For sure, and I get what you are saying. Some is the booze, but I do lose track of the team a bit sometimes at night, and I feel like I am out of position - either lagging behind on the map, or just my lack of being able to tell WTF people are in battle - around corners, multiple levels, etc.. So yeah - communicating and moving is key, but I know I need to work on part 2 more. Probably why I started using Bloodhound more, but there are multiple times a night where one of you are battling somebody and I have 0 clue where they or you are.
Might be better if I do charge in more since I am the worst - just send in somebody to eat up bullets and see where the squad is and hopefully do some damage before biting it.

Don't want me being the one that has to get through a couple players in case one of you goes down and needs a res.
But yeah - this is a fun way to blow of steam at night for sure, just thought after a year or so I would be better - but like you've said about you not playing games for years, I did but I never played anything like COD or similar. It was just Skyrim/Fallout type of games that didn't require aim.