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That's what K-Rob was claiming during the summer.The more I think about this, the more I think Favre lost a drinking buddy. Maybe K-Rob was his DD.Favre hasn't had a drink for a long time.


That's what K-Rob was claiming during the summer.The more I think about this, the more I think Favre lost a drinking buddy. Maybe K-Rob was his DD.Favre hasn't had a drink for a long time.
DamnThat's my point - Favre always speaks his mind, is honest, and is widely respected for it...even if many disagree with what he says. His constant retirement wavering (which drives everyone crazy) is still done as an attempt to honestly answer questions and be upfront during interviews.I'll take a player answering questions like Brett does anyday of the week over both ends of the spectrum: the self-promoting I, I, I types or the clips taken straight from the politically correct athlete quote book.That's right, stand up for the guy who has let down everyone he has ever played for but throw a guy under the bus for wanting a raise.Favre is a rare athlete who says what he thinks...and people respect him for it.See Javon Walker's situation last season.![]()
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No, it really isn't as simple as that. A support system IS important if the person is committed to quitting an addiction.Favre is wrong. Having been around a ton of abusers, both of alchol & drugs, the only way K-Rob straightens up, is if he's bottomed out & wants to. He could be surrounded by a "Support Group" of Green Bay teamates 24 / 7, but if he's not committed to quiting, he won't.It's that simple.![]()
Looks tasty huh!Maybe I should go hammer a dozen right now, take a spin around town, and see if Favre wants me to hang out with him and play catch.Aaronstory said:BassNBrew said:That's what K-Rob was claiming during the summer.Fla\/\/ed said:BassNBrew said:The more I think about this, the more I think Favre lost a drinking buddy. Maybe K-Rob was his DD.Favre hasn't had a drink for a long time.
Love all these holier-than-alcohol posts from someone who has a pint in their avatar...
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Looks tasty huh!Maybe I should go hammer a dozen right now, take a spin around town, and see if Favre wants me to hang out with him and play catch.Aaronstory said:BassNBrew said:That's what K-Rob was claiming during the summer.Fla\/\/ed said:BassNBrew said:The more I think about this, the more I think Favre lost a drinking buddy. Maybe K-Rob was his DD.Favre hasn't had a drink for a long time.
Love all these holier-than-alcohol posts from someone who has a pint in their avatar...
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Fla\/\/ed said:No, it really isn't as simple as that. A support system IS important if the person is committed to quitting an addiction.Big Score said:Favre is wrong. Having been around a ton of abusers, both of alchol & drugs, the only way K-Rob straightens up, is if he's bottomed out & wants to. He could be surrounded by a "Support Group" of Green Bay teamates 24 / 7, but if he's not committed to quiting, he won't.It's that simple.![]()
Please tell me where I said the family will help more than a bunch of football players. The guy needs help from EVERY corner of his life. This isn't an either/or situation. The point is there was something positive in Robinson's life in the past few months. Perhaps he made some strides against his addiction. Perhaps he benifitted from his relationship with Favre. Maybe he was turning a corner. And sure, maybe he wasn't. But it seemed like it.Your second point is a good one.JetsWillWin said:You think its NAIVE to say that family might help him more than a bunch of football players? Maybe there's a reason it's a "cliche." And I also think it's naive to think that the NFL lifestyle that these players have isn't one of the things that pulls K-Rob back to his "vice". Maybe THAT'S part of the reason the NFL bands players from NFL players.Sandeman said:I think it's a bit naive to think that family and friends will be the solution. It's a cliched response, IMO. A support system should be built around the interests of the individual that keeps the individual from returning to the vice. Excluding Robinson from anything football related at the professional level is not part of a solution.JetsWillWin said:You guys are cute together.I agree it's stupid to say that K-Rob can't have "contact" with the team, but I also think that it's a little naive to think that this will help him deal with his alcohol problem. Support systems should be based in family and friends - not with a football team that he's been a part of for a few weeks.
WTF are you talking about? What I wrote wasn't in reference specifically to KRob nor was it specifically in reference to the Packers being the support group for KRob. So it's selfish for me to write that someone trying to beat an addiction needs a support system? I don't care where KRob gets his support as long as he has support while he is trying to beat his alcohol problem. We don't have any idea what type of support KRob was getting from the Packers but if he was getting support and it was working it is too bad for KRob that he has been taken away from that for one year. Hopefully, KRob will have support from other sources.Unreal!Fla\/\/ed said:No, it really isn't as simple as that. A support system IS important if the person is committed to quitting an addiction.Big Score said:Favre is wrong. Having been around a ton of abusers, both of alchol & drugs, the only way K-Rob straightens up, is if he's bottomed out & wants to. He could be surrounded by a "Support Group" of Green Bay teamates 24 / 7, but if he's not committed to quiting, he won't.It's that simple.![]()
What a horrible and dare I say 'selfish' thing to say as a Packer fan.
Your right, a support group is very important.WTF are you talking about? What I wrote wasn't in reference specifically to KRob nor was it specifically in reference to the Packers being the support group for KRob. So it's selfish for me to write that someone trying to beat an addiction needs a support system? I don't care where KRob gets his support as long as he has support while he is trying to beat his alcohol problem. We don't have any idea what type of support KRob was getting from the Packers but if he was getting support and it was working it is too bad for KRob that he has been taken away from that for one year. Hopefully, KRob will have support from other sources.Unreal!Fla\/\/ed said:No, it really isn't as simple as that. A support system IS important if the person is committed to quitting an addiction.Big Score said:Favre is wrong. Having been around a ton of abusers, both of alchol & drugs, the only way K-Rob straightens up, is if he's bottomed out & wants to. He could be surrounded by a "Support Group" of Green Bay teamates 24 / 7, but if he's not committed to quiting, he won't.It's that simple.![]()
What a horrible and dare I say 'selfish' thing to say as a Packer fan.
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I'm sure he has enoughI agree with Favre...some of these kids don't have support systems outside of the locker room.
Nobody is telling Favre or Favre's teammates they cannot go visit K-Rob and offer K-Rob their support. The NFL has simply said, K-Rob is not aloud within the team facilities for one year. What exactly does Favre 'get'? It is an inconvenience to stop by the house of a friend in need after practice?Favre gets it. Some people on this board get it too. The way to help people with substance abuse problems is not to alienate them and make them feel worse thus they need more drugs. It's possible this is in the wrong fourm, if so, kindly move, thanks.
I'm not an expert but do you stay in those clinics for four month periods? How long until they are outpatient?I'm sure he has enoughI agree with Favre...some of these kids don't have support systems outside of the locker room.to pony up the dough for a 28 day stint at The Betty Ford Clinic where he can get PROFESSIONAL help.
But by not banning him from the locker room aren't you preventing from seeking comradery and regaining his team's trust?Just doesn't make sense to me, unless a non-outpaitent program is the best solution, which I obviously don't know.Nobody is telling Favre or Favre's teammates they cannot go visit K-Rob and offer K-Rob their support. The NFL has simply said, K-Rob is not aloud within the team facilities for one year. What exactly does Favre 'get'? It is an inconvenience to stop by the house of a friend in need after practice?Favre gets it. Some people on this board get it too. The way to help people with substance abuse problems is not to alienate them and make them feel worse thus they need more drugs. It's possible this is in the wrong fourm, if so, kindly move, thanks.
Whether if KRob is committed to quitting isn't the point of this discussion. Everyone here understands that he needs to be dedicated if he wants to rehab. Repeating this is moot. The question is if the no contact rule is a good rule. If KRob isn't committed, then there's no helping him. If he is, then he'll need all the help he can get. Having been around a ton of abousers, you should comprehend this.Big Score said:Favre is wrong. Having been around a ton of abusers, both of alchol & drugs, the only way K-Rob straightens up, is if he's bottomed out & wants to. He could be surrounded by a "Support Group" of Green Bay teamates 24 / 7, but if he's not committed to quiting, he won't.It's that simple.![]()
No. It just means K-Rob cannot seek comradely and regain his team's trust at the team facilities. The NFL and is not telling K-Rob and Brett Favre they cannot hang out or be buddies. It is Brett Favre who is saying, "If I have to go out of my way to offer K-Rob some support, than that is quite an inconvenience for me."I hope Brett Favre can find it in himself to pay K-Rob a visit once in a while outside of team facilities and show his support for his teammate; a teammate who clearly needs it. Based on what Brett Favre said above, I am not going to hold my breath.But by not banning him from the locker room aren't you preventing from seeking comradery and regaining his team's trust?Nobody is telling Favre or Favre's teammates they cannot go visit K-Rob and offer K-Rob their support. The NFL has simply said, K-Rob is not aloud within the team facilities for one year. What exactly does Favre 'get'? It is an inconvenience to stop by the house of a friend in need after practice?Favre gets it. Some people on this board get it too. The way to help people with substance abuse problems is not to alienate them and make them feel worse thus they need more drugs. It's possible this is in the wrong fourm, if so, kindly move, thanks.
They all vary depending on each individual's case, but most I am familiar with have been a month or so.Quite often after leaving a clinic, individuals will be encouraged, or could be required if the courts get involved, to join a half way house. These stays can last for a couple months, some for years.I'm not an expert but do you stay in those clinics for four month periods? How long until they are outpatient?I'm sure he has enoughI agree with Favre...some of these kids don't have support systems outside of the locker room.to pony up the dough for a 28 day stint at The Betty Ford Clinic where he can get PROFESSIONAL help.
why not just make it easier for him and the team by letting him go back...does the message really need to be sent, is it a "that'll teach em" type mentality?No. It just means K-Rob cannot seek comradely and regain his team's trust at the team facilities. The NFL and is not telling K-Rob and Brett Favre they cannot hang out or be buddies. Based on what Brett Favre said above, I am not going to hold my breath.But by not banning him from the locker room aren't you preventing from seeking comradery and regaining his team's trust?Nobody is telling Favre or Favre's teammates they cannot go visit K-Rob and offer K-Rob their support. The NFL has simply said, K-Rob is not aloud within the team facilities for one year. What exactly does Favre 'get'? It is an inconvenience to stop by the house of a friend in need after practice?Favre gets it. Some people on this board get it too. The way to help people with substance abuse problems is not to alienate them and make them feel worse thus they need more drugs. It's possible this is in the wrong fourm, if so, kindly move, thanks.
It's funny that I was the opposite - a huge fan until the past few years. He seems to have grown bitter from all the things that have happened to him.Banger said:As soon as I saw the thread I wondered how long it would take to get into a Favre hating thread with the typical cast of characters. Favre is a rare athlete and while I wasn't a big fan early in his career as the years have gone by I've realized how good and refreshing a player he is.
That is not the message. K-Rob has made decisions in his life that have led him down a destructive path. It is not the responsibility of the NFL to incure risks associated with bad decisions nor is it the responsibility of the NFL to dictate to players how they should conduct themselves.The message being sent is, "We [NFL and K-Rob] cannot maintain any sort of relationship if K-Rob continues to put his own life and the lives of innocent people at risk."What the NFL should do is mandate that Brett Favre spend some time with K-Rob outside of team facilities and offer his support to K-Rob. But again, it is not the NFL's responsibility to dictate to players how they should conduct themselves.why not just make it easier for him and the team by letting him go back...does the message really need to be sent, is it a "that'll teach em" type mentality?No. It just means K-Rob cannot seek comradely and regain his team's trust at the team facilities. The NFL and is not telling K-Rob and Brett Favre they cannot hang out or be buddies. Based on what Brett Favre said above, I am not going to hold my breath.But by not banning him from the locker room aren't you preventing from seeking comradery and regaining his team's trust?Nobody is telling Favre or Favre's teammates they cannot go visit K-Rob and offer K-Rob their support. The NFL has simply said, K-Rob is not aloud within the team facilities for one year. What exactly does Favre 'get'? It is an inconvenience to stop by the house of a friend in need after practice?Favre gets it. Some people on this board get it too. The way to help people with substance abuse problems is not to alienate them and make them feel worse thus they need more drugs. It's possible this is in the wrong fourm, if so, kindly move, thanks.
Fla\/\/ed said:No, it really isn't as simple as that. A support system IS important if the person is committed to quitting an addiction.Big Score said:Favre is wrong.
Having been around a ton of abusers, both of alchol & drugs, the only way K-Rob straightens up, is if he's bottomed out & wants to. He could be surrounded by a "Support Group" of Green Bay teamates 24 / 7, but if he's not committed to quiting, he won't.
It's that simple.![]()
What a horrible and dare I say 'selfish' thing to say as a Packer fan.A team paying you big money to perform as a professional athlete is no support system\team for a drug addiction. The basic message is, "We will let K-Rob use our organization as a support group as long as he has potential to help us win games. Regardless of how beneficial the Packers organization is to K-Rob's rehab, we still retain the right to cut him in 3 or 4 years if we don't see a return on our investment or should he tarnish the image of the Packers with additional off-the-field antics.
A support group should be made up of individuals who have nothing to gain by K-Rob's rehab and will always be there for K-Rob; regardless of his professional football career.
How many times do you let him go back? He's already broken the rule 3 times.why not just make it easier for him and the team by letting him go back...does the message really need to be sent, is it a "that'll teach em" type mentality?No. It just means K-Rob cannot seek comradely and regain his team's trust at the team facilities. The NFL and is not telling K-Rob and Brett Favre they cannot hang out or be buddies. Based on what Brett Favre said above, I am not going to hold my breath.But by not banning him from the locker room aren't you preventing from seeking comradery and regaining his team's trust?Nobody is telling Favre or Favre's teammates they cannot go visit K-Rob and offer K-Rob their support. The NFL has simply said, K-Rob is not aloud within the team facilities for one year. What exactly does Favre 'get'? It is an inconvenience to stop by the house of a friend in need after practice?Favre gets it. Some people on this board get it too. The way to help people with substance abuse problems is not to alienate them and make them feel worse thus they need more drugs. It's possible this is in the wrong fourm, if so, kindly move, thanks.
I wouldn't say he's wrong...I would say he generalized a comment about an entire policy when he should have just singled out certain aspects of it. Take a look at the Rodgers suspension. Is anybody arguing that the NFL is turing their back on him? No. But the same policy is in place for him as it is for Robinson. Different situations are going to give different perspectives on things. But the NFL can't do that...they have to have 1 policy for everybody.Brett Favre is wrong.
Favre is wrong because his position seems to be premised upon a belief that it should be convenient for Robinson to avail himself of his support system. There is nothing convenient about being a substance abuser, or rehab. Robinson's support system can spend time with him outside of the Packers' facility. If his purported support system does not take the time outside of working hours to support him, perhaps that would indicate that his support system is not as supportive as Favre believes they are. In many other aspects of the working world in this country, an employee would not have access to the office during an employee suspension. There is consistent behavior that should not be unexpected by a professional organization.I wouldn't say he's wrong...I would say he generalized a comment about an entire policy when he should have just singled out certain aspects of it. Take a look at the Rodgers suspension. Is anybody arguing that the NFL is turing their back on him? No. But the same policy is in place for him as it is for Robinson. Different situations are going to give different perspectives on things. But the NFL can't do that...they have to have 1 policy for everybody.Brett Favre is wrong.
It's just his opinion though. It really can't be right or wrong. I really don't see how anybody can think it's preferrable to let players practice and use the professional staff and facilities while under suspension though. NFL players are under contract 7 days a week...not just on Sunday. If you're suspended, you're suspended all 7 days, not just 3 hours on 1 day.Favre is wrong because his position seems to be premised upon a belief that it should be convenient for Robinson to avail himself of his support system. There is nothing convenient about being a substance abuser, or rehab. Robinson's support system can spend time with him outside of the Packers' facility. If his purported support system does not take the time outside of working hours to support him, perhaps that would indicate that his support system is not as supportive as Favre believes they are. In many other aspects of the working world in this country, an employee would not have access to the office during an employee suspension. There is consistent behavior that should not be unexpected by a professional organization.I wouldn't say he's wrong...I would say he generalized a comment about an entire policy when he should have just singled out certain aspects of it. Take a look at the Rodgers suspension. Is anybody arguing that the NFL is turing their back on him? No. But the same policy is in place for him as it is for Robinson. Different situations are going to give different perspectives on things. But the NFL can't do that...they have to have 1 policy for everybody.Brett Favre is wrong.
K-Rob's decision within himself to quit, far and away outweighs the effect of any support group, whether it's a professionally trained dedicated support group, or a bunch of NFL players.I have seen both Alcoholics & Drug Abusers quit cold turkey, without the help of any support group. Heck I've even seen one guy who finally had to seperate his wife, because she kept telling him that he'd never be able to do it. But he never went to AA or rehab except when he'd get busted & the Courts would make him go.Whether if KRob is committed to quitting isn't the point of this discussion. Everyone here understands that he needs to be dedicated if he wants to rehab. Repeating this is moot. The question is if the no contact rule is a good rule.Big Score said:Favre is wrong.
Having been around a ton of abusers, both of alchol & drugs, the only way K-Rob straightens up, is if he's bottomed out & wants to. He could be surrounded by a "Support Group" of Green Bay teamates 24 / 7, but if he's not committed to quiting, he won't.
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If KRob isn't committed, then there's no helping him. If he is, then he'll need all the help he can get. Having been around a ton of abousers, you should comprehend this.
The NFL Policy doesn't prevent him from using the players on the Packers as a support group. Just says he can't do it on "company" time.K-Rob's decision within himself to quit, far and away outweighs the effect of any support group, whether it's a professionally trained dedicated support group, or a bunch of NFL players.I have seen both Alcoholics & Drug Abusers quit cold turkey, without the help of any support group. Heck I've even seen one guy who finally had to seperate his wife, because she kept telling him that he'd never be able to do it. But he never went to AA or rehab except when he'd get busted & the Courts would make him go.Whether if KRob is committed to quitting isn't the point of this discussion. Everyone here understands that he needs to be dedicated if he wants to rehab. Repeating this is moot. The question is if the no contact rule is a good rule.Big Score said:Favre is wrong.
Having been around a ton of abusers, both of alchol & drugs, the only way K-Rob straightens up, is if he's bottomed out & wants to. He could be surrounded by a "Support Group" of Green Bay teamates 24 / 7, but if he's not committed to quiting, he won't.
It's that simple.![]()
If KRob isn't committed, then there's no helping him. If he is, then he'll need all the help he can get. Having been around a ton of abousers, you should comprehend this.
Those support groups did nothing for him and he said they were a complete waste of time, money & effort as he had no desire to quit during those times.
The basic first step, is you've got to WANT to quit. The second step is to disassociate yourself from enablers.
For some people a support group may, or may not, be beneficial.
I disagree and I think you're missing the point. Yes, he's been suspended twice already...and each time he was cut off entirely from contact with his team. Now I'm just speculating, but my thought is that what Favre is saying is suspend him from playing, take his pay away, but why not let the guy keep contact with a stable support system (if such a thing exists in the NFL). Let him work out and keep himself up as an athlete. Let him keep something positive going in his life. I think a case could be made for such a thing.This sounds like something an enabler would say. Two NFL affiliates have already made two efforts to help K-Rob (Seattle and Minnesota) and his problem. Still, K-Rob drank to much, led police on a high-speed persuit and dangered the lifes of many innocent lifes.At some point K-Rob is going to have to try and help himself and stop looking for somebody else to extent their hand [cough] [cough] Favre [cough] [cough].``I'm no expert, but I would think you would want for people to reach out to him and be within an organization that can help him as opposed to saying, 'You're banned from the building. To make matters worse, we don't even want you over here, so go think about it and deal with it on your own,''' Favre said.
If you let Robinson practice and participate...then everybody else gets to as well. Steroid users, cocaine users, wife beaters, guys who stomp on people's faces during games, etc, etc. Is that a concession you're willing to make?I disagree and I think you're missing the point. Yes, he's been suspended twice already...and each time he was cut off entirely from contact with his team. Now I'm just speculating, but my thought is that what Favre is saying is suspend him from playing, take his pay away, but why not let the guy keep contact with a stable support system (if such a thing exists in the NFL). Let him work out and keep himself up as an athlete. Let him keep something positive going in his life. I think a case could be made for such a thing.This sounds like something an enabler would say. Two NFL affiliates have already made two efforts to help K-Rob (Seattle and Minnesota) and his problem. Still, K-Rob drank to much, led police on a high-speed persuit and dangered the lifes of many innocent lifes.At some point K-Rob is going to have to try and help himself and stop looking for somebody else to extent their hand [cough] [cough] Favre [cough] [cough].``I'm no expert, but I would think you would want for people to reach out to him and be within an organization that can help him as opposed to saying, 'You're banned from the building. To make matters worse, we don't even want you over here, so go think about it and deal with it on your own,''' Favre said.