TLDR; My daughter’s 19U club/travel/rep hockey team won the State Championship this past weekend, her first time winning it and they are now headed off to USA Hockey Nationals the first weekend in April!
(better grab a beer if you're still with me)
My daughter has been playing hockey since she was 5, and playing club/travel/rep (whichever you prefer to call it) since she was 7. She played co-ed with the boys through her second 12U season (USA Hockey age groups are two year blocks), and then moved to a Tier 1 Girls hockey program in her first year of 14u.
The State Tournament here has always been a big thing for the hockey kids..they all want to get there, and they all want to become State Champs, they all want to go to Nationals. Our state is divided up into four Sections, and typically each Section gets to send their top two teams (determined through either round-robin home and away qualifying games played throughout the season, or a profiling tournament, depending on the number of teams), so it’s usually the top 8 teams in the state battling it out. Her last co-ed 12u team qualified for States in 2020, but COVID shut the world down the week before their tournament was set to be played, and everything was cancelled that year.
Her first year of 14u Girls Tier 1 her team made it to the state championship game, but had a bad first period and couldn’t fully recover, and they fell to the team that would become their biggest rival over the next 5 years. Subsequent trips to States for the 2nd year of 14u and for both years of 16u all ended in either semi-final or round-robin eliminations.
This year she moved to a new team after her old one fell apart (girls going to prep school, players wanting to play closer to their homes, etc.). There were some panicked moments during tryout season last year where we weren’t sure if some of the girls from her old team were going to have a place to play this season. We ended up in contact with the coach of a team that we knew from a couple of hours away and explained the situation, and even though we weren’t going to be able to make their final tryout, he agreed to take our 5 girls on as he had seen them play over the past couple of seasons and knew their skill levels. The coach is a no-nonsense kind of guy, demands a lot from the girls, is very blunt and honest, and as a 3-time purple heart awardee has seen some sh*t and makes it easy for the girls to give their all for him and the team.
We end up first in our Section, and have one of the top seeds going into the State tourney. 2 divisions of 4 teams, with 2 #1 seeds and 2 #2 seeds in each division. Our first game comes about Friday morning, and we completely outplay one of the #2 seeds outshooting them 42-13. The problem is their goalie stands on her head (and gets some luck from her posts and the knob of her stick) and the game goes to OT tied at zero. OT is played 3v3, which our team never played or practiced, and a mistake ends up in the back of our net and we lose the opener 1-0. The standings are based on points (3 for regulation win, 2 for an OT or shootout win, and 1 for an OT or shootout loss), so we get 1 pt for the loss. Next game is scheduled for that evening against our top rival team (the team that beat my daughter’s 14u team 5 years prior). For context, in the MyHockey Rankings, our team ended up 5th in the country and theirs was #6, so these are two very evenly matched teams. Our backs are up against the wall now, and we know we have no margin for error and have to win our next two games in regulation to make the semi-final round.
We get a powerplay goal about 7 minutes into the 1st period and add a 2nd goal with about a minute and a half left in the 2nd to take a 2-0 lead into the 3rd period. The other team scores with just under 10 minutes to go in the 3rd, leading to an intense battle in the remaining time as both teams needed the win. Our team was able to hold on, playing some stout defense and limiting them to only 4 shots in the 3rd period. My heartrate had to have stayed above 160BPM for the entire 3rd period. With the 3 pts earned from that game, we moved into 1st place in our division.
Our last round-robin game was Saturday afternoon. A win in regulation would clinch us 1st seed in our division (and thus playing the #2 seed in the other division in the semis), and an OT win would at least guarantee us making the semis. The officiating in this game was, uh…creative. The girls battled through though, and once again took a 2-0 lead into the 3rd period. Their opponents scored a goal with about 3 minutes remaining, setting off the old heartrate again. Our rival team had finished up their game on the rink next door, and all of the players and parents came over to our rink to watch the end of the game, as they wanted us to lose so they could get the #1 seed and not have to face the #1 seed from the other division in the semis. That was a little intense. We were able to hit an empty netter though, wrap up the #1 seed, and send all of the rival players and parents home a little sad.
The semi-final game was against a team we had played 5 times during the season, and we had won them all. We went up 1-0 a few minutes into the game, added another early in the 2nd, then my daughter scored a top-shelf snipe to make it 3-0 and give us some breathing room. We ended up cruising to a 5-0 win, while only giving up 10 shots on goal. Meanwhile our rivals took care of the #1 seed in the other division rather easily, setting up the championship game matchup as it should have been, with the two best teams form the state in their age playing for the title.
What I haven’t mentioned is that this State tournament is hosted each year at the home rink for our favorite rivals. So that means friends, family, etc. come out in force to cheer them on when they get to championship final games. As luck would have it, we were scheduled to play that game on probably the smallest rink in the facility, with very low stands on one side, and people just packed shoulder to shoulder standing along the glass/boards around the ends of the rink. It must have been like playing in a fish-bowl for the girls, and a hostile one at that for our girls.
Game starts and it’s a physical, intense one. We knew they would come out flying due to the home crowd support, and we were able to withstand the first few minutes and settle down into our game. My daughter gets so jacked for these games, and she was flying off the bench for her line changes and causing havoc with her forecheck, creating turnovers, taking away time and space, doing what she does best. We get a 1st period power play goal to go up 1-0, but the game is a long way from being over. About 7 minutes into the 2nd period we get a second goal..nothing fancy, just crashing the net, being in the right spot, and doing the little things it takes to win a tough game, giving us a 2-0 lead. With about a minute and a half to go through, the rival team throws one in from the blue line, goalie can’t find it through a maze of bodies, it hits a stick or skate and deflects into the net, and our lead is down to 2-1 going into the 3rd. At this point my fitbit wants to know if I’m hiking a mountain, and I take it off. The 3rd period is just a battle…two rival teams going at it for 17 minutes of a winner takes all donnybrook. With just under 3 and a half minutes to go our captain takes a penalty, and now we are short-handed for 2 minutes in a one-goal game. The girls keep their composure and kill it off to 6 seconds remaining in the penalty, and 1:23 remaining on the game clock. Rival team pulls their goalie for a faceoff in our defensive end, and will have effectively 10 seconds of 6 on 4 advantage until our player can get back in the play after exiting the box. I didn’t see this until I watched the video of the game later, but my daughter was on the bench by the door, and right before this faceoff she sat down on the bench, and then just stared straight ahead at the door..she couldn’t even bring herself to watch, it meant so much to her. With about 45 seconds to go, our D got control of the puck, brought it out to the red line, passed it off to a winger, and she put it into the empty net to seal the win and the state championship. The buzzer sounds, the girls pour over the bench and race to the goalie to celebrate, hugs all around, etc. Just so happy for them to get their revenge, get the state title they always wanted, and now get to go onto Nationals. As the team started skating away from the group hugs to go shake hands, I noticed my daughter hang back a little, put her stick on her thighs, and bend over at the waist letting it all sink in and gather herself a bit. Have to admit that made me tear up a bit, knowing she wanted this so bad, and seeing her and the team achieve it. She has one good friend that she has made on the rival team, and after the team and official handshakes as both teams were lining up on their blue lines for the presentations, her and her friend stopped in the middle of the ice and my daughter gave her a huge hug.
Not only proud of her success on the ice, but moreso proud of the person that she has become on this journey. She may be a beast on the ice, but her warmth and empathy just draws people to her. Can’t wait to watch her play college hockey in the Fall.
(for all those who made it this far, I both apologize and am grateful. George R.R. Martin should hire me to finish his dragon books.)