed a team-friendly deal to put the Eagles in the best position possible to build a competitive team for the next few years,
If he had a domestic assault history, a massage therapist scandal, or got caught stealing money from a kids charity, I could understand being conflicted about the player or outright not wanting to root for him or enjoy his success. If you were signing his paycheck, I could see being upset with the money he's getting paid.
If his play falls off a cliff and he never looks like a legitimate starting NFL QB again, ok, then you could crow all day about the reservations you had and me and a million other Eagles fans would be right there with you in not being a Hurts fan. But, in the here and now, he's checking off every single box a fan would want from their team's star player. There isn't some part of you that can at least allow yourself to embrace him for doing that and enjoy the ride, instead of not liking him for something you think he may become or how he performed in college?
Maybe it's a personality thing or it's just how you're wired and since I'm not wired that way (I know you've been open about your diagnosis), it's just hard for me to grasp. But if that's just how you are, in all things, then you do you. Maybe you hear a great song from a new band or performer but don't let yourself enjoy it in case they wind up being a one-hit wonder or have a bad follow-up album. Or, you have a great steak dinner but because it was cooked sous vide instead of reverse-seared (in your opinion, the "right" way to cook a steak), you have to knock the Yelp review down 2 stars. But, I hope there are plenty of other things you're able to be less rigid about and occasionally get opened to new or different joys that are out there, too. And, maybe one day, Jalen Hurts will be one of them for you