This thread was really helpful as a parent going through the college process for the first time. I thought I'd share an update:
My freshman daughter chose Purdue and enrolled in engineering. After almost one semester in she absolutely loves it there. Her engineering classes are very basic first semester, so she doesn't have a great feel for her major yet, but she seems to be blossoming there living on her own and really taking advantage of all that Purdue has to offer.
She tried out for marching band but didn't make it as only 2 freshmen in her section out of like 50 kids made it. Although really bummed, she is still very involved in music and after being cut for marching, auditioned and was second chair in the woodwind ensemble this semester. She also participated in the Purdue Box Band that plays at the women's volleyball games. They're ranked #8 in the country so she's had a chance to see some really competitive games.
She's also participating in various clubs and activities. She volunteered her time for the Purdue marching band VMT program which manages band activities and does technical work like outfitting the band with lighting for special performances and instrument maintenance. The kid loves music and I'm glad she's finding ways to be involved.
She's also in a farming club, SIGBots and the D&D club. SIGBots is kind of like battle bots without the destruction. It's been a good experience to do some basic real world, hands-on, electrical work since her First Year Engineering classes are rudimentary right now.
Overall, I'm happy and relieved. She seems like she's adapting well. She has clinical anxiety that was really debilitating in HS and as parents we were worried it would really hamper her adjustment in college. I'm sure it still is an issue, but happy she is finding her way and being active.
I honestly wasn't anywhere near as involved or active as she is my freshman year, however she doesn't do drugs or drink beer like I did, so I'm sure the mental clarity helps. lol. Just relieved that she seems to have made the right choice for her and hope she continues to thrive. As a bonus, it's an easy commute from Chicago for us and it's been fun for us to visit several times too.
This is a great thread for advice and support! Thanks to all who helped and answered along the way.