I thought real estate was a house of cards BEFORE the pandemic. There is absolutely no way this is sustainable.
She recently got a better job and paid off her car, so she had been looking at properties with an agent. I basically pleaded with her to chill out- we are in the middle of a pandemic, who knows what the job market will look like in a year or two. To me we’re at the tail end of a bubble preceding a serious depression.
Some of these realtors make a living off filling the buyer’s head with rationalizations for buying right now. I remember mentioning to this guy back in February how covid19 could affect the economy and he more or less shrugged it off. Then 20 million people lost their jobs.
She made an offer on a house that got declined. By that point I more or less begged her to stop looking, to stop putting herself in a position to emotionally attach herself to a house. To just please wait a year or two. Sure enough she kept looking and made another offer on a different house, which they turned down initially. She was in tears that she didn’t get the house, this property that didn’t exist in her brain until she went out and looked at it. Then they turned around and accepted her offer.
It’s probably a subject for a different thread but it really burns me that I’ve spent years saving money and investing and waiting for the right time. It was supposed to be a decision we made together. I don’t feel a sense of ownership with the house at all. Then I see talk of renters getting wiped out, savings rates in the trashcan, massive unemployment lines, serious talk about the dollar losing its ‘exorbitant privilege.’ Only a matter of time til this hits homeowners and real estate markets.
There is some silver lining here- we’ve spent about 40k just renting the past few years. At least now we’re settled into a place where we can really invest time and energy. It is a cool property. It just seems like a decision made for an era that is coming to an end. I should probably just get over it.
Sorry to sidetrack thread, but I agree, I think it’s historically bad timing to buy a house right now.