We had our second practice/game yesterday. The set up is pretty simple. We show up at the same place and time every Thursday (except last Thursday was skipped for spring break) and there is an hour allotted. Each team has a half court to practice and then roughly mid way through, you play a full court game with the other team on the other side. There are no scores kept or standings or anything, the coaches act as the refs during play. This is for 5-7 year olds. It is purely development.
Last night, we get there. I was about 5 or so minutes early and most of my team beat me there. My co-coach had them warming up with shooting around. None of the other team was there. About 10 minutes goes by and then they start to show up. Most of the team was about 10 minutes late.
We had already begun out practice and at this level, it is really about trying to get them to get some exposure to basics. This day, we had them doing this dribble, jump stop, pivot and pass back to your team mate drill which for me was like pushing the boundaries of being too much for them. I look over and the other coach has them doing some sort of pick and roll drill. I kind of laughed to myself and was thinking 'ok'.
More than mid way through the session I could hear the other side already playing a game. I walked over to the other coach. He clearly can see me but does not turn to me or acknowledge me at all and keeps coaching his kids through whatever drill he had them doing (which again, looked to me to be a bit more advanced than appropriate for the age group and setting). I say "About ready to play?" Still not looking at me he says "phhhhhh, not even close." and continues to run the drill. Not sure what to do with that, I said "Soooooo, do you not want to play the game today?" and irritated he snapped back "Give me three minutes." I turn around and walk back laughing in my head again. I told my coach "He needs more time" laughed. She responded "Well, it isn't our fault he was late." and I just laughed again.
Well more than 3 minutes later.... my co-coach looked at me and I shrugged. She walked over to him and they they talked.... way longer than a "Hey, ready to get the game going?" conversation should take but then she comes back and says that they are ready. We get our team huddled up and count out the starters and get them ready to play.... and he is still doing some drill. My co-coach and I look at each other and she says "Well.... he said he was ready?" and I laughed.
Finally, he gives them the ball and tells them to go on offense. We normally do a jump ball but it is also like 'whatever' so the game begins. The opposing coach remains on the sideline like he is coaching a game and begins to basically coach while my co-coach and I are being the refs (again, it is basically like all the coaches are on the court and ref and coach together kind of thing). It is more of reminding the kids to dribble and an occasional outright foul that we call because again... 5-7 year olds.
So the other coach on more than one occasion is yelling at one of the kids to pass or shoot or whatever and not in the 'coaching 5-7 year olds to help them develop' sense but more of a 'trying to win a game' sense. At one point, my son stole the ball after he told the girl to pass and this dude literally turns around, makes a loud exasperated sound and threw down a basketball in disgust to bounce it way high. Again... 5-7 year olds in a league with no standings or keeping score.
So... you don't keep score but of course the kids do

. It ended 12-2. My son had 6 points and another kid had 4 and then one other one had a basket. Basically the game would go they would have the ball, go back and forth running the ball with double dribbles and travels until finally one of my kids would steal it. We had agreed to have them set up instead of fast breaks but the other coach was not helping with that and kept having his kids go on fast break so we stopped pulling out kids back and let them go. We would get it, and when the kids actually decided to pass would get a decent look and they could score.... then rinse and repeat. 75% of the game was on their side of the basket with them running back and forth on the perimeter.
Anyways, I could not get over this guy and how he approached this 5-7 year old developmental league where you really are hoping to get the kids exposed to basketball and have fun with it and gain some very basic skills.... you know, like not running with the ball and attempting to dribble with it.... kind of basic. This dude was prepping them for an HS championship game.
