Looking for some help.I don't have any real close family so I usually adopt a family through some organization.Just got the information on my family and the male is 11 years old and wears a XXXL size shirt already. I was a little taken aback. I obviously don't have a full story, but his parents are drug addicts and the kid and his sister live with their grandmother.Anyway - I'd usually try to do whatever I could to buy the kids some cool clothes, toys, games, etc. But I almost feel implored to maybe do something that's NOT going to have him sitting around playing video games that he'd still appreciate. I was thinking Xbox Kinect with a fitness game or something but I also don't want to drop that kind of dough if it's just going to go to waste. That's a very big shirt size for an 11 year old. I almost thought it was a typo, it's not.Besides the usual FFA jokes...what is tasteful, appropriate that doesn't fall into the category of something that he can use as an excuse to be lazy? I realize it's not my job to even think this way, but I'm trying to do the right thing here for him.Thanks for the thoughts in advance.