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Attractive people, what is it like being so attractive? (1 Viewer)

Strengths and weaknesses come with both sides.

Just like with anything, exploit+maximize the strengths and minimize the weaknesses as best you can. 

 
I just send out this vibe and I have personally found that women do respond.  I mean, something happens.

 
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Is "##### that can take a fist" supposed to be a good sales pitch?
I agree.  There's a thread at Reddit to determine response.  The guy who posted it swears the note was placed on his friend's car but doesn't know if they legitimately want his friend to bone the wife.  Here's a link to the Reddit thread.  

 
My son goes to a preschool that has about a dozen locations. The dude in charge of his location and the dude's boss who oversees most locations are both gay. 

When my son first started going there, my wife tried handling any issues with them (I'd consider her a smoke show, although she was pregnant for a good portion of last school year) & got nowhere. I'd go in there, follow up and have resolutions almost instantly. 

Personally I thought it was my talking abilities, she thinks they like me.
So were you the top or the bottom?

 
actually its a hardship...women assume you have all kinds of women so they dont even try to get with you
I agree. They harbor contempt for you even. And even worse, after you hook up - especially with a woman older than you - will get self-conscious and jealous of "their competition."

 
Someone above said being attractive means you don't have to make the first move. This is fairly true. In college all I did was talk to girls without subtext or anything, just talked, smiled, was nice and that's it. I would never make the first move because inside I was still that acne-ridden kid who couldn't believe these hot girls were into me. So I just acted nice and left them alone. They would then throw themselves at me after a couple beers at parties or, on a couple occasions, would show up at dorm room at 3am. This is how I got 90% of the tail I nailed in college. 
Maybe it's because you're attractive, but I would probably guess that women made moves on you because you weren't that creep that tried those cheesy pickup lines.  Good looking guys that are "nice" but play hard to get.......girls dig that and see you a challenge.  Good looking girls always get guys drooling all over them and that gets old to them.

But sometimes even if you're good looking, you will need to make the first move if you really like a woman.  Can't always expect them to do it for you.  Many will think...."no way that guy is single....must have a girlfriend".  Guys think opposite.  Guys think..."yeah, that hot girl probably has a boyfriend, but who cares.... I know that I am better than her boyfriend"

 
Being attractive doesn't really work for guys like it does for girls. Attractive might get your foot in the door easier but it's no replacement for good communication and having your life together.  It's better to have money, status and connections than be a beautiful awkward loser.  

 
My kid has always been abnormally attractive. His whole life, people would give him a free cookie in stores, a free piece of candy, whatever. So now that he's 18, he thinks the world is a super kind and welcoming place because people have been unnaturally nice to him his whole life - and he never realized he was getting special treatment, he just thought everyone treats everyone else that way 

 
My kid has always been abnormally attractive. His whole life, people would give him a free cookie in stores, a free piece of candy, whatever. So now that he's 18, he thinks the world is a super kind and welcoming place because people have been unnaturally nice to him his whole life - and he never realized he was getting special treatment, he just thought everyone treats everyone else that way 
You failed.   It was your job to beat those thoughts out of him.

 
I'm exceptionally attractive.  For the most part it's great.  The only time my looks were a drawback was when an older male co-worker leaned over the divider to check out my hog.

 
All you average looking people should take a trip to the DMV or Disney, you will feel much better about your attractiveness.
I saw a woman at Walmart yesterday who had a goatee (not exaggerating).  Even as an ugly dude I thought to myself, "I bet I could bag that."  

 
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