Found this in my wife's chat log (2 Viewers)

[Sebowski]

Let her go and call this guy

edit: No pics on this site?

http://i147.photobucket.com/albums/r317/Se...ki/MP320_81.jpg

 

[SuperJohn96]

How close was she to going? Talking about it is flirting.

you'd be okay with finding out your husband was arranging a trip to bang some other woman? you'd pass it off as flirting?

Do you know how many times I've been invited to Aruba?

Hey baby, want to go to Aruba?

Packing my bag, sexy. Nothing but a bikini and baby oil.

:fixed:

 

[SuperJohn96]

wowmarriage.com

 

[Flash]

Update?

 

[T Bell]

Wow, what a

 

[golddigger]

Maybe you should see a marriage counselor. Someone you both trust. There may be deeper issues that is causing her to reach out to someone else.

 

[Mr. Pickles]

councilor

really?

 

[T Bell]

The good: She's never cheated on you.

I don't mean to sound forward. I mean, I know I hardly know you. But I don't think we're gonna live through this. And... I've never been with a man before. :twirlshair:

 

[McJose]

Maybe you should see a marriage councilor. Someone you both trust. There may be deeper issues that is causing her to reach out to someone else.

He should reach out to her...with a punch to the face.

 

[T Bell]

Maybe you should see a marriage councilor. Someone you both trust. There may be deeper issues that is causing her to reach out to someone else.

I'll bet with a little luck and time, they could find a WoW-playin marriage "councilor" who would be uber.

 

[BuddyKnuckles]

councilor

really?

Sure. Why would you pay 150/hr to a counselor when you could go to the bargain basement marriage councilor?

 

[Abrantes]

Odd. Seems like harmless flirting from the guy's side, while the wife is actively trying to make something happen. Usually it's the other way around, since girls on the internet make gamers go crazy.

 

[McJose]

Maybe you should see a marriage councilor. Someone you both trust. There may be deeper issues that is causing her to reach out to someone else.

I'll bet with a little luck and time, they could find a WoW-playin marriage "councilor" who would be uber.

"James, remember to talk 'to' Karen not 'around' her. Part of communication is... LIGHTNING BOLT! LIGHTNING BOLT! LIGHTNING BOLT!"

 

[Rhino]

People like this are the reason that other people look at me like a leper when they find out I play WoW. Believe it or not, not eveyone who plays the game is this pathetic and stupid... although you'd never know it.

Can you link your armory and this other guy's armory? TIA.

 

[T Bell]

Maybe you should see a marriage councilor. Someone you both trust. There may be deeper issues that is causing her to reach out to someone else.

I'll bet with a little luck and time, they could find a WoW-playin marriage "councilor" who would be uber.

"James, remember to talk 'to' Karen not 'around' her. Part of communication is... LIGHTNING BOLT! LIGHTNING BOLT! LIGHTNING BOLT!"

 

[NCCommish]

Maybe you should see a marriage councilor. Someone you both trust. There may be deeper issues that is causing her to reach out to someone else.

I'll bet with a little luck and time, they could find a WoW-playin marriage "councilor" who would be uber.

"James, remember to talk 'to' Karen not 'around' her. Part of communication is... LIGHTNING BOLT! LIGHTNING BOLT! LIGHTNING BOLT!"

 

[golddigger]

councilor

really?

Lightning bolt

 

[cstu]

CH should just let his wife get it out of her system and schtupp the guy

It will be a humbling experience for WoW Wife. The other guy is clearly not interested.

Having a wife who gets blown off by a WoW nerd is a good enough reason to leave her.

 

[Das Boot]

Maybe you should see a marriage counselor. Someone you both trust. There may be deeper issues that is causing her to reach out to someone else.

She would probably just be texting and sending nudie pix to the marriage counselor during their joint session.

 

[Bob Wiley]

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5 Members: bobg829, paulpogo, Crimson Hawk, rickyjgo, Notinuse

Happy Father's Day.

 

[Judge Smails]

She's already justified cheating in advance by saying "what a bad husband you've been". How were the 17 years? She doesn't sound like much of a keeper anyway. If you have no kids, or the kids or older, I'd be already planning on life without her. And no, I'm not overreacting.

 

[Crimson Hawk]

This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly.

Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat.

Also, we have 3 kids.

As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.

And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.

But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand.

There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.

I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat.

Think what you will of me.

Thanks for listening.

 

[proninja]

Can you come back and post this on Friday?

 

[fasteddie_21]

Nothing innocent about that. She was gonna bang this other dude.She needs to NOT go on this trip. Make it clear to her that if she goes, the locks will be changed when she returns.

If it were my wife, she'd be free to go. After reading that chat, it's over anyway, so she can do whomever she wants, except me.

 

[RevDawg]

This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.

Well, I gotta say that this thread took an unexpected turn.

 

[proninja]

I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat.

This is what everybody says before they cheat. You can write it off as "just chat" and say you weren't going to do anything, but the fact is that there's no way you can say you weren't going to do anything. Saying it now is a lot different than being alone in this other guy's mom's basement.

 

[Billy Bats]

 

[cacksman]

This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.

 

[Uber]

This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.

There's nothing wrong with feeling so underappreciated in a stale marriage that you have to find sexual validation with a complete strangers; human beings are not built for long-term relationships and needs like this will arise.That being said, be more careful with your chat logs in the future.

 

[Uber]

I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat.

This is what everybody says before they cheat. You can write it off as "just chat" and say you weren't going to do anything, but the fact is that there's no way you can say you weren't going to do anything. Saying it now is a lot different than being alone in this other guy's mom's basement.

I'm pretty sure this post is extremely absurd. The only reason I'm not positive is because it's extremely poorly written.

 

[Billy Bats]

As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.

So you were telling a chick that you wanted her? Well then invite hubby along and bam, your marriage is brand new again.

 

[SuperAwesomeDude]

:brownchickenbrowncow:

 

[Das Boot]

I was trying to be open minded in not calling this one

The charade is over though.

 

[Finless]

Can we at least get a set of nudes?

MTSH

 

[SuperAwesomeDude]

Can we at least get a set of nudes?MTSH

ZBST

 

[videoguy505]

This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk.

Where's the body?Either she killed him and is trying to look innocent, or he killed her and needs the timestamp for an alibi.

 

[Rhino]

I was trying to be open minded in not calling this one The charade is over though.

 

[Moe Green]

:brownchickenbrowncow:

 

[SmoovySmoov]

This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.

Well, I gotta say that this thread took an unexpected turn.

 

[chet]

Oh my.

 

[Leeroy Jenkins]

I hear Leroy Jenkins gets all quim he can handle

Wait what?For the record, I have never even played these games, I just made up a lame alias after a thread with the original video because I thought it was funny.

 

[PatsWillWin]

Yeah, that's more than flirting honey. That's being a hoe.

 

[Finless]

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Tangiers

Cut

 

[The Ref]

I was trying to be open minded in not calling this one The charade is over though.

Yup - thinking the same thing. Should have waited till Friday.Actulaly - I am fairly sure I know where he came up with the story if this is in fact a fishing trip. Anyone here play Grant Theft Auto IV? This sounds somewhat like an episode of "Judge Brown" on one of the "fake" radio stations in the game. "The reason why you husband is running around with his elf junk is because you got old and fat".

 

[Chaka]

This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly.

Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat.

Also, we have 3 kids.

As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.

And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.

But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand.

There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.

I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat.

Think what you will of me.

Thanks for listening.

How you doin'?

 

[Steve in Minneapolis]

this whole thing got started by inviting your wife to an internet hobby. and now you invite her to an internet MB???

Costanza had something to say about worlds colliding....you should watch that

and

 

[jagbag]

I'm actually very pretty.

:callmeaskeptik:

 

[McJose]

This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk.

Hi, I'm a Fighting Cleric from Gryffindor with 24 Charisma and 22 Dexterity. I've got an armor class of 9 and I have Ultravision +3. I've got more booster packs than you can shake a stick at. PM me if interested.

 

[Foosball God]

This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.

Hey baby, want to go to Aruba?

 

[krista4]

I was trying to be open minded in not calling this one The charade is over though.