Sweet J said:
FUBAR said:
IvanKaramazov said:
dhockster said:
A rape accusation is a double-edged sword. It is hard for the accuser to prove, and it is hard for the accused to disprove. Add in alchohol to most of the college rape situations and the water gets even muddier.
If college women want to avoid most college rape situations, don't get drunk at parties. It lowers their inhibitions and guys take advantage of lowered inhibitions. Girls may end up doing things with people they didn't want to
do them with and regret it later. If college men want to avoid being accused of rape, don't have sex with drunk women. What they do with you drunk, they may not do sober, and therefore will have regret over the whole situation.
This may lead to a false accusation.
It says a lot about how politicized this issue has become that this advice generally draws nothing but criticism when it comes from college administrators.
True. The constant theme we've seen is, with rare exception, women people respect don't get raped.
This is offensive and untrue.
I'm just basing this on hundreds of cases that I've seen.
"with rare exception, women people respect don't get raped."
I can't think of a more incredible and unbelievable statement than this.
How you use words is important. Your statement is a lot different than, for example, "a rapist doesn't respect the woman he rapes." And a lot more offensive. The focus in this second statement is on the mindset of the rapist, not on the immutable quality of the woman raped.