I have no problem, whatsoever, respecting their beliefs. Because I believe that they turn to religion for positive reasons.Yeah, a lot of atheists go out of their way to conform, be unobtrusive as possible, and generally try to prove that they aren't secretly Satan worshippers. After all, aren't atheists-according to some polls at least-the most distrusted minority in the country (I think I recall reading that someplace).I was a believer as a child, agnostic as a young adult, and as close to atheist as I can possibly be at this point. There's just way too many things that go on that "God" would never let happen to good people.
But, I have no problem with believers. In fact, if an atheist is ragging on a believer and being a real; tool about it, I generally leave the conversation liking the believer more than the atheist. I think that's revolting behavior.
Also, although I'm an atheist, I will always bow my head to pray at a wedding or funeral. I'll even recite the Lords Prayer if the group I'm in is saying it. I also say "bless you' when someone sneezes, and offer a thank you when someone says 'God bless you' to me. These gestures cost me nothing at all and I have no problem respecting other peoples' beliefs.
I personally don't do most of those things. Why would one bow their head in acknowledgement of something they don't believe in? I would never recite the Lord's Prayer as a non believer-why?
I do say"bless you" when someone sneezes-I don't want ANYONE with the devil in 'em.
I also personally have a hard time "respecting" something I view as nonsense. I "get along" because most religious people are good people and I don't want to offend them. I may respect them as people but I certainly don't respect the belief.
I believe Santa Clause is nonsense, but if I'm amongst 5 year-olds looking up at the sky to try to see Santa's sleigh, I'm looking right with them. Again, what is that costing me?
Sounds like a Santa-of-the-Gaps argument to me. 